Can anyone help me with this? I'm a scorpio and 3 years ago broke up with another scorpio. I have no interest in being with him. He lied and cheated repeatly. I have no choice but to have a relationship as we have two kids together but I have moved on. He's almost obsessed with me. What can I do to make myself less appealing to this man? I will appreciate any suggestions.
How to make a scorpio fall out of love

Omg. This message board has become so....so....how do say....DRAB!
Someone DO something! Quickly!
Blingy, why haven't you acknowledged my presence?! Do so at once!
Someone DO something! Quickly!
Blingy, why haven't you acknowledged my presence?! Do so at once!

get married?

Scorp is most hurt when cheated on!
So I suggest you either appear with a guy and claim you are serious with him... you have no space left in your heart for another love since you love this other man A LOT! Also talk to him, dont just ignore. Tell him you have no chemistry for him. You dont feel anything. You do not like him hurt, but this is reality. There is NOTHING that can be brought back to life again. You may need to REPEAT these over and over again until it goes through his head.
I think scorps appreciate hearing the heart ass truth. I had a scorp man after me (am scorp myself). It took him long to get over me, but I succeeded that he moved on with his dignity. Every time when he came back to me, I still heard him out, never ignored him. I also told him and the one LEO that he needs to find someone who really cares for him and deserves him.
my 2 pennies..
So I suggest you either appear with a guy and claim you are serious with him... you have no space left in your heart for another love since you love this other man A LOT! Also talk to him, dont just ignore. Tell him you have no chemistry for him. You dont feel anything. You do not like him hurt, but this is reality. There is NOTHING that can be brought back to life again. You may need to REPEAT these over and over again until it goes through his head.
I think scorps appreciate hearing the heart ass truth. I had a scorp man after me (am scorp myself). It took him long to get over me, but I succeeded that he moved on with his dignity. Every time when he came back to me, I still heard him out, never ignored him. I also told him and the one LEO that he needs to find someone who really cares for him and deserves him.
my 2 pennies..

I meant 'hard-ass truth'.. sorry..
As a Scorpio... the only way I get over someone completely is by finding someone else to keep all my interests. If he can find someone else that makes him feel SPECIAL, you won't have any more problems. Plus.. speaking from experience, the more he feels he can't have you anymore; the more he's gonna want you right now until he finds something to replace those feelings.

ahahahha...
Charming!
Charming!

"in other words...be a pisces...lol...luv it !"
haha I am a pisces but I am not that
i have moon in virgo
am very strong
haha I am a pisces but I am not that
i have moon in virgo
am very strong

Pisces people responding ... her man was taken away from her by a Pisces woman, this is why she says things like that .... jealousy, and an inability to win him back over from the Fish.
Just thought I would let you know that ... so you know why she is so jealous of the Fish.
Just thought I would let you know that ... so you know why she is so jealous of the Fish.

Posted by scorpioswag
Can anyone help me with this? I'm a scorpio and 3 years ago broke up with another scorpio. I have no interest in being with him. He lied and cheated repeatly. I have no choice but to have a relationship as we have two kids together but I have moved on. He's almost obsessed with me. What can I do to make myself less appealing to this man? I will appreciate any suggestions.
If you have indeed moved on, then why care where his interests lie?
Unless you haven't moved on .. and so do actually care to be interested.
In other words ... actually moving on, and then writing this thread which shows your concern for who he is wanting ... is in contridiction.
No I don't have mixed emotions. He is always flirting with me and nagging for me to give him another chance. Just saying no and doing my own thing isn't working. I'm trying to figure out what to do to make myself less appealing to him.
Scorpio is most likely to marry Pisces women than any other sign.. so all the weak,pathetic, is bullshit. Obviously the Scorp guys like it.
Posted by Madalena
—Scorpio is most likely to marry Pisces women than any other sign..??
Didnt ur mama tell u not to believe everything u read in the tabloids?
—so all the weak,pathetic, is bullbutter. Obviously the Scorp guys like it.??
of course they do, which explains why ur scorp has dumped ur weak pathetic ass and is running after a libra 😉
The link. http://astrological-sun-signs.suite101.com/article.cfm/marriage_and_divorce_for_scorpio and this info can be found elsewhere too. I don't need to stoop down to your level and go back and forth with you, but I think your bitter and use your bitchiness and call it strength. You can hate Pisces, Cancers and maybe even Scorpio women but fact is fact they are best with Scorp men. Don't worry there's enough to go around for everyone. 😉
Posted by Madalena
it's admirable how ur trying to make this about me...when really ur hurting cuz ur a cancer with a scorp who doesnt want you...so u try to analyze and analyze and analyze in the hope that u can stuff the theory down his throat so he can live happily ever after with u.
dont blame me for ur crappy life...and yes, i'm a bitch...get used to it
Please my life isn't crappy.. 😄 and yeah we're not together anymore you fail to see I left him, I ended it. I could've still had him if I wanted to but I'm not dealin with somebody who wants his cake and to eat it too. Yeah I got a bad apple, I met the wrong one.. but life goes on. Maybe, I'll meet another Scorpio maybe not. It doesn't really matter as long as the man is good though Scorpio is my first choice. Point is I just thought it was ridiculous how you call Pisces weak and pathetic but you think cancers are like that too. You should see the positive side and see we are emotional and embrace it. We are sensitive and kind, and usually very genuine people without motives or hidden agendas. Because of that people can often underestimate but thats a different story..I'll get used to ur bitchiness.. since I joined I seen it the first day lmao. I can see y they'd be attracted to u cause u have a outspoken type of personality but u gotta tone it down and soften up later.
become a better person learn and understand yourself... if you do this then you will find it easier to understand people you communicate around you

I remember reading somewhere that no one can tick off a Scorpio faster than a Gemini and have witnessed it. Scorps are very intrigued by the Gem but absolutely cannot stand or tolerate the Gemini tricks! So invite a group of Gems over for a party, tie him up in the middle of it and watch him squirm or at least start acting like a Gem when you have to interact with him (constantly change your mind). Hahahaha - Love those Gems!
Christ, that Madalena is simply unbearable. Does she seriously have nothing better to do than trying to insult others who are trying to help the poster (not the only forum she's trying to do this in btw)... And please with thw blingbling/diva crap...
I'm a scorpio male and it's true what someone else said earlier. Namely, that he has to find someone else.
I was in a relationahip with a Capricorn for 6 yrs and was absolutely fascinated/obsessed and exceedingly jealous and suspicious of her. At least, that's how it was for the first 2-3 years. Whenever I became insanely jealous (unfoundedly so) I would go out and pick up another chick or arrange a booty call with someone (we were doing long-distance at the time so it was easy as pie). After 3 yrs I gradually became more and more indifferent, and once I started actually dating some of the girls I felt like I could take or leave the relationship with the capricorn girl. But I think my point to take away from all this is, is that it took time and other romances for the infatuation with the capricorn girl to end.
Thus, my advice to you is to
a) try to do things differently from what you have been doing these past three years, since this is the person he feel in love with, and act differently as well if you can (us scorpios can normally see through any facade (e.g. Madalena's 🙂 ) so it won't be easy...). Harsh and critical, and that he is like a child you are taking care of.
b) dress down and try to look as unattractive as possible (i.e. dressing like a bum, in sweat pants and baggy loose-fitting clothing, not wearing make-up, etc.), since us scorpio males greatly dislikes cheapness/trashiness of any kind.
c) get him to be suspicious of you (if he is not a violent man and you don't think he has that in him) so that he will start seeing other girls to "get even".
Keep this up for a while, and he will probably gradually lose interest as well as becoming involved with another woman.
Hope that helps...
I'm a scorpio male and it's true what someone else said earlier. Namely, that he has to find someone else.
I was in a relationahip with a Capricorn for 6 yrs and was absolutely fascinated/obsessed and exceedingly jealous and suspicious of her. At least, that's how it was for the first 2-3 years. Whenever I became insanely jealous (unfoundedly so) I would go out and pick up another chick or arrange a booty call with someone (we were doing long-distance at the time so it was easy as pie). After 3 yrs I gradually became more and more indifferent, and once I started actually dating some of the girls I felt like I could take or leave the relationship with the capricorn girl. But I think my point to take away from all this is, is that it took time and other romances for the infatuation with the capricorn girl to end.
Thus, my advice to you is to
a) try to do things differently from what you have been doing these past three years, since this is the person he feel in love with, and act differently as well if you can (us scorpios can normally see through any facade (e.g. Madalena's 🙂 ) so it won't be easy...). Harsh and critical, and that he is like a child you are taking care of.
b) dress down and try to look as unattractive as possible (i.e. dressing like a bum, in sweat pants and baggy loose-fitting clothing, not wearing make-up, etc.), since us scorpio males greatly dislikes cheapness/trashiness of any kind.
c) get him to be suspicious of you (if he is not a violent man and you don't think he has that in him) so that he will start seeing other girls to "get even".
Keep this up for a while, and he will probably gradually lose interest as well as becoming involved with another woman.
Hope that helps...
yawn @
That's pretty much what I expected you to write... 🙂
Posted by Madalena
"Christ, that Madalena is simply unbearable."
ur point being?
"Does she seriously have nothing better to do than trying to insult others who are trying to help the poster (not the only forum she's trying to do this in btw)..."
oh lookie here, my very own scorpio stalker??_so hon, which other —forum?? have u followed me to?
"And please with thw blingbling/diva crap..."
I'm not here for ur approval sweetz, so if u don't like it, get over it??_and don't let the door hit ur ass on the way out
"us scorpios can normally see through any facade (e.g. Madalena's ) "
awesome??_u know me so well??_and now, I'm totally scared...
That's pretty much what I expected you to write... 🙂
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