Funniest freeze out ever!

So I'm currently getting the silent treatment because..........I SNORE! LMAO

I stayed at my Scorps house last night & woke up at 4am......Alone 😢 This isn't the 1st time this has happened so I pretty much knew why. OK I snore people! nothing I can do about that! Anyway, he wakes up for work this morning & I say, so why did I wake up alone again? he says because you were snoring. I simply say...."Oh well that's nice, what are we gonna do sleep in separate beds for the rest of our lives?"

OK WWIII happened! LOL I was accused of trying to ruin his day by starting a argument & he can't deal with the stress of me &.......I assume my snoring? To which I replied, I wasn't trying to start a argument & that I couldn't deal with the stress of this either ( ya know.... the stress of walking on eggshells to avoid exactly this) 🙂 So he thinks it would be best if we didn't talk for awhile. BLAHHHH!

So I said, that's fine, contact me when your ready, I'll give you your space 🙂 & so now, the silent treatment & sulking begin GRRR! I cannot begin to tell you how much I love this sensitive Scorp 🙂

LMAO Elena, Yepp sounds like something mine would say too. It's no longer "safe" to even sleep anymore! 🙂 Oh I also talk in my sleep at times (Crazy sleeper ova here) lol so I can't wait for the day when I wake up & get the silent treatment for something I may say while unconscious! haha

"to be honest,it's probably easier if you go sleep in another room,etc once the sexing and ,hmmm,cuddling is outta the way...."

Ya know, that may be what will end up having to happen & that makes me feel really shitty 😢 I enjoy sleeping next to someone but he doesn't enjoy sleeping next to me. That sucks!

I wonder if two people have ever called it quits cuz they were incompatible while unconscious? LOL Now that would be funny

That's true Bling, I guess I was being a bitch this morning, after all he usually does set his alarm right before mine goes off & he'll sneak back in bed with me & I'm none the wiser LOL but it just sucks that we have to go through all this because of something I have no control over.

LOL Thanx FA, Soooo technically I think it's his fault that I snore anyway LOL because he keeps me up wayyy too late all the time, I'm exhausted from getting no sleep so when I do crash I'm like dead! and I only snore when I'm in a deep sleep, At that point he can poke me, roll me over, flip me upside down.....do whatever & I'll stop..... for awhile anyway LOL So I was heated this morning but now I realize I owe someone a apology, I'm sure it would be annoying to be woken up all night, even though it's not my fault 😢 Excuse me while I go do some damage control lol 🙂

yeah so is he Ferdy 🙂 maybe I could just dope him up everynight LOL Nyquil anyone? 🙂

omg. i'm sorry but i would struggle with someone who snores. i wouldn't mind if i was asleep when they started cos i'm a deep sleeper but if i couldn't get to sleep and they were snoring it would be awful. when sleep deprived, scorpios can get hysterical - hence the argument you had.

Thanx Rox 🙂

Yes I've realized my error, I wasn't looking at it from his point of view this morning, being selfish & defensive I suppose. I'm sure it would be annoying, I don't have that problem because I sleep like a rock but he doesn't &&&&&&&& he has a big exam today so needless to say it was a bad morning to be bitchy about my snoring OOPS!

I sent a apology e-mail & suggested, as Bling did, that in the future we should probably sleep separate especially if he has something important to do the next day. I feel SUPER bad now! 😢 Damn me & my verbal diarrhea! One of these days I may learn to just keep my lips zipped.

Ms.P, This is what I said:

"So he thinks it would be best if we didn't talk for awhile."

He didn't say anymore 🙂 I can understand now why he was upset, it was my error. NOT for the snoring, again that's something I can't control but for my reaction, therefor it's my place to apologize.

awwww. i'm sure he'll forgive you pretty quickly. snoring is not the most heinous of crimes after all!!!

cantaur: it sounds as though you have a similar affliction to me. i call it 'foot in mouth' disease cos i only open my mouth to change feet sometimes LOL!!!

...."Oh well that's nice, what are we gonna do sleep in separate beds for the rest of our lives?"


It wasn't over the snoring.

It was because she gave him a sarcastic response, which insinuates he should feel guilty for something.

Why should he feel guilty? He needed to sleep, and when asked in the morning, he gave an honest answer ... then a snarky remark was retorted with a slant towards him as if he had done something wrong, and this is where the arguement began .. with the sarcastic tone of the remark.

fuckina: drinking too much makes people snore too.

Oh it will, LOL I just spoke to him, he's over it 🙂 see how quickly that happens. Thanks though Ms. P

PA, You are right. First of all, I'm a self proclaimed Bitch in the A.M. never have been a morning person & probably never will be. So Yes I fully admit I was being bitchy & giving attitude, I do have what Rox has.....foot in the mouth disease & very rarely do I stop to think about what I'm going to say before it just flies out, if I could do that, this mornings spat would have been avoided because after it was all said & done I realized how selfish it was for me to give attitude for something silly......The poor dude just wanted some sleep SHEESH! & I was being all demanding like "who cares that you have a important exam today, sleep next to me, even though I won't even realize your there until I wake up, get NO sleep & do poorly on your test"

Yeah I get it, gotta work on my A.M. personality & my verbal diarrhea for sure 🙂

Elena that's exactly what the problem was. I sent him the email, then I texted him to let him know he had mail. He texted back....."Good or Bad" I said "Good" & he said "thanks, I'm sorry I'm just having a really bad/stressful day"

Poor guy 🙂 & to know that he normally sets his alarm so he can sneak back into bed with me just makes me feel even worse 😢 but at least he's not mad anymore.


FA, my snoring is actually probably due to the fact that my nose was broken when I was 2 & was never set back into place properly which has totally screwed up my sinuses 😢 It is due to breathing problems but it's really only a issue when I'm sleeping very heavy, like when I'm exhausted or have been getting lack of sleep, so kinda his fault LOL

My BF snores. It drove me nuts for the first 3 months but now all of a sudden it doesn't bother me anymore and I can sleep with him now. I hope it stays that way.

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LOL why Bling? Cuz it was at MY suggestion & not his? hahaha

Yeah we'll see BUT after having thought about it through out the day, I think it would be best that we do sleep seperatly. He could get his sleep & I wouldn't have to listen to him whine about how I kept him up. Yeah this may have back fired for him.

BLING!!! LOL you were sooo right! haha He just called me. Oh let me tell ya why he called me.....He called because he drove past my house & it looked like all my lights were off in the house & I told him I'd be home so he wanted to know where I was.

OK so I told him I thought it best that we sleep separate & he was not down for it, He starts back tracking...."Well it's ok if we fall asleep at the same time or if I fall asleep 1st, I mean it's not like you do it EVERY night" 🙂

This A.M. he made it seem as if I kept him up all night, he said he only got 4 hrs sleep, NOW he's saying he stayed up late studying & he could here me snoring in the other room so when he was ready for bed he just went & layed down alone, so he couldn't hear me after all! WELL how do ya like that! LOL so I go...." you didn't sleep well cuz you stayed up late studying, not because of my snoring?" he says "well it was both.......OK it wasn't you" WTF?!?! Whyyyyyy do they do this?

Wait ... so you get a "freeze out" for snoring—? Oh dear gawd ........