Aquarius males experience

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I'm working with a lot of air people. One I highly don't get a good feeling about is an Aquarius male.

Naturally, I am very suspicious of people who are overly charming. He is good at getting what he wants with his words as an aqua.

I am the only one who sees through this. Not something I am not used to, as a Scorp female. I always trust my intuition.

Scorps, have you had some shady dealings with Aqua men? He really gets under my skin. Sometimes I actually like the guy, but I would bet money that he would sabatoge me at work if he had the chance.
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You said "I am very suspicious"


AHHHH HAH!!!!!,
That is your problem, right there!.

You are very suspicious!

You should wear a Robe and Hood and if anyone, especially the FBI, should ask your name,
tell 'em "You won't believe me but my name is Robin Hood" and if they say they don't believe you,
which they very likely will. Then, expediently remind them that you already they wouldn't believe you.
Then, they will ask "how did you already know?"
Just say "The Lord works in mysterious ways"

They'll probably just think you're a few grains short a pretzel and let you go.



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I'm working with a lot of air people. One I highly don't get a good feeling about is an Aquarius male.

Naturally, I am very suspicious of people who are overly charming. He is good at getting what he wants with his words as an aqua.

I am the only one who sees through this. Not something I am not used to, as a Scorp female. I always trust my intuition.

Scorps, have you had some shady dealings with Aqua men? He really gets under my skin. Sometimes I actually like the guy, but I would bet money that he would sabatoge me at work if he had the chance.
Two ex bosses were aqua; very two faced and shady in character. Had "entitlement" behaviour and very smug; an ex aqua friend same issues. My ex hubby of many moons back also aqua same nasty behavioural patterns. I am taurus. I wouldn't touch this air sign to have a relationship with or a friendship. But it if i had to work with them (obviously having no choice as a job is a job!) would feed them with a long spoon. These people were also "perfectionists ". My ex hubby had a.Virgo moon if that helps! Watch your back. These ex employers were not at all popular with the secretaries in my department also. Very two faced. Don't take your eyes off them!!! Good luck.
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Thanks for your input!!

Yeah so I bet he has a earth moon.. I also guess Virgo moon haha.

He has like some jealously on me too. It's weird and I sit right behind him.. His vibes are getting to me!!

Oh and yeah he has that entitlement. He's in a higher position than me and his requests are sometime resuculous, like he uses it in his favor.

I have a Taurus moon and I'm starting to have some anger toward him which is not good. I'm too fixed for that and it's affecting me, I need to be more aware of it. He just irks me with how shady he is.

I also have a gem colleague, but I never felt any "shade" from him, surprisingly. I would think my fellow fixed sign would be more of a stand up guy
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Posted by aNEWday
I'm working with a lot of air people. One I highly don't get a good feeling about is an Aquarius male.

Naturally, I am very suspicious of people who are overly charming. He is good at getting what he wants with his words as an aqua.

I am the only one who sees through this. Not something I am not used to, as a Scorp female. I always trust my intuition.

Scorps, have you had some shady dealings with Aqua men? He really gets under my skin. Sometimes I actually like the guy, but I would bet money that he would sabatoge me at work if he had the chance.
*whispers* I would be more wary of Aquarius Mars men.


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my dad is an Aquarius with a Virgo moon. he is a great father. he has an Aquarius stellium.

I personally love Aquarians. male and female. best relationships were with aquas.

the only people I don't trust are earth and water signs. can't be trusted. in my opinion...they're the two faced ones in my experience. I get along with a rare few, but I prefer air and fire signs. more blunt, upfront, open and honest
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beware the children of ganymede. they are too beautiful to be trusted. dont look him in the eyes for too long, he might steal your soul and turn you into a ghoul
Huh? Not sure if what I think this means is right. But yea I get that soul-stealer vibe.

Funny thing is he is actually sensitive. I can sense it. Is that an aqua thing? only cold as ice when it comes to others? I'm telling you he must have a Virgo moon รฐลธยคโ€
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Most of the aqua men i know have that feeling about them and its harmless.
Aquas are constantly trying to build on self so him having that authority thing going on could be because he feels good when hea in control because not being in control is a scary place.
You could probably relate to everything he does, you just have to have an open mind and use perspectives to find out more.
His methods might be different than everyone elses but before you judge and dislike it because its not the way you want try seeing things from his shoes if you can master the ability to wear anyone elses shoes but your own.
Yea I try to give him the benefit of the doubt but a lot of what he does doesn't sit right. Partly I think it's his age, he's very professional, but not mature.

He once told me something along the lines of 'don't think the things I do or say have an underlying meaning, I'm being genuine' but that makes me more weary. How does he know I think he has underlying shadiness?? Lol
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my dad is an Aquarius with a Virgo moon. he is a great father. he has an Aquarius stellium.

I personally love Aquarians. male and female. best relationships were with aquas.

the only people I don't trust are earth and water signs. can't be trusted. in my opinion...they're the two faced ones in my experience. I get along with a rare few, but I prefer air and fire signs. more blunt, upfront, open and honest
I was just thinking about that the other day. In the zodiac the fire and air signs are probably more blunt, and I guess come with a more "pure" energy.

Water and earth signs might be the more mainipluative ones. But the cold, flighty, insensitivity that comes from fire and air signs are something that personally, I can never get too close too. There is no win, we all have our faults.

As for auqa men, I haven't known many, but generally I would like to think I like them. The women are a wild card. I either think they are hilarious and fun, or gossipy and fake.
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Something tells me you secretly like him but your not ready to reveal that to yourself, a little intimidated?

If you didn't you wouldn't be so curious to figure him out as a Scorpio.
I'm curious because I usually am easily able to figure people I am personally around all the time out. If I didn't work closely with him, I honestly could care less who he was.

I think it's the opposite. I think he likes me. The fact that I have to sit behind this guys affects me for some reason. He must have Scorpio in his chart.
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Something tells me you secretly like him but your not ready to reveal that to yourself, a little intimidated?

If you didn't you wouldn't be so curious to figure him out as a Scorpio.
I'm curious because I usually am easily able to figure people I am personally around all the time out. If I didn't work closely with him, I honestly could care less who he was.

I think it's the opposite. I think he likes me. The fact that I have to sit behind this guys affects me for some reason. He must have Scorpio in his chart.
If he does like you you probably would never know, saves him.
Aqua men are not easy to read so you maybe be at this for a while. Good luck.
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But I'm supposed to be a Scorpio detective! ๐Ÿ™‚

As long as he's not trying to sabatoge my career that's all that matters. That what brang me here in the first place. I don't trust him. And yea I know don't trust anyone but for real.
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I can see that. whenever I read that scorpios are meant to get along well with water and earth signs I mentally die inside. water signs are too leaky and sometimes too negative. I don't bode well with cancers usually. I like two cancers that have Aquarius moons however. they're more in control of themselves emotionally. earth signs are the fake ones to me. they put on airs to fit an image that society deems acceptable or fit. unless they have heavy fire or air placements they're just always trying to fit in or hold an image. they want to be popular. it's very annoying and strange to me. idk. that's just my observation and opinion based on experiences.

fire and air signs are very insensitive at times, but I guess growing up with an aqua dad made me adjust to it. normally they never mean it in the way it was said. they're just throwing it out there. I was just with my Aries friend and we were at my coworkers with a Leo and another Scorpio, and the Aries goes "HEY IS THAT A BLACK ANGEL ON YOUR CHRISTMAS TREE?" and the Scorpio goes "it definitely is" lmao. the Scorpio has heavy Sag placements. fire and air just have no filter. it's kind of nice in a way because you know they aren't full of it. but there are bullshitters in every sign so you never know! I just haven't had much luck with other signs in the water or earth element.

for the most part id say Aquarians will be upfront. the men usually carry an idgaf attitude but they're still cordial always. they can hold a convo with literally anyone. my dads like that. they may be a bit standoffish at first especially if you're not used to aquarian energy but they'll open right up. some Aquarians are pretty shy though too and soft spoken. Ive never had a bad aqua experience male or female. this one aqua I was talking to for a bit was fire heavy and earth heavy. quite a bit of Cap in him....and he could be pretty insensitive at times, but his moon was also in the 12th house and when he'd hurt my feelings he'd be annoyed at first but later apologize. he would just kind of blurt things out and not think about it. he never meant it meanly, but sometimes I just became ultra sensitive to his words. to be honest I think he slightly liked that about me though. plus I'd be pretty contained when he hurt my feelings. I wasn't a big emotional crying wreck acting like a lunatic, so I think he had a lot of respect for that. I'd speak to him like an adult and explain how he affected me with his comment or behavior. normally I'd leave the area and he'd follow me knowing I was upset. I tend to avoid conflict so I'd do that to avoid it but if he sensed it, he was right there on my tail, either calling or following me
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I do get along with other scorpios for the most part, but sometimes I just don't trust them. especially if they're Scorpio heavy. this one super scorp I know: Sun/Moon/Merc/Venus/Jupiter/ascendant/Pluto tried getting close to me.... I know not to trust her. she has all the behaviors you read about scorpios online. vindictive. obsessive. manipulative. jealousy to the max. this guy she at one point was obsessed with was kind of friendly with me at this bar and ever since then she kept inviting me out and stuff.... like I didn't know her game. I don't get people like that. weird as hell.

I mean technically I'm a super scorp but I definitely don't act like one. scorp sun/merc/Venus/Pluto. my Venus is 0 degrees, Pluto is in the 20 degree range, sun is 17 and Mercury is 8 so they don't all conjunct either. who knows. air is my second dominant. Aquarius is my second dominant sign followed by Aries
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Most of the aqua men i know have that feeling about them and its harmless.
Aquas are constantly trying to build on self so him having that authority thing going on could be because he feels good when hea in control because not being in control is a scary place.
You could probably relate to everything he does, you just have to have an open mind and use perspectives to find out more.
His methods might be different than everyone elses but before you judge and dislike it because its not the way you want try seeing things from his shoes if you can master the ability to wear anyone elses shoes but your own.
Yea I try to give him the benefit of the doubt but a lot of what he does doesn't sit right. Partly I think it's his age, he's very professional, but not mature.

He once told me something along the lines of 'don't think the things I do or say have an underlying meaning, I'm being genuine' but that makes me more weary. How does he know I think he has underlying shadiness?? Lol
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Perhaps he is picking up on YOUR vibes. LOL Aquas are keen to that stuff just as much as other signs are.

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I'm working with a lot of air people. One I highly don't get a good feeling about is an Aquarius male.

Naturally, I am very suspicious of people who are overly charming. He is good at getting what he wants with his words as an aqua.

I am the only one who sees through this. Not something I am not used to, as a Scorp female. I always trust my intuition.

Scorps, have you had some shady dealings with Aqua men? He really gets under my skin. Sometimes I actually like the guy, but I would bet money that he would sabatoge me at work if he had the chance.
Some Aqua men can be VERY shady and they do use their charm, smart words and "happy face" to get what they want.

Trust what you know and let it go. Just focus on your work and make sure your work stands out... Not your suspicions.
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Thank you! Seriously, I know I'm not crazy.
Most of him is probably honest and to take at face value, but I just know some things are not right.

Hes the only one around me I have a strange feeling about. Usually I feel I need to watch out for the women in my job (from last experience) so that makes this more strange.