Hello Fellow Scorps

Just wanted to say hi! I joined a few days ago, when I was googling "Libra Men" and came upon this site. I am currently in a relationship with a Libra Man and was seriously thinking that I'm going insane. (The whole story is in the Libra forum aptly named "Scorpio/Libra Madness")

I do have a question though: Once I read that if a Scorpio finds his/her true love and somehow loses him/her; that any relationship after will not fulfill them as much. They gave the example of Prince Charles and Princess Di. This was long before he married his new wife (I forgot her name)...I mean is that true? I know that my first love was an Aries and though I've moved on he will always have a place in my heart...but I'm faithful and devoted to whomever I'm dating. Any thoughts? Just wondering.

Scrp1106,read the rules forst before posting in Scorpio board:
You have to post a pic of you containing some kind of nudity,then we can discuss the topics with you.

Nah you can move on....The past is the past...I have no connections to it whatsoever...It depends on the individual...your first love was an Aries..wow..pray tell..thats what I am currently dating..

that wells me up

Wow! Mine was a passion filled/firey relationship. We "argued" and then we made up!!! And in between that we had a lot of fun!!! LOL I mean after we broke up, we still managed to stay friends, the sexual tension was there but we didn't act on it. And he use to always tell me that when he was ready to marry I'd be the first to know. And that I'm not the kind of girl he dates, I'm the kind he marries. Honestly at the time, I thought it was a bunch of crap, but as I got older and in more relationships I realized what he meant when I was to other men 'the kind of girl you date.' That's why I was like thrown for a loop when he married his kids' mother, but given his childhood, I kinda understand! I read in the Aries forum that they say what they mean!

Cwooool

Roxi, that's so sad. I had to do the same thing, too. He'll forever be in my heart for a while I couldn't see myself going on... One thing about a Scorp, though, we will always rise up from the ashes!!!!

Yep you can totally be sure of that...and I love that about us..

Awww aint it cute...

LOL!..hahaha..I am sure they are not all like that..but hey...at least we have that power over them 😉

God this timbaland and Nelly Furtado tune is ace!..

Hello 1106,

My last three bf's have been libra's. I am dealing with another one right now. I adore them and they also drive me insane.

The last man I was with, we broke up last summer. A libra. I do feel he was like noone I will ever meet again. He was pretty much almost everything I was looking for. He is the first guy I ever imagined walking down the aisle with. I adored his family, friends, and life style too.

Due to alot of circumstances and messed up communication. It ended. And we dont talk or see each other anymore. I just finally started dating again two and a half months ago.
I think of him alot. I dream about him. I miss him. Its funny that you bring this up

"Once I read that if a Scorpio finds his/her true love and somehow loses him/her; that any relationship after will not fulfill them as much."

becuz I was thinking that to myself and wondering the same thing. I think, sadly, that might be the case...to a certain extent anyway.

But whatevs, life moves on, with or without people. If you wanna know about Libra's, just ask, I will tell!

Just out of interest, what do you see in Libra guys? I have never liked them...

ScorpioSweetie, please read my post in the Libra forum...and maybe you can give me some insight...I really don't feel like re-typing that ...LOL

Roxi, I know what you mean, for awhile it seemed like everytime I thought I was ready to move on, my aries man would come around and take me right back to where I'd come from...

Missmorals, what made you not like Libras? This is my first relationship with a Libra and I think when/if this ends it will definitely be my last.

Hey MM,

Not sure if you were asking me or not, but....I guess I generally like their sense of humor. It is very easy going which puts me at ease. I also like that they (in the beginning anyway) cater to me, meaning, they dont make it hard for me to like them. I like that they are usually smart and charming. I adore baby faces and dimples, which they usually have. I like that they counter balance my intensity. I can be too much of a Scorp sometimes and I need some light hearted people around me. Sexual chemistry is usually good too. But.......

dun dun dunnnnnnnnn..........like I said, what I like in the beginning usually annoys me in the end. I wont talk bad about them right now. Unless, of course, someone asks 🙂

Hey
Yeah Libra just dilly dally..and i really hate their "I am all about image"..they just appear fake to me..I do like their sense of humour though..and they are very witty...but I wouldn't consider one for dating..never..
I like man to be the epitome of alpha male so an Aries will do me fine..(no pun intended)

Ha MM,

Yes, their wishy washy ways, fakeness, people pleasing, flirting, cold hearted, unemotional, scared ways get to me too 🙂

I swore off Libra's as well but alas......I guess I dont want to just shun people for their sign, thats alittle nutty. I just learn every time their "tendencies" and keep it in the back of my mind when dealing with them.

And as for you 1106, DUMP DUMP DUMP him. I know you want advice on how to handle him and this situation. And all I can tell you is that he is in total control of you and this relationship. He knows he has you right where he wants you. Read the book "Why Men Love Bitches". Trust me......its a great book and it sounds like you need it. Back away from your Libra, dont be so emotional, seem detached, cry when he is not around, stop trying to constantly talk about your relationship, these are things that will make a Libra coldly polite to you. And also want to jump off a cliff!

Thanks SS, i've got a lot of thinking to do about what moves to make, I can't just up and leave today, which is why I guess my momma told me never move in with a man unless you're married...

And yes, those traits that seem so cute in the beginning are now the same ones that are getting on my nerves!

""Once I read that if a Scorpio finds his/her true love and somehow loses him/her; that any relationship after will not fulfill them as much."

becuz I was thinking that to myself and wondering the same thing. I think, sadly, that might be the case...to a certain extent anyway. "

No, it is not true. I "lost" my true love, and I was able to find something just as special again. The most important thing is that you have to truly ready and willing to love again. Scorpios can love deeply and the loss of that will take time to heal. We may be able to move on immediately, but to psychologically let go and heal to the point that we are really ready to try again can take a long time. We bury it, we repress it, we wrap it up in pain or spite, and then we frame it and hang it on the wall of our subconscious like a badge of honor to keep us going... And, it stays hanging there collecting dust until we choose to take it down and are ready to truly open our hearts once again.

You can find it again, you just have to realize that you really want to...

Well I get over it really quickly too and I have a cancer moon..imagine!!

Its all down to the individual and his/her strength to recouperate

"Gem moon. Helps recover easily."

I wouldn't exactly call 7 years easy... LOL! I thought I had moved on and healed. I even had another relationship afterward (that entire 7 years), but I was not psychologically ready to love again on that magnitude. Maybe it is just me and I am a slow learner... Who knows. But, I got there again, so that is all that truly matters to me. Now, I feel alive again and ready to experience everything beautiful life has to offer.

you know, I wonder that too...I do tend to get bored easily...I can't stand for things to get too mundane (spelling?) I need spice! So you may have a point when you ask, how much of it is their fault!

Hey, I've read in a lot of posts on here, talks of 'moon sign' and 'rising sign'...where can I go to find out mine. All I know is that my sun sign is Scorp...

"I wondered about this early on with my Scorp, and I've written about it on DXP before - whether you Scorps are a little too impulsive when it comes to dating and relationships... Does that initial intensity diminish over time? If so, how much of it is really His fault? How easily do you Scorps get bored?"

I'm the sort who can't stay single for long, so I guess yeah.. I suppose I am rather impulsive when it comes to dating and relationships, but no I don't get bored easily.. it's usually the other way around. And when that happens I would resort to cheating but I wouldn't dump him.

"Hey, I've read in a lot of posts on here, talks of 'moon sign' and 'rising sign'...where can I go to find out mine. "

I tried going to astro.com but couldn't understand a thing and I don't know the exact time of my birth so..