shellyBwell
@shellyBwell
8 Years
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I think I'm getting played by my scorpio ex
I mean do I need to honestly just relax and give him time? I'm very confused. I really feel like he's just trying to make me feel bad for breaking up with him.
Why did you dump him?
He's playing games and just wants you to feed his ego
Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you dump him?
I was already overwhelmed by the financial burden alone while I was waiting on him to get on his feet and he was very disconnected emotionally and we weren't having sex so I ended up finding text messages of him flirting with other women so that sent me over the edge and I got tired of it and ended it one day hoping he'd get his stuff together one day. I just go tired of being unappreciated
Posted by shellyBwellSo he cheated. Or was intending to cheat...depending on your definition of cheating.Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you dump him?
I was already overwhelmed by the financial burden alone while I was waiting on him to get on his feet and he was very disconnected emotionally and we weren't having sex so I ended up finding text messages of him flirting with other women so that sent me over the edge and I got tired of it and ended it one day hoping he'd get his stuff together one day. I just go tired of being unappreciatedclick to expand
Why are you pursuing someone who isn't bringing anything to the table?
Plays games.
Financial irresponsible
No loyalty
Sounds like a winner ?
Posted by Stensco21
He's playing games and just wants you to feed his ego
I totally agree. As a Gemini we refuse to feed into insecurities. I had a Scorpio ex that can't get enough ego boosting
Posted by CobyScorpios no good until after 40.
I totally agree. As a Gemini we refuse to feed into insecurities. I had a Scorpio ex that can't get enough ego boosting
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYou are exclusion from the norm.Posted by GemitatiLol da fuck ?Posted by CobyScorpios no good until after 40.
I totally agree. As a Gemini we refuse to feed into insecurities. I had a Scorpio ex that can't get enough ego boosting
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Waaait...
How many women you left in dust?
Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, he's financially irresponsible and currently playing games.. he was very loyal.. its when the financial problems came into play that he started the innocent flirty. I didn't have intuition of him cheating but my intuition of him being fixated elsewhere was real as I found out.. I guess you can call me blind but he had great qualities as well as bad. He wasn't all bad, I guess that's why I've entertained all this being hopeful things would work back out I guess ?Posted by shellyBwellSo he cheated. Or was intending to cheat...depending on your definition of cheating.Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you dump him?
I was already overwhelmed by the financial burden alone while I was waiting on him to get on his feet and he was very disconnected emotionally and we weren't having sex so I ended up finding text messages of him flirting with other women so that sent me over the edge and I got tired of it and ended it one day hoping he'd get his stuff together one day. I just go tired of being unappreciated
Why are you pursuing someone who isn't bringing anything to the table?
Plays games.
Financial irresponsible
No loyalty
Sounds like a winner ?click to expand
How come Scorpio men always seem to be bad with money while Scorpio women are such financial sharks.
Posted by shellyBwellAs far as you know.Posted by LadyNeptuneYes, he's financially irresponsible and currently playing games.. he was very loyal.. its when the financial problems came into play that he started the innocent flirty. I didn't have intuition of him cheating but my intuition of him being fixated elsewhere was real as I found out.. I guess you can call me blind but he had great qualities as well as bad. He wasn't all bad, I guess that's why I've entertained all this being hopeful things would work back out I guess ?Posted by shellyBwellSo he cheated. Or was intending to cheat...depending on your definition of cheating.Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you dump him?
I was already overwhelmed by the financial burden alone while I was waiting on him to get on his feet and he was very disconnected emotionally and we weren't having sex so I ended up finding text messages of him flirting with other women so that sent me over the edge and I got tired of it and ended it one day hoping he'd get his stuff together one day. I just go tired of being unappreciated
Why are you pursuing someone who isn't bringing anything to the table?
Plays games.
Financial irresponsible
No loyalty
Sounds like a winner ?click to expand
Flirting with other females isn't how I define loyalty. But whatevs
One more question...
when you say you had to shoulder all the financial responsibilities what does that mean?
Paying for dates.
Paying the rent (if your living together)
Giving him money for other things...gas, clothes, school etc.
Or all of the above...?
when you say you had to shoulder all the financial responsibilities what does that mean?
Paying for dates.
Paying the rent (if your living together)
Giving him money for other things...gas, clothes, school etc.
Or all of the above...?
Yea pretty much all the above ?
Posted by ReincarnationBill Gates was already a part of the elite class.He's not exactly self-made.Posted by Adreamuponwaking
How come Scorpio men always seem to be bad with money while Scorpio women are such financial sharks.
Ever heard of Bill Gates?click to expand
He comes from a family of Bankers, went to Harvard and was a part of the Fox Club.
It's not hard to become even richer if you already are a rich white male in America.
You can be an idiot and still come out on top. You can even become the president of the United States.
*drops Trump card*
Posted by shellyBwellNo ma'am... I'd be totally turned off by the fact I'd have to be his main financial support nevertheless chasing after him when he f***** up. I'd have him calling and chasing me so much he'd have his friends and family stalking me. I know we all at least have that one person that makes our heart churn, but don't turn into butter.
Yea pretty much all the above ?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioOk. On a street washed by a rain?Posted by Gemitatilol I never left anyone in the dustPosted by EvoxxxscorpioYou are exclusion from the norm.Posted by GemitatiLol da fuck ?Posted by CobyScorpios no good until after 40.
I totally agree. As a Gemini we refuse to feed into insecurities. I had a Scorpio ex that can't get enough ego boosting
Waaait...
How many women you left in dust?
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYou need a heart! Here ? Gift wrapped!Posted by GemitatiI don't remember. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioOk. On a street washed by a rain?Posted by Gemitatilol I never left anyone in the dustPosted by EvoxxxscorpioYou are exclusion from the norm.Posted by GemitatiLol da fuck ?Posted by CobyScorpios no good until after 40.
I totally agree. As a Gemini we refuse to feed into insecurities. I had a Scorpio ex that can't get enough ego boosting
Waaait...
How many women you left in dust?
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Don't waste another breath. No matter how much you care about him or have feelings, don't stick around to hurt yourself anymore. He is playing games. They are fools and you don't need to be a part of that club by being a fool falling for their games.
Move on.
Move on.
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