Flirts with your ex, what would you do?
If a scorpio friend or any friend....
Kill them. Then kill my ex. Then kill myself to prove a point.
How ridiculous.
You get what you deserve .... so lay in your bed.
Posted by RabbitPosted by Shruikan
Kill them. Then kill my ex. Eat a burger from Burger King, then shoot up that Burger King.Then kill myself to prove a point.
Fixed.click to expand
Double fixed.
Posted by Shruikan
Kill them. Then kill my ex. Then kill myself to prove a point.
pretty much....except for the last part...#LifeOnTheRun #CatchMeIfYouCan
I'd dump friend and then systematically plot how to ruin ex friend. If it takes 20 yrs, so be it, but the ruin and destruction WILL come. Killing isn't poetic enough.
Posted by RabbitPosted by ShruikanPosted by RabbitPosted by Shruikan
Kill them. Then kill my ex. Eat a burger from Burger King, then shoot up that Burger King.Then kill myself to prove a point.
Fixed.
Double fixed.
I've been thinking about ordering a Big King and an Original Chicken Sandwich and the patties and toppings off the Big King and adding it to the Chicken Sandwich.
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That sounds delicious. I wouldn't even wanna kill myself at that point.
There was a Taco Bell mixed with a KFC here a couple years back. They shared the restaurant store. I used to get the large popcorn chicken and pour in Taco Bell sauce, add cheese and then shake the
box. AMAZING.....
Posted by Noreallynow
Flirts with your ex, what would you do?
i had this issue with my aries friend, multiple times. I stopped talking to her multiple times. Im only friends with her because it mad my Virgo friend very uncomfortable to be in the middle.
.......smh
Posted by Rabbit
Why would it matter who flirts with your ex?
If it's an ex...IT'S AN EX. It's over.
You don't have any right to determine who can and cannot flirt with your ex.
Unless you're still into the ex. Then it's just possessivness and jealousy. In which case you have bigger problems than a friend taking a shot at an otherwise single person.
It sounds to me like you just need to get ovet yourself.
im calling your bluff sir. If your best friend started hooking up with your virgo wife, you would not be okay with that.
Posted by GetMistedPosted by DMVPosted by Rabbit
Why would it matter who flirts with your ex?
If it's an ex...IT'S AN EX. It's over.
You don't have any right to determine who can and cannot flirt with your ex.
Unless you're still into the ex. Then it's just possessivness and jealousy. In which case you have bigger problems than a friend taking a shot at an otherwise single person.
It sounds to me like you just need to get ovet yourself.
im calling your bluff sir. If your best friend started hooking up with your virgo wife, you would not be okay with that.
Yeah.. Because they are still married duh!click to expand
yes i am aware. but if she was his ex wife, he would not be okay with that.
Posted by Rabbit
Why would it matter who flirts with your ex?
If it's an ex...IT'S AN EX. It's over.
You don't have any right to determine who can and cannot flirt with your ex.
Unless you're still into the ex. Then it's just possessivness and jealousy. In which case you have bigger problems than a friend taking a shot at an otherwise single person.
It sounds to me like you just need to get ovet yourself.
What, are you a robot?
There's at least a grace period for that. People don't just get over somebody in three seconds. Even if you are the one who dumped them, unless you fell out of love with them long before the breakup and really don't give a damn, there are still some feelings a person needs to work through before they can fully detach from the relationship.
Determining who can and can not flirt with your ex is one thing, but you can certainly express your feelings to someone who is supposed to be your friend about their actions and that you don't appreciate it. Especially if it is done in front of you or mutual friends who will blab about it to you if it's not. That's just disrespectful and selfish.
A friend sleeping with your ex... well, that is betrayal. Especially if they know you are still mourning. Break ups are traumatic enough as it is. Catching a glimpse of an ex with a new person so soon after is like a knife to the guts, especially if they broke your heart. Just adding extra salt to the wound. A friend deciding to go for it is not a real friend.
If your carnal needs are more important than loyalty to your friends, you're no friend of mine.
OMG RABBIT WAS CALLED A ROBOT.
hahhaha
hahhaha
*blinks*
Jesus, I didn't even realize that was you, Rabbit. You surprised me with both your response and your user picture.
You're freaking me out!
Jesus, I didn't even realize that was you, Rabbit. You surprised me with both your response and your user picture.
You're freaking me out!
Posted by Rabbit
Spouses are likely a different story.
I doubt, based on OPs past posting history, the question was based on a spousal situation.
Dating or even exclusive?
Yeah it's not going to bother me.
famous last words.
Posted by Rabbit
I'm not saying it wouldn't cause any negative feelngs.
But seriously...at some point you simply have to move on with your own life and let other people live their's.
I have never beat myself up over, obsessed over, pined for, or held on to ex's. Once we're "ex"...that's it. I'm moving on. Life is too short to hang yourself out like that.
Well, yeah, you can't hold on to them forever, that's unhealthy. All of my exes right now, I would be fine if a friend got with them.
Everyone has their own mourning period, and I appreciate people who will ask their friend if it is okay if they go for their ex beforehand so they can confirm that their friend won't be hurt by it. Even better if they are happy for them it does happen.
I'm not sure how or why, but my last ex, the one I was with after I left my ex husband who I fell out of love with long before I finally separated, took me a long time to get over the hurt he put me through, and while I never wanted him back, I felt a huge change inside; my libido died and I didn't find any joy in self-pleasuring any more, which was something I always enjoyed, frequently. In fact I dreaded it when I felt the pressure build and there was a mandatory release, purely utilitarian, my fantasies were not fun or loving but more dark and detached and no fantasy men to daydream about, I would cry afterwards and curse him for taking that from me. That lasted a couple of years.
I guess part of it was because I was usually the one who would break up with someone, not the other way around, so it was a big blow to me, especially since , our relationship was mostly just him dragging me down to rock bottom before sticking the knife in. Several times.
I even went and contacted a couple of old ex boyfriends I knew I hurt when I broke up with them that I was sorry, LOL... even though I always broke up with them kindly and respectfully.
I spent a lot of time hating on him for what he did and imagined all sorts of vengeful things if I ever saw him again.
The day I finally realized I was totally over that, was when I caught a glimpse of him on the street while I was on public transit and as the doors closed in front of me like curtains, I turned my head forward again and smiled to myself.
Posted by Rabbit
And for the record....yes I am a robot.
A trained assassin robot.
Remember this.
-_-
Posted by ShruikanPosted by RabbitPosted by Shruikan
Kill them. Then kill my ex. Eat a burger from Burger King, then shoot up that Burger King.Then kill myself to prove a point.
Fixed.
😆!
Double fixed.click to expand
Posted by Rabbit
Spouses are likely a different story.
I doubt, based on OPs past posting history, the question was based on a spousal situation.
Dating or even exclusive?
Yeah it's not going to bother me.
It has nothing to do with me. I was asked that question, by a friend of mines. So, I posted this question to see what others had to say.
Posted by femmefatalePosted by Rabbit
Why would it matter who flirts with your ex?
If it's an ex...IT'S AN EX. It's over.
You don't have any right to determine who can and cannot flirt with your ex.
Unless you're still into the ex. Then it's just possessivness and jealousy. In which case you have bigger problems than a friend taking a shot at an otherwise single person.
It sounds to me like you just need to get ovet yourself.
No, it's girl/guy code. Next thing you you know,
you become a topic of their conversations,
information being exchanged that's best left unsaid.
Yea, I'd cut that friendship with the quickness.click to expand
That isn't about any guy/girl code. I reads like you just don't want anyone looking through your closet. Call it what it is.
Hopefully the person will be respectful enough to keep what happened private, but we can't control what our ex partner will or won't share or with whom. If the concern is about an ex disclosing intimate acts it isn't your (general your) secret alone. He or she was in there elbows deep in the act right along with you. Therefore, you don't really have the rights to the "tell all" story.
Posted by deathnirvanaPosted by Shruikan
Kill them. Then kill my ex. Then kill myself to prove a point.
Sounds like a good plan.
I like that.click to expand
I try. lol
For me in order to move on I need to leave the past in the past, I can't stare at my past in the eyes while he hold hands with my friend... It's too painful.
Going back to the OP question while I have no possession over my ex I don't have to sit there and watch. I would remove myself from that situation and tell her that I don't wanna know anything about that. If they start dating/have a serious relationship wish them the best but end the friendship.
Going back to the OP question while I have no possession over my ex I don't have to sit there and watch. I would remove myself from that situation and tell her that I don't wanna know anything about that. If they start dating/have a serious relationship wish them the best but end the friendship.
Posted by Rabbit
Why would it matter who flirts with your ex?
If it's an ex...IT'S AN EX. It's over.
You don't have any right to determine who can and cannot flirt with your ex.
Unless you're still into the ex. Then it's just possessivness and jealousy. In which case you have bigger problems than a friend taking a shot at an otherwise single person.
It sounds to me like you just need to get over yourself.
Print ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^that out and give it to your "friend""
(i fixed the typo)😉
Posted by tizianiPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by tiziani
There are some exes that are off limits in my book.
Who and why?
There are just some exes where all you had between you is sex, electricity and the other intagibles.
For example my Aries ex.
Or my best Libra friend, his old girlfriend, I know if he met her again they'd be having eye contact sex in no time.
Or if anyone asked me "so they're not together anymore right? So I can take a shot at her?" when it comes to my Pisces best friend and his Cap ex, I'd laugh in their face. Must have a death wish.click to expand
😄 you've been readig my post long enough ....You knew what I was asking you 😈.
No worries.
*posts.
I agree with Tiz, there are some that are "off limits".
I think it depends on how far you fell for the ex during the relationship and the reason for the breakup.
I think it depends on how far you fell for the ex during the relationship and the reason for the breakup.
The irrational obsession of wanting to control everyone in the Scorpio's circle is the precise reason why they don't have people trust them.
Funny, the Scorpio isn't trusted by most people, and they have no idea why ... even when it's right here in black and white, they still don't get it.
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