TO ALL SCORPIOS...

WHAT DO YOU EXPECT IN A MARIAGE?
Explain how woud you like your husband to treat you? What makes you happy in a relationship and how do you stay there?

Well 12.31 personally I dont want a husband period . Im not that kind of guy. Since u titled this post to ALL Scorpios I assume ur talking to the males too .Ya know you sure seem to be magnetized towards scorpio especially for someone who feels obligated to point out those things which some might percieve as negative character traits. Sounds to me like youre either deep under the spell of a scorpio and want to know all you can about him/her or you just like to stir up controversy.

Having said that , I will answer your question form a unisex point of view. We dont expect non Scorps to exhibit the same depth of emotion that we do. Truth is that it is sometimes unnerving to us too. What we do expect is honesty and fidelity. Thats what youll get from us in a comitted relationship so why shouldnt we or anyone else for that matter expect the same. A prime example of what Im talking about may be found under the post "Im waiting Scorpio 25" . You question our tendency towards jealousy your answer will be found there.

Merely...I meant females not males, my bad. I ask this question because I wish my previous relationship would have worked, but it's sad that the love was there, but destroyed. It's hard to figure y'all scorps out. I mainly will steer clear from y'all to much chaos.

Just wondering what does it take to make you happy in a relationship and marriage.

To all FEMALES sorry Foolatti you stand corrected.

No actually you do but it really doesnt matter

In my (future) husband (and in a perfect world, which isn't what we live in, but this is a fun thread so here I go) I desire a VERY strong man, someone who has lived through things; someone who is not weak but not all macho bravado either. Someone I can learn from intellectually and spiritually, and who can and wants to learn from me through our differences. I want to be with a man who is chivalrous, never disrespects me or is condescending, and someone who at the very least sees me as his equal and therefore worthy of his respect (not to mention admiration).

He needs to be able to think differently than most other men and not be afraid to do so. He needs to have strong (but not close-minded) opinions, and he needs to stand up for what he believes in rather than following the crowd like a sheep. He needs to know when to be aggressive and when to be reticent.

He needs passion, and he needs to be able to think about life and death in abstract ways; be able to have "deep" discussions with me.

Heather

MARRY ME FOOLATTI!!! You're my type of hombre! Oh Yeah!

Is it true that if you attend a male Scorpion's wedding that all anyone can think about is sex because those vibes seep through their tuxes?

Well that's what I want too Heather and I am a Capricorn. It is what every woman wants surely.

What people think they want and what actually triggers them are often very different things.

209: LOL, wow, I've never heard that before, and I've never attended a male scorp's wedding, but seeing how "those vibes" seem to exude from scorps all the time I can see how that would probably be accurate! ; )

And you're very right my Capricorn friend, I suppose my desires aren't that far from the norm.

Heather

heather...the kind of man u want sounds very similar to da kind of man i want..coolness..

Myztikal, I've noticed you and I have lots in common! That rocks!...btw...how are things coming along with the Taurus, if you don't mind me asking?

Love,
Heather