Are scorpios difficult to love??

Do others bang their head against the wall trying to understand the scorpion??
Afterall sometimes we dont even understand ourselves.
How many scorps flirt with danger? The bad boy thats no good for you? the girl that mommy wouldn't approve of.
How many scorps are in a loving relationship but still feel the need flirt or still keep in touch with ex partners.

Posted by prettymoonlight
I bang my head against the wall a time or two...lol.. did you read my last post—
..lmao!

Ok, why do you all keep in touch with your ex's? Is it that you still like them? want to be with them? Ego boost? Hate to let them move on?

Good question doll, why is that?

Lol i think it is probably because we like to think we still hold a place in their heart(which could prevent them from moving on) and also to boost our ego-when i have a argument with my current partner,i sometimes send my ex's a "hey whats up text?"lol
Just to prove have still got it.🙂

Posted by Beetleguese
A component of love is giving the same consideration to the one that you love as you do for yourself, is that difficult to do 100% of the time? Yeah, regardless of sign though it could be argued that scorps demand so much because they want to give the same in return, that's not to marginalize how other signs approach love, just the way that typical scorps choose to love.

Flirting with danger? Umm, yeah I guess so 🙂

I don't try to stay in touch with exes when in love though.

Love your paragraph above,i see keeping in touch with ex's as one means of flirting with danger.
So Beetleguese how do you flirt with danger??Plz tell?🙂

lol i was thinking more in a relationship sense.🙂
Do any other scorps have a love/hate relationship with libras?
I believe libras are my danger.😢

Yes. Yes, they are. 😢

Posted by Beetleguese
Forgot about the libra Q. No love, not really hate, I just don't connect with them at all.

Am totally agree with the libra thing-we are neighbours in the zodiac,yet they drive me up the wall.
The people pleaser thing,can get annoying.
Going cold fustrating
And not to mention the indecisiveness!!

Are Scorpios difficult to love??

The males are EASY to love - HARD to get out of your life, once in it.

The women are HARD to love (near impossible for mortal man, actually)***
- easy to get rid of - just ignore them for about 3 days - ZOOOOOOOM!


*** This is because the Scorpio female is not self-aware of her
ability to KNOW what the other WANTS ...and gives it ...IF her
own needs are being met. BUT ... they rarely are, because she
does not TALK about them ... she just assumes the male has the
same powers of interpretation/knowing what the other wants, like she
has ...but he DOESN'T !!! And so, he goes on not knowing what she
wants ...and therefore not GIVING it ... and she goes on RESENTFULLY
WITHHOLDING what HE wants ... and while he is oblivious to it,
she is having a waging a war inside her mind, heart and soul
until one day ... she's GONE and leaves him with a gift that will
touch him for the rest of his life. ( The gift of "missing her". )

...and the dude never even saw it coming.

Posted by ThroatVirus

Posted by scorpiopics
Are Scorpios difficult to love??

The males are EASY to love - HARD to get out of your life, once in it.

The women are HARD to love (near impossible for mortal man, actually)***
- easy to get rid of - just ignore them for about 3 days - ZOOOOOOOM!


*** This is because the Scorpio female is not self-aware of her
ability to KNOW what the other WANTS ...and gives it ...IF her
own needs are being met. BUT ... they rarely are, because she
does not TALK about them ... she just assumes the male has the
same powers of interpretation/knowing what the other wants, like she
has ...but he DOESN'T !!! And so, he goes on not knowing what she
wants ...and therefore not GIVING it ... and she goes on RESENTFULLY
WITHHOLDING what HE wants ... and while he is oblivious to it,
she is having a waging a war inside her mind, heart and soul
until one day ... she's GONE and leaves him with a gift that will
touch him for the rest of his life. ( The gift of "missing her". )

...and the dude never even saw it coming.

LOL I don't agree with this at all...there's a certain breed of Scorpio women that have their own version of reality (unfortunately these tend to be the attractive ones) Anywho, they get this info. from their "intuition" when really its just made up bullshit coming from their own imaginations...

LOL

they were able to "connect the dots" or "read between the lines"

anyway THIS causes their distortion...harmful in matters of the heart...it also doesn't help that many of them are poor communicators...

now just to reiterate, I wrote a "certain breed" not all are like this...u have your level headed, well adjusted Scorpio women...they're not as fun...just uptight and a tad bitchy...


personally, I think a Scorpio woman's biggest mistake is overestimating herself...its nice to have confidence, but people WILL eventually figure out that you're only a human being...

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Take it someone been burnt by a scorp chick.lol

Posted by ScorpioDreamer

Posted by FemmeScorpion

Posted by Beetleguese
Forgot about the libra Q. No love, not really hate, I just don't connect with them at all.

Am totally agree with the libra thing-we are neighbours in the zodiac,yet they drive me up the wall.
The people pleaser thing,can get annoying.
Going cold fustrating
And not to mention the indecisiveness!!

I can so relate to this....well, with myself that is. It's a love/hate relationship with myself because I have a Libra Rising and I am a HUGE people pleaser, I go cold for no apparent reason and I'm more indecisive than ten women put together!

I can also relate to the Scorp thing. I feel I'm very difficult to love and I certainly don't understand myself. I also tend to fall for all the wrong guys.

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Awww chick....we all fall for the wrong guys now and again. I guess its the challenge.

Posted by scorpiopics
Are Scorpios difficult to love??

The males are EASY to love - HARD to get out of your life, once in it.

The women are HARD to love (near impossible for mortal man, actually)***
- easy to get rid of - just ignore them for about 3 days - ZOOOOOOOM!


*** This is because the Scorpio female is not self-aware of her
ability to KNOW what the other WANTS ...and gives it ...IF her
own needs are being met. BUT ... they rarely are, because she
does not TALK about them ... she just assumes the male has the
same powers of interpretation/knowing what the other wants, like she
has ...but he DOESN'T !!! And so, he goes on not knowing what she
wants ...and therefore not GIVING it ... and she goes on RESENTFULLY
WITHHOLDING what HE wants ... and while he is oblivious to it,
she is having a waging a war inside her mind, heart and soul
until one day ... she's GONE and leaves him with a gift that will
touch him for the rest of his life. ( The gift of "missing her". )

...and the dude never even saw it coming.

Your spot on...hats off to you chick.🙂

Posted by wsigaf
lol !
TV is spot on though..

Wrong thread mate,last time i checked...you were a libra.🙂

Posted by wsigaf
get yourself an eagle or be ready to go through hell..

lol i am THE EAGLE Baby.

Posted by wsigaf
* cusp

Am ok handsome....long time.🙂
What you been upto,take it the libra board is quiet.lol

any scorps attracted to me i dont know about? and naww you guys arent hard to love...just love me back okay?

Posted by wsigaf
I been stalking a couple of chicks..
no srsly, I'm back to Uni..

can't really say I have expectations..
we'll see how the year goes..

Get ur head stuck in them books.🙂

Posted by HappyCappy
any scorps attracted to me i dont know about? and naww you guys arent hard to love...just love me back okay?

lol we will Caps are kool.🙂

No one likes sour grapes.lol

i like sour...patch kids.

Posted by FemmeScorpion

Posted by scorpiopics
Are Scorpios difficult to love??

The males are EASY to love - HARD to get out of your life, once in it.

The women are HARD to love (near impossible for mortal man, actually)***
- easy to get rid of - just ignore them for about 3 days - ZOOOOOOOM!


*** This is because the Scorpio female is not self-aware of her
ability to KNOW what the other WANTS ...and gives it ...IF her
own needs are being met. BUT ... they rarely are, because she
does not TALK about them ... she just assumes the male has the
same powers of interpretation/knowing what the other wants, like she
has ...but he DOESN'T !!! And so, he goes on not knowing what she
wants ...and therefore not GIVING it ... and she goes on RESENTFULLY
WITHHOLDING what HE wants ... and while he is oblivious to it,
she is having a waging a war inside her mind, heart and soul
until one day ... she's GONE and leaves him with a gift that will
touch him for the rest of his life. ( The gift of "missing her". )

...and the dude never even saw it coming.

You're spot on...hats off to you chick.🙂

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Haha

I'm a dude ...and I take this statement as a great compliment and
your validation and personal approval of my qualifications to
speak about Scorpio females, their innermost feelings and such

... to put into words the things YOU cannot express on your own
but can easily agree to when explained to you.

Posted by Kali
I "flirted with danger" in my younger years. I seemed to always attract the "bad boy" in my teens and 20s, and I enjoyed the thrill of dating someone who was notorious at that time. However, since I've gotten older, I find that I much prefer stability and dependability, and the thought of the "bad boy" no longer appeals to me. Been there, done that. I do have two exes that I keep in contact with, but they are ex-husbands and we share a responsibility of our children. My ex-Libra husband was very emotionally, mentally, and times physically abusive. My ex-Aries husband was a womanizer, enjoying the thrill of the chase way too much. I would not keep in touch for any other reason except having to do with the kids. Luckily I have found someone now who seems to be extremely stable, devoted, dedicated, and sane. Think I'll keep him.

Wow this is like a different version of my story. Just out of interest what sign is current partner?
🙂

Theyre hard to deal with,, how about the scorpio mama's who don't let the willing father have anything to do with their child,I pay child support,, offer to take part in my childs life and still nothing
I pray everyday that my Daughter will overcome what ever drama this scorpio woman put in her head

Posted by roguekingcrab
Theyre hard to deal with,, how about the scorpio mama's who don't let the willing father have anything to do with their child,I pay child support,, offer to take part in my childs life and still nothing
I pray everyday that my Daughter will overcome what ever drama this scorpio woman put in her head

Am sorry to hear,isnt there laws that allow you access to your daughter. Every child deserve to have a father figure,because things didnt work out with the mom does not mean your daughter as to suffer.
Are you a cancer?

Kali,i have never dated a virgo,however one of my mate is dating one and he seem like a sweet guy.