aries female and scorpio male

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by calypso_baby on Wednesday, December 5, 2007 and has 13 replies.

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@calypso_baby
19 Years

i met a scorp here at school and we got along really well. always together and i thought of him as a friend. he would tell me about his problems with his girlfriend (who is also an aries)and give him advice.

recently he became very touchy with me, always making an excuse to touch me, not in a sexual way, more like.. hugging me or having me close. and a couple of people have mentioned that whenever he sees me his eyes "light up" and that although there are other people in the room; he only focuses on me... and how he seems to be next to me whenever he is in my vicinity.

i did an idiot move and ignored him yesterday. which i was told later on NEVER ever to do to a scorpio... thing is i like him and i dunno how he feels about me. and i'm too chicken to ask him. are these signs that he could like me? i could never tell

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@calypso_baby
19 Years

i will def watch out. thing is.. i like ignored him last night and i really dunno how to be today... i think he was attracted to my openess. should i just talk to him like i did before?

do you think he knows i like him? because scorps are supposed to be mind readers.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

It appears to me that your concern is over whether you've made the right impression on him because you like him, instead of what really matters .. if you got him .. if he decided to like you and want you, as you no doubt want him to do ..

.. a man who cheats to get you, will cheat on you ..

So, the real question in my mind would be .. is he worthy of my respect?

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@calypso_baby
19 Years

i was thinking that. except when we're together and he thinks a girl is pretty he'll tell me... and watches me. i usually smile. he hasnt outwardly asked me out, but has mentioned to me that we should watch movies, or if i could help him apartment hunt.

he's very touchy with me; he'll always try to hug me, or kiss the top of my head or temple... and he likes to tease me, like when he was talking and eating i told him to stop so that he doesnt choke and joked that he would need mouth to mouth and i corrected him that it would be the heimlich manuver (sp?) and told him if he needed CPR he'd have to be passed out and then he pretended to pass out. lol

people who have seen us together have wondered if we're dating or whatever. and tell me its very obvious the attraction between us... could he just be really friendly? how would i know he likes me?

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

It appears to me that you don't care that he is partnered .. you will flirt and seek his attention anyway ..

:::wonders if you would care if he was yours and it was another woman doing it to your man knowing he's not single:::

"did an idiot move and ignored him"

:::looks at this term from a moral standpoint:::

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@ScorpioBehindYou
18 Years

He probably doesn't feel that connected to the other chick as he does with you or it could be that he likes to tease and seduce you or he's a playa

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@scorpion_rising
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Aries-Scorpio doesn't work out in the LT.

ST, I can imagine it would be fun.

P-Angel, I think you're talking to a couple of babies (not condescending). She and this guy are both kids. They're probably just experimenting and having fun, unable to carry a mature emotional relationship.... if you know what I mean.

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@Zelanthias
18 Years

Ok, well i'm a male scorpio and here is my opinion. I will only be physical with someone if I am atracted to them. So I'm thinking he is definitly atracted to you. I can also tell that he doesn't really care about his current girlfriend. He likes you and he seems to forget about the fact he is involved with someone else. One possible option is to ask him if he is so atracted to you why is he going out with someone else. If he says you are making a good point, he obviously likes you way better than his current girlfriend and might break up with her and go for you. If he doesn't respond, because he's ingnoring you or doesn't know how to, then he doesn't actually have any strong feelings for you and he's just playing you. If he gets angry then he's really strange and I don't know what his game is. Obviously he is attracted to you, but whether or not his feelings are real or not I do not know. Try asking him my question, it might help ypou to find out if he really likes you or not. You don't have to... this is just my opinion. My very long opinion.