Dating a Scorpio man

He has lied about his age.....red flag ⛳️?

I feel very sad about this, although I like him very much..I'm very disappointed that he lied...

He doesn't know that I know. I just found out...

Any advice people?

Nothing physical has happened between us but kissing..

Save yourself the trouble. If he lied about his age, he'll lie about more. Some Scorpio's will say whatever to get what they want. They are known to manipulate.

Depends why he lied and what his intention and motive is/was. Once you know this you can evaluate whether it's a deal breaker for you or not.

My fella put on his dating profile that he was 37 but he was actually 45. Big difference. He fessed up after two days of messaging as he felt the messaging was going well and he didn't want to lie about it.

His main reason for changing his birthday/age was because when he put age 45 on his profile, the only messages/interest he was getting were from women aged 50 plus who had kids. He preferred someone younger (mid 30's, not too young) and without kids as he doesn't have kids himself.

My search settings were set between age 32 to 42. Had he put 45, we would never have met. We've been together nearly 18 months and the age plus his circumstances wasn't an issue for me.

I still wind him up about being 'Dave, aged 37, and a Capricorn' when he was Mark, aged 45, and a Taurus!

I wouldn't sweat the age thing. Loads of people white lie about that kind of stuff especially women.

Posted by Gob_Shite

Posted by AgentP911

I still wind him up about being 'Dave, aged 37, and a Capricorn' when he was Mark, aged 45, and a Taurus!

Lying about his age, and the explanation given as to why, is both understandable and forgivable. But he also lied about his star sign, which there is no excuse for.

Here's hoping he hasn't lied about anything else...

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He hasn't. Frankly, I'd take a Taurus over a Cap any day. I was happy he wasn't a Cancer as that would have been a deal breaker!

I had a Scorpio guy lie to me about his age.... he thought I was much younger than I was, so he wanted to be in my range. So, it's not always because he's a compulsive liar - but he could be that too.

Posted by MsBonfire

Posted by AgentP911
Depends why he lied and what his intention and motive is/was. Once you know this you can evaluate whether it's a deal breaker for you or not.

My fella put on his dating profile that he was 37 but he was actually 45. Big difference. He fessed up after two days of messaging as he felt the messaging was going well and he didn't want to lie about it.

His main reason for changing his birthday/age was because when he put age 45 on his profile, the only messages/interest he was getting were from women aged 50 plus who had kids. He preferred someone younger (mid 30's, not too young) and without kids as he doesn't have kids himself.

My search settings were set between age 32 to 42. Had he put 45, we would never have met. We've been together nearly 18 months and the age plus his circumstances wasn't an issue for me.

I still wind him up about being 'Dave, aged 37, and a Capricorn' when he was Mark, aged 45, and a Taurus!

I wouldn't sweat the age thing. Loads of people white lie about that kind of stuff especially women.

Isn't it POF by any chance? ?

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Yup! Gotta love a bit of POF!