Why are so many people cheating on their spouses? I'm not talking about the casual bf/gf, i'm talking about full fledged husbands/wives. It seems to me like a lot of people are getting married for all of the wrong reasons. Maybe they see people who on paper or in theory should make a good spouse (he's a hard worker, she can take care of a home, she's good with the kids, he's a good provider, they're attractive, he's a gentleman, we get along) i mean these are all good reasons but don't you also have to be into the person. i just had a friend who got married and she is not into her husband, she basically settled and this just tells me that one day she'll run across the man that she was "supposed" to marry and she'll start cheating. I see this happening all the time, i don't even think that people are in love when they get married. Sure they might care about the person or they might love the person but i don't think they're in love and that's a huge difference. People are so in a rush to tie the knot that they're just settling and that's not fair. And if you're in one of these sorts of marriages, when you find that person that really makes your heart sing, what do you do? And why does it seem like when people do fall in love, a lot of people run from it?
