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truth be told. i am so obsessed with my scorp!!! love, infatuation, lust...whatever you want to call it.

ugh, someone please help me break his spell that he has on me.

there has to be a spell to break this spell.

this is inhumane to have this much influence on someone else. it should be illegal.

i cannot go back to him...the cycle of lust, fear, love, hate will continue and never end.

help me baby jesus
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
So what is this whining about?


I'm guessing you tried to throw a tantrum, and he pulled the classic scorpio move called 'well fuck you too. im never speaking to you again, see if i care' and now you reeling from the aftermath and want him to contact you? Yesss.. let the hate flow in you 😄



naw, actually i said that line and im to stubborn to call my own bluff. hes just clever enough to wait me and my bi-polarific self out.
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@DMV believe me you sagg have the same effect on us,

My Sagg has me so open it riduclous, I have all the other guys trying to talk to me but I can't even do it cause right now I can only see him touching and loving me.

I think this is the year for the Scorp/Sagg combo, I have been reading about this combo a lot on the sagg and scorp board.......

I just wish my sagg would let go of some of his pride, I have been letting go of mine little by little but I know I am getting to him.
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Posted by exoskeleton
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ive tried damn near everything to get out of this...

dating a whack ass leo
having a 3some (which he found out about)



what what! how'd he find out? lol!
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OK, so on my birthday in NOV, i had a party at my house and he came by (all late!) i had a FUNNEL and i was being pretty loose and naughty with the funnel. we werent even on speaking terms. but he stared at me the whole night. why cant he just give in! he left and i watched him drive off.

i went back in the house, drunk as a skunk, and this cancer guy and leo girl started fooling around on my couch. so i joined in. we had an audience.

found out that a libra (mutual friend who also told me that the scorp was married the same night 😢 ) went and told the scorp. I had the 3some because i was beside myself when i found out that he was married. i wanted to hurt him real fucking bad.

**fast forward

im over at my ex fish's house at the request of the scorp and he keeps bringing it up. and i acted aloof as hell!! we spent the night together and he kinda brought it up (the leo girl) but he didnt just come out and say "did you have a 3some"

so i didnt bring it up either.
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No one goes back to Leos, unless they've got nothing better to do.
If the scorpio say 'so have I' to you, then it's all good right ?



all it would take would be a phone call.


i probably give in 100% if he showed up at my work...stalking me in the parking lot.


Now you want him to come to your work ?
Is it to show him off to you colleagues ?
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nope, i actually keep him a secret. im very low key.

it would show his commitment.
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Posted by scorpdiva
@DMV believe me you sagg have the same effect on us,

My Sagg has me so open it riduclous, I have all the other guys trying to talk to me but I can't even do it cause right now I can only see him touching and loving me.

I think this is the year for the Scorp/Sagg combo, I have been reading about this combo a lot on the sagg and scorp board.......

I just wish my sagg would let go of some of his pride, I have been letting go of mine little by little but I know I am getting to him.



its SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO hard.

it goes aganist everything we stand for! independence...freedom
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No one goes back to Leos, unless they've got nothing better to do.
If the scorpio say 'so have I' to you, then it's all good right ?



all it would take would be a phone call.


i probably give in 100% if he showed up at my work...stalking me in the parking lot.


Now you want him to come to your work ?
Is it to show him off to you colleagues ?



nope, i actually keep him a secret. im very low key.

it would show his commitment.


So you want him to stalk you ? Haha, you're nuts.
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stalking shows commitment
jealousy means he cares
controlling means "trust me" (this is my biggest hurdle)
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DMV

Sag Sun
Scorp Moon (hence the freak out moment im having right now)
Scorp Mercury
Capricorn Venus (hence the indecision)
Cancer rising (hence the whining)



no, what is the scorp guy's chart like?

and holy FUCK at that story. he's been married this whole time?!
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he said he wasnt married (couldnt look me in the eye when he told me no), BUT i checked up on his ass.....im debating ordering a marriage certificate to shove in his face. ive had a inclination for a very long time that something was UP with him. but i couldnt put my finger on it.

DMV's WHACK ASS SCORP

Scorp Sun
Gemini Moon
Sag Mercury
Sag Venus

dont know his time of birth, sooo no rising sign info
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stalking shows commitment
jealousy means he cares
controlling means "trust me" (this is my biggest hurdle)

This is what my Sagg all the time, Damn DMV you remind me of him but only you can wear a skirt and look in it.
he always says show me you love me, like he wants me to stalk his azz or act really jealousy and he says if you act like that that's how he knows or feel that you really care. I know I have venus in Scorp but I have so many other placements in like fire and earth that I don't get all crazy jealous like that but if I do he will think I am KRAZY...........

I should start acting like that just for the hell of it, but I think he would LIKE it too much.
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Posted by scorsagianX
@DMV my cap cousin was dating this guy scorp guy and she was suspicious of him so she looked him up on www.spokeo.com and she found out he was married and even named his wife. Try the website see what you can find.



HA, thats the website i sued.

there were 3 female names listed in his household. He has a daughter, a mother, and only a step brother. no sisters. through talking with him, i used deduction to figure out who the names belonged to. i found out 2 of the 3; his daughter and his mom. the third was a mystery. until i talked to the libra. AND all the women had the same last name.

the libra told me that he got married to avoid paying child support and he didnt want another man raising his kid.
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Scorp men are like that huh, I use to talk to a scorp men about two years ago just casual dating and he told me he had a baby mom and what not, she was a sagg I found out.
He work with a girl my sister knew who in turn found out he was married and told my sister and she told me, when I ask him about it he just talk around it and didn't answer my question(I do this too sometimes).
We remain friends he call me too last sunday talking about he miss hanging out........
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Posted by exoskeleton
"DMV's WHACK ASS SCORP"

you're too funny! and mine lied about his age for months because he knew i wouldn't give him a chance if i knew upfront. basically had to trap me in first and then say AGE IS JUST A NUMBER when i found out. eh. scorpio men are just fuckers.

so how did yours react about the 3 some?



thats eactly the approach people use and not just scorps. people pull you in and then lay the bullshit on you.

i honestly dont think hes upset about the 3some, or hes waiting for the perfect opportunity (something else i like about him; his timing is impeccable).

hes more worried about his best friend who i used to date (a fish). hes actually obsessed with his friend and the relationship i had with him. he brings his friend up ALL the time.

he worried im going to dump him and go back to his friend.

he really hates his friend but will smile in his face and drink his liqour.
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Posted by scorpdiva
stalking shows commitment
jealousy means he cares
controlling means "trust me" (this is my biggest hurdle)

This is what my Sagg all the time, Damn DMV you remind me of him but only you can wear a skirt and look in it.
he always says show me you love me, like he wants me to stalk his azz or act really jealousy and he says if you act like that that's how he knows or feel that you really care. I know I have venus in Scorp but I have so many other placements in like fire and earth that I don't get all crazy jealous like that but if I do he will think I am KRAZY...........

I should start acting like that just for the hell of it, but I think he would LIKE it too much.



HE WOULD!

saggis can be just as possessive and crave those kind of displays of affection.

if someone i really freakin liked and loved wanted to just hang out outside of my house. man oh man. i wouldnt even tell him that i saw him. its enough to know that hes there lurking.
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Posted by scorpdiva
Scorp men are like that huh, I use to talk to a scorp men about two years ago just casual dating and he told me he had a baby mom and what not, she was a sagg I found out.
He work with a girl my sister knew who in turn found out he was married and told my sister and she told me, when I ask him about it he just talk around it and didn't answer my question(I do this too sometimes).
We remain friends he call me too last sunday talking about he miss hanging out........



thats exactly what he did. BS'd around the question.

my virgo friend and the scorp was having a conversation and my scorp told her that "im going home to my wife and kid". me and her werent even friends yet! she told me about the conversation before the libra told me the scorp was married. i just kept it all in my back packet.

i only brought up the convo the scorp had with the virgo to the scorp when i confronted him about the marriage thing. he danced his way around the question and instead gave me this story about how he knows my virgo friend.

i coulda smacked the shyt outta him.
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@DMV my cap cousin was dating this guy scorp guy and she was suspicious of him so she looked him up on www.spokeo.com and she found out he was married and even named his wife. Try the website see what you can find.



HA, thats the website i sued.

there were 3 female names listed in his household. He has a daughter, a mother, and only a step brother. no sisters. through talking with him, i used deduction to figure out who the names belonged to. i found out 2 of the 3; his daughter and his mom. the third was a mystery. until i talked to the libra. AND all the women had the same last name.

the libra told me that he got married to avoid paying child support and he didnt want another man raising his kid.



Damn you sued them...Yeah that website is crazy, even my shit comes up. Well my cuz brought it up to him and of course he straight denied it but she told him if he didnt stop calling her she was gonna roll up at his house. It was hard for her to let him go, she said he was the best she's ever had.
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no i meant to say USED....im emotional and tying fast.
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"DMV's WHACK ASS SCORP"

you're too funny! and mine lied about his age for months because he knew i wouldn't give him a chance if i knew upfront. basically had to trap me in first and then say AGE IS JUST A NUMBER when i found out. eh. scorpio men are just fuckers.

so how did yours react about the 3 some?



thats eactly the approach people use and not just scorps. people pull you in and then lay the bullshit on you.

i honestly dont think hes upset about the 3some, or hes waiting for the perfect opportunity (something else i like about him; his timing is impeccable).

hes more worried about his best friend who i used to date (a fish). hes actually obsessed with his friend and the relationship i had with him. he brings his friend up ALL the time.

he worried im going to dump him and go back to his friend.

he really hates his friend but will smile in his face and drink his liqour.



so he doesn't know about the leo? would he give you shit saying you're unfaithful or anything?
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naw he doesnt know about the leo. I wish he would bring some ol faithful shyt up.

I would proceed to bring out my list of "what the fucks."

hes not he best i ever had in the sack. but his mind is what draws me. i truly like the person and not whats in their pants; for once in my life.
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i think ive said in here b4....

i even marked the day i felt the "pull" form him. that day where the instant attraction hit me. it wasnt the day we had sex.

im just a mess.

i dont like this at all. i shouldnt consume myself so much with one person.

i know when he looks at me, i know his thoughts. i know.

i need him to wave the white flag and give in to me. my pride wont let me raise my white flag. LORD only knows what he would do with that precious access to my heart. ive let him know my secrets and hes used every last one against me when he feels like testing me.

i just get annoyed at this point. but dammit, the damage he could do with full access to my heart and soul? hes capable of love and hurt.
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Posted by exoskeleton
"I would proceed to bring out my list of "what the fucks.""

LOL.

"hes not he best i ever had in the sack. but his mind is what draws me. i truly like the person and not whats in their pants; for once in my life."

either this is love is meant to be, or this is just a lesson for you. 🙂 it's a good experience either way.



yes. i think this is a karmic relationship for the both of us. i dont know if hes had this much trouble/resistance with a female before.

he has a venus in sag, so hes addicted to firey women. his baby moms is probably a leo.

he doesnt even realize who im truly jealous of! im jealous of her. he tries to use soo many people to make me jealous; even my friends.

this would have been the best relationship of both our lives had he just waited a few more years to meet me. NOPE, he went and had a baby with some else. i mean shit, i waited. i waited for this experience...why the hell couldnt he.

sounds very irrational. but i feel like he betrayed what we could have had, had he just waited.


i dont want to look desperate, dumb, foolish for messing with a married man. so i cant give in 100% . had he just waited.
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Posted by exoskeleton
OK. now i think i get it. how has he used your secrets/how you feel against you? how has he tested you?

do you feel like you're giving in everytime and he's taking advantage of that?



unimaginable testing. some of it just sooo corny, but its effective.

a few tests:

1.) the first time silent treatment. i texted him asking when he was coming over. he said "i no longer need your services..deuces". i told him that what i did with him werent services. he said not to dwell just move on. i cried for 3 weeks. tried texting/calling him, but no reponse. i hid out in my home. i was emotinally crippled. he called me and apologized. had i known this was the beginning of the tests, i would have ignored his phone call.

2.) i was in the club and he showed up. i didnt expect him to be there. i was wearing a pink from head to toe. he made a sly remark about "my tits not working for me because i didnt have a drink in my hand". guys buying me drinks bec my boobs were all out, but their my boobs! so he was a bit perturbed. he looked at me with these glassy eyes, so much emotion behind them. we werent even together. he stood on the opposite side of the club. staring at me. he came over and told me in front of my friend, no to leave without him. great, im bout to get lucky! i told him that i wanted to leave right after the entertainer was done. he looked me dead in my eye and said "you leave when i tell you that you can leave, right?" we never broke our gaze. i was fixed. i nodded my head in agreement.

2 hours later, he leaves me in the club by myself. he decided he was ready to go and left. didnt tell me shyt. i text him wondering where he is. he said "i left" i proceeded to curse him out. we didnt talk for about a month. tell he caved in.

*i cant tell you all how many times hes told me to F OFF. and i do just that. i F OFF. and he comes back with a passion. scared to lose me.
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Posted by exoskeleton
WHAT the FUCK?
he really has the sexy-detached-manipulative-asshole shit down. i am amazed.
it sounds like he's toying with you just for the fuck of it.
when he comes back around, how does he act? does he love you?



when hes around me. he is LOYAL. hardly strays from my side. when he does, its to make me jealous. i know he messes with other girls and thats okay because hes not the only one im messing with. i would say for the past 6 months, he has been really mopey. just a downer because i just stopped paying significant attention to him. i know hes sad that ive made myself distant. even when im not around, he stays close ot my girl friends. they say that he acts mopey. and sits in the corner all sad and shit. just drinking.

but when i come back around, he lightens up. i always catch him staring and shit. my friends have caught him staring. hes always paying attention to what im doing.

he said he loves me but i always watch his actions. his actions say that he loves me but i need to see more of a commitment on his end.

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i dont want other people to say "DMV, hes married, what r you dumb or something..."

yes this is my fear. Also, this may be just hot air coming from him. hes living out a fantasy outside of his marriage.

this isnt a fair aggrangement to me and for me.



no, it's not at all.

i thought of this:

"In the context of war, perfidy is a form of deception, in which one side promises to act in good faith (e.g. by raising a flag of surrender) with the intention of breaking that promise once the enemy has exposed himself (e.g. by coming out of cover in order to capture the surrendering forces)."
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he just raises his white flag and i accept it after a long period of indecision. but its only to start up right over again.

for example,

for about a week he was ignoring me and i kept texting him. i saw him out one night and we started talking, etc. he leaves the party and i follow him out to his car. he lets me in and he has this same glassy look in his eyes, like he about to cry or some hit. we have this heated convo about sex and why i cant allow my feelings to go any further with him. he agrees to every one of my excuses. and he blurts out "thats right, you cant be with me because you fucked Bill(his pisces friend)." i look at him, and just get out of his car and slam the door.

i went home and while i was falling asleep, he calls me. (about 20 mins later frm the car convo). he wanting to know if i got home okay and he sounds so hesistant on the phone. then he blurts out "i love you baby." then hangs up the phone.

the next day he comes over and we have dinner and sex. lol.

the very next day, i text him to see what hes doing. he tells to F oFF and to leave him the hell alone. here we go again.

2 days b4 his birthday.

the day after his birthday, hes sweatin me wanting to be all in my business.
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Posted by DMV
truth be told. i am so obsessed with my scorp!!! love, infatuation, lust...whatever you want to call it.

ugh, someone please help me break his spell that he has on me.

there has to be a spell to break this spell.

this is inhumane to have this much influence on someone else. it should be illegal.

i cannot go back to him...the cycle of lust, fear, love, hate will continue and never end.

help me baby jesus



Feeling the same way myself at the mo. Sucks.
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okay, i have an example. one of my best friends is a scorp and in high school she was "dating" a scorp. they were eachother's firsts, and she wanted to be in a relationship, but he insisted that they keep it a secret, but he still really liked her. she accepted that for a while, and then he started messing around with other girls and treating her like shit in front of our friends. she told him she didn't want anything to do with him, but they still had to hang out together in the group. he would only pay attention to her and if any his boys tried to talk to her, he'd get jealous and possessive and make a scene. even though he didn't want a relationship with her. he wanted the chase. and she STILL considers him her first love.



yes he flips when his friends try to holla. he even stops talking to them for awhile and in return. they stop talking to me.

the leo is outside of the "circle". so had no access to him.

i think its the ego. they want what they want. even if they arent with you, they still feel like your off limits.
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@DMV I think it's good that your opening up and explaining a lot of what happen, sometimes we hate doing this because of what we might hear and what we don't want to hear. In the end only you can decide what you choose to do, and who you choose to love I think the saying is true "Once you date a scorp you are never the same" We just have this effect on people and we can bring out the wrost and the best in people. I think from reading the story he does love you, but when you say you can't be with him becuase of valid reason ofcourse like the wife and kids, etc this upsets him and he talks around it and then he brings up the pisces friend to make you seem like the bad guy. Sometimes I know if I am wrong and I don't want to face it I will defintely turn the tables and find something on the other person to act out about. I think the only way you to can be together is if you both expose about your situations and see where you can go from there instead of playing this game of cat and mouse.....
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no, i cant anymore scorpdiva. today i just got blindsided. i was looking througha friend's album on FB and a pic of my scorp popped up. then the tears came. lol

i just had a moment of weakness. i never asked him once to leave anybody or to be in a relationship with me. i knew both those requests, i couldnt make of him or of myself.

so i cant. i just want to move on and if it means getting a clean slate of friends, then so be it.

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truth be told. i am so obsessed with my scorp!!! love, infatuation, lust...whatever you want to call it.

ugh, someone please help me break his spell that he has on me.

there has to be a spell to break this spell.

this is inhumane to have this much influence on someone else. it should be illegal.

i cannot go back to him...the cycle of lust, fear, love, hate will continue and never end.

help me baby jesus



You need to start praying to Zygote Jesus.
Everyone praysto baby jesus already.
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damn, is that my problem? im praying to the wrong god.
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