have i done something wrong...

Hi.. i met this girl at the gym and she was nice and we used to chat about studies initially.. and then i saw on her on facebook and i sent her friend request.. and then after few days she accepted it..

Then, one day i initiated a chat with her on facebook like hi and then followed it up with a ques.. like what are doing these days coz she was not coming to gym... and then she replied she was busy with house shifting.
next day i again started chatting with her and then we had a long conversation on facebook only.. and then i got to know her interests and likes ,dislikes,what kind of music she likes and then she asked me the same questions.. It was really a nice conversation and i enjoyed it...and i think she enjoyed it too.
Then i asked her that when was her birthday.. she said she was born in may..(taurus) and then i replied i am born in nov (scorpio.. 🙂 ) and then she asked do i read any books and then i gave my reply and she ave her reply.I thought it was a good idea to end the chat coz i did want bore her and then i wrote i really enjoyed talkin to her and would like to have this type of convo over the phone and then i gave my no.. and asked her to call me whenever she is free,(I was HESITANT to ask for her no and thought this was a better way).. then i wished her gud night and she replied ok for the earlier post and then wrote gud night..

I am anxious and confused whether i did the right thing or not... please help..
Thank you..

I'm confused. So do you want to know if it's okay that you gave her your number? If so, then I would have to say it should be good. Tauruses appreciate when others are straight forward with them. Keep in mind though that they are also known for being slow and hesitant before getting into a relationship. You must be patient with them (easier said than done, I know). Never rush them. I made that mistake before and I lost my Taurus crush over it. I would say send her a text now and then, but don't bother her too much. Hopefully it all works out. 🙂

@ScorpioSerenity : yes i wanted to know whether i had done the right thing or not..Now what do i do just wait for few days and see what happens..

And suppose even after a few days, the text or call never comes then whether i should just send a message or just leave be..

have you ever seen a cow doing anything fast? no. they take their time. they arent the chasers, they prefer to be courted while they make up their minds about you. cows go at their own pace. and if they decide you are who they want, you've got a good person for life- just as long as you dont fuck it up, lie, or mistreat them. and you better make sure you feed them well. as hard as they work, they need good meals.

Posted by bluesky6
@ScorpioSerenity : yes i wanted to know whether i had done the right thing or not..Now what do i do just wait for few days and see what happens..

And suppose even after a few days, the text or call never comes then whether i should just send a message or just leave be..

If she never responds to your text, then I would leave her be. To them the old saying "slow and steady wins the race" describes them perfectly. Let her come to you now. You've already made an effort. You don't have to wait around for her though. I know it's easier said than done when you really like someone, but try and distract yourself from overthinking about her and the situation. I think it's hard for us Scorpios to just wait around for Tauruses to make up their mind. When we want someone, our minds are set on that person and no one else. That's why I feel I don't personally mix well with them. I'm too impatient and I hate playing games. If you're the same way you might want to just move on. Unless of course you want your patience tested. 😛

Hi everyone.. sorry i was out for 3-4 weeks...

So i considered your advice and this is what happened..

After 4-5 days i again initiated the chat with her..(on FACEBOOK) and i did not mention a thing about the convo regarding the phone call... and neither did she and at first i was thinking she would not reply but she replied and we started talking like how was your week.. and what do you do on sunday... etc..i was a good convo i told her a GEEKY joke.. and i think she liked it..(i asked her whether she understood the joke or not she did not reply for 30mins or so.. and then she said she got the joke) and then we ended the convo...

Next day at the gym i met her and she asked about the new TV series like whether i watched it or no...
I told her that i watched it and i found it ok... she said cool and started doing her exercise..


She was doing weights.. and like i asked her what was the time she told me the time and she told me whether i could help her lifting the weights i said ok and helped her.. she said thank u and smiled...
That night again i started the convo.. like what are doing right now... she replied blah! blah!!! she asked me the same... then i changed the topic i asked her whether her fav color is yellow.. she said yes...(P.S. she did not tell me her fav color i guessed it.. SCORPIO trait..) I then gave her a compliment.. like you look pretty in Yellow and she said thank you.. she said that she liked bright color...
We concluded the convo by saying gud night.. etc...

Then again after 1 week i msg her on fb like how r u keeping up.. she did not reply...
Then i told myself to take it slow...


This happened 2 weeks ago and after that i had some training in the office so i was busy.. so did not get time to meet her or talk to her..

Then in the weekend i went to the gym.. i saw her i acted normal she was talking to her friend.. i passed by her and looked she did not reciprocate.. and she went..

Next day, in the gym... she was doing weights and like i was on cardio.. i just started my thing she asked me why i was ignoring her.. the other day... she said i was acting like "just do your thing" and go home type nothing more.. no hi.. no hello...
i laughed.. and like got taken back like wtf happened..(internal dialogue..) i said I looked at you and you did not respond...she did not speak.. and then i only told her that i might be thinking something...and i said chuck it.... then she asked me what i was doing these days.. i replied about my work...

I asked why did she not reply to the msg she said that her internet pack was over and said that she was going to recharge it today...

Then in the night.. she was on fb.. and i asked her whether i answered her question completely or not.. she replied ya..


Then for the comment she passed that i was ignoring her i said i never ignore people i meet.. she replied its good... and convo ended..

Can somebody tell me "WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING: and why she giving me confusing signs.. I mean like.. why i was ignoring her.. i did not ignore her.. she ignored me in the first place..(that is what i think..)

Please shed your opinions on this...

Thank you...

Posted by Sasori701
have you ever seen a cow doing anything fast? no. they take their time. they arent the chasers, they prefer to be courted while they make up their minds about you. cows go at their own pace. and if they decide you are who they want, you've got a good person for life- just as long as you dont fuck it up, lie, or mistreat them. and you better make sure you feed them well. as hard as they work, they need good meals.

+1 My venus/mars is in Taurus and I am exactly like this in my relationships.

Xin: i noe you people take it slow in relationship..

But like what did she mean by Why i was ignoring her.. i did not ignore her.. What does her statement or comment mean...

See first of all she sometimes comes to the gym and other days she does'nt come.. and like her time to come to the gym is different so... and do you mean i should ask her out.. man i seriously don't noe how she would react...

and plus i dont have her phone number..

Ok.. thanks for input.. 🙂

By the way.. She will be my first girlfriend that is if she becomes.. 🙂 😛