Does he want to be serious with me?

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tinamaxblack
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Hey everyone!

I am a Gemini 27. I feel confusing and dating with a Scorpio man around 2 months. (We met 4 months ago) and we are starting to understand each other. Since we are dating, he let me know he have to work in somewhere because his businesses are in another Countries.

Last time i was invited to come his place because he had a birthday.

Before I left in last time, he TOLD ME he is starting to understand me and we were talking about future (we both want to have a family, living in somewhere ... etc) more about what we want or can do together / how to arrange the schedule that we can stay together ...

And he invites me again go to his place later, because he will stay in somewhere for a while. And i asked him: "Do you want to stay with me?" He said, "Sure, of course!

(Actually he let me know he was seeing a girl during we are dating honestly, he said that is normal until he have a relationship with someone.)

We spent NOT a long time together before and now he have to go away because of his businesses. Sometimes i feel so lonely that he is not here. And i am confusing "Does he want to be serious with me?"

Should I waiting for him? He is not here I can not recognise does he like me or not.

I feel lost. We are just a few chatting. He is not active but he always reply soon.
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You're emotionally attached already which is sweet, but unfortunately he is not there yet.

One solution is you can start dating other people too, it's only fair.

Also, try not to sleep with him. He shouldn't have the privilege of getting the goods while still dealing with other women. He definitely won't commit then.

And finally, when you're comfy, express that you would like a committed relationship. That convo should help you determine whether you stay or go.
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tinamaxblack
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Thanks for reply my post.

Yes, and I want to date someone at least we can stay together.

Since last time I stayed with Scorpio man, he was talking he is going to be a "stable man"(because he spent a lot if time for traveling and his businesses.) We was talking about future and something what we want to do. He want to have new life in somewhere and keep running his businesses. When he invites me to go with him again, I told him I have study in my place. So we have no committed each other any nothing.

But I am thinking, he brought me to meet his family in last time (because of his birthday), if he is not be serious with me, why he still invite me to go with him?

Also, he said he will come back later, until he finish his businesses in outside.

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tinamaxblack
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Posted by femme
You're emotionally attached already which is sweet, but unfortunately he is not there yet.

One solution is you can start dating other people too, it's only fair.

Also, try not to sleep with him. He shouldn't have the privilege of getting the goods while still dealing with other women. He definitely won't commit then.

And finally, when you're comfy, express that you would like a committed relationship. That convo should help you determine whether you stay or go.
Great! This is what I am considering! I would use that if one day he come back and I would tell him what relationship I want.
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tinamaxblack
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Posted by AgentP911
This man talks a lot. Watch his actions instead.

He's free to date and so are you. At some point you need to decide what you want. Don't stay over at his or sleep with him during the dating process. It's called dating. Not fucking.
Yes, and i don't commit him anything in last time. I told him already I am looking for a "stable man" and he is not right now. I told him that face to face :"Even you let me know you are going to be a stable man, but now you still not. Whatever you say. "

He said he will come back until his works done, let see.

I can date with another man, I just want to see what will happen.

As you said "Watch his actions instead." True.