Interesting observation?

Hello All....

I've noticed something about scorpios (I'm sure not everyone & i don't mean any harm) However i sort of feel that when people believe that you guys are so mysterious..."The not calling back, the head games, vanishing etc...Is usually all due to fear behind it all. I've noticed this more with the men then the females but do you guys let your fear get in the way of alot of relationships? I bring this up because i was having a conversation with a friend from the past , Known eachother for years best of friends...Was telling me a story ..his feelings* and everything ended with "because i'm not afraid anymore" ....

I think it's a fear of giving up independence and freedom. I'm a Scorpio and even though I don't do the vanishing act I definitely struggle with balancing relationship with keeping my freedom and independence.

gslove- you nailed it🙂 and a lot of time that fear is not justifiable

I'm too scared to answer that question.

that's a given that you're afraid!!! commitment issues are preventing you from answering a question 😉

Would not that be true for everyone ?

i'm too scared to answer that question

don't push him into doing something he's too afraid to want and have!!! that's how commitment issues start😉

I'm committed to being afraid.

but that would me that you overcame your fear of commitment and decided to become committed to being afraid. wow, your fear of commitment is gone!!!! 😉 see how easy it is. i should be a shrink lol

....and women like you give those sensitive and fragile men commitment issues!!!! lmao

yes, we all here know about scorp and commitment issues and not into you part🙂

FuckinA- i recently began to realize that all that "mysterious" exterior and commitment issues are because they are cowards and insecure inside and create dramas and over think stuff and pertofied of being hurt emotionally and have their ego bruised. again, it applies to everybody both men/women scrop/not scorps. so, you're right about your statement.

all of the above is correct. afraid, commitment issues, cowards, control above all and manipulating into thinking they have control or use someone else to gain control, other things- they are what they are and i'm on the verge of stopping participating in the dramas over scorps. i talked to two of my friends( who don't know each other and are in happy long term relationships) the other day about the whole thing and they all said the same thing: men are scared just as women are, there is no reason to push/pull, what men say and do might be different and i should be on the look out for the actions and not so much the talking. i should take it as it comes and see where it leads. i think i'm coming down and from now i'll be paying more attention to myself and him so much.

btw: control issues are humangous. my current boss is a scorp and i observe her on daily basis all day long. she creates loyal army of workers that she controls and manipulates to get her work done the way she wants it. has nothing to with what's good or bad for the company she wants things done her way and her way only. she's been having problems with her bosses because of that. a lot of ppl in the company having problems working with this woman because she's notorious about her control streaks.

This is original, a full on Scorp bashing session, I wonder what ever could have brought this on, lmao.

i never found leo interesting in a romantic way.

not bashing scrops just one woman's opinion 😉 you stopped being afraid voicing your opinion—?

it has nothing to do with costs or bringing. it's just she wants to have it done her way whatever that way is. she wants to order the calculator she wants and she wants to pick it out, have it ordered, have it delivered to her and then she'll tell everybody that she picked the calculator, had it ordered and delivered and now she has it and now she's talking about it. see, she got her way of getting her calculator by picking the calculator, ordering it................the story is going into a loop again lmao

I'm just enjoying the afterglow of prevailing in yet another mindfuck, don't mind me...carry on.

my signs are: mostly scorps and aries, some sagis
few other is between: never had libras or caps

yes, the minfuck is just as good as the physical thing. i think you scrorps find another way to use f-g. brain is the biggest sex organ🙂

lol omg that is good!!!!

the truth about what?

exactly!!! commitment doesn't mean you'll be locked up in a tower. if you're in a good healthy relationship you can be as free as you choose to be. try to explain to ppl. we should start it as a new religion😉

ScorpseeksPisces should have an interesting take on that. unless he's afraid to commit to answering the question or respond to the post

Comment on what specifically? Much to choose from here

just commit to anything already!!! lmao

having commitment issues with picking a commitment? lmao

Well as you have already pointed out, it's not even a Scorpio thing, it's just a people thing. For me personally? Shit, I commit way too easily, if it's love I'm all in.

oh, so, now you don't have commitment issues now🙂

don't we alllllllllllllllllllllllllllll🙂

Never said I did, you did. Surely you don't think I was being serious in my first posts on this thread .

back to commitment issues. you have them then you don't have them depending on whatever the commitment represents or doesn't represent. now of course it's my fault for not recognizing the fact that you weren't serious about the commitment issues or your 1st post. well at least you committed to posting lmao

yes, my child 😉

Lol, okay that's some serious double talk...are you a politician?

does it matter what i am as long i can discuss to commit or not commit to my answer about me being or not being a politician and my commitment for a political party would depend on how much i'm into a political view that my future commitment worthy party would represent or not represent depending on how much commitment i would have give to the committed party

The only thing that's clear is that you should be committed 🙂

how well you spin the information about commitment around and get out of it without giving a answer and state that i should be commited lmao why don;t you like my mind f-k?

I gave an answer, what else is there you wanted to know?

Well thank you for all the replys..I was just being a curious girl ... & to me it is interesting which is why i created the topic obviously...Opinions based on anything else weren't really needed. You are all right though about being a person and not a sign. Make love not war 😉

I think it's a fear of giving up independence and freedom. I'm a Scorpio and even though I don't do the vanishing act I definitely struggle with balancing relationship with keeping my freedom and independence.

See but i am so confused by that.... Everyone values & loves there freedom but what makes you...a scorpio female think that its all going to be taken away?

I'm too scared to answer that question.

Wise a $ $ ! lol

trying to eat your cake and have it too🙂