Confusion or deliberate

Hey everyone, most of you have read up on my encounter with the most beautiful and precious woman I have ever met, and naturally she HAS to be a scorp 😛

Anyway, I have really making an effort due to a few reasons, most of which really hurt me and made me feel that I was fighting a losing battle. Strangely, doing this actually had her open up and do effort from her side. I appreciate it and I am really learning how a lady of her class and elegance deserves to be treated. What she likes and doesn't etc...

But, we would spend a day together where she would just be so very beautiful, so innocent and so tru to her self and allow me to be me with her as well. Caressing her, treating her, and really just enjoy each other as human beings. The next day, she casts me away and I need to hear from other friends, although most are annoyed with her, that she is constantly out at night with the biggest scum on earth.

One such famous asshole is a divorced guy, almost double her age with two children... She keeps telling me that he doesn't get the message, yet when he calls, she responds at the drop of a hat. Anyway, about a week and a half ago they had a huge fall out, which I warned her about and which she still told me that she couldn't believe I was right. And well, she has written him off entirely.

Then a week ago, we where doing some assignments for research purposes together at a stylish local coffee shop when the number one asshole, the one that destroyed her about 2 years ago walked in. He hadn't talked to her in more than a year and when he saw me, well... He was probably a bit dazzed that she was actually with a decent guy not his fat ass.

In a matter of a minute she told him her entire life... When the fucker doesn't deserve to know jack.

The rest of the week was a belly up. She blew me off the Wednesday due to having to much work, and the Thursday as well, to which I didn't even respond... Two days I am worth it and then I am cast away. The Friday she called to ask for "help" since I didn't respond the Thursday when she texted me her excuse.

Today again she contacts me out of nowhere. Coming with all manners of chit chat etc. She asked me if had progressed with my assignment and I told her yes, when I asked her how far she was, she had done nothing... Then she mentioned that she needs to get home, that she isn't even sleeping in her own house anymore. When I asked her why, she said "just some things..."

Now the number one asshole could be harrasing her, or asshole number two could be, seeing as he stays in the same complex as she does...

Why is she doing this? Is it deliberate or confusion? And why stuff me around? 😢

I am so scared she ends up knocked up or worse, but I can't do crud ;(

To be fair, maybe she didn't deliberately blow you off? I mean people do get busy so maybe you're overreacting a little. After all, she only turned you down for two days and then contacted you again. It's not as if she disappeared for over a week.

But that said, she might not be 100% sure about her feelings for you yet. When I know with 100% certainty that I like a guy, I want to spend as much time as I can with them. I would also be wary about the fact that she still goes out with those other guys. If I had a new guy in my life whom I really liked, I would not be wasting my time going out with another guy I can tell you that. Things tell me that she's keeping her options open, and you are one of them.

I don't know.

You don't blow off someone and then openly admit that since the last time you haven't actually done anything.

I understand what you are saying though. Much appreciated. I'll just relax.

Hmmm... I'm agreeing with IS on the fact that if a scorp woman is telling an ex about their life that is to show him she is over him...

But, sorry this is probably going to be a bit of a rude question, are you and the scorp woman sleeping together or just friends?

I'm seeing a few warning signs that she is treating you as a pseudo BF...?

That is exactly what scares me at the moment. That I am just going to be a tool to a crime.

Thanks to for the other answers as well. The thing is this guy has ripped her to shreds before... I know... and to this pig it could be a nice invite. But I understand what you are getting at.

yep and doormats are friendzoned in a heartbeat... or at least in my case, if I don't think you can 'handle' me and all my glorious idiosyncrasies

Posted by OmagaIII
Now the number one asshole could be harrasing her, or asshole number two could be, seeing as he stays in the same complex as she does...

Why is she doing this? Is it deliberate or confusion? And why stuff me around? 😢

I am so scared she ends up knocked up or worse, but I can't do crud ;(

She's a loser..dump her ass to the curb and move on.
When a Scorpio woman is into you SHE IS INTO YOU..not others.

The reason why she's "stuffing" you around is because you are ALLOWING her to. That's your fault.

IS is totally spot on with her comments.

Hang in there OP I believe this gal likes you, but from what I recall of your other posts, she's had a rough past = major trust issues. Give her some time to really realize u r a good guy/not gonna screw her over like the others & I think she will come around.

Omaga, it sounds like this girl has caused u more grief than happiness. U sound like a great guy with a lot to offer and u deserve someone who cares for u just as much. Not saying she doesn't, just sounds like she's not quite as serious as u are.

She does sound like she's drawn to the drama tho. And enjoys it.

Omagalll,

well, well, well, I think you just love her and can't let her go. So have a joyful roller coaster

ride... Tell her what you feel and see how she react. Taurus are not expressive people. This is

is the cause of problems due to lack of communication with regards to their feelings...

Spit it out Man!

Posted by M143

Omagalll,

well, well, well, I think you just love her and can't let her go. So have a joyful roller coaster

ride... Tell her what you feel and see how she react. Taurus are not expressive people. This is

is the cause of problems due to lack of communication with regards to their feelings...

Spit it out Man!

I thought he said in a previous post that he has told her how he feels?? (Unless I'm thinking of someone else—)

Posted by OmagaIII

The next day, she casts me away and I need to hear from other friends, although most are annoyed with her, that she is constantly out at night with the biggest scum on earth.

She keeps telling me that he doesn't get the message, yet when he calls, she responds at the drop of a hat. In a matter of a minute she told him her entire life... When the fucker doesn't deserve to know jack.

The rest of the week was a belly up. She blew me off the Wednesday due to having to much work, and the Thursday as well, to which I didn't even respond...

Then she mentioned that she needs to get home, that she isn't even sleeping in her own house anymore. When I asked her why, she said "just some things..."

Seems most people here would have you believe ^^^this woman is ideal and a keeper.
Maybe they play these games too? Don't know.
I will say again, NORMAL Scorpio women who are into their man DO NOT behave this way.
Kick her ass to the curb and find a woman who will appreciate you.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry

you are lying to yourself, bud.....you are masking yourself as her friend....and then when she treats you like a friend you feel like your being stabbed in the heart.

Interesting, being I have a lot of male friends...NOT ONE of them "caresses" me.

She's leading him on, and using him. Pretty plain and simple. Especially by women who do not behave this way.

Thanks for the help 🙂

She knows how I feel. I have been telling her since we met. And btw, it isn't a one sided thing. She moves in closer, takes my hand, hugs and holds me as well. Happened more often since I backed off as well.

I guess in the end I can do absolutely nothing if she does end up with a womanizer or woman beater or knocked up without a father... 😢

It is all choices... Good or bad. Whether I think she deserves better is irrelevant, because she doesn't think she deserves better...

Fuck...

Thanks, very sweet of you : $ hahaha