Honorary Scorpios ...?

Anybody else with major Plutonian aspects who are NOT Scorp suns? Found out recently my sun is in the 8th house, which coupled with my Pisces Mars is probably responsible for my attraction to water fellas, specifically Scorpios. I have always wondered why I've been more into my alone time, secrets, simmering anger and small circle of friends than maybe a "typical" Taurus. Anybody with a Scorp moon, Scorp rising or any other 8th house sun people? Do you feel very "Scorpio" at times? Do you find yourself in relationships with a lot of Scorpios or understanding them better? I don't really think I "get" Scorpios at all organically, but when aspects of Scorpio behavior is explained to me, I find myself thinking, "Wow, why didn't I get that? I'm that same way ..."

On an unrelated note, is there a way to get a Gemini man to leave you the hell alone? I am assuming he will just get bore with my ignoring him and move on, but he is being VERY persistent and I sort of want to stomp his balls off at this point.

I'm Scorp Rising and nobody ever guesses I'm a Virgo - though I do have all the nit-picky traits in my personality, they're largely under control now I'm an adult.

I am very Scorpionic in lots of ways, always was and didn't know why.

Ferdy. You can just tell him in a nice honest direct way if possible. He is waisting his time contacting you. You are not interested in him. I'm sure he will go away. Ps ignoring a man can send the wrong signs as if you are playing hard to get...