Scorpios...What's in your head?

First things first... I'm a libra. I love thinking about the simple & complex parts of life. Here's something I'm curious about.

My "Special" someone and I had a lot of stuff going on through the past 2 years. When I met her 2 years ago we both felt some "chemistry". So we went through the good and mostly bad times. We would play the little games and what not and we were never sure cause we lacked communication. So anyways long story short she began to think I was over her like 6 months ago so I kinda decided to stop communcating w/ her 9 months ago (She's a leo). So my scorpio buddy that I've known for a while now longer than I've known her was going on a trip w/ her for a school thingie (so nothing really sexually or anything special going on). Oh and a lot of other people were also going w/ them so it's not just them two. During the 2 week trip he said he befriended her and recieved a lot of information that I would never expect.
But the thing is my scorpio buddy's story doesn't really work out. He said stuff like "She totally played you and you fell for her. She never liked you in the first place and she thought you were disgusting. She's a liar and a bad person." So I told him "well why would we have 6 hour phone convo's and why would she spend time w/ someone like me? Afterall I was never liked by her and she thought I was disgusting so why in the world would she "waste" time on me?"
He said something like "She just wanted to be nice to you." well at this point I thought either it's true and I did fall for it afterall I am a libra and were gulliable apparently or maybe this stuff was a chain of bullshit she fed him on the trip on purpose because she knows he's my really good buddy and he would tell him these stuff so I would feel the pain. One thing that was intriguing was she told him that she would like/be fine with it if we would be friends again. So when I "weigh/balance" my scales in this situation.. It's more cliche/high chanced that shes just playing around and wants to send the message that she still likes me but wants to hurt me at the same time..

Knowing that my friends a scorpio.. I have a feeling he's hiding something. Because he's assuring me shes the bad liar here and I need to forget her. Well I asked him if there's anything else that he knows of that would be necessary for me but he denies. Sometimes I feel as if he doesn't help me out like a true friend would. Talk the possibilities and weigh it out w/ me but he's stubborn.

He's a good friend of mine and I've trusted him a lot of times but sometimes he can spill lies that are meant to be told. But the fact that he's not telling me I think i'm overthinking this but I'm a f f r a i d he's got something behind his head and he's not telling me because hes afraid that I'm gonna get hurt and what not. He just tells me that I need to drop her and forget her if he is telling me the truth I'll be fine w/ it since I already know so I don't think I would get hurt too much.. Something tells me also that he's the one that got played and was the messenger that's telling me the bs and the signs from her.. I don't know the truth yet... I don't know who the gulliable one is in this situation but all I can do is hope for the best..




I'm still young (16) growing up up up.. Still don't know what it is to be an adult but I'm feeling the transition bit by bit. Is there any scorpio's out here that might have an idea or anything clicking in their head?.. The strange thing is all the "best" friends I had throughout my life were 80% scorpio even my dads a scorpio. I would lovee to get a few answers out by scorpios.. I'm ready for your intense opinions/responses :S

I do think your friend is being honest; Scorpios don't lie or pretend very much.. nothing drastic anyway. If we do tell tales it's usually when it concerns ourselves because we're reserved like that, we don't really bother to fib for anyone else. And even if he wanted to hide the truth from you for whatever reason (Whether or not because he likes her as well OR he geniunely wants you to get over her because he reckons she's not worth it), chances are he wouldn't stretch the story as far as you might think it has been so.

He may or may not be hiding something from you, but if he's as good a friend as you state and he recognizes you as a true friend, it's only for your benefit and he's doing what he knows is most ideal for your wellbeing. Perhaps he has seen through the girl you've been dating and just wants to keep you away. Who knows.

Library, I'm not sure I understand your problem. I know you are young, but the situation is simple. Do you like her? If you do, tell her and if she reciprocates, start something. If she doesn't, then move on and and remain friends if you want to/are able to. Don't overthink and stress - it's not worth it in the end. If it's meant to be, it will be.

SEX .....and well more SEX is what is in their head. 😛

PD

Sex, head games, sex, head games, sex

DoubleScorpio: Yes I would have to agree w/ you that scorpio's are not liars to there close friends. I do have a small feeling that the girl did this on purpose to my scorpio friend during the trip so that he can be the one to tell me all of the bs. He probably thinks everything she said is true but then again i'm afraid that it can be true. However my "scales" tell me that there's literally 0.01% chance that everything she told my scorpio friend is true because the other 99.99% fits into my story and I have experienced more with her.

I'm not sure if he really did see right through her. I'm assuming scorpios like doing that but personally out of all the scorpios I know, their assumptions on "finding" people out is usually false. My scorpio friends always think they know who I am and stuff but really I would disagree w/ them. In general I just want to know if the mind of a scorpio is very complex and view things kind of like I do.

Carbon_Scorp: I did tell her 2 years ago and she knows. Sorry for not being clear on my writing but yeah we had this little "thing" going on between us for awhile. I don't think I'm overthinking, just balancing out the scenario to see what the truth might be.

piscesdream/libvirg: Lol yes I always know that. Although I do ask my dad or my friends if sex is the only thing on there mind they tend to deny it. But anytime I say something "Sexually" they're the ones who interpret it first and understand wtf I am saying lol... They have a good background knowledge on Sex.

Posted by Pisces_Dream
SEX .....and well more SEX is what is in their head. 😛

PD

LOL!