Cap or Taurus?

Hi Everyone,

I need some advice. I've been making huge life changes. I've been seperated and almost divorced from a wonderful Aquarian, a great friend, with a beautiful heart, but not someone I could have stayed married to for the rest of my life.

I have moved, making changes in my carreer, and have startedto take classes in things that interest me.

Now I am startng to think about my future love life. The way I see it now is that I have a choice between a Capricorn who I have known most of my life...he is great, he has a great carreer,he is also a musician, he loves to travel..he is so smart, he has all the qualities of the perfect guy. He is also really sensitive...I mean REALLY sensitive, he has been in a very long very bad relationship and carries lots and lots of bagage. He wants to be with me and I wanted to be with him..but he has to clean up some of the bagage..he has been very slow so slow I have had to emotionally walk away from him for a while. He claims he is taking care of everything and how he knows I'm the one that he wants to spendthe rest of his life with.

Mr Taurus is HOT HOT HOT! Not as educated, not as sophisticated, and almost 4 years my junior. He is in a great line of work and is very popular and known for his work. I know him for about 2 years now. He is sweet and good . No bagage, He is vry friendly,and smart about what he knows. Although very popular..people don't take him all that seriously, he's the people person that makes everyone feel special. I being the true Scorp that I am ,have spent far too much time, watching listening and analysing him. He seems to open up to me. We have flirted a bit. I've actually kind of said to him that we would be a good couple...but he also knows about Cap. Who realy isn't doing right by me. I know Taurus would be willing to ...date if he knew Cap was out of the way. and If he could make the first move. Last year he broke upwith his girlfriend. He used to talk about his relationship to me (when I was married) He is so so so romantic, and respectful.
He is also in a business that Is linked with what I do, I think if we were a couple we could work together in a creative, helping people,kind of way (I know that probably didn't make sense)
Should I let Cap go, and see what life is like with Taurus?
It's difficut to explain both situations and to give bios on both. I'm really asking ...simply...astrologically...who suits me better?

I vote for the capricorn. No bias just because I happen to be one.

Thanks James, for your non biased advice!

-Blue Eye

I have Blue~eyes 🙂 Mind if I share some of my in"sights" with you?

First I'd like to say, James....YOU are soooooo darn powerful! 🙂

Blue Eyed Scorp~ I would most definatly have to say that you must follow YOUR heart. Feel with your heart. The answer is already there. Remember, it is the true love and the sharing and accepting that will keep you going...all the rest will in time wash away.

Hey, maybe you have not really met "the one" yet. 🙂

Good for you to follow a new path, Blue, but I have a couple of things to mention. I don't take advice and I don't like to give it, BUT, I was married several years to an Aries, I am a Libra with a lot of Scorpio, none the less, after my divorce, I was wounded, afraid, what saved me is finding the right course. I too took several classes and bought myself a ranch with the money I had. I found peace and myself, sleeping alone was truly hard. Getting up every morning was difficult, but I looked at the sun and continued going. The last thing on my mind was to find another mate. I want you to find yourself, and have friends like a Capricorn or anyone you darn well please, but don't pigeon hole yourself at this very precious time of your life. Reach out to all and find so much strength you will hardly know yourself this time next year.

Take care,

Kennyg/Linda

Thanks Freebird, thanks Candle Girl, I really needed to hear what you both said. I just need to relax and everything will come. Thanks again.

Blessings to all,
Blue Eyed Scorp

....On the other hand...., I still want to know what the experts (all of you) can tell me about what the planets would say. I'm curious.

Thanks,
-Blue Eye

Taurus is our astrological opposite, to be technical, "polar opposite". Which means Taurus is six signs removed from us. They are an Earth sign (so is Capricorn) and we are a Water sign. Water muddies up earth; earth provides stability to water. We tend to like them better than they like us. That is because we find them easier to get along with than they do us. We are a bit complicated to them (both Taurus and Capricorn). Taurus will try to simplify you, so will Capricorn. They both deal with reality, the facts of life and the here and now more than we do. We deal with the undercurrents of life, the mysteries, the unknowns, the what-ifs. They prefer to be more realistic and cut-and-dry. Taurus is more likely to bore you than Capricorn. Both will find you interesting, but both will also be confused by you. Taurus is more likely to be unfaithful, but you're more likely to have more intellectual disagreements with Capricorn. Taureans are a bit lazier than Caps. But both signs have a great work ethic. Taurus is more of a social butterfly than Cap, and both are bigger social butterflies than you. Jealousy issues will arise far more often between you and the Taurus. Caps aren't as paranoid, and tend to be more secure. You will be the most jealous partner in either combination. Capricorn men can be moodier than Taurus men. Both are sensual/sexual signs, but Taurus is more sensual and all about the romance while Capricorn has more raw, passionate sexuality. Both signs can be slow to make a move, but Taurus is usually far slower. I am suprised that it's the Cap taking his sweet time. For the most part I've found Caps to be pretty swift when it comes to snatching up what they want.

BTW if you're wondering where all that came from, it's a combination of my knowlege of astrology and my in depth personal experiences over many years of knowing both a Cap and a Taurus, and that is what I experienced.

Good luck!

(I'd go for the Capricorn. If he's a good guy, he's worth waiting for. But not very long. 😉 )

Candlegirl, I could not have said it better myself. I have done the same thing you have. I don't have a ranch though. Wish I did! I met this girl recently who just bought a house (very old) by a lake. She has hawks, an Eagle, horses, deer, owls....they all visit her. It is so peaceful there....ahhhhhhhh.

WOW! Thank you Phoenix! That was so great. I was actually hoping to get an answer from you. I'm glad you came.

For now I'm going to try really hard to let everything unfold natrually. You were right about both of them.

Cap is in a bad place right now, I supose it's a mid life crisis. He's just becoming aware of himself after a long , wrong marriage. I have been waiting for him and now crave the sensual romance from the Taurus.

Anyway, like I said, I'm going to focus on the rest of mylife and let everything fall into place.


Blessings,
-Blue Eyed Scorp

Hi Blue, Just a side note in all this. My mom was a Taurus and my dad was a Scorpio. They were not very good together, they were truly opposites. It was an interesting household to grow up in, never a dull moment! Perhaps that is why I became so darn independent! Find people who like you for who you are, and don't ever bring you down. Don't 'settle' for anything less than what you want, and if you make some mistakes along the way, forgive yourself and continue on!

Take care,

Kennyg/Linda

Oh I forgot, my dad remarried after the divorce, to a wonderful Scorpio woman, his birthday was 11-16, and hers 11-17. They had 23 great years together. He always called her his bride! So see, you just never know what is in store!

Linda

Dear freebird I took a shower . I powered down.

I think Aprilbaby had a good point, I have thought about cap being part of my past and maybe it's time to change it all. Taurus is also from a different background...culture and religion, which I really like...more to learn about.

As I said before, I'm letting go ...but...do we have any more votes for taurus?

Well theres a BIG difference in this situation, with the taurus, you seem to have this strong attraction for but this capricorn seems to be madly in love with you. I think everyone goes through problems and struggles after countless times of past relationships, but if he's willing to take a risk on being with you then that shows that he truly wants you around, and if you want the same. Then i think you should be by his side and help him out and grow together. But if you want a taste of something else(taurus) then go with that. It doesnt matter if he's a taurus or a capricorn, when it comes down to it, go with whatever makes you feel comfortable. But also think about the negative attributes that might come rolling down. I mean why was the capricorn guy's relatoinship so bad? if he did something that might not have pleased you in his past relationships, then what makes you think that he might not make the same mistake again? but this is only a "if". But oh well, take a risk with whoever makes you feel comfortable.


What do you want out of a relationship anyway? committment? excitement? etc..?

I think all questions were answered the moment Blue Eyed Scorp wrote this post, and everything we say is just for her to mull over and talk about. After all, it sounds like she's using this board for what it is: an emotional release. She hasn't said one positive word for the Capricorn so far, save that he seems to want to pursue something with her and that he's an honest but troubled guy.

Now, to you Blue Eyes, I direct this post: Here's the last vote for the Taurus guy. Nonetheless, it is up to you, and Capricorns are the eternal underdogs. I'd say hold off on the commitments and get to know as much about both of them behind the scenes as you can, as I find that what goes on behind the scenes and in the mind is what mucks potential relationships up. But, I've only been out of highschool for 12hrs and 45 minutes and I royally suck at relationships, all entirely from my own self-doubt. But this brings up one final and supremely important point:

Whatever decision you make, make sure when you finalize it there is no question in your mind. Basically, take your own sweet time.

Great response Josh, you must have graduated with HONORS....Congratulations! 🙂

Someone smells great here around these boards..."zestfully clean!" 🙂

Blue eyed-scorp,

The cliche 'easy come, easy go' is so true. The harder you work for someone or the harder they are to 'get (you know what i mean), the more reliable they will be in the long run. If you take your time in getting to know someone, or they are in no hurry to be with you, it says to me that they are careful, considerate, cautious, and that once they have made up their mind, they will probably stick to it. Nothing good in life comes easy, that is why i am voting for the Capricorn. Sure, he has some issues to work through, but what does that say about his character? It says to me that he is not so shallow that he can't work through them.

Be careful of the 'flash in the pan' types who try to bedazzle you off your feet. Sure, the taurus might be exciting, but see it for what it is. I think the Capricorn will have your long term best interests at heart.

Libragirl.

Thanks everyone! You all have given me great advice. I don't think Taurus is an option any more. I think I scared him off. In retrospect, I realize that I always wanted to be with cap,I just wanted a little excitment first. Cap and I have cooled it off for now, so he could work on his problems. I've been acting like a crazy lunitic around Taurus because he is so......sexy and exciting. I havn't dealt with him in the right way...I guess it's because I know that ultimatley I know cap is the one. I'm so embarresed, I don't even want to get into it. I have so much to learn. Anyway thank again evryone.

-Blue Eyed Scorp

I knew the cap was the one.

Oh yes, and do tell. We don't care if you are embarrassed.

I'm to tired to talk about it now. Well....all I could say is this it invoved an e-mail..and just too much talking..or writing...ughhhh maybe I'll tell you on monday, I have to rest this weekend and just breath.