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there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

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there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

sounds like he is not interested.

i read your other posts about him & if he isnt making time to spend w/ you, he is not interested.

i am a scorpio who has been in 3 long term relationships w/ scorpio men.

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there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

sounds like he is not interested.

i read your other posts about him & if he isnt making time to spend w/ you, he is not interested.

i am a scorpio who has been in 3 long term relationships w/ scorpio men.

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there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

sounds like he is not interested.

i read your other posts about him & if he isnt making time to spend w/ you, he is not interested.

i am a scorpio who has been in 3 long term relationships w/ scorpio men.

why is he still contacting me then and the day before the argument he came to see me actimg all loving feeling me up and talking all kinds of loving

attention.

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there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

sounds like he is not interested.

i read your other posts about him & if he isnt making time to spend w/ you, he is not interested.

i am a scorpio who has been in 3 long term relationships w/ scorpio men.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

You've been on standby for 6 months? You could've found the "love of your life" in all of that time. Why waste time kicking rocks?

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Posted by candykane38

there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

sounds like he is not interested.

i read your other posts about him & if he isnt making time to spend w/ you, he is not interested.

i am a scorpio who has been in 3 long term relationships w/ scorpio men.

why is he still contacting me then and the day before the argument he came to see me actimg all loving feeling me up and talking all kinds of loving

attention.

i think you maybe right but u have fallen for him smh

he’s back pocketing you. dudes do it all the time & generally, w/ numerous women at a time. they go round n round dipping from each attention pool.

i would not be surprised if he was doing this w/ other women.

cut communication & leave him alone. he aint it. if he were, he’d put in real effort.

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Posted by sweetpea2977

You've been on standby for 6 months? You could've found the "love of your life" in all of that time. Why waste time kicking rocks?

cause he always come with stuff like he likes me but has jus gotten out of a really bad relationship and doesnt want to rush into anyting right now but he rather us start off as friends first then he would call everyday and take litle things whe he comes to visit me and calls me every morning and recently he has gotten more attentive by being touchy feely and asking me to come by his place etc why is he being so cruel to me knowing how i feel about him he even says that he wants us to become closer when i ask him he says he wants to be with me an become intimate i am so hurt right now

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Posted by sweetpea2977

You've been on standby for 6 months? You could've found the "love of your life" in all of that time. Why waste time kicking rocks?

cause he always come with stuff like he likes me but has jus gotten out of a really bad relationship and doesnt want to rush into anyting right now but he rather us start off as friends first then he would call everyday and take litle things whe he comes to visit me and calls me every morning and recently he has gotten more attentive by being touchy feely and asking me to come by his place etc why is he being so cruel to me knowing how i feel about him he even says that he wants us to become closer when i ask him he says he wants to be with me an become intimate i am so hurt right now

attentive is not being touchy feely. attentive is someone anticipating your needs. which he is not doing.

he’s not really being cruel, he’s just leading you on.

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You've been on standby for 6 months? You could've found the "love of your life" in all of that time. Why waste time kicking rocks?

cause he always come with stuff like he likes me but has jus gotten out of a really bad relationship and doesnt want to rush into anyting right now but he rather us start off as friends first then he would call everyday and take litle things whe he comes to visit me and calls me every morning and recently he has gotten more attentive by being touchy feely and asking me to come by his place etc why is he being so cruel to me knowing how i feel about him he even says that he wants us to become closer when i ask him he says he wants to be with me an become intimate i am so hurt right now

Sounds like he's looking to bed you by wearing you down. You have to be stronger than that. You're already hurt so proceed with caution. You should never allow someone to play with your emotions for months like this. It makes you look weak. He's using your weakness, which is him, against you.

NEVER date a dude who "just came out of a bad relationship." That's dangerous territory. They typically will do anything "to feel better". Even if that means, "he wants to become intimate" although you're not dating or official. Easy making of a FWB situation.

You need to go NO CONTACT. That's the best thing for you right now. Stop being naive and so vulnerable, so emotional. Stop allowing him to come to your house and to take things. Stop allowing him to call you everyday. Stop allowing him to touch you. You've become his distraction, his play thing. When dude is all better LOL, he's not going to want you. He's going to be better for the next person. Why? You've played his therapist for 6 months now.

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You've been on standby for 6 months? You could've found the "love of your life" in all of that time. Why waste time kicking rocks?

cause he always come with stuff like he likes me but has jus gotten out of a really bad relationship and doesnt want to rush into anyting right now but he rather us start off as friends first then he would call everyday and take litle things whe he comes to visit me and calls me every morning and recently he has gotten more attentive by being touchy feely and asking me to come by his place etc why is he being so cruel to me knowing how i feel about him he even says that he wants us to become closer when i ask him he says he wants to be with me an become intimate i am so hurt right now

Sounds like he's looking to bed you by wearing you down. You have to be stronger than that. You're already hurt so proceed with caution. You should never allow someone to play with your emotions for months like this. It makes you look weak. He's using your weakness, which is him, against you.

NEVER date a dude who "just came out of a bad relationship." That's dangerous territory. They typically will do anything "to feel better". Even if that means, "he wants to become intimate" although you're not dating or official. Easy making of a FWB situation.

You need to go NO CONTACT. That's the best thing for you right now. Stop being naive and so vulnerable, so emotional. Stop allowing him to come to your house and to take things. Stop allowing him to call you everyday. Stop allowing him to touch you. You've become his distraction, his play thing. When dude is all better LOL, he's not going to want you. He's going to be better for the next person. Why? You've played his therapist for 6 months now.

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Posted by candykane38

there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

sounds like he is not interested.

i read your other posts about him & if he isnt making time to spend w/ you, he is not interested.

i am a scorpio who has been in 3 long term relationships w/ scorpio men.

why is he still contacting me then and the day before the argument he came to see me actimg all loving feeling me up and talking all kinds of loving

attention.

i think you maybe right but u have fallen for him smh

he’s back pocketing you. dudes do it all the time & generally, w/ numerous women at a time. they go round n round dipping from each attention pool.

i would not be surprised if he was doing this w/ other women.

cut communication & leave him alone. he aint it. if he were, he’d put in real effort.

i think your right i am really confused tho cause he calls me regularly not like i am only one calling he says i am not the only one thinking he is slow hos friends have told him he is slow too all while telling me that if he have sex with me he wont leave he will commit himself cause he doesnt go around sleeping with women and leaving them he dedicates him self to them but i am so stupid tho to believe him smh i am really hurt to allow him to string me along for so long

i know he says a lot of stuff that keeps you hooked, but it’s a classic trick. alotta dudes will say anything to get what they want.

it happens to the best of us. pick yourself up & move on. you’ll get more & more confused.

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Posted by tiziani

I think you're all speaking Chinese.

Any guy who spends this much time with you is interested. But he also sounds gunshy, that's normal after a breakup.

It's also useless to you and your needs so there's nothing you can do.

Hard and fast rules that people are trying to come up with here don't work for situations like this.

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I think you're all speaking Chinese.

Any guy who spends this much time with you is interested. But he also sounds gunshy, that's normal after a breakup.

It's also useless to you and your needs so there's nothing you can do.

Hard and fast rules that people are trying to come up with here don't work for situations like this.

well i thought he was interested too but why wont he spend time with me

Would it make a difference if he did?

Bottom line is he's not the guy for your needs.

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Posted by candykane38

there is this scorpio man i am really crushing on i have post in here before about him. well we had an argument and he gave me the ignoring and silent treatment for 3 days then he is back to answering my calls and text but no visiting he only makes promises of visiting but have yet to show up. we borh have apologized for our role in the argument and i said i hope that we can go back to where we were or close to it and he in turn says or closer. we have been talking for 6 months now nothing intimate he says we are really good friends but he acts or his actions says we are more. i am really confused i am thinking of packing up my feelings and move on. cause i dont know if things are moving positively or not yet still he calls me every morning and sometimes twice in the morning and at nights

what was the argument about?



we had made plans to hook up i was to spend time at his house for the weekend he was suppose to pick me up friday night and like always he was out drinking with his friends and he didnt even bother to let me know that he wasnt coming so sat i called him and he told me he was doing he laundry and then come and he didnt so i got upset and curse him out and he ignore my calls and text after that and gave me the silent treatment but we have since talking its just not the same

what is your sign?

sounds like he is not interested.

i read your other posts about him & if he isnt making time to spend w/ you, he is not interested.

i am a scorpio who has been in 3 long term relationships w/ scorpio men.

why is he still contacting me then and the day before the argument he came to see me actimg all loving feeling me up and talking all kinds of loving

attention.

i think you maybe right but u have fallen for him smh

he’s back pocketing you. dudes do it all the time & generally, w/ numerous women at a time. they go round n round dipping from each attention pool.

i would not be surprised if he was doing this w/ other women.

cut communication & leave him alone. he aint it. if he were, he’d put in real effort.

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Posted by DMV

If he does contact you tell him in a very direct way what YOU want and then he has to prove it.

Tell him that you would like a serious committed exclusive relationship. If he says Yes, then he must prove.

That will being reality into the situation. It will also separate the people who are just out playing versus those who know what they want.

Posted by saggurl88

Quit begging his ass to see you and ignore him back. They hate being ignored. Go date other people and stop chasing this man who has time for everyone else but you.

Posted by DonnaLibra

What do you see in this guy? He hasn't asked you out and it's been 6 months. You should have been gone after the 2nd week. Stop letting him feel you up if he isn't your man.

Posted by peachy06

If he says you are good friends then you should trust his words. You are just a friend, that's all.

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Posted by saggurl88

Quit begging his ass to see you and ignore him back. They hate being ignored. Go date other people and stop chasing this man who has time for everyone else but you.

i have stopped an block and deleted him from my contacts i have come to realize i was just a pawn in his game he didnt want me but he didnt want anyone else to have me either hence his taking things slow comments all the time i have only seen him once since our falling out earlier this month he has been avoiding me and i dont care either he is a coward

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If he says you are good friends then you should trust his words. You are just a friend, that's all.

but he would act as if we were moving pass that only on his terms

His actions speak louder than his words, he's simply not interested, you just let your imagination get to you.

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Quit begging his ass to see you and ignore him back. They hate being ignored. Go date other people and stop chasing this man who has time for everyone else but you.

i have stopped an block and deleted him from my contacts i have come to realize i was just a pawn in his game he didnt want me but he didnt want anyone else to have me either hence his taking things slow comments all the time i have only seen him once since our falling out earlier this month he has been avoiding me and i dont care either he is a coward

Good for you! He'll be back if he actually liked you, once he sees you're not paying him any attention. They never really go far if they like you.

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If he says you are good friends then you should trust his words. You are just a friend, that's all.

but he would act as if we were moving pass that only on his terms

His actions speak louder than his words, he's simply not interested, you just let your imagination get to you.

you have a valid point but he was stringing me along telling me an doing things to me to ensure that i dont realize that but i did and i am happy i did realize albeit 6 months later

Better late than never. Obviously he hasn't been honest toward you.

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Posted by DonnaLibra

What do you see in this guy? He hasn't asked you out and it's been 6 months. You should have been gone after the 2nd week. Stop letting him feel you up if he isn't your man.

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If he says you are good friends then you should trust his words. You are just a friend, that's all.

but he would act as if we were moving pass that only on his terms

His actions speak louder than his words, he's simply not interested, you just let your imagination get to you.

you have a valid point but he was stringing me along telling me an doing things to me to ensure that i dont realize that but i did and i am happy i did realize albeit 6 months later

Better late than never. Obviously he hasn't been honest toward you.

thats true and i come to realize it in the later part of last year he told me things would be different between us he was going to be better towards me and when we both apologize after the argument i told him i hope we can get bk to being friends like we were or if not maybe something like what we had and he said closer is what he wants and i ask what that ment he said we would be together and become intimate etc at one point he even was talking about starting a family with me cause he wanted me in his life etc so i wasnt teally imagining things he was feeding me things to keep me i am glad u wised up and blocked his ass

I have no idea what your argument was about, but as a Scorpio myself I know whenever something like this happen, we can resent others. Maybe you did or said something he didn't like, then he hold a grudge against you. Now, after reading your story, I feel like he was just playing you from the start.

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If hes not camping outside your window while giving you half assed answers, hes not into you

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If he says you are good friends then you should trust his words. You are just a friend, that's all.

but he would act as if we were moving pass that only on his terms

His actions speak louder than his words, he's simply not interested, you just let your imagination get to you.

you have a valid point but he was stringing me along telling me an doing things to me to ensure that i dont realize that but i did and i am happy i did realize albeit 6 months later

Better late than never. Obviously he hasn't been honest toward you.

thats true and i come to realize it in the later part of last year he told me things would be different between us he was going to be better towards me and when we both apologize after the argument i told him i hope we can get bk to being friends like we were or if not maybe something like what we had and he said closer is what he wants and i ask what that ment he said we would be together and become intimate etc at one point he even was talking about starting a family with me cause he wanted me in his life etc so i wasnt teally imagining things he was feeding me things to keep me i am glad u wised up and blocked his ass

I have no idea what your argument was about, but as a Scorpio myself I know whenever something like this happen, we can resent others. Maybe you did or said something he didn't like, then he hold a grudge against you. Now, after reading your story, I feel like he was just playing you from the start.

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If hes not camping outside your window while giving you half assed answers, hes not into you

i have have to realize that now

More scorpios in the sea, if that's your kink

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Posted by LadyLuna20

If hes not camping outside your window while giving you half assed answers, hes not into you

i have have to realize that now

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Posted by DonnaLibra

What do you see in this guy? He hasn't asked you out and it's been 6 months. You should have been gone after the 2nd week. Stop letting him feel you up if he isn't your man.

he asked me out he would set date and time but it never materialized there was always some issue would arise he drinks alot and smokes weed and on fridays he would hang out with his friends or so he claims drinking and smoking then when we were to go out on the saturday he was too tired etc lots of excuses not to

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we were to meet up and he ditched me without informing me he wasnt going to pick me up so i got mad and curse him out over it then he ignores and gave me the silent treatment for 3 days when i reach out to him to apologize

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we were to meet up and he ditched me without informing me he wasnt going to pick me up so i got mad and curse him out over it then he ignores and gave me the silent treatment for 3 days when i reach out to him to apologize

So he stands you up, ghosts you for 3 days, and your the one apologizing??!

Goofy ass doormat behavior right here.

We don't get what we deserve out of life. We get what we accept. Look at what you are accepting into your life... straight trash.

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we were to meet up and he ditched me without informing me he wasnt going to pick me up so i got mad and curse him out over it then he ignores and gave me the silent treatment for 3 days when i reach out to him to apologize

So he stands you up, ghosts you for 3 days, and your the one apologizing??!

Goofy ass doormat behavior right here.

We don't get what we deserve out of life. We get what we accept. Look at what you are accepting into your life... straight trash.

Yeah, I agree....she had nothing to apologize for in that case. You don't stand somebody up.

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