Funny Thing.........

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YummyMummy
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I find it interesting how ppl always go on about how scoprio's plot revenge...

Yet I find myself NOT to fall into that catagory....and making a mental note of this i find myself observing how ppl react to each other after having words or a disagreement....

For me it's like this...I can be red HOT steaming mad...but when it's over it's over...i will be laughing and joking with u an hour later....?

With that in mind...i find it difficult coping with ppl who "stew" or "sulk" I am happy go lucky and not much gets me down for very long...please give me some insight as to why and HOW ppl saty cross for days......or weeks even?

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Tiamat
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dunno,im the same way though,defensive as hell and have a really,really bad mouth but i can't bring myself to completely hate or want bad things to happen to people for some reason.theres always the good things about them that arise and just decide to let it go or come to a comprimise.the only time i really "plot" is when it's normal,everyday planning ahead to get things done.the sulky stewing people kinda feels like thier draining me,im always the one they suspect will help for all thier problems then get mad when i don't or can't sometimes.they play on my patience which i have an insane amount of and for people who aren't needy think its impossible for me to get impatient,so i don't think it's me.don't see a point in sulking for any amount of time,contemplating,greiving,worrying about something yeah do understand and have done.theres no need for revenge with me.
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YummyMummy
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Tiamat...I agree totally...I am a happy bubbly sparkle person...I recently wne through a BAD divorce I mean he was like threatening to kill me and stuff...hence why I divorced him he's a Libra...But my mum (Gemini) gets sooo stressed that I didn't worry enough or HATE him enough and my theory is hating someone is giving then YOUR power...Trust me the person who's being hated isn't loosing any sleep while the hater is tossing and turning plotting revenge...I have better things to do with my time...like live MY life...!!!

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