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My fun, loving, passionate relationship with my Scorpio man has just come to a crashing halt and I'm stunned.
He just disappeared for a week, I finally caught up with him today, he has apologised for handling this badly
But says he feels overwhelmed and needs to be alone, needless to say I was gob smacked and didn't know what
To do or say, his 7yr old daughter was there so no privacy, he looked so sad tho and it really upset me, do I just leave him alone ??

Whats going on with him? Is there some sort of major problem in his life right now? I'm not a Scorpio, but I'm an Aries that lived with/dated a Scorp for 11 years

I'm not sure, he is starting a new business and has a 7yr daughter to care for, so his time is limited, but that was always the case
He just went cold, and said he was overwhelmed normally he would pack his bags and go travelling but he can't , he was quite clear
That no one else is involved he just need to be alone, he didn't know how long

Thank you for answering, i shall respect his privacy, just wish I had known other wise I would never have intruded on his privacy

Posted by Ar1es
My fun, loving, passionate relationship with my Scorpio man has just come to a crashing halt and I'm stunned.
He just disappeared for a week, I finally caught up with him today, he has apologised for handling this badly
But says he feels overwhelmed and needs to be alone, needless to say I was gob smacked and didn't know what
To do or say, his 7yr old daughter was there so no privacy, he looked so sad tho and it really upset me, do I just leave him alone ??

YES.

Thank you Phoenix rising, short straight and to the point, just what I need 🙂

It is unfortunate he wasn't mature enough to communicate that to you before disappearing, but just give him some space for now. He was quite clear when he spoke to you.

He absolutely was clear, and hurting, and sorry he handled it badly

Your last message is hidden Phoenix rising

Posted by Ar1es
He absolutely was clear, and hurting, and sorry he handled it badly

Yeah, sometimes Scorps suck when it comes to communicating their needs. Things become overwhelming and we can pull away to recharge. When you do connect again just be sure to address it then. Let him know you respect his need for space, but he needs to communicate those needs out of respect for you and the relationship. If he's mature and invested, that is all that is needed.

Posted by Ar1es
Your last message is hidden Phoenix rising

Double quote. Says the exact same thing as the one before.

Thank you 🙂 I shall be prepared, I know he'll contact me, He loves me 🙂 of that I have no doubt

I don't know how to do that apart from just being there if he needs me

Yes, I'd leave him alone as everyone else says. I'm sure you've let him know you're there if he needs you and thats really all you can do.

I was so stunned I don't think I even said goodbye, I can't remember 😢 it's a blur

I sure will, if there is a next time, I'm confident as to how he feels about me so I think I shall have that opportunity, thank you