Calling all Scorpios enlighten me!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Hanabi on Saturday, June 23, 2012 and has 3 replies.

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@Hanabi
15 Years

I am a Taurus lady who has fallen head over heels for a Scorpio man. The problem is I just cant understand his behaviour,so if you fellow Scorpio's could help me I would be grateful forever.

I met him when I started my new job and at first I thought I was crazy. I had never felt such strong instant attraction with another person. I thought it was just me but I noticed that he was staring at me. When I mean stare, I really mean STARE, an intense gaze that feels like he's reading my soul.

The Scorpio is a bit of flirt with other women. But not with me, he becomes very serious and literally watches me. Everything little thing I do and how I react when he asks me questions. He is really sweet around me and always apologises saying sorry I didnt mean to make you feel uncomfortable. He would always notice me if I walked into a room or came into a certain area (we work in a really big place.) But sometimes he doesnt talk to me, just a hi and he's gone. Other times he checks up on me. He blows hot and cold.

So I wondered if he doesnt flirt with me like the other girls if he does actually like me? I don't think I am making up the fact he watches me but sometimes I wonder if I am just making it up all in my head.

So any insight behind the thoughts of this Scorpio?

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@R1g0rM0rT1s
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by IntriguedScorp
A little caution: Scorps can look they are reading your soul when they are really just pondering a question in their head. I catch myself staring at people all the time even though I wasn't really *seeing* them. So don't read too much into that famous Scorpio stare. Also we watch people to figure them out--as you are new he may be doing this. Disconcerting, I know. Since we are such sexy creatures. 😛

Having said that, Taurus/Scorp make have direct energy with each other being opposites and all.

haha!!! yeah i do that too. i'm usually thinking about what i'm gonna make for dinner but inadvertently give someone the eye instead. nightmare. got me in real trouble with a sag once...a psychotic one...he thought our initial eye contact to be deeply significant whereas i can't even remember it cos i was probably debating whether i fancied a cup of tea or not, lol.

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@Hanabi
15 Years

So. I found through someone else that he does like me. Great! Now for the problem! He barely speaks to me and gets really flustered. Since I'm not the most chattiest of people myself I'm a bit stuck. What do you guys think I should do?

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@Hanabi
15 Years

Posted by IntriguedScorp
But be aware, if he doesn't talk much it could mean he is overanalyzing every word he's about to say and therefore says nothing.

Thats my worse nightmare right there. Mostly there are one word answers after a couple of seconds and it becomes incredibly awkward!