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Calling all Venus in Scorpio's
Posted by chicaI'm only interested in the one person I am interested in, if at all. It has led me to heartbreak a couple of times so I'm learning to be wary. I am secretly rather possessive and jealous. Still trying to figure out what kind of guy (in personality and love style ) I should be going for.
We all know that venus in scorpio are supposed to be intense. Some signs seem to cope better with it than others.
Im a Cap Sun with Sag moon, sometimes I struggle with intensity of my feelings even though I try to rationalise them. From what I have noticed Scorpio's don't seem that fazed whereas Libra's seem to struggle the most letting the placement take over.
Apparently there are only 5 signs that can have this placement:
Capricorn
Libra
Virgo
Scorpio
Saggitarius
So my question is too all of you fellow Venus in Scorpio's; how do you deal with this placement? How does this placement affect how you act in a relationship?
Scorp sun and Venus here. Depending on my partner I can be intense, passionate, dramatic, all or nothing, cold, ice queen etc.
With my current partner things are just very easy. No drama. I used to equate passion with drama but I just got too tired and drained from it all. I think we do best with a partner who's intentions and motives are clear. No wishy washy behaviour. You either like me or you don't. You eother want to be with me or you don't. Very black and white. If you don't have to keep questioning things then you can build trust easily and it will be very stabilising for us. If I start feeling uneasy about something or if I've caught you in a lie then God help you. That trust will crumble and the paranoia will kick in. You don't want that. There's no fun in that.
With my current partner things are just very easy. No drama. I used to equate passion with drama but I just got too tired and drained from it all. I think we do best with a partner who's intentions and motives are clear. No wishy washy behaviour. You either like me or you don't. You eother want to be with me or you don't. Very black and white. If you don't have to keep questioning things then you can build trust easily and it will be very stabilising for us. If I start feeling uneasy about something or if I've caught you in a lie then God help you. That trust will crumble and the paranoia will kick in. You don't want that. There's no fun in that.
Virgo Sun/Sag Moon/Venus in Leo/Mercury in Virgo
Don't know what the hell is going on. Scorp that I was "dating" loose term... got all sorts of 'crazy' tonight. It's over as far as I'm concerned.
Don't know what the hell is going on. Scorp that I was "dating" loose term... got all sorts of 'crazy' tonight. It's over as far as I'm concerned.
Posted by brandypYes, Venus doesn't travel far from the sun. It's either the same as the person's sun sign, or in one of the two signs immediately preceding or following their sun sign. 5 options only.
i didnt realize that you have to have one of those 5 signs for Scorp Venus, is that true of all Venusus, only in a few signs??
Mercury is closer to the sun, so a person's Mercury will either be the same as their sun sign, or the sign before or after their sun sign. 3 options only.
I actually notice that Sag suns tend to handle the placement worse than anyone else. Though Libras seem to have almost as difficult a time with it. The other 3 signs do much better with it.
I'm a libra sun myself, & i have a hard time with it. I tend to be very VERY protective of my privacy, and I end up looking suspicious lol. Things like jealousy though, I don't relate to so much. I wouldn't stick around with anyone who gave me a reason to feel that way.
I'm a libra sun myself, & i have a hard time with it. I tend to be very VERY protective of my privacy, and I end up looking suspicious lol. Things like jealousy though, I don't relate to so much. I wouldn't stick around with anyone who gave me a reason to feel that way.
I am a Sag Sun with Scorpio Venus...I am pretty abusive to my other half but I try not to...currently working on it but honestly, I feel like the constant need for intense feelings and the "all or nothing" attitude is based on insecurity...so I try my best to make myself secure first by working out and keeping myself looking, feeling good and everything kind of falls into place. I'm gaining my confidence so I don't need the overly intense emotions from my baby, I feel satisfied with myself 🙂 if that makes sense
Posted by brandypYou're welcome! I find it interesting too. 🙂Posted by CopperDoveI knew merc can only be 1 of 3 signs but I didn't know about Venus. Vry interesting, thanks for explaining 🙂Posted by brandypYes, Venus doesn't travel far from the sun. It's either the same as the person's sun sign, or in one of the two signs immediately preceding or following their sun sign. 5 options only.
i didnt realize that you have to have one of those 5 signs for Scorp Venus, is that true of all Venusus, only in a few signs??
Mercury is closer to the sun, so a person's Mercury will either be the same as their sun sign, or the sign before or after their sun sign. 3 options only.
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I'm a sag with Venus in Scorp. And libra moon. I think if I'm guessing how someone feels about me then it's not a relationship, and I can't deal with it. I need to know how you feel or I will assume the worst. I try to control my intense feelings but it takes over once I start to fall for someone, if they feel the same its magic. If they're not quite on the same level yet I scare them away with my intense nature. I notice my fire burns out quickly if I don't try to pace myself. Anyways there's no way to control it, it controls me. I've only ever had two partners that matched my intense love, a Scorpio and a Capricorn.
I let mine call the shots once, years ago. Bad idea. These days I keep my inner Pepé Le Pew on a tight leash.
I am Scorp with Venus and Mercury in Scorp. Moon in Pisces. It's a lot to deal with lol.
I'd say when I was younger it made me a bit of a pain in the ass. Almost tragic. If I wasn;t hurting for love it wasn;t love and all that blah.
As an older person, it makes me very all-or-nothing. I seek mind, body soul connections and nothing less. I like men who are crazy about me. I love with every part of me. I am very passionate with it.
My Venus in Scorpio is something I see as a gift now. I think it draws people to me and I think I experience love in a very meaningful way.
I'd say when I was younger it made me a bit of a pain in the ass. Almost tragic. If I wasn;t hurting for love it wasn;t love and all that blah.
As an older person, it makes me very all-or-nothing. I seek mind, body soul connections and nothing less. I like men who are crazy about me. I love with every part of me. I am very passionate with it.
My Venus in Scorpio is something I see as a gift now. I think it draws people to me and I think I experience love in a very meaningful way.
All or nothing. But it seems other people don't understand that. I am cautious to open myself to new people and even start a relationship too fast because then it's hard to stop.
Wishing someone would come along who could finally understand. Who could balance out my intensity and it be just what they need. I'm waiting.
Wishing someone would come along who could finally understand. Who could balance out my intensity and it be just what they need. I'm waiting.
I don't want to be hurt anymore. Last guy came around and rushed me into a relationship i wasn't quite ready to start only to back away once I started to get involved.
Trying to be more open and trusting as a person but it's something I'm trying to work on. At least when someone knows I love them they can't relax knowing that Ill ride it out with them for the long haul. That part makes me love my venus. I know how beautiful it is. The thing is just finding the right person who deserves it.
Trying to be more open and trusting as a person but it's something I'm trying to work on. At least when someone knows I love them they can't relax knowing that Ill ride it out with them for the long haul. That part makes me love my venus. I know how beautiful it is. The thing is just finding the right person who deserves it.
I'd like a Venus in Scorpio... They sound sexy as hell.
Posted by AgentP911#meinanutshell
Scorp sun and Venus here. Depending on my partner I can be intense, passionate, dramatic, all or nothing, cold, ice queen etc.
With my current partner things are just very easy. No drama. I used to equate passion with drama but I just got too tired and drained from it all. I think we do best with a partner who's intentions and motives are clear. No wishy washy behaviour. You either like me or you don't. You eother want to be with me or you don't. Very black and white. If you don't have to keep questioning things then you can build trust easily and it will be very stabilising for us. If I start feeling uneasy about something or if I've caught you in a lie then God help you. That trust will crumble and the paranoia will kick in. You don't want that. There's no fun in that.
Posted by Chelsey07Posted by AgentP911#meinanutshell
Scorp sun and Venus here. Depending on my partner I can be intense, passionate, dramatic, all or nothing, cold, ice queen etc.
With my current partner things are just very easy. No drama. I used to equate passion with drama but I just got too tired and drained from it all. I think we do best with a partner who's intentions and motives are clear. No wishy washy behaviour. You either like me or you don't. You eother want to be with me or you don't. Very black and white. If you don't have to keep questioning things then you can build trust easily and it will be very stabilising for us. If I start feeling uneasy about something or if I've caught you in a lie then God help you. That trust will crumble and the paranoia will kick in. You don't want that. There's no fun in that.
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I note you have some more water in your chart too with moon and rising. I'm Pisces moon and I think water signs do need stability. Lots of it.
Posted by AgentP911Yeah. I am the moat watery Sagittarius ever.Posted by Chelsey07Posted by AgentP911#meinanutshell
Scorp sun and Venus here. Depending on my partner I can be intense, passionate, dramatic, all or nothing, cold, ice queen etc.
With my current partner things are just very easy. No drama. I used to equate passion with drama but I just got too tired and drained from it all. I think we do best with a partner who's intentions and motives are clear. No wishy washy behaviour. You either like me or you don't. You eother want to be with me or you don't. Very black and white. If you don't have to keep questioning things then you can build trust easily and it will be very stabilising for us. If I start feeling uneasy about something or if I've caught you in a lie then God help you. That trust will crumble and the paranoia will kick in. You don't want that. There's no fun in that.
I note you have some more water in your chart too with moon and rising. I'm Pisces moon and I think water signs do need stability. Lots of it.
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My cap hubby has a scorp venus and he is super protective and although he says he not the jealous type HA his eyes are always on me and if a guys even stares at me too long he'll give him that death look haha I love it.
All that deep and super serious stuff his scorp venus provides is like honey on my cap venus. Those two signs crave intensity and seriousness/stability even if it gets a little obsessed - we love that shit
All that deep and super serious stuff his scorp venus provides is like honey on my cap venus. Those two signs crave intensity and seriousness/stability even if it gets a little obsessed - we love that shit
I am a pool of emotions but you would never know. If I finally show u my interest and I feel as though it isn't reciprocated well enough, it will put me on the defense for a long time. Now I must watch u to see your true intentions(thanks to my mercury in scorpio). After I feel safe again I will try again. And if all is well I will love you more than u could ever imagine, fiercely loyal and will always have your bk no matter what, just dont cross me.
Oh and also secretly jealous, but ill never show it, I'll just be sarcastic as hell till u get the picture...lol
Libra-sun
Taurus- Moon
Scorpio -Venus
Scorpio- Mercury
Aquarius- Mars
Oh and also secretly jealous, but ill never show it, I'll just be sarcastic as hell till u get the picture...lol
Libra-sun
Taurus- Moon
Scorpio -Venus
Scorpio- Mercury
Aquarius- Mars
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