First Scorpio experience, confused!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Ariesgirl75 on Wednesday, August 30, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@Ariesgirl75
8 Years

Back story: started being heavily chased by a guy, I kinda ignored him for a couple weeks, asked for my number, I thought what can it hurt. He started texting, I was still kinda standoffish, not really interested, but being polite. Fast forward 4 weeks, went out with him about 4 times, made him wait til 3 date to let him kiss me, I never intitate contact, until he stood me up without any notice, I texted asking where he was, he texted back hour later saying he was at ER with his mom, I said understand but he should have let me know sooner. Keeps pushing to be exclusive, I finally agree acts like he won the lottery lol. Fast forward to 5th date, stood up again, I didn't contact this time I was pissed, he messaged me hr after he was suppose to pick me up saying would I be mad if he just spent the evening with his son, I flew off the handle (aries temper), he didn't speak to me for 2 days saying I hurt his feelings, I apologized for not handling myself properly but not for being mad at not being notified earlier and stood up. Anyway he has texted every morning good morning beautiful, baby girl, sweetheart, etc. Except the 2 days he was butthurt cause i went off. Ive told him twice that ifs thats the way hes going to be in certain terms nicely theres the doir hes free to go. He constantly texts me where is he and what he's doing, etc. He calls almost every other day, says he loves me so much, that one day he will officially lock me down permanently lol, says hes never letting me go, keeps talking about future, a house, buying land, etc. I have met his children, his mom, his friends, everyone, we are at 3 months now still no sex, he hast even tried, says I will respect him more if he doesn't push it. This man is so confusing but I swear I love him too death! Any advise for a first timer with no scorpio experience?

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@Havoc077
9 Years

Ya'll hit the ground running with the games?

I will enjoy watching this crash and burn.

See you in some time when the flames go up.

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@SofiaV87
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Oh my .. I'm sorry but this won't last .. this Scorpio is playing games.. doesn't matter if u waited 3 dates to kiss him & didn't sleep with him yet for 3 months .. Scorpio would have locked it down already

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@GuardianAnu
12 Years1,000+ Posts

He has a kid. If he is a good father he will put his son first, so there will be times where you will have to take a back seat. Now it is up to you whether you can play second fiddle to a kid or not.