How much is TMI for a scorpio lover?

I read that you should never lie/withhold information from a scorpio...they WILL find out. In my experience, scorpios always want to know EVERYTHING. To further cement my theory, yesterday in a conversation with my scorpio i made what i thought was an innocent comment "a girl's gotta have her secrets" That drove my scorpio NUTS... "What do you mean— You have more secrets?? Tell me now!!" I told him no, honestly a girl's gotta have her secrets too! I'm not withholding anything from him that affects him in any way! lol but now he is determined and says to give him a little time he will "break my mind and suck it dry of secrets"
LOL, he does not know he is dealing with a pisces! Anywho, I used to want to know everything too but knowing everything about my lovers' pasts really screwed me up at times so i'm not sure it's good to know everything. As a pisces I know how to present this info to him in a way that won't spark so much insecurity or jealousy but I still don't think he needs to know. Am I wrong about this? What do you scorpios want to know about your partner? Do you really want to know everything?

LOL, Yes, we want to know everything, however a smart Scorpio will not tell you that, he will slyly go about extracting the information or the really smart ones will just sit back and wait for you to make an error and spill the beans unintentionally. His telling you his plan is a rookie move. 😉

Don't tell him though, no challenge is boring.

Yep, unethical, immoral and illegal, lol.

I agree, if he's not smart enough to see it as a just a friendly game and doesn't mind losing. Not a lot of Scorps are laid back enough to do that though.

"They want 100% full knowledge of the people around them, but they don't want anyone to have any knowledge of them."

omg that is the truth fer sure! I told him if he wants to know my secrets so bad, i will trade him, secret for secret. He says no deal, he is taking his to the grave...lol.

"And this is the point where Pisces/Scorp relationships collapse. Because although Scorps are thrilled by the challenge, they really really want to know. And Scorps can't help doing stupid butter to find out. They'll start playing a lot of games. Scorps will play little emotional games to try to gain stability."

I don't really feel threatened by it. It's amusing to me. Pisces cannot be manipulated into doing or saying anything they don't want to. It's damn near impossible. And I've got 10 years on him. He'll know what I let him know 🙂

"I agree, if he's not smart enough to see it as a just a friendly game and doesn't mind losing. Not a lot of Scorps are laid back enough to do that though."

He was being playful when he said it but I know he was kinda serious. As I said, he'll know what I let him know...and he'll learn to be happy with that 🙂

"Don't you think that is a bit one-sided"

How so? I really don't want to know all of his secrets. I said that to him because I predicted his response...that he would not want to part with his secrets. If you mean that he is being one-sided well then...YES lol

Maybe so Pesca, just don't underestimate the resourcefulness or extremes that a really curious and driven Scorpio can go to.

"Maybe so Pesca, just don't underestimate the resourcefulness or extremes that a really curious and driven Scorpio can go to."

oh i know full well what a scorpio is capable of. i've seen my friend's scorpio ex-gf in action...OMG! but this scorpio, it is a long-distance relationship. he doesn't have easy access to my life. i just don't see him going to that much of an extreme to find out information. Then again, that could be the gullible pisces in me :-/

"They want 100% full knowledge of the people around them, but they don't want anyone to have any knowledge of them."

YES. Unfair isn't it? You shouldn't allow it.
We like to have the upperhand at all times, and if we don't it must be because we arranged it that way intentionally, not because you actually got the better of us.

"Pisces just like emotional games, but don't particulary like them for any reason."
i would lose interest fast once this became apparent.

"i just don't see him going to that much of an extreme to find out information. Then again, that could be the gullible pisces in me :-/"

Erm...he's probably reading this right now...

"I don't really feel threatened by it. It's amusing to me. Pisces cannot be manipulated into doing or saying anything they don't want to. It's damn near impossible."

That's why scorpio is intrigued by Pisces. I'm with you. I don't need/want to know everything about my boyfriend, and there's not a person alive who will ever know everything about me. You have to keep something for yourself. Scorpios get huffy about this sometimes, though. They'll never stop prying, in what they think is a subtle way... 😛

In this wonderful age of the internet and technology a Scorpio is literally in heaven if he/she wishes to really get to the bottom of everything. I love a good game of life based chess. And yeah, long distance poses no hindrance, makes an alibi easier though 😉

" I love a good game of life based chess. And yeah, long distance poses no hindrance, makes an alibi easier though"

LOL See, Pesca! /\ /\

They're all closet P.I.'s...and they love to share tidbits of the info they gather on you just to see the look on your face. Of course, you can always spice up your Internet writing if you want to shock them back. 😛

What the fuck is even the point anymore?? You ask SCORPIOS a question and people who aren't Scorpios decide to answer for us. How fucking annoying and pretentious.

I guess i'll just start going to every board and start answering questions for every sign that I know nothing about except for stereotypes and i'll base my info off of that.

Realizing that there are others that can play the game equally well or better is all part of being able to enjoy the game rather than be controlled by it. I truly enjoy an intelligent adversary and the winner is not as important as the fun had engaging the mind. Being able to accept when you've been outsmarted by a well played hand can be more gratifying than winning all the time...that gets boring, where's the challenge?

There's malicious detective work and there's the playful kind, once you get into malicious mode it tends to be a one game series with no rematch possible.

Spicing up your internet writing is a good idea, although only a rookie is going to fall for that😉

Try to be a little more open minded angry little one, other signs do interact with Scorpios and do see things that some do not see in themselves. So much in you pride do I see. Life ain't that serious dude.

Angry Scorp...you make me laugh. 🙂

"I truly enjoy an intelligent adversary and the winner is not as important as the fun had engaging the mind."

Agreed. It's foreplay. 🙂

"Spicing up your internet writing is a good idea, although only a rookie is going to fall for that"

Right. *snort* 😛

"other signs do interact with Scorpios"

Exactly! I just interacted with one all weekend in many different positions. 😛

"Exactly! I just interacted with one all weekend in many different positions."

I thought I noticed a glow about you...and a wee bit of bow-leggedness, lol.

Scorpios do want to know EVERYTHING, though if we really knew what was best for ourselves we'd be more restrictive on the information feed we receive. I used to be immensely capable at uncovering certain things that i would end up seethingly jealous and furious for no (apparent) reason.. real unhealthy. These days i string along with ignorance is bliss to keep sane.

"I thought I noticed a glow about you...and a wee bit of bow-leggedness, lol."

SHHhhHHHHHHHhhhhhhHHHH! 😛

"Uh huh...and you call me a cheater You're the one who's sweet-talking all the Scorpios"

Now, FA, you know you're my fave female slave. I mean, I gave you your own cage and pink studded collar, and everything! Want to play army fantasy tonight? Let's practice..put on this camouflage bikini and....DROP & GIVE ME TWENTY!

My Scorp B/F doesn't want to know everything, he's specifically asked me NOT to tell him about my past relationships & the number of men I've been with before him. He's said he'd rather not know. I suppose he thinks much like DoubleScorp....that ignorance is bliss but on the flip side his imagination may make my past a lot more scandalous then it actually is. At any rate, I respect his wishes & keep that part of my history to myself 🙂