CAn i pls get you advice =D

Okay, First off this girl i've known since she was a Soph. in Hs and i was a SR. and also great freinds with her older brother & also with her Family. When i left school we began to talk on a move than a friend basis but i kind of felt weird because i was really good friends with her brother and the fact that i didnt want to take her Virginity, which i was very honest with her & so she decided to date someone else which was cool with me. This was about 2006 when this took place; Now back in April of this year she contacted me on Myspace with this comment, "heyyyyyyy...how have you been?!?! How come I haven't seeen you STRANGER?!?!?" & this LoL " Lol well why didn't you!!!!!!(Call Her) Everyone's doing pretty good, I have so much to tell you!!! U really need to call me * D...&& u have to tell me everything!!!(Scorpio's like to know EVERYthing which is sometime i have picked up LoL) Do u still have the same cell #. " So, when i called her she let me know that she lost her virginity & how it hurt(I think she trust me a lot to tell me that LoL) & that she wasnt talking to anyone. She also mention that she was going to europe for 6 wk's and when she gets back she will be moving into her apt. & that if there was a situation were she would invite me over it would just be between me & her(At first when she said it i didn't understand but after doing some research on Scorpio's this is normal). I ask her what if we would get into a fight with each other & she replied, "We will just laugh it off" which makes sense because we always have fun and i'm a libra by the way. I just feel like every since when Est. that we were talking to each other i've been the one really putting the effort into trying to make us closer & i also have to mention that we having hung out or seen each other in like over a year maybe 2. She told me that we have a emotional connection but she just doesn't know about the physical part yet, That's why i sent she wanted to invite me to her Apt LoL. I know once we hang out i will be able to get a feel about everything & her Mom really like me and told her she should try to date me. She just came back from europe last wk & we have talked somewhat but she said she's been busy which i understand and haven't ask her to go out yet. I just feel like she doesn't like me because i get the HoT then COLD treatment..ANy HELp would be great THANks ;D