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I have never made chili but I have this weird urge to try.

Do you have any decent recipes?


Use a blend of ground meats, usually beef, pork, and turkey.

Add a small amount of unsweetened cocoa powder to balance out the flavors.

Soy sauce or Golden Mountain Sauce from the Asian grocery works better than salt to season it.
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WHY YOU TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT THE COCOA POWDER SECRET?
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Oh....It has to be keeto or low carb.


You like sweets or savory? Cause I got a ton of keto recipes.


Savory!


Have you done the cheese taco shells yet? Or keto pizza?


No, just a lot of cauliflower...lol
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LOL!

Ok, so there are actually a ton of things you can do, and if no one has told you yet, be sure to subtract all dietary fiber carbs, from the total carbs.

For instance. If something says it has 9 carbs, but 8 of those are dietary fiber, then it is actually only 1 carb that is to be calculated. There are actually some low carb tortillas available. But I like making crispy taco shells out of cheese. You take a non-stick pan, and crisp cheese up on it on low heat. Don't layer too much of it, or it will get a little wonky and won't crisp properly. When it is hot, mold it over something, and bam, you got yourself taco shells.

My favorite keto pizza crust was one made with almond flour and a few cheeses. The other ones broke apart, or weren't crispy enough. ESPECIALLY the cauliflower ones. I hated them all. Here is the recipe I use for it.

https://simplysohealthy.com/the-best-low-carb-pizza-crust-recipe/

Have you done keto bombs yet?
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Oh....It has to be keeto or low carb.


You like sweets or savory? Cause I got a ton of keto recipes.


Savory!


Have you done the cheese taco shells yet? Or keto pizza?


No, just a lot of cauliflower...lol


LOL!

Ok, so there are actually a ton of things you can do, and if no one has told you yet, be sure to subtract all dietary fiber carbs, from the total carbs.

For instance. If something says it has 9 carbs, but 8 of those are dietary fiber, then it is actually only 1 carb that is to be calculated. There are actually some low carb tortillas available. But I like making crispy taco shells out of cheese. You take a non-stick pan, and crisp cheese up on it on low heat. Don't layer too much of it, or it will get a little wonky and won't crisp properly. When it is hot, mold it over something, and bam, you got yourself taco shells.

My favorite keto pizza crust was one made with almond flour and a few cheeses. The other ones broke apart, or weren't crispy enough. ESPECIALLY the cauliflower ones. I hated them all. Here is the recipe I use for it.

https://simplysohealthy.com/the-best-low-carb-pizza-crust-recipe/

Have you done keto bombs yet?


Thank you!

I've always done Atkins but the Cap never took it seriously until he saw Keto...which to me, they look essentially the same.

So, we are challenging each other. I wiped out all the carbs when I got home and replaced them with all the good stuff.....which now requires me to cook.
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I did it for about 2 years, and I go back on it from time to time. I even did a full thanksgiving keto meal. Man the sausage and sage stuffing I made was freaking goooooooooooooooooooooood.

Hell, even pumpkin pie with a pecan crust was delicious. It's probably the only diet I like, cause I love cheese and bacon. lol
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Okay another question... maybe that first one was too honest and asked too soon.. plus you’re answering publicly and don’t know me personally.

But what about this... Have you ever acted mean or neglectful to someone you truly loved? And if so, why do you act that way? Alternatively, how do you treat someone you truly love?


Please don't try to handle these guys with kid gloves. This is not their first rodeo.

lol @ too honest too soon šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£


I thought his answer might not’ve Been honest cuz I thought Scorpios were passionate. Maybe they truly are empty souls inside. The user, soul, has said that too. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø
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Okay another question... maybe that first one was too honest and asked too soon.. plus you’re answering publicly and don’t know me personally.

But what about this... Have you ever acted mean or neglectful to someone you truly loved? And if so, why do you act that way? Alternatively, how do you treat someone you truly love?


In the past, yes.

I acted out because of a bruised ego.
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Okay another question... maybe that first one was too honest and asked too soon.. plus you’re answering publicly and don’t know me personally.

But what about this... Have you ever acted mean or neglectful to someone you truly loved? And if so, why do you act that way? Alternatively, how do you treat someone you truly love?


Please don't try to handle these guys with kid gloves. This is not their first rodeo.

lol @ too honest too soon šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£


I thought his answer might not’ve Been honest cuz I thought Scorpios were passionate. Maybe they truly are empty souls inside. The user, soul, has said that too. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


Soul is a scorpio moon....they are empty souls.

Scorpio Suns aren't empty...we are just void.

THERE IS A DIFFERENCE.
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Rabbit is a Scorpio moon though so...
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There's a 5'3" tryhard Scorpio flirting with the Virgo at the gym.

Should I:

A) stuff him in the towel hamper

B) act like I'm going to spot him, but let the bar crush his windpipe

C) set his Tesla on fire


D) sit back and watch the Virgo pulvarize his self esteem


I'm imagining the soul crushing eye rolls she's giving him.
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You know it, we HATE tryhards. Especially if they have a napoleon complex...
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Okay another question... maybe that first one was too honest and asked too soon.. plus you’re answering publicly and don’t know me personally.

But what about this... Have you ever acted mean or neglectful to someone you truly loved? And if so, why do you act that way? Alternatively, how do you treat someone you truly love?


1. Yes, but I would argue that we all do that from time to time to somebody we care about.

2. For me, being treated like a child and or invading my privacy really pisses me off.

3. If we truly love you, then you get access to every part of us that we're willing to show you and the public.
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Hold up. You only show your loved ones what you're willing to show the public? That is disheartening to say the least.
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Okay another question... maybe that first one was too honest and asked too soon.. plus you’re answering publicly and don’t know me personally.

But what about this... Have you ever acted mean or neglectful to someone you truly loved? And if so, why do you act that way? Alternatively, how do you treat someone you truly love?


1. Yes, but I would argue that we all do that from time to time to somebody we care about.

2. For me, being treated like a child and or invading my privacy really pisses me off.

3. If we truly love you, then you get access to every part of us that we're willing to show you and the public.

Hold up. You only show your loved ones what you're willing to show the public? That is disheartening to say the least.


You're never going to get everything from us. There's always something held back. No, I am not lying to you.
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Yes I know, but I'm not exactly an open book either so it's okay.

Are you War Angel?
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Posted by Schawq

Okay another question... maybe that first one was too honest and asked too soon.. plus you’re answering publicly and don’t know me personally.

But what about this... Have you ever acted mean or neglectful to someone you truly loved? And if so, why do you act that way? Alternatively, how do you treat someone you truly love?


1. Yes, but I would argue that we all do that from time to time to somebody we care about.

2. For me, being treated like a child and or invading my privacy really pisses me off.

3. If we truly love you, then you get access to every part of us that we're willing to show you and the public.

Hold up. You only show your loved ones what you're willing to show the public? That is disheartening to say the least.


You're never going to get everything from us. There's always something held back. No, I am not lying to you.

Yes I know, but I'm not exactly an open book either so it's okay.

Are you War Angel?


Yes. šŸ™‚
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Nice to see you back as well šŸ˜„
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How can I help a Scorpio guy to stop resenting me? It’s getting old. Why can’t he just effing get over it.


What's he doing?


We got into a few arguments and now he has resentment over what I’ve said. I think it brought up old feelings from the past. He is being distant, acting weird, unloving, withholding intimacy because it’s ā€œawkwardā€ to him. He’s just not his normal self before our arguments.
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What did you say to him?
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How can I help a Scorpio guy to stop resenting me? It’s getting old. Why can’t he just effing get over it.


What's he doing?


We got into a few arguments and now he has resentment over what I’ve said. I think it brought up old feelings from the past. He is being distant, acting weird, unloving, withholding intimacy because it’s ā€œawkwardā€ to him. He’s just not his normal self before our arguments.


What did you say to him?


I brought up the past, said some demeaning things about him, got upset in public. Scorpios like people who have their shit together? Who can handle situations calmly?...I did not act calmly during our arguments. I think it turned him off. But this happens all the time. He would then break up with me then come back, saying that he didn’t try hard enough and he was just upset at me. This time, I’m keeping us together and trying to work things out by behaving. But I wonder when he’ll get over it and move on from our arguments. He’s hurt me too but I don’t understand why he can’t get over things while I can.
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Just so I'm clear..

You bring up the past in a demeaning way.. in public.

But you want him to get over things?

Am I understanding you correctly?
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How can I help a Scorpio guy to stop resenting me? It’s getting old. Why can’t he just effing get over it.


What's he doing?


We got into a few arguments and now he has resentment over what I’ve said. I think it brought up old feelings from the past. He is being distant, acting weird, unloving, withholding intimacy because it’s ā€œawkwardā€ to him. He’s just not his normal self before our arguments.


What did you say to him?


I brought up the past, said some demeaning things about him, got upset in public. Scorpios like people who have their shit together? Who can handle situations calmly?...I did not act calmly during our arguments. I think it turned him off. But this happens all the time. He would then break up with me then come back, saying that he didn’t try hard enough and he was just upset at me. This time, I’m keeping us together and trying to work things out by behaving. But I wonder when he’ll get over it and move on from our arguments. He’s hurt me too but I don’t understand why he can’t get over things while I can.


Just so I'm clear..

You bring up the past in a demeaning way.. in public.

But you want him to get over things?

Am I understanding you correctly?


Ooh I see what you mean...I have resentment too, I guess. And it comes out during our arguments when it is triggered but it goes away quickly. He was the first to suggest therapy and then changed his mind but I think he is receptive now.

I know that his resentment goes away every time we have some time apart (when he’d break up with me). But I don’t want that and I suggested not talking for a few weeks but he doesn’t want that. So he’s just kinda there and not all in.
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No. Just no.

You need to be single for a while. Trust me.
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How can I help a Scorpio guy to stop resenting me? It’s getting old. Why can’t he just effing get over it.


What's he doing?


We got into a few arguments and now he has resentment over what I’ve said. I think it brought up old feelings from the past. He is being distant, acting weird, unloving, withholding intimacy because it’s ā€œawkwardā€ to him. He’s just not his normal self before our arguments.


What did you say to him?


I brought up the past, said some demeaning things about him, got upset in public. Scorpios like people who have their shit together? Who can handle situations calmly?...I did not act calmly during our arguments. I think it turned him off. But this happens all the time. He would then break up with me then come back, saying that he didn’t try hard enough and he was just upset at me. This time, I’m keeping us together and trying to work things out by behaving. But I wonder when he’ll get over it and move on from our arguments. He’s hurt me too but I don’t understand why he can’t get over things while I can.


Just so I'm clear..

You bring up the past in a demeaning way.. in public.

But you want him to get over things?

Am I understanding you correctly?


Ooh I see what you mean...I have resentment too, I guess. And it comes out during our arguments when it is triggered but it goes away quickly. He was the first to suggest therapy and then changed his mind but I think he is receptive now.

I know that his resentment goes away every time we have some time apart (when he’d break up with me). But I don’t want that and I suggested not talking for a few weeks but he doesn’t want that. So he’s just kinda there and not all in.


No. Just no.

You need to be single for a while. Trust me.


It’s me and not him?
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It's both of you.

But you can only control your own actions.

It's obvious this relationship is comprised of two toxic individuals that don't belong in a relationship until they figure their own shit out.
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How can I help a Scorpio guy to stop resenting me? It’s getting old. Why can’t he just effing get over it.


What's he doing?


We got into a few arguments and now he has resentment over what I’ve said. I think it brought up old feelings from the past. He is being distant, acting weird, unloving, withholding intimacy because it’s ā€œawkwardā€ to him. He’s just not his normal self before our arguments.


What did you say to him?


I brought up the past, said some demeaning things about him, got upset in public. Scorpios like people who have their shit together? Who can handle situations calmly?...I did not act calmly during our arguments. I think it turned him off. But this happens all the time. He would then break up with me then come back, saying that he didn’t try hard enough and he was just upset at me. This time, I’m keeping us together and trying to work things out by behaving. But I wonder when he’ll get over it and move on from our arguments. He’s hurt me too but I don’t understand why he can’t get over things while I can.


Just so I'm clear..

You bring up the past in a demeaning way.. in public.

But you want him to get over things?

Am I understanding you correctly?


Ooh I see what you mean...I have resentment too, I guess. And it comes out during our arguments when it is triggered but it goes away quickly. He was the first to suggest therapy and then changed his mind but I think he is receptive now.

I know that his resentment goes away every time we have some time apart (when he’d break up with me). But I don’t want that and I suggested not talking for a few weeks but he doesn’t want that. So he’s just kinda there and not all in.


No. Just no.

You need to be single for a while. Trust me.


It’s me and not him?


It's both of you.

But you can only control your own actions.

It's obvious this relationship is comprised of two toxic individuals that don't belong in a relationship until they figure their own shit out.


Nooooooo...😩

But I understand. Thank you for listening.
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You're welcome.
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How can I help a Scorpio guy to stop resenting me? It’s getting old. Why can’t he just effing get over it.


What's he doing?


We got into a few arguments and now he has resentment over what I’ve said. I think it brought up old feelings from the past. He is being distant, acting weird, unloving, withholding intimacy because it’s ā€œawkwardā€ to him. He’s just not his normal self before our arguments.


What did you say to him?


I brought up the past, said some demeaning things about him, got upset in public. Scorpios like people who have their shit together? Who can handle situations calmly?...I did not act calmly during our arguments. I think it turned him off. But this happens all the time. He would then break up with me then come back, saying that he didn’t try hard enough and he was just upset at me. This time, I’m keeping us together and trying to work things out by behaving. But I wonder when he’ll get over it and move on from our arguments. He’s hurt me too but I don’t understand why he can’t get over things while I can.


Just so I'm clear..

You bring up the past in a demeaning way.. in public.

But you want him to get over things?

Am I understanding you correctly?


Ooh I see what you mean...I have resentment too, I guess. And it comes out during our arguments when it is triggered but it goes away quickly. He was the first to suggest therapy and then changed his mind but I think he is receptive now.

I know that his resentment goes away every time we have some time apart (when he’d break up with me). But I don’t want that and I suggested not talking for a few weeks but he doesn’t want that. So he’s just kinda there and not all in.


No. Just no.

You need to be single for a while. Trust me.


It’s me and not him?


It's both of you.

But you can only control your own actions.

It's obvious this relationship is comprised of two toxic individuals that don't belong in a relationship until they figure their own shit out.


Nooooooo...😩

But I understand. Thank you for listening.


You're welcome.


Wait. I have one morequestion...if we keep coming back to each other over these past seven years, that has to mean something. That the love is there but in one way we are not compatible. I think everything is good between us except communication. Which is a big one. Do you think therapy would help?
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Like attracts like.

Toxic attracts toxic.

Seek therapy.. but on your own. Not as a couple.
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How can I help a Scorpio guy to stop resenting me? It’s getting old. Why can’t he just effing get over it.


What's he doing?


We got into a few arguments and now he has resentment over what I’ve said. I think it brought up old feelings from the past. He is being distant, acting weird, unloving, withholding intimacy because it’s ā€œawkwardā€ to him. He’s just not his normal self before our arguments.


What did you say to him?


I brought up the past, said some demeaning things about him, got upset in public. Scorpios like people who have their shit together? Who can handle situations calmly?...I did not act calmly during our arguments. I think it turned him off. But this happens all the time. He would then break up with me then come back, saying that he didn’t try hard enough and he was just upset at me. This time, I’m keeping us together and trying to work things out by behaving. But I wonder when he’ll get over it and move on from our arguments. He’s hurt me too but I don’t understand why he can’t get over things while I can.


Just so I'm clear..

You bring up the past in a demeaning way.. in public.

But you want him to get over things?

Am I understanding you correctly?


Ooh I see what you mean...I have resentment too, I guess. And it comes out during our arguments when it is triggered but it goes away quickly. He was the first to suggest therapy and then changed his mind but I think he is receptive now.

I know that his resentment goes away every time we have some time apart (when he’d break up with me). But I don’t want that and I suggested not talking for a few weeks but he doesn’t want that. So he’s just kinda there and not all in.


No. Just no.

You need to be single for a while. Trust me.


It’s me and not him?


It's both of you.

But you can only control your own actions.

It's obvious this relationship is comprised of two toxic individuals that don't belong in a relationship until they figure their own shit out.


Nooooooo...😩

But I understand. Thank you for listening.


You're welcome.


Wait. I have one morequestion...if we keep coming back to each other over these past seven years, that has to mean something. That the love is there but in one way we are not compatible. I think everything is good between us except communication. Which is a big one. Do you think therapy would help?


Like attracts like.

Toxic attracts toxic.

Seek therapy.. but on your own. Not as a couple.


How come not together?
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