does this scorpio like me....since we had sex....

Hi All, I've worked with a scorpio for 5 months (i'm lovable virgo)and wondered if he was interested in me. This guy is handsome, intelligent and funny. In a general conversation 4 months ago he told me that he is not looking for a relationship because he has been hurt before. Nevertheless he would come to my desk everyday (sometimes 4 times a day) and call me at home from time to time. My brother is a scorpio and once said that if a scorpio calls you on the phone that that means alot. Anyway, being the virgo that I am I told him about me. OK here's the clincher....we had sex the other day....
Does that mean that he likes me....— Do I have his attention. How can I hook, line and sink him...
If a scorpio does not call the next day should i take it personal

Having sex before marriage with complicate a blossoming relationship.And i'll tell you why.He may have used you just to hit the sack with you (heaven forbid).But if he really likes you and he's afraid of being heartbroken, then don't say anything that will hinder him.Because if you do , then most likely he wants space.So you better ask yourself, was he worth hitting the sack ? or is he just another playa ?

I don't think that it is that deep. To me most men are playa's or gay. If it works out then that's fine if it does not than oh well. It's not a big thing. I find him attractive and I was wondering if anyone thought that he may be attracted to me as well(everyone at work seems to think so). Also Sex is just sex(exspecially for men) If you think that men connect to a women emotionally while having sex you are mistaken. I know that I can nab him emotionally, physically, and spirtually. I just want to know if I should go for it. You must remember that a women is always in control and I have been around a bit too long to even think about being played. For the record it was my idea to invite him over.

I don't get it. Your post confuses me.

Haven't you answered your own question when you typed "Sex is just sex(exspecially for men) If you think that men connect to a women emotionally while having sex you are mistaken"?

Why would you take it personal if he doesn't call the next day? I mean, sex is just sex. He's stated clearly he's not interested in a relationship in advance. What's the mystery? Men don't make emotional bonds through sex. You went through the flirtation period, and now he's had you. If he has a gram of scorpio in him and you were any good he'll probably call for more, if you weren't he won't. That's one sign, for sure. And why would you want to wrestle for control with a scorpio anyhow?

If you're in control of the situation why in the world are you asking for advice on an internet opinion board? I mean you have so much experience. You're asking anonymous posters if you should go for it? Why do people at work have such an influence on your decisions? Can't you make your own? I don't get it. You say you've got it together, but at the same time you're unsure. Are you sure you don't have a strong Gemini influence in your life or something?

TAN:

As blunt as his post may be, I have to agree with scorp 25 on this one. It sounds like you have some inner contradictions regarding how YOU feel about this guy and what YOU want. Before you worry about going after him and "nabbing" him, maybe it's time for a little soul-searching within yourself.

Heather

*** hides behind Heather :-)

/me rummages through "Astrology for Dummies" handbook to see if Virgos are vengeful or not ...

so are virgos n caps vengeful?

do you want him or not— i don't get your posts TAN. your second posts seems that your defense mechanisms were in effect...

"i don't think its that deep" just confused me...

Whew - the comments about men and sex seem very cynical to me. I'm a female scorpio that must be either very naive or have way too much of a romantic streak, but it seems like a statement that most men are playa's or gay is pretty strong. Spoken from someone who has been used perhaps?

I don't believe men are always just out for casual sex. Both men and women have the need to make emotional contact with others and sometimes try to meet that need through sex. Of course, casual sex doesn't fulfill that - but seems to me that people (men AND women) keep trying!

Please - someone re-affirm my faith in relationships.

No.. This little lady THOUGHT that she was in control of Mr Scorp and the situation and the sex... She underestimated the influence the act "with him" would have on her... Doesn't that sound possible...

Helluva blow to the ego if he is no longer interested.....

scorp25>>>LOL! You're hiding behind me? Hehehe. Since you're back there...I'M KIDDING. I had to seize the opportunity to crack an immature and gross sex joke ; ) Boy am I not a grown-up yet.

And the poster above has the right idea.

i-sun, I'm with you, I'm confused too.

Heather

Sorry babe, but the message is "Don't play with fire unless you wan't to burn". And burn you will if you think you can play with emotions... Whether it be yours or someone else's ....

Why the hell do you think she has a gemini influence??

Shocking how everything bad seems to blamed on geminis.

168.209,

Aren't you the one that wrote the origainal post 'Scorpio 25' I'm waiting?

If it slipped your mind already, you yourself were soliciting advice because you had thoughts of cheating on your spouse with another Scorpio. Why are you accussing someone else of the same thing you attempted. It may have been only in your head, but IMO your still playing with others emtions especially your OWN!

YES.. and you are quite correct!! Been thinking alot about the good advice... If you read my previous post again I did say that because I am human, and the Scorp is so convincing and tempting I am terrified to even be in his company "because of the emotions involved". Do you see? The post is good advice even for myself. Stay clear of a situtation which you know may get you into trouble. That's what I've decided to do.....

Scorpios are hard to understand. Their sign rules sex and I think this guy wants to avoid getting hurt but not give up sex! Do you have this guy's phone number? If so, tell him you're confused and don't understand what's going on. He either likes you or just wants nothing BUT sex!

i don't think she is ever going to post here again... (i feel bad)

Oh gosh hon! Think things over hard before gettin' with a Scorpio! And don't you EVER think that your in control, cuz you aren't. He's watching you with those beautiful, mysterious eyes of his and he knows that he's got control over you. Scorpios adore to control. They are passionate intense, violent, vengeful, agressive. You'll see if you already haven't. He may seem calm and cool but underneath that shell there is a seathing volcanoe. And when that volcanoe erupts it's gonna smother you, maybe even destroy you. NEVER, EVER, take a scorpio lightly or think you have him under control. You don't know his motives or what he's up to. Sex is only his wepon. Don't be his unsuspecting victim. And no, I'm not a Scorpio, I'm a Taurus Lady, but I know, cuz I've been involved with em'. Listen, do a little reasearch on scorpio, it will give you some insight. I did that and it helped me understand his complextiy a little better. Not that Anyone will EVER fully understand Them. But whatever you do, Dont EVER underestimate him. He knows what he's doing. Do You?