If a scorpio man says i may be back who knows ..

Ok me and my scorpion lover have had some ups n downs of late...
Last Friday I said some mean things to him.(to get a reaction mainly)
and he replyed says he don't want to speak to me or see me again but told me he has felling for me..
I said I was truly sorry and regret even sayin them things..
well I left him to have his space and today he msg me sayin he don't want a relationship
I said that's fine we can carry on as we are..
he said wont be doing that either and was sorry ..
but he did also say "I may be back who knows"

what does that mean ... has he told me that to have just a glimmer of hope or to still mess with my head??

someone shead some light on this as im loosing the plot here and need to know if I should move on ...

As a scorpio female, I've never said anything like "I may be back, who knows." to someone I wasn't planning on going back to. Well I've never said it to anyone I was dating, but if I felt like it was over and I was done, I would say "I'm done with you and this relationship, don't talk to me ever again." then move on, never speaking to them again or even acknowledging their presence. They become dead to me.

You mentioned you said mean things to him to get a reaction, and well....you got a reaction. It probably wasn't the reaction you were looking for, but none the less, a reaction. You hurt his feelings and now he's hurting yours while also trying to protect himself. I don't know why you were trying to get a reaction out of him, I don't know the circumstances of what was going on, you had your reasons...but I'd suggest apologizing again and tell him why you had made those mean comments to him. Keep telling him how sorry you are and how badly you feel about it, and then tell him again. Hopefully you didn't say anything too horrible. Give him some time.

If it's meant to be, it will be. I'm sorry your going threw a hard time right now. I hope things work out for you.

(If you don't mind me asking, why did you say hurtful things to him, what was he doing or not doing? Why were you trying to get a reaction? and what did you say?)

Posted by XxdelightsxX
Ok me and my scorpion lover have had some ups n downs of late...
Last Friday I said some mean things to him.(to get a reaction mainly)
and he replyed says he don't want to speak to me or see me again but told me he has felling for me..
I said I was truly sorry and regret even sayin them things..
well I left him to have his space and today he msg me sayin he don't want a relationship
I said that's fine we can carry on as we are..
he said wont be doing that either and was sorry ..
but he did also say "I may be back who knows"

what does that mean ... has he told me that to have just a glimmer of hope or to still mess with my head??

someone shead some light on this as im loosing the plot here and need to know if I should move on ...

You sound VERY young.
He's not ready for a relationship beyond what one would have with the employees at the grocery store.
Wait til your 30 years old before you get intimate with anyone. - you'll save yourself a lot of grief.

"I may be back, who knows?"

Translation: I really am not planning on coming back, however, if I get really lonely sometime, I may dial you up, only to dump you again.

Thankyou everyone...

I was with him for a year and I got mad on how he would just block me and unblock me when it suited him...
Pick and choose when he wanted to speak to me or even see me ..
As im a Taurus we tend to let things pass but I have let it pass for so long and just went to town on him Friday..
I basicly told him to get a back bone and tell me whats going on as im not happy about it all ...

He knows everything about me (I only know the basics about him) yet I only found out three weeks ago where he worked, as I don't dig in to someones life I believe they should want to tell me..
I am 44 and he is 34 .. I just cant deal with his mind games and believe that this *I maybe back who knows* is yet another mind game..
I do have very strong feelings for him and miss him so much, but I also hate him for the games he is playing ... sounds very confusing I know but that's how im feeling ...
if he did say he was gonna come back to me I would have him back at a drop of a hat..BUT...
and I mean but.. on a compromise not all on his demands .. I think that's whats scared him, im not that easy to control as he once thought .. who knows only he does and maybe he don't ..

him...I don't want a relastionship
me.. ok then we can carry on the way we are?
him..not that either im sorry
me.. ok iv messed up and now lost you as a friend
him..who knows I maybe back

blocked me on whatsapp but not on kik ..
I was going to ask him to delete my number but I know he wouldn't..so im going to change my number and get on with my life..

I don't tell others what they should do, but I will tell you that a remark like that from a departing lover would earn him a permanent spot on my "Do Not Call" list.

Why? He's disrespecting my time and my very humanity. He's clarified that he doesn't respect me or himself enough to give me a straight answer. He's basically telling you, "Maybe, just hold your breath 'til when/if I show my face again."

I work with a very Scorpio male who gives me lots of "nonsense talk" like this and it is GETTING OLD FAST. I would NEVER tolerate this crappola in my personal life.

Posted by XxdelightsxX
Thankyou everyone...

I was with him for a year and I got mad on how he would just block me and unblock me when it suited him...
Pick and choose when he wanted to speak to me or even see me ..
As im a Taurus we tend to let things pass but I have let it pass for so long and just went to town on him Friday..
I basicly told him to get a back bone and tell me whats going on as im not happy about it all ...

He knows everything about me (I only know the basics about him) yet I only found out three weeks ago where he worked, as I don't dig in to someones life I believe they should want to tell me..
I am 44 and he is 34 .. I just cant deal with his mind games and believe that this *I maybe back who knows* is yet another mind game..
I do have very strong feelings for him and miss him so much, but I also hate him for the games he is playing ... sounds very confusing I know but that's how im feeling ...
if he did say he was gonna come back to me I would have him back at a drop of a hat..BUT...
and I mean but.. on a compromise not all on his demands .. I think that's whats scared him, im not that easy to control as he once thought .. who knows only he does and maybe he don't ..

If this is in fact what you said, I don't see an issue with it. You called him on his immature behaviour. He's 34. Seriously? The only reason I question your response is because you've written "I basically said...", which suggest to me you're leaving some stuff out. Perhaps that is why you felt the need to apologize? Otherwise, I'm not sure why you did. He was playing games and you made your feelings known. Nothing wrong with that and only a bruised ego would sulk about their loved one calling them on how poorly they are treating them.Anyhway you look at it, he's not very mature.

Again, this is all if this^^^was in fact what you said to him. I would move on. You've apologized. That's all you can do.

*Anyway you look at it

*silently curse Merc Rx*

I said a few swear words.. and yes I did tell him to get a back bone and reply to me .. tell me why he has treated me in this way... And told him how hurt I am ...
I am not the sort of person that likes to hurt peoples feelings and I know I hurt his..but on the other side he hurt mine yet I felt I had to say sorry, that's the kind of person I am

Posted by XxdelightsxX

what does that mean ... has he told me that to have just a glimmer of hope or to still mess with my head??

someone shead some light on this as im loosing the plot here and need to know if I should move on ...

Like the glimmer of hope you gave him before Christmas?

Posted by XxdelightsxX

I did tell him just before xmas I have strong feeling for him..and I think we should brake up for a bit as I didn't want to get hurt..but he sent cold rely..have it ur way..then was very nice ..and wanted to see me..
I just don't get it..

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I already told you to walk away. You blew it. I suggest you catch up to your 44 years get over your past heartbreaks and STOP taking out your insecurities on other men. You aren't ready for a relationship until you deal with your issues.

He needs to walk away completely from you. Unfortunately he sounds like a Scorp who needs to bring you way down first before he does. So you have a choice, dignify yourself, chalk it up to a lesson learned and move on or continue to be fucked with.

To be honest, as a Scorpio woman, once I leave I'm not coming back.

Posted by XxdelightsxX
him...I don't want a relastionship
me.. ok then we can carry on the way we are?
him..not that either im sorry
me.. ok iv messed up and now lost you as a friend
him..who knows I maybe back

blocked me on whatsapp but not on kik ..
I was going to ask him to delete my number but I know he wouldn't..so im going to change my number and get on with my life..

There you have it, in bold.

Posted by XxdelightsxX

Last Friday I said some mean things to him.(to get a reaction mainly)...

and he replyed says he don't want to speak to me or see me again

Now that you have confirmation that saying mean things to get a reaction works very well ...

you can do one of two things:

1/ Go find a Capricorn who is a total mama's boy and will not only TELL you everything, but WHINE about it all...but the fact that he is a "boy" will endear him to the kid at heart in you.
or
2/ You can continue to have good sex with the Scorpio by understanding that
WE DON'T LIKE TO REVEAL ANYTHING ABOUT OURSELVES. IT IS UNNATURAL TO US.
I WOULD NOT TELL MY FULL BROTHER WHO MY MOM & DAD ARE. lol

Oh hell no. I'd be like "I might give a fuck, who knows"

jackass.