If you where in control of your relationship?

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If you where in control of your relationship(s)? what do get out of it? how do you handle it? will it make you completely happy? Will you continue to control for own insecurities to be selfishly happy??

Been there done that?? It's not pretty or cute but yet pleasing for those who need—??..and why? agree or disagree— let talk about this—?? smile pleasssssse.....

I don't think I'd want a relationship like that.I want someone who has thier on agenda and friends to get out of my hair occasionly,so I guess I'd disagree with being with someone willing to give up thier whole being to make me or anyone else happy or doing it myself.I get bored easily so someone that will teach,make things fun,or whatever the case,differant than me is the root of what it is about the people I will generally date.

Since I'm pretty much in control of myself most of the time, I'm looking for surrender.

Frankly, I like to lose control too, but it's takes someone very understanding to handle it.

well I been there done that ,,,my past relatioship with my leo male,,I Was in total control,,not that I wanted it to be that way,,seemed like he couldnt do anything on his own or the right way...I lost respect for him..I agree to needing the surrender in the relationship, I wouldnt mind if the male took on a more role with me, maybe even put his foot down with me,,being aquarian or not,,I am always going to lead if you let me..but inside wishin I wasnt leadin or controling anything or anyone. so my leo an me,,we are no more...had a capi,,we got married,,divorced now,,but he gave me everything I needed..even the putting his foot down with me...I loved that man with my entire being...but,,,he thought other . anyways...I think if it was equal and balanced in a relationship.,.the better..ok Im done rambling on,,lol

AK

Ladies you have been great!!! I want to submit, submit, submit.....I have been in control of a sag and aquar, divoce them because I was unhappy. They could'nt fill the void of what I now understand, is — show me how deep is your love and take control and let me be the wife and you the man.......My love was their for them, but yet I felt that their love was, because I was a take control type of women, and I realized that they loved me because they needed me and that was it. I want to give all my love to a man that will take control but yet love me unconditionally and take care of me where I may fall...You know what I am saying....Be strong but yet for me to realize we are both human and it alright to be vulnerable but still repected for who we are....