ATTN ALL SCORPS

why are we always at war with da rest? it seems like other signs are always criticising us and hating us all the time when we never even step in their territory. dun understand. sometimes, they ask us to be honest and when we brutally are, no one seems to be able to accept it. be it good or bad. i dun think we are that complicated but more of people who cant accept the truth when we hit them...

Well, Mars IS the god of war ... 🙂

scorp 25

scorp 25,

You really take this astrology stuff seriously? You have a few demands for a potential mate...would they have to worship whatever you did? Or, would they be free to worship God?

myztikal:

I agree with you. I sincerely believe that if I never held my tongue or softened up my opinions when asked for them, I would have no friends! I find myself holding back so much with people when they want my opinion on something. The fact that I have Libra rising makes it a lot more easy for me to be "tactful" with others...but, if they could only read my mind...they would probably be shocked. I tend to think and feel in black and white, yet allow everyone around me to express themselves in shades of gray--and therefore that is how I deal with them and answer their questions most of the time, because I am pretty sure they can't handle the black and white.

Heather

"this astrology stuff" is useful in a general way. It's an extremely useful representation of certain belief sets. Human flexibility can easily overcome any limitations of the model, though. The power of the human will is so underestimated. I only invest my time into beliefs and actions that get results, and 9.9 times out of 10 the model presented by astrology is surprisingly accurate and, in effect, multiplies my power in life.

*** You have a few demands for a potential mate...would they have to worship whatever you did? Or, would they be free to worship God? ***

I don't think I'd use the word demands. Demands implies I'm asking for something. I'd say requirements. To me, this implies I'm evaluating to see if something is there or not. I gave up trying to change people a long time ago. I'm geared more towards discovering what someone has inside than shaping them to be that. If the foundation is there, then sure, I'll communicate specifics.

As far as worship goes, I'm not looking for a partner to worship me. I'm defining worship as 'service based on love' here (worth+ship). I'm looking for an equal, not a child I have to continually babysit, however loving that child is. I want someone who'll be competent enough to carry on without me if the need ever arises.

As far as spiritual worship goes, I have no problem with that. The partner better be walking the walk and not just talking the talk, however. I detest nothing more than a religious hypocrite.

Interesting choice of words

they ask us to be honest and when we *brutally* are

cant accept the truth when we *hit* them

I can certainly remember a few teachers who tried this approach to educate their students. Can you?

It is the same reason people hate religion or admonish Jesus Christ! They don't understand it and are scared of it, therefore, they have to try and tear it down! Lack of understanding causes people to react with fear!

I can remember one particular instance when I temporarily lost control of my mouth. I was sixteen, in high school, and this particular teacher I had made a comment about my hair in front of everyone. You see, at this time in my life I was going through a stage where I was feeling the need to be "rebellious" and "non-conformist". So I had cut my long hair short, bleached it platinum blonde, and a friend of mine dyed two streaks of it bright red. LOL. It looked ridiculous, but it was something I "needed" to do at the time.

Anyway, I came to school, sat down in the aforementioned teacher's class, and got out my homework. I'm minding my own business, and all of a sudden in front of the whole class, my teacher says, "What happened to your hair?". I was instantly furious, and I said "What happened to yours?" And of course, everyone oohs and ahhs and starts laughing. (He was balding). Needless to say, the teacher and I barely spoke to each other after that. He never tried to embarrass me in such a way ever agin, either. But, I still felt guilty that I had attacked him afterwards, and I surprised myself because normally I am very passive with authority. This was not the only time that this teacher had embarrased me as well as other students, however, so I felt somewhat justified. I did end up apologizing to him, at which point he says, "I was only joking with you about your hair; most of my students understand that I joke around a lot." In my opinion, you should never joke about someone's appearance--especially in a student/teacher relationship. I dealt with him as I would a peer who said something insulting to me; an eye for an eye. I guess the point I'm trying to make is that our "bluntness" can definitely be a double-edged sword. When justified, it is an asset. But when we use it to lash out at someone, it can be a detriment. I still to this day feel torn about that whole incident; I don't know if I was justified or not.

Heather

P.S. Sorry about the spelling errors!

Heather

"As far as worship goes, I'm not looking for a partner to worship me. I'm defining worship as 'service based on love' here (worth+ship). I'm looking for an equal, not a child I have to continually babysit, however loving that child is."

Does the number (25) represent your age? Just curious how long you've been in the world.

"I want someone who'll be competent enough to carry on without me if the need ever arises."

That would be up to God and no one else! God is the only one in control of anything in this world; this is my understanding. I have seen others think they are, and 100% of the time I have seen them proven wrong. You never know when you leave the house, if you are gonna make it home again. Or when you go to sleep, will you wake-up again? I have seen people come and go(die) with no rhyme or reason. Life is a supernatural, sprititual journey. I dig it and this is what gets me up everyday. All glory goes to him!

I agree. With no guarantees we'll be around next week, who would want to mate with someone incapable of taking care of the family on their own, if at least only for a short time.

"As far as spiritual worship goes, I have no problem with that. The partner better be walking the walk and not just talking the talk, however. I detest nothing more than a religious hypocrite."

And so does the Lord! He is the one who will judge me. He knows my heart and my mind. I also have been around long enough to know there isn't ANYONE(that I have ever know other than biblical JOB) that walks the walk all the time!!! Alot of talk- talk, but anyone can do that. Even the most humble servant stumbles from time to time. Faith is a constant test of endurance until we die; how would we know what faith is otherwise?

"I agree. With no guarantees we'll be around next week, who would want to mate with someone incapable of taking care of the family on their own, if at least only for a short time."

From all your posts 25, you don't sound to me like the type that is going to hook up with someone like that, so why the question?? Are you attracted to the weak? Kind of nice to have someone who is totally dependent(only needs you)? Then again, you would have to make sure you're prepared for it!

We all have the strength to survive in the worst situations; it is inside all of us! We are hooked up that way! One of God's greatest creations, and most confusing, to me!

I hope my stock hasn't been whiped off the board, Scorpio 25!! I am starting to feel like the step child here too. With the exception of one post--is there anything at all you agree with me about? Or am I just wasting my time here?

HERE IS SOME BRAIN CANDY!!!!!EVERYONE, U SEEM TO LIKE IT ALOT

This is a question that I want answered after u'll hear what I have to say.
I'll be blunt and express my opinion.
I am a scorpio.

I think religion is man made. If there is a GOD, we sure have him wrong as someone who controls us and knows everything. Q: WHY ARE WE PUT ON THIS EARTH ? A: TO EXPERIENCE.

U say GOD loves u, and then u say he'll be the one to judje u. Judjing someone is not loving them. If we are anything, we are the children of GOD, all little GODS and part of him, since, let's say he made us...if he did. That's why we have the power to choose in life, he doesn't choose for us. He loves us too much to tell us what to do, so he will let us do as we please. Man made the law, man is enforcing it. NOT GOD.

Yes U don't know if u'll live tommorow. Don't take life for granted.

Faith as was mentioned b4 is to me a matter of choice. It is us humans who made faith, and it is also us who are imprisoning our minds and bodies. U live by what u believe. U make urself blind. But why have me tell u if u can't see.

That's the KEY. IF u knew the power that u have, and that each one of us is afraid to see in ourselves this world would not be the same. Bcuz it is us who say we will not act as GOD...Us...U have the power but believe u are not suppose to use it. Each one of us is a GOD, Who is afraid to use His powers.

U could picture urself right now, rulling the world, but GOD does not do that does he?

THINK about it. For the religious man, who thinks GOD has made him. OK what u are really thinking without wanting to admit is that: GOD has made u, HE has put u on this planet, controls u're life. U R ok with being a puppet.

I DON'T THINK SO!

THINK. Why put us here to control our lives. Are we his toys, which he made, and is now playing with then? Is he having fun at this moment? He sure loves His toys, and can't wait to judje them.

That's not a nice thing to do, is it? But GOD loves us non the less.lol
TO ME that's pure BS.

SO my Question is R U ok with being a puppet, or are u ripe enough to know that U are a GOD, but unexperienced?

Don't think that I don't believe in GOD, but it might not be the one u thought.

I'd hate to be killed by GOD, or KILL if I wanted to bcuz I'm a GOD. But isn't that what GOD does? When someone dies u say GOD took him. So u say GOD killed him, same thing, IRONIC....

It's what we make of God,so reconcider.

I'm sorry if this is too much or too controversial. Just curious.

Never mind about the "I'm sorry" u either like it or u don't. Tough. After all a little controversy as needed.

_*dust

hi is this post becoming a "church" with preachings all over...wanted some opinion not some some preaching. no offence to whoever you are, it was nice reading it but shouldnt u be doing that in sunday school or some religios website intead of here or did i miss the whole point?

Dust,

Why are you tearing down something so beautiful as a spiritual love with God? No, if you read the love letter God wrote you and understood what it said, I don't believe you would have written the post. I think you would be loving him and respecting him like you would a husband that treats you like a queen because that is what he does and so much more. Do you like love? Do you like to have someone care more about you than themselves? Describe the most ideal love relationship and I will tell you, I have it. That is what it is like when you know God. He gave us a free will. We make or own decisions in this life. He doesn't stop us from doing anything, and when we fall on our face he is there right beside us in our suffering and suffers with us. We were created for his enjoyment and the way we do that is by being the best we can be in the one shot we get. I can't go into this in any depth in a post. All I can tell you is when you move closer to the God and the holy spirt is in you, all kinds of supernatural things occur and miracles transpire. It is an experience!!! It gets you higher than the best dope or liquor or sex or you name it, you can ever imagine!! I wish I could describe it, but each one of us may feel something differnt in their relationship with God. When I am in the spirit I feel absolute peace and love!

Myztical,

You have posted here looking for advice along with alot of others, and no one f*** with you and the way you went about collecting you needed information. Sometimes people like to adventure into something a little deeper than the average b******* that occurs on this board everyday!

Thank u, and first of all I don't waste my time going to church. It's all man made, why is it so holy, OH because WE MAKE, DUH. Plus some churches are more about being social, and u can read the Bible at ur house , and pray in ur house infront of ur altar for as much as u like and wait for things to happen. It doesn't work that way. Church is about money too u know, the God thing is put there to take ur mind of of what is really going on. Do some research.

Listen, fact is we have more in common than less. You don't know what it's like to be me, and viceversa. Some people like to believe in themselves. After all God won't work for u or make love to ur lover, or feed ur children. It's u who is doing all that. Why is it so hard to see? Why so little belief in urself?

It just upsets me to hear people believing in something without really understanding what it does to them. They are so brainwashed they can't think for themselves so they have to go to church. All a bunch of I don't want to say.

I love human kind, I would never hurt anyone, I don't drink, do drugs, sleep around.I will never do that. I don't cheat and steal, I'm there for my friends, and I respct those who have their own mind and aren't brainwashed by the church. I'm a good person and I'm not religious.

If u aren't smart enough to realize that religion is common sense, then stick with it. But for those who don't need the Bible to tell them what to do and what not to do, believe in yourself.

Awakening may not be pretty, and it takes an open mind to awaken, it takes courage and inner strenght. But we are all on different levels spiritually, I can't make and don't wish to make anyone change. All I want is for some to just think about it.

I understand why u stand by ur God.U've been brought up that way. To stop "believing" would leave u lonely, scared even. Where to go now? So stay where u are, maybe in the next life...

That's why it takes a strong mind.
I know how to love, and love unconditionally for that matter, and U don't need to believe in God to be a honest person,or a loving person.
Truth is we could all be saints.

My post doesn't really matter to the man of normal animalistic life. By that I mean, work-money-eat-house-sex-kids-live some more-die.I'm talking about the spiritual life,why we are here, how things work, where we go after. Some of this scares people, they just want their meaningless lives the way they are, far from complicated, very simple, basic really, without caring to see beneath the surface. And many live successful lives that way. But my friend, u really don't know, and are willing to believe in anything that makes u feel good. Fake good. U won't know the difference.

Yeah, u probably think I'm crazy but just think and it might make since one day.

I'm just like u trying to learn and experience life.

Thank u, and first of all I don't waste my time going to church. It's all man made, why is it so holy, OH because WE MAKE, DUH. Plus some churches are more about being social, and u can read the Bible at ur house , and pray in ur house infront of ur altar for as much as u like and wait for things to happen. It doesn't work that way. Church is about money too u know, the God thing is put there to take ur mind of of what is really going on. Do some research.

Listen, fact is we have more in common than less. You don't know what it's like to be me, and viceversa. Some people like to believe in themselves. After all God won't work for u or make love to ur lover, or feed ur children. It's u who is doing all that. Why is it so hard to see? Why so little belief in urself?

It just upsets me to hear people believing in something without really understanding what it does to them. They are so brainwashed they can't think for themselves so they have to go to church. All a bunch of I don't want to say.

I love human kind, I would never hurt anyone, I don't drink, do drugs, sleep around.I will never do that. I don't cheat and steal, I'm there for my friends, and I respct those who have their own mind and aren't brainwashed by the church. I'm a good person and I'm not religious.

If u aren't smart enough to realize that religion is common sense, then stick with it. But for those who don't need the Bible to tell them what to do and what not to do, believe in yourself.

Awakening may not be pretty, and it takes an open mind to awaken, it takes courage and inner strenght. But we are all on different levels spiritually, I can't make and don't wish to make anyone change. All I want is for some to just think about it.

I understand why u stand by ur God.U've been brought up that way. To stop "believing" would leave u lonely, scared even. Where to go now? So stay where u are, maybe in the next life...

That's why it takes a strong mind.
I know how to love, and love unconditionally for that matter, and U don't need to believe in God to be a honest person,or a loving person.
Truth is we could all be saints.

My post doesn't really matter to the man of normal animalistic life. By that I mean, work-money-eat-house-sex-kids-live some more-die.I'm talking about the spiritual life,why we are here, how things work, where we go after. Some of this scares people, they just want their meaningless lives the way they are, far from complicated, very simple, basic really, without caring to see beneath the surface. And many live successful lives that way. But my friend, u really don't know, and are willing to believe in anything that makes u feel good. Fake good. U won't know the difference.

Yeah, u probably think I'm crazy but just think and it might make since one day.

I'm just like u trying to learn and experience life.

-star*dust

"I understand why u stand by ur God.U've been brought up that way. To stop "believing" would leave u lonely, scared even. Where to go now? So stay where u are, maybe in the next life..."

How are you any better off— What do you have that is so much better than what I have??

You don't know anything about me or the way I was raised. You have a right to talk trash all you want, but don't you ever assume you know someone from a f*** astrology messageboard. Do you understand that— Who the hell do you think you are? Your a person who comes to a astrology board looking for advise about your patheic life. If you are the God like you think you are and so powerful, why do you seem so weak? I see through your b******* You want to believe you are all powerful know- it-all? Then tell me something I haven't heard a million times before. Your a great person blah, blah, blah who loves to run someone down for believing in something more important than you or me! Your exactly the reason I have nothing to do with people. you have all the answers don't you. Your the center of the universe the reason it all began and is! Hah! You are just a tiny flash in the pan, here only for a minute. I will cast my lot with something I know has the power and not a mere mortale who thinks they do. You have only 60- 70 years to be here on earth. Why don't you ask yourself some deeper questions, like why you even exist?

"Listen, fact is we have more in common than less. You don't know what it's like to be me, and viceversa. Some people like to believe in themselves. After all God won't work for u or make love to ur lover, or feed ur children. It's u who is doing all that. Why is it so hard to see? Why so little belief in urself?"

Oh really? you also know who provides for me. How do you know all this? I have it easy...really good. I don't have any kids and I don't have to make love to anyone I don't want to. And I have all my financial needs met. I went through college on my own too. Who does that all for me? Well it wasn't just me!!! We are alot different. I give my life to a higher power and you don't. You think you are the God and I am just a soul who believes I don't have all the answers. All I know is what I have experienced in my life. I wish you the best and what ever path you take in life I hope you find your way. I don't think it is right that you want to trash churches or religion or people for following their own way!!!

All righty then......I hope you are all done now with the theocratic oratories which to me represent the need to have our individual religious positions validated so that we can go on feeling good about whatever slant weve taken on this whole chaotic random mess which in the final analysis is composed of positive and negative energies exchanging their force with one another. Think about it everyhing is either plus or minus ying or yang yes or no zero or one .... sperm or egg . Energy is simply a flow between opposite poles.
Energy is life energy can neither be created or destroyed it only changes form....................
Everything else is BULLSHIT that man has burdened himself with in order to get a grasp on his existence which in terms of pure energy flow isnt really all that major an accomplishment. . Think about it

"Think about it everyhing is either plus or minus ying or yang yes or no zero or one .... sperm or egg . Energy is simply a flow between opposite poles."

What the hell are you talking about— Especially the part about the sperm or egg!

I read your post and almost pissed in my pants I was laughing so hard!!!

PS Where are you getting your drugs? I want some!!!

Well, see ... the egg travels from the man's uterus where it intersects the woman's pancreas and then there's this energy flow. Well, something like that. Never mind.

I do know that the hip bone is connected to the leg bone, though. 8)

"Think about it everyhing is either plus or minus ying or yang yes or no zero or one .... sperm or egg . Energy is simply a flow between opposite poles."

The only thing I am thinking about is how many other people are out there like you??

You need to break this down (your very clever thoughts to me!) You lost me after the first sentence!

I am not burdened by my belife system. I,in fact, have a great life! About the only thing missing is the right mate. I do find plenty of things to amuse myself with in the mean time.

"I do know that the hip bone is connected to the leg bone, though. 8)"

Hi ya Scorpio 25, how is my friend and what are you doin ramblin around at this hour?

What is the number 8 represent?

Our shawdows wake each day though they
don't know why, live and die.
So leave them in their frozen world
come and be my lover
If only for one stolen moment, we will live forever!
Warm and lovely mystery can you hear the choir
the voices can no longer hold my desire
Just abanondon our sad histories
meet me in the fire
Angels await to take us higher and higher..

Talk to me, please!!! Don't leave me out here in the cold all alone and hungry! (I'm making my pouty lips and all face.)I need your help! Where are you? Educate me, I want to learn.

Can't wait any longer...long days and short nights! See ya when I see ya!

Good Night

I'm feelin lonely and missing my lover. I want to be with you more everyday.
I am thinkin of you; if you are out there, this song is for you!
I hope you will come and find me soon; I'll make you happier than you could ever imagine; I'll take good care of your heart; I need you and want you. Where are you??


Struck by the moon
rising too soon
I feel a pain deep inside me
Cold nothern winds
a fist in my chin
makin me wild for you baby
What can I do to get back to you
I'm feelin desperate and lonely
This city is a river of cold misery
making me wild for you baby
I'm down on me knees hear me cry for you baby
Cold misery I would die for you baby
I pray you will see these tears I cry...
Nights I can't sleep
my tears are cheap
I'm losin hold of my senses
I can't contain all of this pain and it's makin me wild for you baby
I'm down on my knees
hear me cry for you baby
Cold misery
I would die for you
I pray you will see these tears I cry
Goin wild for you baby.

Bonnie Raitt

For the original message:
It's called "bluntness", and tact is what you need to learn. Being honest and upfront is a good thing but HOW you answer is just as important!

Hey 205.188.192.28 I think foolatti is refering to the life and life energy as interpreted by chemistry and physics in which case he/she is absolutely correct. What is energy—?Why does a salt water solution conduct electricity??
Unless and until you can answer these question you shouldnt discount a purely empirical approach to the whole
life as a matter of energy exchange theory. Laugh if you will but if you
take the time to understand this concept
you'll eventually find yourself laughing at your own ignorance.

"Unless and until you can answer these question you shouldnt discount a purely empirical approach to the whole
life as a matter of energy exchange theory"

I can't do that and neither can you or anybody, for that matter!!

Creation is too mysterious to explain.

That may be (Foolati's) own theory, but since when has that given anyone the right to call anothers experiences wrong??

I am really sick of these atheists who know- it- all! They come on here and other boards and act sooo smug and refer to people who believe in God as weak or stupid because I believe in something that they don't! If I find peace and happiness in believing in creation and the creator, why do you or anyone else want to run me down for it??

I was laughing only at his choices in analogy! If you read the whole post, I was asking him to break it all down, so I could try and understand it. I am not above listening to someone else's theories on things.

Maybe we should let Foolatti himself respond to the question, he was the original commentator, and it is for him to respond to his remarks.

Thank you for the FYI though, I will continue to think about it!

Who said u have to believe in something?
Because we don't believe in a power greater than ourselves doesn't mean we are wrong or weak or stupid.
It's u that thinks that if u don't believe in God ur're weak.
Buddy we speak 2 different languages.
I am sorry for justifying everything I said. But u either feel me or u don't. If u don't That's ok, AM I MAKING U?
U can go believing in your unsolvable mysteries, in ur blind follower view of life, u can trash me on the board like a scared weak whatever, in the end it won't matter, and I won't care. But we are all victims in this world. I am too. We don't have a life, more families are being broken, more desperate people with out money to carry a life. It's hard to see the big picture but life isn't getting prettier or easier. U can find ur peace where u feel, But I still don't understand why u have to be so bitter.
U put us "Atheists" down as if u are better of enjoing the recent miracles that happened in ur life, and it was God who did it all.
Christians,catholics,and God forbid the mormons won't find their salvation in God when a war might strike.
See I even bother to capitalize my GOD.lol
Thos ethat will do it themselves will be saved but why depend on God.
I just want to know why u believe in God in terms of what it does for u and not what the Bible is saying it should do for u.
Am I really missing something. I feel better now that I believe in the God I mentioned before and not the one that every one thinks.
If I offended anyone, please forgive me, for my way of bluntness still has a long way to go to reach tactfullness.
I know I'm not a know it all, u don't know what ur saying. but go ahead and judje, I never trashed anyone PERIOD. HELLO? WHO IS A KNOW IT ALL? IF U MEET HIM TELL HIM TO GIVE ME A CALL SO I CAN HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS,OR U MIGHT WANT TO KEEP THEM ALL TO URSELF, MIGHT TAKE MORE THAN A LIFETIME.ISN'T IT ALL LOGICAL?
PLEASE RELAX WILL U?

*DUST

Deareast Dust (or Amazon woman?),

I have written this twice and lost my connection, so I gonna make it short because I am out of patience!!

Words can come so slow, and there comes a point when I'm not sure why I am still talking to you; I've past that point sometime ago!!

I am going to cut you some slack because of your age. But, I have to tell you, you have no idea how your words are coming off to me!! There is one thing I cannot stand and that is disrespect. I have been guilty of the same thing. You caught me a bad moment last time; I will try a little harder with you.

I find it admiriable that you can admit that your life is not everything it should be and that life sucks sometimes. There is a reason people don't talk about their feelings without dressing them in dreams and laughter, it's just too painful otherwise!!

Why do I believe in the Lord? Maybe because I am older and it's getting closer to 'closing time', so to speak. I needed some help with my life and I found it with the Lord!

I am not a church going bible thumper as you think. As a matter of fact, the closest I ever got to going to church was when I was a kid we use to drive by on Easter and toot the car horn. But, I have changed since then and I find great peace and fulfillment as a believer.

It is easy to tell someone who is going through a storm to just tough it out. All I can tell you is that the bible says that suffering produces endurance and endurance, strenght and strenght produces hope. Isn't that what we all need everyday??

Dust, we all have hardships and I have had mine and still do! Nobody gets out of life without learning this. Learn from them and you will be one stong and wise woman.

If you ever need a friend or someone to talk to, I am here.

With Love,
Susan

Please excuse the errors in grammar and punctuation! I was trying to type as fast as I could because I didn't want to lose this message again!!!

Susan
PS: I will take your advise to calm down. Something I have always had a problem with. Thank you! : )

No SUSAN, Thank YOU! U don't have to thank me for anything. U are right about the daily hardships and I only hope to have it easy. Got to get that ood education.

The toughest hardship I had to go through was when my parents divorced, I loved my father so much and I was torn from seeing him. Now I haven't seen him for 4 years.I cried when he left me after he spent some time with me, and the next days I'd do the same. I could not have had a better dad. And even if he's not here materially he's with me spiritually. And he went through so many hardships but still has hope, and he says it's God. So I can understand, plus when things are going bad I also have a minute with Him. Still...

We are on good terms now, I believe and well it took a while for us to find some common ground. Thank u for ur kind message, it won't be forgotten.

I again apolagize if I made it look like I was attacking those who find hope for tomorrow in The All Mighty.

I used to go to church when I was little, I didn't feel comfortable, and in a way the confessing of things like lying and other stuff made me feel half of what I was. I only felt guilty and realized that I will lie in the future and it might be wrong but who cares. I have lied many times. But only when necessary and definately to make a worst situation better. Good for u that u don't have to go.

Sometimes I wonder How shocked I might be to hear what people really think instead of what they choose to say. It's like two different worlds.

Do u think it's true when u say that people wear a mask everyday and are really different people all together. I find that true, personally I do that sometimes but I know for a fact that many do the same thing.Why?

I think I need your help (if u can) maybe u can teach me to say things in a more tactful way. I definetly make enemies from using the kind of words u saw before. Tell me how u felt about something I wrote. and then how I might have saved You the negative feelings.well let's cut it short, I know it's long (lol)but hope u can elp me.

I'm here for you too Susan 🙂
*Dust

Oh and Myztical if I said all that in church or sunday school which u bet I don't attend, they would feel greatly offended to even think they are wasting their "short lives" in there. No offense.

*dust

Hi Susan it *dust again,

Uould u be Ok with me answering some of ur Questions on your previous posts adressed to me. I think I can do it. And I'm not mad at you, I understand why u said what u said. U felt offended and wanted to offend back, I would have done the same.
Or would u ather not bring up the past? It's up to you.

Me 🙂

Oh Dust!,

WOW! What a wonderful post from you!!! Thank you so much. You have been through a lot in your short life and you already have a good head start on being a 'wise old woman'!! 🙂

As far as the last post, I think we can just move forward from here. Like you said-- why revisit the past! I feel I know you alot better having read all your posts a second time. I think I have figured out the way in which you express yourself. You probably speak just like you write, and that is terrific!

Your a very smart lady with a good head on your shoulder, but I can honestly say--that I have never met a Scorpio who wasn't intelligent!!!

Dust, you don't need to change anything about they way in which you relate to people. It is just a process of me getting to know someones style and mannerisms. I think I know you better and feel your intentions were good! You have taught me something. From now on, before I reply to a post, I will read it once and let it get cold. Then I well re-read it and make my comments. If I wait awhile before commenting, sometimes the message reads differently.

I meant what I said about a shoulder to lean on. I will give you my e-mail address and we can talk in private too, if you would like.

Love,

Susan

brackis1@hotmail.com