Scorpio Changed his number.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by PiscesScorpio1118 on Thursday, October 11, 2018 and has 28 replies.

Understanding a Scorpio's Changing Behavior

Scorpio men can be intense and emotionally complex, often showing different sides in person and over the phone. Their mood swings and communication issues may reflect underlying trust or emotional challenges. Recognizing these patterns can help you decide whether to continue or move on from the relationship.

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@PiscesScorpio1118
7 Years

I been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months. We met at work. He's real sweet in person. But things got crazy once we started talking on the phone. I should have handled it differently but it made me really upset. So we stopped talking for awhile. Only saw each other at work. And then he got fired from work because he says to get away from me. Which I never bothered him at work. He comes over my house and he's in a great mood. When he leaves he says give this time. I get impatient and make him mad again. And he tells me he has a girlfriend he started talking to after he talked to me. I don't believe him. He blocks me. Then we talk again and he comes over. When he leaves the next day I don't bother him at all that day. And I call him next day my phone is blocked. We been fighting ever since and I'd call him non stop. To the point I was out of control. So two days ago he picks up the phone finally only to yell at me. Then puts the phone down. Two days later I try calling him and he either did not pay his bill or changed his number. He's not working now so Idk if it's his bill. As much as everyone is telling me this guy does not have his life together and the way he talks to me I shouldn't put up with. I'm really upset over this. He's always in a good mood over my house but when he gets on the phone he gets out of control. I known I should not have even gotten this far with him to begin with because he's very verbally abusive. I don't know what is wrong with him or me. But I can't even sleep over this. I want a positive outcome.

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@PiscesScorpio1118
7 Years

I'm 35 I haven't been in a committed relationship since I was 20. He's 30 he lives with his mom, doesn't drive and left his job. He's never been in a committed relationship. My sister says that's all something that I should not get caught up in but I'm taking this pretty hard. I want to see him again and work this out.

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@PiscesScorpio1118
7 Years

Do you think I'm being stupid? And should have more respect for myself? Like I'm dumb for even wanting him back? Regardless how I feel? I want to know.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

Do you think I'm being stupid? And should have more respect for myself? Like I'm dumb for even wanting him back? Regardless how I feel? I want to know.

From the woman who is dying for a Scorpio...yes! All you have written above - yesss! And my heart aching to tell you this! Trust me!

There are few Scorpio species and you have the bad one!

As irresistible as he might seem - he is a bad one! And I would never say that about Scorpios! Unless it’s hitting me in a face! And yours does!!!

Want your life to be a disaster? Please forget him...I KNOW!!! Impossible! But...he is a deadbeat and he might grow up and mature by age of 50...you don’t have to be dying waiting for him! Trust me hon. Please. ❤️

For fun:

Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi

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@PiscesScorpio1118
7 Years

Posted by LostinmyMind11

What does he have to offer you? He lives at home, no job, never been in a serious relationship...

Where do you even see this going??....

I don't know honestly. if he'd be good to me wouldn't that be all that matters? I wouldn't mind being the one who works and all that. But when he works he's a good worker. Just I honestly think this is the only real job he's ever had. I didn't mean to call him a loser but he got into my head and attacked me for now reason at all. I shouldnt respond those ways cause then I start being the one I blame when things like this happen.

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

Posted by LostinmyMind11

What does he have to offer you? He lives at home, no job, never been in a serious relationship...

Where do you even see this going??....

I don't know honestly. if he'd be good to me wouldn't that be all that matters? I wouldn't mind being the one who works and all that. But when he works he's a good worker. Just I honestly think this is the only real job he's ever had. I didn't mean to call him a loser but he got into my head and attacked me for now reason at all. I shouldnt respond those ways cause then I start being the one I blame when things like this happen.

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Yeah but he's not even doing that...

Pisces Pisces Pisces....why do you guys do this to yourselves?? You are not obligated to fix the broken (I get it I do...guilty as charged). You have beautiful souls...find someone who sees that and appreciates it! He has a lot of growing up to do ...so let him do that and who knows...things may change.

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@PiscesScorpio1118
7 Years

I just don't know. I want him to contact me again. I don't know how to have confidence and move on. I'm just afraid he won't care enough to get back to me. Or he won't think I care. Do scorpios ever try to win you back?

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@AriesJo
11 Years500+ Posts

Blaming you for losing his job sounds like it could turn into something physically abisive, watch sleeping with the enemy.

But why do you care what his thinks, why care about him more than yourself? It sounds like this guy has beaten you down mentally, perhaps not intentionally but it sounds like he’s holding on to a lot of anger problems. You can’t help him with that, stop trying. Don’t be a victim, rise up and walk away, ignore him. Could you really deal with this for the next five years or so? If the answer is no, which it should be, then don’t give him another second’s thought.

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@nousername
7 Years

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

I been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months. We met at work. He's real sweet in person. But things got crazy once we started talking on the phone. I should have handled it differently but it made me really upset. So we stopped talking for awhile. Only saw each other at work. And then he got fired from work because he says to get away from me. Which I never bothered him at work. He comes over my house and he's in a great mood. When he leaves he says give this time. I get impatient and make him mad again. And he tells me he has a girlfriend he started talking to after he talked to me. I don't believe him. He blocks me. Then we talk again and he comes over. When he leaves the next day I don't bother him at all that day. And I call him next day my phone is blocked. We been fighting ever since and I'd call him non stop. To the point I was out of control. So two days ago he picks up the phone finally only to yell at me. Then puts the phone down. Two days later I try calling him and he either did not pay his bill or changed his number. He's not working now so Idk if it's his bill. As much as everyone is telling me this guy does not have his life together and the way he talks to me I shouldn't put up with. I'm really upset over this. He's always in a good mood over my house but when he gets on the phone he gets out of control. I known I should not have even gotten this far with him to begin with because he's very verbally abusive. I don't know what is wrong with him or me. But I can't even sleep over this. I want a positive outcome.

He didn’t get fired to get away from you.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by nousername

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

I been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months. We met at work. He's real sweet in person. But things got crazy once we started talking on the phone. I should have handled it differently but it made me really upset. So we stopped talking for awhile. Only saw each other at work. And then he got fired from work because he says to get away from me. Which I never bothered him at work. He comes over my house and he's in a great mood. When he leaves he says give this time. I get impatient and make him mad again. And he tells me he has a girlfriend he started talking to after he talked to me. I don't believe him. He blocks me. Then we talk again and he comes over. When he leaves the next day I don't bother him at all that day. And I call him next day my phone is blocked. We been fighting ever since and I'd call him non stop. To the point I was out of control. So two days ago he picks up the phone finally only to yell at me. Then puts the phone down. Two days later I try calling him and he either did not pay his bill or changed his number. He's not working now so Idk if it's his bill. As much as everyone is telling me this guy does not have his life together and the way he talks to me I shouldn't put up with. I'm really upset over this. He's always in a good mood over my house but when he gets on the phone he gets out of control. I known I should not have even gotten this far with him to begin with because he's very verbally abusive. I don't know what is wrong with him or me. But I can't even sleep over this. I want a positive outcome.

He didn’t get fired to get away from you.

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Who is fucking archeologist pulling up these threads? Go fuck somebody bored fingers...🤦‍♀️

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by nousername

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

I been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months. We met at work. He's real sweet in person. But things got crazy once we started talking on the phone. I should have handled it differently but it made me really upset. So we stopped talking for awhile. Only saw each other at work. And then he got fired from work because he says to get away from me. Which I never bothered him at work. He comes over my house and he's in a great mood. When he leaves he says give this time. I get impatient and make him mad again. And he tells me he has a girlfriend he started talking to after he talked to me. I don't believe him. He blocks me. Then we talk again and he comes over. When he leaves the next day I don't bother him at all that day. And I call him next day my phone is blocked. We been fighting ever since and I'd call him non stop. To the point I was out of control. So two days ago he picks up the phone finally only to yell at me. Then puts the phone down. Two days later I try calling him and he either did not pay his bill or changed his number. He's not working now so Idk if it's his bill. As much as everyone is telling me this guy does not have his life together and the way he talks to me I shouldn't put up with. I'm really upset over this. He's always in a good mood over my house but when he gets on the phone he gets out of control. I known I should not have even gotten this far with him to begin with because he's very verbally abusive. I don't know what is wrong with him or me. But I can't even sleep over this. I want a positive outcome.

He didn’t get fired to get away from you.

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Who is fucking archeologist pulling up these threads? Go fuck somebody bored fingers...🤦‍♀️

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@sweetpea2977
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Yikes! This is tragic. Your self esteem is non-existent, to say the least. It's my hope that because this post was written 9 months ago, you've made the time to do better for yourself.

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@GoldCluster
10 Years

It’s easy to judge this now that I’m reading it but shit girl, listen to them. As a fellow Pisces you need to chilllll

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@nousername
7 Years

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by nousername

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

I been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months. We met at work. He's real sweet in person. But things got crazy once we started talking on the phone. I should have handled it differently but it made me really upset. So we stopped talking for awhile. Only saw each other at work. And then he got fired from work because he says to get away from me. Which I never bothered him at work. He comes over my house and he's in a great mood. When he leaves he says give this time. I get impatient and make him mad again. And he tells me he has a girlfriend he started talking to after he talked to me. I don't believe him. He blocks me. Then we talk again and he comes over. When he leaves the next day I don't bother him at all that day. And I call him next day my phone is blocked. We been fighting ever since and I'd call him non stop. To the point I was out of control. So two days ago he picks up the phone finally only to yell at me. Then puts the phone down. Two days later I try calling him and he either did not pay his bill or changed his number. He's not working now so Idk if it's his bill. As much as everyone is telling me this guy does not have his life together and the way he talks to me I shouldn't put up with. I'm really upset over this. He's always in a good mood over my house but when he gets on the phone he gets out of control. I known I should not have even gotten this far with him to begin with because he's very verbally abusive. I don't know what is wrong with him or me. But I can't even sleep over this. I want a positive outcome.

He didn’t get fired to get away from you.

Who is fucking archeologist pulling up these threads? Go fuck somebody bored fingers...🤦‍♀️

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It’s called research.

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7 Years

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by nousername

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

I been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months. We met at work. He's real sweet in person. But things got crazy once we started talking on the phone. I should have handled it differently but it made me really upset. So we stopped talking for awhile. Only saw each other at work. And then he got fired from work because he says to get away from me. Which I never bothered him at work. He comes over my house and he's in a great mood. When he leaves he says give this time. I get impatient and make him mad again. And he tells me he has a girlfriend he started talking to after he talked to me. I don't believe him. He blocks me. Then we talk again and he comes over. When he leaves the next day I don't bother him at all that day. And I call him next day my phone is blocked. We been fighting ever since and I'd call him non stop. To the point I was out of control. So two days ago he picks up the phone finally only to yell at me. Then puts the phone down. Two days later I try calling him and he either did not pay his bill or changed his number. He's not working now so Idk if it's his bill. As much as everyone is telling me this guy does not have his life together and the way he talks to me I shouldn't put up with. I'm really upset over this. He's always in a good mood over my house but when he gets on the phone he gets out of control. I known I should not have even gotten this far with him to begin with because he's very verbally abusive. I don't know what is wrong with him or me. But I can't even sleep over this. I want a positive outcome.

He didn’t get fired to get away from you.

Who is fucking archeologist pulling up these threads? Go fuck somebody bored fingers...🤦‍♀️

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It’s called research and I like to know in advance what I’m dealing with.

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7 Years

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by nousername

Posted by PiscesScorpio1118

I been talking to a Scorpio man for 3 months. We met at work. He's real sweet in person. But things got crazy once we started talking on the phone. I should have handled it differently but it made me really upset. So we stopped talking for awhile. Only saw each other at work. And then he got fired from work because he says to get away from me. Which I never bothered him at work. He comes over my house and he's in a great mood. When he leaves he says give this time. I get impatient and make him mad again. And he tells me he has a girlfriend he started talking to after he talked to me. I don't believe him. He blocks me. Then we talk again and he comes over. When he leaves the next day I don't bother him at all that day. And I call him next day my phone is blocked. We been fighting ever since and I'd call him non stop. To the point I was out of control. So two days ago he picks up the phone finally only to yell at me. Then puts the phone down. Two days later I try calling him and he either did not pay his bill or changed his number. He's not working now so Idk if it's his bill. As much as everyone is telling me this guy does not have his life together and the way he talks to me I shouldn't put up with. I'm really upset over this. He's always in a good mood over my house but when he gets on the phone he gets out of control. I known I should not have even gotten this far with him to begin with because he's very verbally abusive. I don't know what is wrong with him or me. But I can't even sleep over this. I want a positive outcome.

He didn’t get fired to get away from you.

Who is fucking archeologist pulling up these threads? Go fuck somebody bored fingers...🤦‍♀️

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More will come as I keep my research moving forward.

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@complicatedpisces
16 Years

He changed his number to prove to the new girl he is trying to change but obviously he’s not because he still keep in touch with you. The best way to handle him is move in with your life if he really wants you he will stalk you until your his