How to date a Scropio?

I'm interested in thie Scorpio guy I work with and I've been wondering if he is interested because most scorps including him are good at hiding their expressions and feelings... well i found out today that he is interested. He told me that he would like for me to call him sometime if I didn't think it would be a problem. He said that he would like to take me out sometime. Well that sounds great but i know that he has been seeing differnt people...no one serious.... but I want to be totally seperated from the rest.... (SPECIAL).... So the question is how do you properly court a Scorpio man? What do Scorpio men like in a woman? I know that sex is important but that will HAVE TO WAIT.... but what else is there to know about the mysterious Scorpio? I'm a Capi woman just FYI....

really? is there that much of a connection with Capi and Scorpio?

If youre a typical Cap and hes a typical Scorpio you wont have to try too hard. Capricorn and Scorpio are one of the best matches for both Signs. :-)

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Just trying out the smiley faces, i only just found out how to get them LOL

Maybe I should try a Cap, lord knows a couple have been after me, but they seem way too boring for me.

Yeah, it is probably better for a cap girl and scorp guy.

I know I have said this a coupld times but who said Scorp guys don't express their feelings. The one I was involved with overly expressed his. It was so intense but sexy!

LOL!!! Until this day he says he is still very much in love with me. He checks on me and my daughter from time to time. Is the timing was right he might have been my man.

Sorry for the typos. I am really drained...

How to dat a scorp man?
-Let him pry into your business, but don't ask him questions.
-Be his and only his and continue to reassure him of that
-Tons of great sex never be boring in the bed, or on the sink, car, elevator, stove, washing machine etc.
-Adore him and give him compliments but don't over do it.
-Earn his trust and you will have his heart. Even if things don't work out and he is with soemone else.

Or, learn the individual. Learn to love according to the needs of the individual you are with, and your own.


I am sure a Scorp female and Cap male can work. 😉 If you want it to, it will...

^ this is true

dammit!

she interfered w/ my reply to shaks.

""The only earth I've ever loved is Virgo. ""

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""Scorpio woman/Cap man can be a great match..""

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::gasp::

Satori's a ninja!?! I KNEW something was...."different" about her!!

poor notos..she's been infected by the "cappysweetie-ness" disease

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HOW COULD I MISS THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have alot of infor to give 🙂

I might just be old fasioned, but to me the way that you would seperate yourself from his other women would be to let him call you and take you out. Not you call him and take him out. He sounds pretty arrogant to me.

Oh sorry, I misread your post. I thought you said that he wanted you to take him out. He probably just wants you to call him because it is a work relationship and he wants to make sure you are interested so he doesn't get accused of sexual harrassment. I think you should call him....the first time. Then let him do the leading.

Queenscorpio- Nice answer on how to date a scorpio man you hit it right on the head!
I am female taurus and lord knows I've dated many a scorpio man. And boy it was no easy feat---at least for my sign...the emotional extreames they go to from one day or hour or from one minute to the next is extreamly draining (kinda feels like the life is being sucked right out of you. It is true when they are happy they treat you kindly, are extreamely loyal, and will cuddle you when you need a good cry--but the rest of the relationship is spend making sure your life is his life, and all his needs for attention and affection are met by you. It's definitely all about him--even if he really likes you. That's why I cant understand why anyone would want to date one--its sooo much drama--ladymackbeth also hit scorpios right on the nail--they are volitile, test you over and over tthey love to take but rarely give, they can be down right cruel to you at times (when the mood strikes or sometimes just for their own amusment), and then on top of all of that they will treat you like a door mat/or their personal servant if you let them. Okay-enough with the negative-just my expirience- on to
the question:How to dat a scorp man?
-Let him pry into your business, but don't ask him questions.
IF YOU DO ASK QUESTIONS HE'LL CALL YOU NOSEY UNLESS HE WANTS TO SHARE THE REQUESTED INFO-THIS MORNING I WAS ASKED IF I WAS TRYING TO START A FIGHT BECAUSE I ASKED MY SCORPIO FRIEND WHAT HE WAS DOING AT THE MOMENT---I WAS IN THE OTHER ROOM And I COULDN'T SEE HIM-WHEN HE SAID LAYING HERE-I SAID ARE YOU ON THE COMPUTER (I HEARD THE KEYBOARD) AND HE REPLIED "ARE YOU TRYING TO START A FIGHT"
-Be his and only his and continue to reassure him of that
THIS IS SUPER IMPORTANT--IT CANT BE STRESSED ENOUGH, YOU MUST, MUST TELL HIM OVER AND OVER LIKE A BROKEN RECORD THAT YOU ARE HIS AND ONLY HIS, AND NOBODY ELSES EVER--MY MALE SCORPIO FRIEND STILL GETS ANGRY WHEN HE TALKS WITH HIS EX-GIRL FRIENDS AND THEY ARE DATING SOMEONE--GOD FOR BID THEY SHOULD EVER DATE ANOTHER PERSON!! WHEN I ASKED HIM WHY HE WAS MAD AFTER FINDING OUT HIS EX WAS DATING SOMEONE (I MEAN SHE IS ALLOWED RIGHT) HE SAID "WHOSE SIDE ARE YOU ON ANYWAY?"

-Tons of great sex never be boring in the bed, or on the sink, car, elevator, stove, washing machine etc.
NOTHING TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE EXCEPT-I AGREE, I AGREE, I AGREE!!! YOU LEARN TO MASTER EVERY POSITION, IN EVERY SETTING, AND ON EVERY PIECE OF FURNITURE AND APPLIANCE IN THE HOUSE!
-Adore him and give him compliments but don't over do it.
MINE LOVES COMPLIMENTS, BUT RARELY SHELLS THEM OUT. I DON'T KNOW IF "ADORE HIM" REALLY QUITE DESCRIBE THE ATTENTION AND ENERGY HE REQUIRES I WOULD PROBABLY replace THAT WITH "WORSHIP HIM" AND "MAKE SURE ALL HIS NEEDS COME FIRST AND ARE MET"
-Earn his trust and you will have his heart. Even if things don't work out and he is with soemone else. THIS IS ONE I HAVEN'T FIGURED OUT YET...HOW DO YOU EARN A SCORPIOS TRUST...HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE? HOW MANY TESTS....THIS DRIVES ME CRAZY-"I'M LIKE ENOUGH ALREADY---JUST DO IT TAKE THE PLUNGE---THE WORLD IS NOT GOING TO COME TO AN END IF YOU TRUST ME---EVEN JUST A SMIDGE!"

OH ONE MORE THING--NEVER EVER PAY MORE ATTENTION TO ANYONE ELSE BUT YOUR SCORPIO WHEN YOU ARE IN A SOCIAL SETTING. BOY DID I LEARN THIS ONE THE HARD WAY. MY SCORP GUY GETS SARCASTIC, AND DOWN RIGHT ANGRY IF I EVEN LOOK AT ANOTHER GUY--AND GETS VERY ANNOYED IF TOO MUCH TIME IS SPEND TALKING WITH A GIRLFRIEND VERSUS HIM.

FERDY-THE POSTING FROM LADYMACKBETH WAS AWESOME--EVERYONE SUMMED UP DATING A SCORPIO VERY WELL---IT WAS ALL SO TRUE, I NEARLY FELL OF MY CHAIR!

"I know that sex is important"

To be different hold the sex back. He will try the same trick and seeing you not falling for it u will automatically score much higher than the rest. Being yourself is important but to interest him talk in a hinting tone. Hold some parts of the story back as if to wait for him to ask and then blow the topic over. Have strong opinions about eveything, no grays just black or white. A cool demeanor with a passionate approach to everything is the key. Caps and Scorps generally get along pretty well

"You let it go in through one ear and out through the other...cuz hon, if he's interested in you, he's not gonna ask you to call him...he's gonna call YOU. Period."

well he wanted me tocall him because i didn't give him my phone number yet.

We all went out this weekend for his birthday and he and I talked all night... He didn't talk to anyone else but me and we had a great time laughting and joking around. We danced and after it was over everyone went back to his place. We played cards and I gave him my number. I was so drunk and he offered for me to stay over so I did (no sex though) we slept in the same bed but i jokingly placed pillows between us, I was going to remove them but once I finally laid down I was out immediatly and completely forgot. The next morning we talked in bed and then I went back to sleep and he watched tv in the den. After that i got up and i left. We exchanged texts all day long and really all weekend long. i was terribly busy this weekend so convo was limited... but we work together so...

This morning he came into my office all smiles with a sexy "good morning Ms. Jo" I was like "Good morning MR. X" .....oooooohhhhhh I don't know how i am keeping my hands off of him. I imagine him taking me into a quiet spot here at work and taking my clothes off....man.... I have to hold myself together.

And he lives across the street from me....

This best way to get to Scorpio man's heart is through his head lol -- seriously, intrigue him and he will follow. Keep in mind, that he will not follow you blindly (no way) but he will want to know what you are all about. This is awesome with the whole "Getting to know you process"

thanks wagner.
How to date a scorpio: if you are beautiful, strong, upfront, outgoing, indioent and got a sense of humour,oh and I forgot, you like and enjoy healthy sex with no fear no nothing, you WILL NOT date one. they run like hell. just to came back whent they think you dont' see yhem (and you do), to chekc, because they got the temptation to grasp you but never the coirage nor the will.
I have come to the conclusion they are more at ease, in the ned, with not so pretty, not so brilliant personaluty, not so passionate souls kind of nice girl next door baking cakes, in oreder they can get center stage.
it's the biggest astrological bluff ever. try a taurus, a leo, at least they are not fearful. I handle better a little arrogance in the name of courage, a little stubborness in the name of being in the sunlight.

satori: Virgos have too many awesome qualities I can't deny.

And, I'm not inclined to argue with you!

CapyWife: I know that sex is important but that will HAVE TO WAIT....

Famous last words! My Scorp had me doing the horizontal bop on our second date.

If your Scorp is typical, sex will not wait - and you won't mind at all!

Cap & Scorp, or Virgo & Scorp -- what are the differences??

""My Scorp had me doing the horizontal bop on our second date.

If your Scorp is typical, sex will not wait - and you won't mind at all!""


- Oh, come on now. Don't be so shallow!



""Just be you Capywife and have fun, later for all that other bs..""

- Amen.

Don't be so shallow!

Uh, there's nothing shallow about hot wet sex - especially when I'm plowing the row!

Seriously. As a Virgo, my first reaction was to think she was trying to hook me with sex. Some of the DXP Scorpio ladies set me straight, and now I understand.

CapyWife, your Scorp sees sex differently than you. My point is to try not to take offense at his pace versus yours. Do what feels right, but consider that you may be wrong.

Unless you know he's a player, give him the benefit of the doubt. I did with my Scorp, and we've been married over 2 years now...

I think she's separated or divorced right capy?

Ok so we kissed a couple of times today in the office..... he was nervous... but i like seducing him. I can't keep my hands off of him. I think I'm worse then he is as far as sex is conserned. this could get crazy.

he keeps setting dates and the saying at the last min. that something came up. I'm confused, but then he says he is interested. i don't have time for this

How to dat a scorp man?
-Let him pry into your business, but don't ask him questions.
-Be his and only his and continue to reassure him of that
-Tons of great sex never be boring in the bed, or on the sink, car, elevator, stove, washing machine etc.
-Adore him and give him compliments but don't over do it.
-Earn his trust and you will have his heart. Even if things don't work out and he is with soemone else.

LOL 🙂

^^^^Queen Scorpio, you make me laugh! Are Scorpio men really that way?!! Jeez!!!
I think most Scorpio men are considerate and loving if you give them a chance to show their emotions! The problem with these guys is that once they do show some emotions, they are criticized (even in a joke criticizm is to be avoided!!) and so they tend to close up..

Caps and Scorps manage to go well together but it is more cap gals and Scorp guys, since a scorp guy knows too well how to woo a capsy!😉

*** Are Scorpio men really that way?!! Jeez!!✨**

Yup! But you gotta love them for it.

***I think most Scorpio men are considerate and loving if you give them a chance to show their emotions✨**

Agreed!!! This has been my experience with the one scorp I was/is envolved with! This is why I don't understand why so many people say they are the opposite.

***The problem with these guys is that once they do show some emotions, they are criticized (even in a joke criticizm is to be avoided!!) and so they tend to close up***

I have never experienced this longer than a couple days (they always come back full force!). But I have never criticized them for it, adored it if anything!!!

Irish Libra - these are the things they offer:

Very Supportive - emotionally, very supportive wether your view seems silly or not.
Dependable - they will be there for you in time of need whenever you need them especially when it counts.
Concern and Love for you and your family (especially if you have a child/children)
A friend - They will be there period.

I have found these qualities quite unique in a Scorpio man than others even ones I was in a serious relationship with for a very long time. You always know they are there.


***Earn his trust and you will have his heart. Even if things don't work out and he is with soemone else.

ok, i may be reading into this too much, which i have a tendency to do, but..why would he be with someone else and have his heart elsewhere?....that doesnt seem living real, ya know?***

Hmmm, how can I explain this? Somewhat unlike scorpio women, scorpio men in my experience (Godfather inclded)they can be really in love with more than one woman. I have never seen one be in love with more than two at a time, even the cheating kind (an old buddy of mine was famous for this) they may have a few lovers but only one or two women in their life were at the root of their heart.

I have also known a couple, in my esperience even, who is committed or has been committed to one, whom they love (wether separated or not) but unexpectedly fall for another, who he just can't get out of his system no matter how he sincerely tries, which makes it hard for the other female involved. Although it is okay to remain friends but once you cross that line of friendship to lovers with a scorp period, it is very hard to go back to being "just friends", so in my experience, the other female starts to avoid him at all costs, while missing him as he continuously and relentlessly persues her even long after they are no longer involved. Sucks!

Okay over the holiday I met this very attractive military scorpio. He is 27 scorp and I am a 37 Pisces. He say he is just looking to hang out with someone over the weekend while he is in town. This is really ideal for me as of right now, I am not in a position to fall in love and have all that relation stuff. Do you think this scorp is being honest with his words. Nice guy......to say the least and I really want to have fun.

PD

PD


I don't understand your question.

Well ....the topic is how to date a scorpio. I have not spent much time with scorpio men and honestly I don't have a clue. My questions is can they be casual kind of people just want to have fun kind people without getting too connected with someone. Is this the norm for dating a scorpio? Everything I have read says the contrary that they easily get attached and bit over bearing with jealousy blah blah ...I realize it is just astrology and everyone is their own person. *sigh*

Irishlibra - to respond to your post you hid, I understand I am wanting nothing serious and than it is the obvious. My question is can Scorpio men be casual kind of people, because what I have read says the contrary. I want a relationship when I am at one of my best times in my life and right now I feel like I am in too much limbo, I would not be a good girlfriend for anyone. I have a lot of loose ends right now from career, kids, demograhically where I am going to settle ....I just want to know this because I am not in the business of hurting anyone's feelings and I am not up for the drama that can happen. I am just being cautious that is all.

I am human and have the need for male companionship and if he is up for having a little fun with no expectations I am totally up for that. Make sense?

PD

Well, I am in total agreement with irish. She took the words right out of my mouth.


Plus, it seems as though you want more than what you're stating here, PD. Are you looking/hoping for a friend with benefits?

Thanks Irish and SS.

I am really confused with my life right now and have changed my mind. I left him a message that the timing is not good, and did not feel like I would be good company. I told him it was nothing personal I just need some time on my own to sort through my life. I told him I would contact him at a later time down the road when I feel like my life is more settled for I am interested in spending time with him.

To answer your questions ScorpSuperior ..... I don't know what I want girl ...I am a mess if I can be frank and honest. That is why I chose to not meet up with scorp. I toss the idea of freinds with benefits to wanting a relationship. Deep down I want a relationship ...not necessairly with new scorp for I barely know him. But I do want a relationship down the road, perhaps that is why I have chosen to do what I did.

In conclusion I will hang with him at a later time if our paths should cross again, but I cannot be so thoughtless and jump into a situation, when I don't know what I want.

He probably thinks I am a fruitcake .....*sigh*

PD

It's okay to be confused, PD. Sometimes we don't know what we want- or rather, we want more that one (conflicting) thing and have difficulty prioritizing. It can be an uncomfortable feeling, but I think we all have experienced it at one time or another.

It will all work itself out. Life has a way of doing that. And perhaps you'll change your mind, or he'll change his, and that's okay too.


Again, I'd go with irishlibra's advice, which more or less seems to be "go with the flow", as long as it is in your interest.

*hides behind rock* "SS...i thought also that she might have wanted more after reading it"

I have been found out ....uncovered here on DXP ...lol *hides behind rock again*

Thank you for your post.

PD

Give lots of compliments and commit to him. And Too seperate yourself do something special too him I am a scorpio and i love it when girls do things with me they have never done with anyother guy pretty much if u make me feel special u will be special too me i don't know if that works for all scorps but thats how it works for me.