Feel trapped wit a scorp

My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

You'll eventually escape in the middle of the night like I did. Refer to other threads.

***** I've told him countless times we should just be f buddies, I'm too nonchalant for him. I feel like I can never be in a relationship because im too independent.

Posted by heliumfiasco
You'll eventually escape in the middle of the night like I did. Refer to other threads.

I've tried to refer to other threads but I don't find anything on point

Posted by brandyp
You sound repulsed by him lol

This is my first relationship and a lot of men do like me but if this is how it's going to be then I'm good on relationships.

Posted by Thataquagirl15
My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

Work on it stupid! Otherwise you will remember him when your grandkids go to school!

Smarten up and keep his balls with both hands...

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Thataquagirl15
My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

Work on it stupid! Otherwise you will remember him when your grandkids go to school!

Smarten up and keep his balls with both hands...

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He's a distraction... unless I'm trying to make myself believe that. He's always home so I can say I skipped too many classses and this is my worst semester ever.

Posted by Distilled
Start being extra needy, absolutely useless, invade his personal space, also maybe stop jukin him- guys have feelings too.

Unless you're already like this- then I dunno. Maybe steal his weed stash before you run in the dead of night.

Is this a good idea? I'm about ready to make him pay for my glasses and just disappear. I spend too much on him... he's always broke lol

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Thataquagirl15
My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

Work on it stupid! Otherwise you will remember him when your grandkids go to school!

Smarten up and keep his balls with both hands...

He's a distraction... unless I'm trying to make myself believe that. He's always home so I can say I skipped too many classses and this is my worst semester ever.

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Is he a bum? Like no work no nothing?

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Posted by Thataquagirl15
My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

Work on it stupid! Otherwise you will remember him when your grandkids go to school!

Smarten up and keep his balls with both hands...

He's a distraction... unless I'm trying to make myself believe that. He's always home so I can say I skipped too many classses and this is my worst semester ever.

Is he a bum? Like no work no nothing?

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He does work. He's always at work that's all he does. He's a manager at a burger spot but he's somehow always broke. And he's always tired. Silly me for not seeing my potential

Posted by brandyp

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Posted by brandyp
You sound repulsed by him lol

This is my first relationship and a lot of men do like me but if this is how it's going to be then I'm good on relationships.

I can see how Scorpio first relationship could ruin it for you lol but all men are not like this. Probably cancer is most clingy and Scorpio right behind them. But if u got with like a sag or gem they might give u more freedom. No need to rush though. Being alone and wanted is cool too.

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A lot of boys want me but even before him I was standoffish. I feel like I can do so much better. Smh I wouldn't smoke for starters. He expects me to stop but how when that's all he does.

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Posted by brandyp
You sound repulsed by him lol

This is my first relationship and a lot of men do like me but if this is how it's going to be then I'm good on relationships.

I can see how Scorpio first relationship could ruin it for you lol but all men are not like this. Probably cancer is most clingy and Scorpio right behind them. But if u got with like a sag or gem they might give u more freedom. No need to rush though. Being alone and wanted is cool too.

A lot of boys want me but even before him I was standoffish. I feel like I can do so much better. Smh I wouldn't smoke for starters. He expects me to stop but how when that's all he does.

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I was with a Gemini for a while but this relationship showed me that was just a friendship. We didn't have sex me and the gem but he went down on me. Too many times in fact but I never even touched his penis. Three years. Well age 16-18/19. We had a friendship beforehand which me and scorp didn't

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My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

Work on it stupid! Otherwise you will remember him when your grandkids go to school!

Smarten up and keep his balls with both hands...

He's a distraction... unless I'm trying to make myself believe that. He's always home so I can say I skipped too many classses and this is my worst semester ever.

Is he a bum? Like no work no nothing?

He does work. He's always at work that's all he does. He's a manager at a burger spot but he's somehow always broke. And he's always tired. Silly me for not seeing my potential

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Ask him if burgers he is managing have legs and asses?

And how is every 'burger' pays him for 'management'?

I swear he will tell you the truth!!!

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Posted by Thataquagirl15
My Scorpio man had a rep before me as a slut basically. It's almost a year later since we started messing around and he is obsessed with me. I'm an Aquarius so I like my space but he always touches me, alwayssssss on me it's so annoying. I been over him because he slipped up a couple times anyway, but I'm here because he's my first and the sex is good. I can see us being together in the future but I'm 20 right now and I have a life to live. He's 24 and he already got accustomed to his life style of weed and working and I feel like I'm turning into a mini him. I think we got very comfortable with sleeping in and ordering food. It's sad because he's such a great person all around and I know he changed for me but I don't even want to be in this deep. lol I feel stuck, trapped, helpless. When we break up (mainly me and my thoughts but sometimes him) we bounce back in a 24 hour time period. We are always together literally everyday for the past several months and recently I feel like he's moved me into his place. It's all so weird and I just want to be free. Any advice?

Work on it stupid! Otherwise you will remember him when your grandkids go to school!

Smarten up and keep his balls with both hands...

He's a distraction... unless I'm trying to make myself believe that. He's always home so I can say I skipped too many classses and this is my worst semester ever.

Is he a bum? Like no work no nothing?

He does work. He's always at work that's all he does. He's a manager at a burger spot but he's somehow always broke. And he's always tired. Silly me for not seeing my potential

Ask him if burgers he is managing have legs and asses?

And how is every 'burger' pays him for 'management'?

I swear he will tell you the truth!!!

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We work together. I know he's not cheating bc when he's not at work we are literally right best to each other. It's not a prob that we work together bc for a 20 yr old everyone respects me. I hold myself well so everyone was upset when they found out. Even they knew I deserve better

I just had to see for myself

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Posted by Distilled
Start being extra needy, absolutely useless, invade his personal space, also maybe stop jukin him- guys have feelings too.

Unless you're already like this- then I dunno. Maybe steal his weed stash before you run in the dead of night.

Is this a good idea? I'm about ready to make him pay for my glasses and just disappear. I spend too much on him... he's always broke lol

Dunno girl. There are some women out here and there who would kill to be in your situation and have a Scorp be bout that life with them.

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I know and I feel like he's better off finding someone else like I've expressed but he won't stop fighting for us. Its scary

i agree with you that you are too young to be in an all consuming relationship

it's your time of life to go out there to experience the world and grow instead of being locked down with a guy who does nothing much but staying home and smoke

i do not believe a real love would limit your growth for his selfish (insecurity) reasons. i was accused of choosing my dream job over someone i had an intense feeling for when i was young. it ended right there and my heart ached for years. but the dream job changed my life and my world view. it shaped me into who i am today. best decision of my life. and i am now married to the love of my life who encourages the pursue of my dreams

You sound confused in your statement. Your relationship sounds karmic, just break up with him and live up to you.

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Posted by Distilled
Start being extra needy, absolutely useless, invade his personal space, also maybe stop jukin him- guys have feelings too.

Unless you're already like this- then I dunno. Maybe steal his weed stash before you run in the dead of night.

Is this a good idea? I'm about ready to make him pay for my glasses and just disappear. I spend too much on him... he's always broke lol

Dunno girl. There are some women out here and there who would kill to be in your situation and have a Scorp be bout that life with them.

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Wait a minute!!! Not even I would be after a bum Scorpio!

Posted by Navaura
You sound confused in your statement. Your relationship sounds karmic, just break up with him and live up to you.

How many chances she has to brake away if it's Karmic?

Posted by Thataquagirl15
***** I've told him countless times we should just be f buddies, I'm too nonchalant for him. I feel like I can never be in a relationship because im too independent.

Well, the beauty of a relationship is being independent together ^^.

And not NEEDING someone to be happy 😐 That's co-dependent and I think many people get into their pitfall when they enter a relationship only for the sake of "having somebody".

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Posted by Distilled
Start being extra needy, absolutely useless, invade his personal space, also maybe stop jukin him- guys have feelings too.

Unless you're already like this- then I dunno. Maybe steal his weed stash before you run in the dead of night.

Is this a good idea? I'm about ready to make him pay for my glasses and just disappear. I spend too much on him... he's always broke lol

Dunno girl. There are some women out here and there who would kill to be in your situation and have a Scorp be bout that life with them.

Wait a minute!!! Not even I would be after a bum Scorpio!

Yes, but you would no doubt kill to be bout that Scorp life with a certain stinger you know right about now.

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Would sell my organs! I means those he doesn't need in me...?

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Posted by Distilled
Start being extra needy, absolutely useless, invade his personal space, also maybe stop jukin him- guys have feelings too.

Unless you're already like this- then I dunno. Maybe steal his weed stash before you run in the dead of night.

Is this a good idea? I'm about ready to make him pay for my glasses and just disappear. I spend too much on him... he's always broke lol

Dunno girl. There are some women out here and there who would kill to be in your situation and have a Scorp be bout that life with them.

Wait a minute!!! Not even I would be after a bum Scorpio!

Yes, but you would no doubt kill to be bout that Scorp life with a certain stinger you know right about now.

Would sell my organs! I means those he doesn't need in me...?

Nah keep them in tact and just sell your soul.

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I wouldn't sell! I would exchange...

Do you know where is that joint that does that—

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Posted by Thataquagirl15

Posted by Distilled
Start being extra needy, absolutely useless, invade his personal space, also maybe stop jukin him- guys have feelings too.

Unless you're already like this- then I dunno. Maybe steal his weed stash before you run in the dead of night.

Is this a good idea? I'm about ready to make him pay for my glasses and just disappear. I spend too much on him... he's always broke lol

Dunno girl. There are some women out here and there who would kill to be in your situation and have a Scorp be bout that life with them.

Wait a minute!!! Not even I would be after a bum Scorpio!

Yes, but you would no doubt kill to be bout that Scorp life with a certain stinger you know right about now.

Would sell my organs! I means those he doesn't need in me...?

Nah keep them in tact and just sell your soul.

I wouldn't sell! I would exchange...

Do you know where is that joint that does that—

Start with dxp.

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Who is the dealer?

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Posted by Thataquagirl15

Posted by Distilled
Start being extra needy, absolutely useless, invade his personal space, also maybe stop jukin him- guys have feelings too.

Unless you're already like this- then I dunno. Maybe steal his weed stash before you run in the dead of night.

Is this a good idea? I'm about ready to make him pay for my glasses and just disappear. I spend too much on him... he's always broke lol

Dunno girl. There are some women out here and there who would kill to be in your situation and have a Scorp be bout that life with them.

Wait a minute!!! Not even I would be after a bum Scorpio!

Yes, but you would no doubt kill to be bout that Scorp life with a certain stinger you know right about now.

Would sell my organs! I means those he doesn't need in me...?

Nah keep them in tact and just sell your soul.

I wouldn't sell! I would exchange...

Do you know where is that joint that does that—

Start with dxp.

Who is the dealer?

I dont know.

Don't care either.

Just seems less messy than having your organs ripped apart. Both sell out anyways.

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So you basically giving me useless info I can't use because you just mumbling whatever?

First you need to find out what's making you stay.

Second, determine if you want that in your life and that he will be the only person or person who can best give it to you.

Third: Stay or go.

Fourth: Repeat. It's bound to happen again with this guy. If not, congratz, you're an adult and have learned to control your impulses.