this is intresting...

I have noticed him(scorpio) stare at me in class, and after that I became more interested. I thought he found something mysterious to look at, being I'm a scorpio too.It's Unspoken attraction, maybe? So the staring kept on going, I stared back, and I said u know what I will go for it. In a note I wrote simply that I'd like to talk to him and be friends. I invited him to a social night out and wrote my # for him to call me. He never did, so after the event I asked him face to face if he got my message. Being I had someone I trusted give it to him because I could not find him at the time. He said yes, kinda nervously made what it seemed an excuse and said sorry. I said no problem. No, this couln't justify his eye contact in a safe environment.Did not seem interested at least. I thought he wanted to know me so I gave him a chance. Then I was walking down the street and his car was at the stop light, he got my attention and at first I couln't see who it was ,but then I said Hi and smiled, he smiled too, I kept on walking and turned around to look again he was still smiling. What is he trying to tell me? what should I get,I'm not sure so I need ur help.
Thanx 🙂 Willing2know or listen

You have alreay made the first. You appoached him and gave him your number and told him you would like to get to know him, as friends. The ball has been served to him and if he wants to stay in the game, he'll keep the volley going. If he doesn't return the ball, then there is no game!

One more thing...alot of these guys, and especially Scorpios, flirt to boost there own insecure egos. They lead women on...not because they are interested in getting to know them but only to see if they can get a reaction out of them. It makes them feel good about themselves. Next time you run into him, maybe you can turn the tables. Like for example, if he is short, you can ask him--when is he gonna get taller? See where I am going?? Although, that would be kind of mean, oops! hahahahahahaha : )

Thanks 205, I'm afraid you are right about that leading on thing. I don't know why, but he doesn't seem like a person who would do that, simply because of what I personally know about him. Plus scorpios would not like to get the same kind of treatment in return simply for the reason that it hurts. Maybe that's just me hoping for he better, Yeah it'd be fun playing his game but I think our friendship will not go in the desired direction, if base on games. But like in any exciting game maybe I should throw an insult like "u're too scared to play because u'll loose" and then he'll challenge me and then we'll see. What do u think 205?
(Not to exclude other posters)
There must be a way to his soul...I just can't find it.

I don't know? I would think if someone was available and interested in the other person, that would be enough. I think him turning down your request for a friendship was rather cold, and he sounds like and asshole. I don't know the guy, but you sound like a nice friendly person and would have no problems hooking up with someone. I think he poses a challenge for you, and that may be the attraction? Is that correct? Once the elusive cat and mouse game is over, would he still be desirable to you? Is it playing the game that has you fascinated or is it the man? Those are questions you have to answer. I hate second guessing other people. I use to think my perception about others was right on the money, but I don't know about anything anymore. Especially people. They are too complicated.

Thank u 152. Well I don't know his motifs for turning my requet down, yes it was cold, plus I don't even know if his "I'm sorry" was an honest comment. He made it look real. I wish I knew.
Thank u for the compliment.
The challenge might be a reason, but also finding someone like me, whom I can connect with on a deeper level, someone whom I can trust, and have an adventure with, no games, truthful and balanced yet exciting relationship.If not a relationship then a friendship.
"I hate second guessing other people." Yah me too, U are kind to put it that way. But the vibes I get from him are not bad ones. I think what fascinated me is our likeness to one another. The way we look at life and act on the outside, yet on the inside it's quite different.The way we take people on and how we are both vulnerable but really keep it hidden for the fear of getting hurt.
This is no cat and mouse chase, I belive. It's real.
I'm thinking that if we'd start talking we might be surprise to find out what a great team we would make.
Those are my feelings and how I see things.
I just can't seem to get us to that point. Have any ideas, briliant more or less?

Keep being persistant; he should at least find your determination charming. Move slowly and get him to trust you first. Smile and be sweet!

and....get his phone number and call him.

Thank u 64 !That's sweet. U do have a point, but what, am I just going to go u to him and ask for his phone# ? The guy barely knows me. He has mine, should that make any difference? I don't know, It's not like he sked for it....

207,
Relationships are about love byt they're also about power 207 and the worst thing you can do is enter a relationship without your personal power intact. Forget the sweet smile, look him directly in the eye... that way you mean business. You are establishing that you are not afraid of him, that you think he worthy of a 'look' and that you will stand your ground if need be. Aside from all of that, it is just damn sexy!!!
I say issue him a challenge, let him know you are interested, draw him in. He shouldnt be able to resist you sweet scorpio stare for too long now should he?

ML.

Just to add to my post above. 207, never be subservient, always be a powerful woman.
Luck,
ML.

Thank u 210, u kindled that fire that was fading. I live to be a strong woman, but showing it it's sometimes dangerous. Most take me for being hard to get along with, my confidence scares them and makes them defensive, they begin to envy and to start pushing my buttons to see which one will get me down, where I hate to be. They're so insecure.
I will take ur advice, around bunnies I'll wear my mask and around my deadly scorpio I'll be myself. Only I still have to find who I am. Thing is I think I'm more strong around the weak, to show my power, and sweet, but ready to take that mask off to those like me, strong inside. It sometimes confuses me, but I can't have a weak mate, it will never work, I'll get bored and will only be nice to show and get respect.

207, I wouldn't take ML or 210's advise very seriously. She is a woman(?) that likes other women, not men!! She'll be telling you next to deck him and then jump on his girlfriend!! hahahaha-- just tell her to go choke on a hair!

hey forget all that. if he wants it he'll come and get it. if not you maybe better off. you don't have to pursue every stare or think that a wink means more than an eyelash in the eye. let it roll keep moving let the world and the gamers pass by like scenery.

hey forget all that. if he wants it he'll come and get it. if not you maybe better off. you don't have to pursue every stare or think that a wink means more than an eyelash in the eye. let it roll keep moving let the world and the gamers pass by like scenery.

I dont think my sexuality has anything to do with good advice or being a strong woman!!! No, Im not in the habit of 'ripping' peoples girlfriends or boyfriends off their partners, I have a little more decorum than that.

207, i stand by what i said, always be a strong woman and yes, you're right, people are intimidated by it and it is best to wear a mask around the weak because their immature egos are dangerous.