Am I worthless now?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by little dolphin on Monday, November 17, 2008 and has 8 replies.

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@little dolphin
18 Years

Ok, scorpio guy asked me a bunch of questions that he thought my answers were very interesting, then completely ignored me. Is that so typical of scorpios? Getting what they want and when you lose your mysteries, they quickly move away?

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@little dolphin
18 Years

"Maybe you should have explained in your first post that what you really meant was IF in the scorpio guy's eyes you were worthless because of what happened.."

Yeah, thank you for understanding🙂

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

"Getting what they want and when you lose your mysteries, they quickly move away?"

i think that depends on how much importance was placed on the "mysteries" in the first place. if that was the only thing that was presented as appealing about yourself...then yes, he may not see your worth anymore. however, if he was attracted to you for other reasons, then i would think it was very silly for that attraction to disappear simply because you have become more familiar.

or it is possible that he simply discovered some things about you he hadn't previously known that didn't sit well. if so, it has less to do with your perceived worth and more to do with his preferences.

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@Libra Carrie
18 Years

"Ok, scorpio guy asked me a bunch of questions that he thought my answers were very interesting, then completely ignored me. Is that so typical of scorpios? Getting what they want and when you lose your mysteries, they quickly move away?"

I don't think it's getting what you want. I think it's knowing what to do with it. Believe it or not, they are not all asses 🙂 I think they have a lot of emotion running real close to the surface and prefer to deal with it privately. I would think his silence is that you've hit upon something that touched him deeply. Just a guess.

Listen to Ferdy. She's right. Don't worry about your answers or even his reaction. You are special all by yourself. It's not the you are now worthless since being unwrapped, just that he's trying to figure out what to do next. They love games!