I'm Very Very Afraid.....

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Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
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I wanna make this as short and straight to the point as I possibly can. I need help. This scorpio male i just broke it off with is really really starting to disturb me. We had been seeing each other for almost three full months but i broke it off less than a week ago. At first, things were good. He seemed sweet, loving, and very very attentive. It wouldnt take me until about a month and a half later to realise just HOW attentive he would get. Soon I realised that he might not be the one for me. Im an honor student and a full time worker. I put hard work as the number one priority in my life. He on the other hand put ME as the number one priority in his life and that was my biggest turn off. He wanted to spend every waking second up under me. I Literally mean EVERY SECOND. He started suffocating me until i just couldnt take it anymore. He made a twitter and had me as his only follower and stalked the hell out of my account. I once posted something about Chris Hemsworth (the celebrity) and he got extremely angry. It became way too much, he was just crowding my space. He wasnt interested in looking for a job or colleges because he was too busy worrying about me. So, in turn, all he ever did was make plans for US during MY SPARE TIME....

I guess i should have noticed the signs a while ago, he confessed to me one night that he had a crush on me for years and that i never noticed him. He remembered certain things i wore or said on days years ago that i cant ever remember. He even told me how he would memeorize the hallways i took each year in school and walk the same halls just to see me. Then... about a month back I was having some hard times in Jersey and I was seriously going to move with my father who stays in Delaware. He cried and cried and cried and cried and told me he was going to commit suicide. His mother and grandmother were constantly calling me begging me not to leave and they even offered me a room......creepy right?

In a nutshell... I recently said to hell with the bs and broke it off with him. Now things are worse than ever. he has shown up at my job more than once. He questioned two of my co workers and asked them my schedule. Im not staying at home currently and hes been asking people where my cousin ( who I am staying with) lives. He keeps texting me and calling me begging for me back. One minute in a text hes cursing me out , the next hes being nice as hell, and the next one hell call me babe and whatnot and act as if nothing happened.
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I think you should convince him to commit suicide and if he agrees help. I had a 4 foot tall woman who made threats to herself via bodily harm my first question of natural boredem is whats stopping you—

She dissapeared when she found out I didn't have the willpower to play her game. Talk to him about his suicide and hows hes going to do it listen with a open ear tell him his plan is smart. I suspect he will break down in a billion tears and drone on you dont love me im leaving. Mission fucking accomplished.
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Woow. It had been a while since a posted on DXP before this topic. I see a lot has changed. Im just now reading some of these posts. Absolutely hilarious to me. Granted I saw Nerds replies when I first got back to you guys but I chose to ignore because he seems very...immature. But since others want to continue to bring up the legal issue and who I am as an individual let me just set the record straight.

First and foremost, Nerd commented on the fact that my life was in ddanger and that I "ran to a fucking astrology forum". Life in danger? Police? When did I ever once mention that scorp pulled a gun out on me? Or threatened to kill me, hurt me, or harm me, in any way? Yes, i told you i was disturbed, and starting to get VERY put off and uncomfortable. Hell I even questioned if I Should be afraid for my life but im smart enough to know that in order to take legal action you need to have hard proof that your in DANGER. Actual danger. Let it be known that my father is a sergeant on the Wilmington police force. He got me. Hes been a cop since i was four years old. IM GOOD BOO BOO! Im smart enough to know when to go to the POLICE thank ya very much🙂

Attention seeker? I didnt know that posting some info on a forum I hadnt been on in a while was such a crime. Not to mention people make topics such as this only...alll the time. lmao. So tell me exactly how am i trying to seek attention? I don't need validation from any of you (a bunch of strangers who have absolutely no impact on my life). Advice is more the word. I had never dated a scorp before and all of his qualities (both good and bad) matched what I had read about them over the years (I'm quite the astro freak). That, and only that, is why i posted here. I thought i could get some good hardy advice from some MATURE fellow scorps on how to best control the situation at hand. So thank you for CowPuncher and others who actually helped rather than tried their best to start a cyberspace conflict.

Last, but certainly not least, SCOPIOPICS posted something about me being an attention seeker and he/she/it was even nice enough to include a wikipedia link on this terrible personality disorder that apparently i have based on PHOTOS of me that are mad old and ABSOLUTELY NO DIFFERENT from any other teenager girl my age who has posted her photos on Twitter, fb, or tumblr. Fuck out of here. You cant be serious? Can you?
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Why would you turn to a forum full of strangers for advice instead of your family and friends? I mean no harm here but they know you best. You turned to a group of people who are only getting the sparknotes version of your story. Of course there is going to be some backlash because the fact is that none of us know you. So yes, I can see how some people might think you were/are seeking attention. I personally think you just made a misguided attempt at seeking advice from a non-biased point of view. This all boils down to you taking this problem out of this forum and to someone who has real jurisdiction, and someone who is able to give you more that just an opinion. Good luck!
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Posted by Let*It*Be
"Hell I even questioned if I Should be afraid for my life but im smart enough to know that in order to take legal action you need to have hard proof that your in DANGER. Actual danger. Let it be known that my father is a sergeant on the Wilmington police force. He got me. Hes been a cop since i was four years old. IM GOOD BOO BOO! Im smart enough to know when to go to the POLICE thank ya very much"


Read your initial posts, then read ^^^that. Stalking is DANGER. Stalking is against the law. Again..I have no doubt that if your father read your initial cries for help..his ass would be there, or at the very least a call would be placed to your local police dept. and he WOULD have it documented..just in case the nut job scorp has a gun tucked in his waist band.



LetItBe im confused by your backlash of all people because as you said in your post you actually were one of the ones that helped me. I thanked CowPuncher and those like him (which included you) who actually gave me advice so the last thing I want you to think is that I wasted your time. I was just pissed at those who talked about who I was as a person for no reason to me. I dont remember doing anything wrong or being rude to anybody on here which confused the hell out of me when someone posted something about me having... a personality disorder of all things! lol. But I have said my piece and made my point so im completely over it. Your right, stalking is dangerous no doubt. But contrary to what Virggy thought I did talk to my family and friends about the situation that was at hand. My mother being one of the main ones. I came on the forum to get advice from an astrological point of view because as I said before I take a lot of things back to astrology. That is all. Nothing more Nothing less. My post wasn't the first one like this or the last so I guess all the ones before and after me are attention seekers as well.
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Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
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Posted by Virggy
Why would you turn to a forum full of strangers for advice instead of your family and friends? I mean no harm here but they know you best. You turned to a group of people who are only getting the sparknotes version of your story. Of course there is going to be some backlash because the fact is that none of us know you. So yes, I can see how some people might think you were/are seeking attention. I personally think you just made a misguided attempt at seeking advice from a non-biased point of view. This all boils down to you taking this problem out of this forum and to someone who has real jurisdiction, and someone who is able to give you more that just an opinion. Good luck!



Virggy I see your point as well. But yes I did talk to my family about it. Especially my mom, she noticed before anyone else the signs this guy was showing and warned me about making myself too available.
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp

Im smart enough to know .....







You have successfully proven to everyone in here that you're pretty dumb, in such that you think that people can't detect bullshit.

Typical teenager ... doesn't know shit, while trying to convince people that they do.



::: shakes head :::


Come back when you grow up.
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Please P-Angle tell me where the bull-shit is, since it was so easy for you to detect lol
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you people never cease to amaze me.

why is it that when i decide to venture into dxp world, there's always at least one post that lowers me enough to login?

so because she posted a pic and happens to be cute and young, she's "asking for it—"

what she stated in the OP IS extreme behavior on the part of the Scorp and the reality is, none of you fuckers would "go to the cops" just because you have a "feeling" that someone is crazy as fuck. in a way, you're like the assholes who blame a rape victim because she chose to wear a short skirt.

what's sad about this site, and the people who frequent it, is that you've been residing in an anal cavity so long that you've truly lost sense of reality and don't realize you're covered in shit.

ugh! why do i bother?

ta!
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Posted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
But I have said my piece and made my point so im completely over it.
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If this is the case, you shouldn't feel the need to keep coming back here to defend yourself. If it truly doesn't bother you, let it go. Constantly reappearing is not helping you make your point.

Side note: if you come to a forum seeking advice, it's unrealistic to expect that you will only get advice you agree with.
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Posted by IntriguedScorp
No its because we all thought her life was in peril until it turns out its just your run of the mill game playing.

Plus, you have no idea how often women come in here and play this whole my Scorp man is a psycho obssessed with me and then we learn that the woman is really over exaggerating and its just an ego boost. Stick around for a week--you'll see.

It gets tiring. Has nothing to do with her looks. Why would anyone be threatened by someone's looks? Dont get that kind of thinking.





so because you're tired of reading, all posts are the same?

maybe you get the same tired bullshit because scorpios are, on average, crazy as fuck—
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Posted by exoskeleton
lol, caligula. read the whole thread.

first she goes off on how she's in danger, how he threatened to commit suicide and showed up at her work asking questions and where her cousin lives.

we suggested contacting the police while also mentioning the attention whore antics, and now she acts like it was never a big deal.

ego shticks. 🙂





i did read and as i said, if everyone contacted the police when an ex sent unwanted messages and/or threatened suicide, the courthouses would be overrun...with scorpio defendants.

also, posting a person experience = "attention whore?"

admit it. you all trolled and had no reason to do so. hell, before she could post a reply, yall were already denigrating her. so all in all, you're full of shit.
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Posted by IntriguedScorp
Basically you want us to think that you are soooooooo hot that "OMG Look! A scorpio man is OBSSESSED with me!!! OMG, I Rulez!!!!"

lmao



You posted this ridiculously retarted post that, let us note here, you said and mentioned on your own then turned around a contradicted yourself terribly in the next couple posts by saying something along the lines of "it has nothing to do with her looks. What makes you think that. I don't get that kind of thinking." Fuckouttahere.
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Posted by exoskeleton
lol, caligula. read the whole thread.

first she goes off on how she's in danger, how he threatened to commit suicide and showed up at her work asking questions and where her cousin lives.

we suggested contacting the police while also mentioning the attention whore antics, and now she acts like it was never a big deal.

ego shticks. 🙂



Lol guys your still not getting it. At all. This thread I created is extremely drama for no reason whatsoever. You all continue to repeat the same thing as if I'm the troll here. As Caligula said its amazing. Let me try to explain ONCE AGAIN. I never intended to belittle the advice that people gave me about going to the police if the situation escalated. What I mentioned in the post I sent after seeing the link that explains my supposed personality disorder was what RockTheNerd said about my life being in danger and me running to an astrology forum. What I triedto explain to him and only him and the others who said I was seeking attention was that while I felt threatened and afraid to even talk to him, my life was in no immediate danger that required me to callthe police on him. Others read my very same post and while they take it seriously, as I do, they too did not think that me going to thepolice was NECCESSARY AT THE MOMENT. They all said "document" so "if things get worse" you can go to the authorities and I still agree with that. So ummm no🙂 no ego strokes here. I just wanted to post my experience and get some good advice which is what, from some individuals, exactly what I got.
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Posted by yourekillinmesmalls
Posted by Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
But I have said my piece and made my point so im completely over it.



If this is the case, you shouldn't feel the need to keep coming back here to defend yourself. If it truly doesn't bother you, let it go. Constantly reappearing is not helping you make your point.

Side note: if you come to a forum seeking advice, it's unrealistic to expect that you will only get advice you agree with.
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Smalls I never expected to only get advice that I agreed with. I agree with all of the advice given to me to some degree, including the fact that I should go to the police if things get worse. On that same note tho, I didn't expect to be attacked, especially not on my physical appearance which was at no time mentioned in my original post (atleast I don't think I mentioned it.)

Side note: its my thread and I WILL defend myself as much as I wish. I'm not losing sleep over the issue most def, but I love to exercise my rights when it comes to refuting others for what I think is wrong. Thank you for your input
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Sag_Cap_Beauty*Cusp
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Posted by TasteOfChaosss
Posted by caligula
Posted by exoskeleton
lol, caligula. read the whole thread.

first she goes off on how she's in danger, how he threatened to commit suicide and showed up at her work asking questions and where her cousin lives.

we suggested contacting the police while also mentioning the attention whore antics, and now she acts like it was never a big deal.

ego shticks. 🙂





i did read and as i said, if everyone contacted the police when an ex sent unwanted messages and/or threatened suicide, the courthouses would be overrun...with scorpio defendants.

also, posting a person experience = "attention whore?"

admit it. you all trolled and had no reason to do so. hell, before she could post a reply, yall were already denigrating her. so all in all, you're full of shit.



🙂
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+++ 🙂

Thank you Caligula I don't think I got to do that formally yet.
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What it all boils down to is that because you are young and immature little girl ... and you like that he's an ass, threating you like a piece of shit .. this is why you defend him, eventhough your mind tries to tell you differently.

It's typical teenager bullshit.

The (women) here get this about you. We couldn't give a rats ass about how you look because quite frankly, we'd rather clean a toilet than be young and stupid.



You can say whatever you want .. we all "get" that you like where you are, that's why you are there.





::: shakes head ::::
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Every individual that's female (andhuman) whether infant or adult are meerly examples of the different stages of womanhood. Therefore, it does not bother me when you classify me as young and dumb because I'm pretty surre you weren't always so wise P-Angel. But at the same time I can't bring myself to argue with you on that point. I don't think I know everything and I know I'm not perfect. I'm three months shy of being a legal adult but I'm still a baby by most peoples standards. I'm fine with that lol. I made mistakes in the past that I look back now on as I think "man was I stupid" and I'm pretty sure in 10 years ill look back at who I was now and think the same. I enjoy life freely and take every experience as a learning experience.

As for the other parts of your post tho, those make little sense to me P-Angel. Idk if you read my post but I'm not defending scorp or his scary disturbing behavior, I'm defending myself against those who chose to judge me based on my appearance. So please, donttell me you don't care how I look as if I was the one who first brought the talk of my appearance into this thread. It was not me. Furthermore you said I like where I am that's why I'm there, again, please reread my postme and this guy are not together! I have noteven really spoken to him otherthan to tell him it was over.

What it all boils down to is that if you all here are truly (women) why then, do you choose to belittle someone you claim is meerly a child to you instead of trying to uplift/teach.

You can say whatever you want.... I "get" that you all are indeed the immature ones. I am young and inexperienced rememeber?🙂 therefore it looks as if I have an excuse. Tell me, what is yours?

::: Shakes Head :::

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