Does jealousy=love??

Ok I do believe jealousy stems from insecurities BUT isnt a small dosage of jealousy healthy in a relationship?.

I agree with all of the above...My aries does not get jealous. Well he does but not in the form of not allowing me to go out,checking up on me,checking my phone etc.
A part of me likes to see abit of the green eyed monster in a guy BUT I have seen jealousy at its ugliest and its not pretty.
Better question,do women feel jealousy stronger than men?

Posted by ARIES7733
I can speak far as an Aries woman but all Aries get jealous we just try to contain it at times, well have a few times recently and I was burning up but to proud to show it but I wanted to just snap off at that point but couldn't because I was being too stubborn and proud as I knew he was intentionally trying to make me jealous. Plus our jealousy isn't because of insecurity at all it's because we have to feel first at all times, only one time recently have I been envious of another woman because in our Aries mind none can compare to us, lol

My best friend is aries,we have known each other for over 15yrs. I remember we were sitting having lunch one day and she said to me "we will always be bestmate,because you are the only girl,that I never felt any jealousy or insecurities from"
We both are goodlooking girls and we can hold our own. So I never left we had to compete over any guy.
And yes there were a few at university...whom she liked but had the cheek to want to try it on with me. And did we make them look stupid. Oh yes!!🙂

Posted by oldskoolflavor
I wonder if mr.aries is aware what he's getting himself into..
probably not

Whats your problem mate....am seriousy getting some sour grapes vibes from you.😢

Huh? lost in translation............

ok cowboy

Posted by everevolvingepithet
*pew pew pew pew*

lol

When I have been jealous and paranoid it had nothing to do with love at all.

It came from a very selfish place due to my own emotional problems.

I suppose a little jealously is normal but anything more than that.. the person probably has a problem which is why I think people get turned off by it.

Just like "clingyness" it's a turn off because you know this has nothing to do with them liking you as it has to do with them not liking themselfs.

People who are very jealous and clingy are not emotionally available people.

Emotionally available people I believe have trust, and want to share you with others because they see how great you are and hope others do as well. They want you to be well like they are.

Jealousy is not love, but it seems to go hand-in-hand with it. The more jaded you become, the less jealous you are too. The strongest love, in my opinion, actually harbors the most jealousy. But the purest does not.

Very interesting point = food for thought for me