help! scorpio & aries

Hi, I'm new to this forum and I've noticed a lot of people have posted about this pair. I am a scorpion woman and have been dating an Aries man for 5 months now. Everything is still going great but I have to admit, reading all this "run, run fast" posts about this pairing is starting to make me quite confused.

So far, I have an amazing relationship with my Aries man, and I adore the attention and care we have for another. It's undeniable to the both of us that we have this unexplainable connection and understanding between us. He had been in a relationship of almost 2 years with a Gemini a year ago and from what I've heard from other people, it was a relationship filled with arguments and constant fights. But he never gave up and stayed with her for 2 years and was still not ready to give up until during their break she hooked up with a friend of his. For the past year before me, he was still very much wounded, and indeed had hook up with a lot of girls. After we've established our relationship though, I know for a fact he is 100% dedicated to me since we spend almost every living hour of this 5 month relationship together. We've never had really big fights, just small disagreements here and there but we solve them in a matter of seconds.

So whats my question? At 5 months, I still find this relationship fairly new, and am just wondering how it would turn out in the long run. I'd love to hear some personal stories =) and if anyone could help me with our natal chart readings & let me know our compatibility, it would be great!


Mine

Sun - Scorpio
Rising - Aquarius
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Sagittarius
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Gemini
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Capricorn
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio


His

Sun - Aries
Rising - Cancer
Moon - Cancer
Mercury - Aries
Venus - Aquarius
Mars - Aquarius
Jupiter - Cancer
Saturn - Capricorn
Uranus - Capricorn
Neptune - Capricorn
Pluto - Scorpio

if things are going great, why mess with the flow ?
not too great with charts but your moon goes with his sun and vice versa so outlook in life may be similar - your mercury is quite compatible so can communicate issues quite comfortably...

aries and scorp are very very similar but scorp is a controlled version and aries is just more careless and carefree - if you can understand that aries feels what you feel but are also zodiac adventurers... they want to get onto the next place where it seems exciting - they will be back after they go peek 🙂 if scorp doesn't get protective or suspicious then it will be great.
scorp gets suspicious -may be why you can't believe how good it is going !

I would celebrate the good times and learn about the person I am with from them not by reading about them. eventually might poison my mind and start to look for trouble where there isn't 🙂 but I am aries so more carefree

As another scropionlady 🙂 I have dated an aries, they are good people just not for me. I like my Aries as friends not lovers or as a mate. I think aries have a problem expressing themselves as with most me do.🙂

I would agree with Zena just enjoy it cuz when I am with my aries friend he makes me laugh and I have a good time when I am with my Aries brother inlaw also.

scorplady, howre you ? 🙂
exactly - there's a big difference in the way both signs express... I wouldn't say prob, just difference.

Hey Zena I am good 🙂. Just trying to heal by keeping very busy.

Although my Gem gets on my nerves, I like it 🙂 I am always up for a challenge.

Aries don't give me much of a challenge.

hope the rest of the family's doing good - where there's a will... 🙂

gotta love gems

hey scorplady...how are you?

Girl my gem is getting on my nerves too...hee hee....he leaves me EXHAUSTED!!!

Zane
Yea I was having a bad morning today but slowing coming out of it.


dward
Well the secret with that is not to allow them to exhauste you 🙂 Will send you a PM

scorpldy I know exactly what you mean. I had read a lot of incompatibility issues with this pair and things were going great with my Aries until his Gemini ex got pregnant (yes before we met and yes while they were broken up)by him and waited 10 weeks to tell him after she figured he was seeing soemone else on a consistant basis. They were engaged for a few months and dated for 3 years. Also lived together but had a hectic relationship.

Now that she is pregnant and he wants a child badly, I know in my heart they will be together although he says they aren't because they can't be together. I don't know I just hate things happened this way... Grrrr. Read my post "Just when things were going good" Atleast you have yours to yourself without the extra drama.

He has been in constant contact with me several times a day but I shy away from hanging out and seeing him so much now. Checking those emotions! Sounds like you have a great man. Hold tight to him.

As some of you know, I dated a Aries man for about 3 months,last year we were friends for 5 years prior, it was FWB to fullfill his and my fantasy and I did, I felt the emotional attachement coming into play and him with his lack of communication when I would ask him if he was seeing someone else so I just walked away because I did not have time for the games and lack of being honest and truthfull. I did not care if he was seeing someone else because he is much older than me and I am not looking for a sugar daddy. So when I asked him was he seeing someone else and had he been honest enough to tell me the truth I just would have stepped back, I knew the game we was playing so I never go attached to him like that.

Well lately he would call and tell me that, he wakes up thinking about me, he still gets off with memories of our last encounter and how he has not found anyone that could put it on him like the way I did and how we broke one of his toys 🙂, and to him it was special I guess. I was just speechless, he also said that he wants to find another women with my name and see if she can match me in the bedroom. WTF

So I told him that he is scareing me and do not talk like that because he is starting to sound like a sex stalker, I asked him if he was serious about all that he said and he said yea, except for the tattoo part but if he could get my name on his penis by way of a wash off tatoo he would do it... WTF

So I told him I think I need to get off the phone, because again you are scareing me he starts to laugh, I don't think that shit was funny, at all and I tried to tell him that what we did was 1 year ago and he should be over it. And he asked me have I found someone that have matched him in bed and I said in my life I have had my share of good sex partner, not wanting to tell him yes I did find someone,(my Gem) and I have been sleeping with him for a year know. I did not want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know why he seems to forget that I am seeing someone because I told him about 6 months ago and on and off I would say that I am still seeing the Gem man.

I still do care for him as a friend ONLY. I am at a point where I think I should walk away from the friendship completed because I can not continue this friendship when all he talks about is trying to get me back in bed.

So How do I tell him in a nice way that he needs to stop this, or I will walk away from the friendship completly without hurting his feelings.

Because if I have to tell him I will just tell him bluntly, which could sound a little harsh.

Aries men always scare me away.

hahaha - Because if I have to tell him I will just tell him bluntly, which could sound a little harsh.

From my experience, you can't be too nice - direct and kinda harsh is the best - if you're nice, we think you wanna have sex and it's green flag...no really ! 😛

Nice means mixed signals - we only understand directness...don't worry about losing the friendship - if the friendship means a lot to him, he'll come running after a little while and will be the one to apologise 🙂 if all he wants is sex and that's why he's keeping the friendship, time to find out too...good luck...

Is he just playing with you? they can do that too...lol...I know a bit sick

Zena

No he is not playing I know he is serious this is not the first time that he has talked to me like that over the phone I just realized that he is getting a bit carried away.

It just started getting scary because of his obsession of wanting to sleep with me every time I talk to him, and when he would come and take me to lunch he always want to squeeze my breast and ass. I fullfill a fantasy and it is over, why can't he get the hint that it is over.

I have asked him was he serious and he be like yea. I should have just keep the friendship platonic and never slept with him, had I known this was going to happen.


Before we started this FWB, we both agreed that no matter what, the friendship will always be there and I meant that but I can't continue like this. He is so turning me off from being his friend. I will tell him bluntly, and see how that goes.

Scorpionlady, exactly what is it that you get from him in the "friendship" part of this relationship? It doesn't sound like he offers much in that department anyway so I would just cut him loose.

gslove

I get financial support sometimes when I need it, and sometimes I just need a ear, and someone to listen and he does that, and I sometimes need so age old wisdom.

aries charted people are better as friends than in relationships in my experience - I would know 😉
someone that drops everything for you, no questions asked, naively and impulsively take a knife for friends 😕

Fallstar

"Better yet set him up with another scorp female haha he will forget your sexual prowess in no time no offense or anything lol."

It's funny that you say that he called me and we talked some more I told him that I can not sleep with him again we did our thing and it cannot happen again.

So then I did say why don't I find you a scropio like me, he said he had one and that she got to emotional, so he had to cut her back, LOL then I said well we are like that, but you just want the sex right? he said yea....

At this point the only thing to do is take a BIG step back from the friendship for a while.