Mamita91
@Mamita91
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Is this the end between us?
Don't you just love how Scorpio gets into the dark secrets of someone's life so quickly. The difference between Scorpio and other signs is their indifference if you open your mystery novel too quickly
So he's lost interest? He doesn't know everything about me, but a lot
The only way you will know if he has lost interest is if you ask. These sorts of conversations are best done in person though. But also just because someone has not replied to a text according to your timeline, does not mean things are over. 1 month is not a very long time, so take your time getting to know him
Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Have you posted this like a year ago?
I know I’ve read it before...I know it...
No i had a boyfriend a year ago. This guy is new, never dated a scorpio before!
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
The only way you will know if he has lost interest is if you ask. These sorts of conversations are best done in person though. But also just because someone has not replied to a text according to your timeline, does not mean things are over. 1 month is not a very long time, so take your time getting to know him
I sort of asked him last night, I said that I don't want to lose our connection and wondering if he feels we've lost it, but that I miss him and hope he's well. No answer, so I'll just pull back, won't see him for at least a month now, if ever.
Well in my honest opinion if he was making such a fuss that you join him, but then when you suggest dates and he can't, that's a red flag to me personally, sorry
Posted by WarAngelPosted by Mamita91
I'm a taurus with cancer venus and Mars, and aries moon and mercury.
He is scorpio with libra venus and moon and Mars, and sagittarius Mercury.
I am 29 and he is 34.
We met a month ago and he said I am better than the photos because of my soul, that he is no longer in a zen mode because he's fallen for me. We spent days together and it was bliss, just so natural and good and we opened up about lots of things, things I hadn't told many ppl or took years to tell.
He went to Spain last week until the end of August, and kept inviting me, saying I should go with him and work from there. On one of our last days he asked when would I go, and I suggested 2 sepárate dates and he said he couldn't and best another time. I suggested another weekend and he said he couldn't and maybe we could go somewhere in September instead. I got upset and said they were just words, how could I trust everything he said if the invitation was fake.
He was upset and on the verge of tears, as it was our goodbye and we were at the train station and we weren't going to see each other for a long time. Anyway my dad told me he was playing me and not to trust him, so I told the guy that it was best we take a break. He said he didn't want that, that he likes me and doesn't want to separate with me. He apologised for the misunderstanding, and said he doesn't want roller-coaster with me. So we agreed to forget it and move on. He called me the next day and we spoke for over 30 min, some flirting and back to normal.
We've been texting and flirting but over the days he's been getting more and more quiet. He no longer calls me pretty or nicknames, and yesterday I texted him something nice at lunch time and he didn't reply, then I said good night and asked how his weekend was, and he was on WhatsApp for over an hour but didn't answer me.
Is there a way to come back from this?
Any insight appreciated, I'm really hurt. Thank you
The best thing you can do is back away. You pushed away his sincere offer and now he's not sure what to do.
If he does come back, you have to play it cool and let him do the chasing. It doesn't hurt to date other men until that happens.click to expand
I'm thinking of apologising for overreacting, that it isn't a reflection of who I am. I'm normally a very laid back person, but I genuinely thoght it was an offer and was looking forward to seeing him in Spain. I want to be a better person and learn from this. What do u think?
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Well in my honest opinion if he was making such a fuss that you join him, but then when you suggest dates and he can't, that's a red flag to me personally, sorry
I thought it was strange, he seemed like he really wanted me to go and then all of a sudden no date was possible. At the same time my mum who I haven't seen in 2 years did the same to me, kept asking me to visit and just as I was going to book the tickets she backtracked. I was feeling very vulnerable, normally things don't get to me like this.
Posted by Mamita91Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Well in my honest opinion if he was making such a fuss that you join him, but then when you suggest dates and he can't, that's a red flag to me personally, sorry
I thought it was strange, he seemed like he really wanted me to go and then all of a sudden no date was possible. At the same time my mum who I haven't seen in 2 years did the same to me, kept asking me to visit and just as I was going to book the tickets she backtracked. I was feeling very vulnerable, normally things don't get to me like this.click to expand
Ah new info, so you mean you were uming and aahing when he asked you to go, not sure if you should see your mum or him?
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Mamita91Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Well in my honest opinion if he was making such a fuss that you join him, but then when you suggest dates and he can't, that's a red flag to me personally, sorry
I thought it was strange, he seemed like he really wanted me to go and then all of a sudden no date was possible. At the same time my mum who I haven't seen in 2 years did the same to me, kept asking me to visit and just as I was going to book the tickets she backtracked. I was feeling very vulnerable, normally things don't get to me like this.
Ah new info, so you mean you were uming and aahing when he asked you to go, not sure if you should see your mum or him?click to expand
No, I told him I'm visiting her the last week of August and so he said that I could visit him before that, and I said yes. Then the next day he asked when could I visit, I suggested x date and he said no, I suggested z date and he said no. Then on our way to the train station I suggested a weekend and he said no.
Posted by WarAngelPosted by Mamita91Posted by WarAngelPosted by Mamita91
I'm a taurus with cancer venus and Mars, and aries moon and mercury.
He is scorpio with libra venus and moon and Mars, and sagittarius Mercury.
I am 29 and he is 34.
We met a month ago and he said I am better than the photos because of my soul, that he is no longer in a zen mode because he's fallen for me. We spent days together and it was bliss, just so natural and good and we opened up about lots of things, things I hadn't told many ppl or took years to tell.
He went to Spain last week until the end of August, and kept inviting me, saying I should go with him and work from there. On one of our last days he asked when would I go, and I suggested 2 sepárate dates and he said he couldn't and best another time. I suggested another weekend and he said he couldn't and maybe we could go somewhere in September instead. I got upset and said they were just words, how could I trust everything he said if the invitation was fake.
He was upset and on the verge of tears, as it was our goodbye and we were at the train station and we weren't going to see each other for a long time. Anyway my dad told me he was playing me and not to trust him, so I told the guy that it was best we take a break. He said he didn't want that, that he likes me and doesn't want to separate with me. He apologised for the misunderstanding, and said he doesn't want roller-coaster with me. So we agreed to forget it and move on. He called me the next day and we spoke for over 30 min, some flirting and back to normal.
We've been texting and flirting but over the days he's been getting more and more quiet. He no longer calls me pretty or nicknames, and yesterday I texted him something nice at lunch time and he didn't reply, then I said good night and asked how his weekend was, and he was on WhatsApp for over an hour but didn't answer me.
Is there a way to come back from this?
Any insight appreciated, I'm really hurt. Thank you
The best thing you can do is back away. You pushed away his sincere offer and now he's not sure what to do.
If he does come back, you have to play it cool and let him do the chasing. It doesn't hurt to date other men until that happens.
I'm thinking of apologising for overreacting, that it isn't a reflection of who I am. I'm normally a very laid back person, but I genuinely thoght it was an offer and was looking forward to seeing him in Spain. I want to be a better person and learn from this. What do u think?
You can apologize but it would put you in a lesser position. You were right to get angry though. Maybe the both of you should try to be more flexible in making plans to see each other.
You've only been seeing each other for one month. Usually relationships that precede that quickly don't work out long-term. Maybe suggest that you take it slowly to truly understand if this man is sincere or full of shit.click to expand
Why would it put me in a lessee position out of curiosity? I do feel I overreacted so we were both in the wrong, this was last weekend but he's gone so quiet the past 2 days
Posted by Mamita91Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Mamita91Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Well in my honest opinion if he was making such a fuss that you join him, but then when you suggest dates and he can't, that's a red flag to me personally, sorry
I thought it was strange, he seemed like he really wanted me to go and then all of a sudden no date was possible. At the same time my mum who I haven't seen in 2 years did the same to me, kept asking me to visit and just as I was going to book the tickets she backtracked. I was feeling very vulnerable, normally things don't get to me like this.
Ah new info, so you mean you were uming and aahing when he asked you to go, not sure if you should see your mum or him?
No, I told him I'm visiting her the last week of August and so he said that I could visit him before that, and I said yes. Then the next day he asked when could I visit, I suggested x date and he said no, I suggested z date and he said no. Then on our way to the train station I suggested a weekend and he said no.click to expand
Ok yeah that for me as mentioned previously would be a red flag, dont get too hung up on him, go meet new people and carry on with your life regardless. Let him text you next and take it from there, hope it all works out for you🤗
Posted by WarAngelPosted by Mamita91Posted by WarAngelPosted by Mamita91Posted by WarAngelPosted by Mamita91
I'm a taurus with cancer venus and Mars, and aries moon and mercury.
He is scorpio with libra venus and moon and Mars, and sagittarius Mercury.
I am 29 and he is 34.
We met a month ago and he said I am better than the photos because of my soul, that he is no longer in a zen mode because he's fallen for me. We spent days together and it was bliss, just so natural and good and we opened up about lots of things, things I hadn't told many ppl or took years to tell.
He went to Spain last week until the end of August, and kept inviting me, saying I should go with him and work from there. On one of our last days he asked when would I go, and I suggested 2 sepárate dates and he said he couldn't and best another time. I suggested another weekend and he said he couldn't and maybe we could go somewhere in September instead. I got upset and said they were just words, how could I trust everything he said if the invitation was fake.
He was upset and on the verge of tears, as it was our goodbye and we were at the train station and we weren't going to see each other for a long time. Anyway my dad told me he was playing me and not to trust him, so I told the guy that it was best we take a break. He said he didn't want that, that he likes me and doesn't want to separate with me. He apologised for the misunderstanding, and said he doesn't want roller-coaster with me. So we agreed to forget it and move on. He called me the next day and we spoke for over 30 min, some flirting and back to normal.
We've been texting and flirting but over the days he's been getting more and more quiet. He no longer calls me pretty or nicknames, and yesterday I texted him something nice at lunch time and he didn't reply, then I said good night and asked how his weekend was, and he was on WhatsApp for over an hour but didn't answer me.
Is there a way to come back from this?
Any insight appreciated, I'm really hurt. Thank you
The best thing you can do is back away. You pushed away his sincere offer and now he's not sure what to do.
If he does come back, you have to play it cool and let him do the chasing. It doesn't hurt to date other men until that happens.
I'm thinking of apologising for overreacting, that it isn't a reflection of who I am. I'm normally a very laid back person, but I genuinely thoght it was an offer and was looking forward to seeing him in Spain. I want to be a better person and learn from this. What do u think?
You can apologize but it would put you in a lesser position. You were right to get angry though. Maybe the both of you should try to be more flexible in making plans to see each other.
You've only been seeing each other for one month. Usually relationships that precede that quickly don't work out long-term. Maybe suggest that you take it slowly to truly understand if this man is sincere or full of shit.
Why would it put me in a lessee position out of curiosity? I do feel I overreacted so we were both in the wrong, this was last weekend but he's gone so quiet the past 2 days
Because you are not in the right state of mind to negotiate what you want from this emerging relationship. Unless you were yelling or screaming at each other, your request was not too demanding.
Let him reach out to you and in the meantime date other men. Obsessing over him is only hurting yourself.click to expand
Thank you 🙂 there was no yelling but I was visibly upset, and told him a few times that I'm in pain. I'm going on a couple of dates this week but couldn't sleep last night just thinking about this. He said I have 0 confidence in him and that I overthink, but I wouldn't have opened up so much to him if I didn't trust him.
Well he just wrote to Me saying nothings wrong, that he's just been working a lot and sleeping like a log. That he doesn't miss where we live at all except to see me. Let's see...
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Don't you just love how Scorpio gets into the dark secrets of someone's life so quickly. The difference between Scorpio and other signs is their indifference if you open your mystery novel too quickly
I disagree with this.. it’s not always that we are “indifferent”, sometimes we just pull back into ourselves if we’ve got a lot on our mind.
But this Scorpio has more air in his chart than water, so he’s not a typical scorp. He’s going to be a very detached scorp.click to expand
But the men and woman Scorps to me are also very different imo. I dont know any of my girlfriend Scorpios who can be Indifferent in the same way as the men can. But agree the whole chart would make a difference too
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Don't you just love how Scorpio gets into the dark secrets of someone's life so quickly. The difference between Scorpio and other signs is their indifference if you open your mystery novel too quickly
I disagree with this.. it’s not always that we are “indifferent”, sometimes we just pull back into ourselves if we’ve got a lot on our mind.
But this Scorpio has more air in his chart than water, so he’s not a typical scorp. He’s going to be a very detached scorp.
But the men and woman Scorps to me are also very different imo. I dont know any of my girlfriend Scorpios who can be Indifferent in the same way as the men can. But agree the whole chart would make a difference too
I have libra rising and 4 other libra placements and I can easily detach especially if I’ve been hurt or if I haven’t been involved with someone for long. I’m not the typical clingy, controlling scorp. But I have a cancer moon, so if I have a long-standing history with someone it’s not quite as easy for me to detach.
This guy on the other hand has libra moon, venus AND mars. I don’t think it will be hard for him to detach at all and he is going to be hard for her to read. He’s more libra than he is scorp.
I do agree with you about the differences between male and female scorps. But some scorp males are even more clingy than female scorps in my experience.click to expand
Thats for sure. I've dated one of those clingy ones before. #shudders. They hard to umm, hide from. The guy practically has my Fathers chart. Scorp sun (12th house) libra moon venus and Mars and sag merc and rising. My dad was a "player" up to is 40s!
Posted by peachy06
You challenged him and told him you couldn't trust him so don't be surprised that he left.
Idk if u read the comments but he kept asking me and when I suggested several dates he turned me down, then said he wanted me to go but it was more of an expression and he wouldn't be able to see me this time.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Don't you just love how Scorpio gets into the dark secrets of someone's life so quickly. The difference between Scorpio and other signs is their indifference if you open your mystery novel too quickly
I disagree with this.. it’s not always that we are “indifferent”, sometimes we just pull back into ourselves if we’ve got a lot on our mind.
But this Scorpio has more air in his chart than water, so he’s not a typical scorp. He’s going to be a very detached scorp.
But the men and woman Scorps to me are also very different imo. I dont know any of my girlfriend Scorpios who can be Indifferent in the same way as the men can. But agree the whole chart would make a difference too
I have libra rising and 4 other libra placements and I can easily detach especially if I’ve been hurt or if I haven’t been involved with someone for long. I’m not the typical clingy, controlling scorp. But I have a cancer moon, so if I have a long-standing history with someone it’s not quite as easy for me to detach.
This guy on the other hand has libra moon, venus AND mars. I don’t think it will be hard for him to detach at all and he is going to be hard for her to read. He’s more libra than he is scorp.
I do agree with you about the differences between male and female scorps. But some scorp males are even more clingy than female scorps in my experience.
Thats for sure. I've dated one of those clingy ones before. #shudders. They hard to umm, hide from. The guy practically has my Fathers chart. Scorp sun (12th house) libra moon venus and Mars and sag merc and rising. My dad was a "player" up to is 40s!click to expand
Haha well this guy is nearly 35. He was in a relationship for 8 years, and then another for nearly 3 years but long distance. The one of 8 years they were very close and never argued but never lived together, and he moved around a lot, but was very committed to her. He says he's happier in a relationship than single and hence why it's been the best month in years for him.
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Don't you just love how Scorpio gets into the dark secrets of someone's life so quickly. The difference between Scorpio and other signs is their indifference if you open your mystery novel too quickly
I disagree with this.. it’s not always that we are “indifferent”, sometimes we just pull back into ourselves if we’ve got a lot on our mind.
But this Scorpio has more air in his chart than water, so he’s not a typical scorp. He’s going to be a very detached scorp.
But the men and woman Scorps to me are also very different imo. I dont know any of my girlfriend Scorpios who can be Indifferent in the same way as the men can. But agree the whole chart would make a difference too
I have libra rising and 4 other libra placements and I can easily detach especially if I’ve been hurt or if I haven’t been involved with someone for long. I’m not the typical clingy, controlling scorp. But I have a cancer moon, so if I have a long-standing history with someone it’s not quite as easy for me to detach.
This guy on the other hand has libra moon, venus AND mars. I don’t think it will be hard for him to detach at all and he is going to be hard for her to read. He’s more libra than he is scorp.
I do agree with you about the differences between male and female scorps. But some scorp males are even more clingy than female scorps in my experience.click to expand
I need to do some investigating now on libra! I have never dated or been attracted to libras.my brother is a libra and very attached in his relationship, my best friend is libra and the most loyal person I know, also a bit clingy! For some reason, despite my chart, I love space and can be quite detached myself, and hate it when a guy is too clingy.
Posted by Mamita91Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Don't you just love how Scorpio gets into the dark secrets of someone's life so quickly. The difference between Scorpio and other signs is their indifference if you open your mystery novel too quickly
I disagree with this.. it’s not always that we are “indifferent”, sometimes we just pull back into ourselves if we’ve got a lot on our mind.
But this Scorpio has more air in his chart than water, so he’s not a typical scorp. He’s going to be a very detached scorp.
But the men and woman Scorps to me are also very different imo. I dont know any of my girlfriend Scorpios who can be Indifferent in the same way as the men can. But agree the whole chart would make a difference too
I have libra rising and 4 other libra placements and I can easily detach especially if I’ve been hurt or if I haven’t been involved with someone for long. I’m not the typical clingy, controlling scorp. But I have a cancer moon, so if I have a long-standing history with someone it’s not quite as easy for me to detach.
This guy on the other hand has libra moon, venus AND mars. I don’t think it will be hard for him to detach at all and he is going to be hard for her to read. He’s more libra than he is scorp.
I do agree with you about the differences between male and female scorps. But some scorp males are even more clingy than female scorps in my experience.
Thats for sure. I've dated one of those clingy ones before. #shudders. They hard to umm, hide from. The guy practically has my Fathers chart. Scorp sun (12th house) libra moon venus and Mars and sag merc and rising. My dad was a "player" up to is 40s!
Haha well this guy is nearly 35. He was in a relationship for 8 years, and then another for nearly 3 years but long distance. The one of 8 years they were very close and never argued but never lived together, and he moved around a lot, but was very committed to her. He says he's happier in a relationship than single and hence why it's been the best month in years for him.click to expand
My parents were pretty funked up lol. Married each other young. My mum (Leo sun)was 20, he 23. They had numerous affairs. Divorced when I was 8. Married again when I was 15 and divorced again when I was 26. Thank God they finally gave up. He is with a cancer now and thankfully too old to still fuck around like he used too. Smh
Posted by Mamita91Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by PhoenixStormPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Don't you just love how Scorpio gets into the dark secrets of someone's life so quickly. The difference between Scorpio and other signs is their indifference if you open your mystery novel too quickly
I disagree with this.. it’s not always that we are “indifferent”, sometimes we just pull back into ourselves if we’ve got a lot on our mind.
But this Scorpio has more air in his chart than water, so he’s not a typical scorp. He’s going to be a very detached scorp.
But the men and woman Scorps to me are also very different imo. I dont know any of my girlfriend Scorpios who can be Indifferent in the same way as the men can. But agree the whole chart would make a difference too
I have libra rising and 4 other libra placements and I can easily detach especially if I’ve been hurt or if I haven’t been involved with someone for long. I’m not the typical clingy, controlling scorp. But I have a cancer moon, so if I have a long-standing history with someone it’s not quite as easy for me to detach.
This guy on the other hand has libra moon, venus AND mars. I don’t think it will be hard for him to detach at all and he is going to be hard for her to read. He’s more libra than he is scorp.
I do agree with you about the differences between male and female scorps. But some scorp males are even more clingy than female scorps in my experience.
I need to do some investigating now on libra! I have never dated or been attracted to libras.my brother is a libra and very attached in his relationship, my best friend is libra and the most loyal person I know, also a bit clingy! For some reason, despite my chart, I love space and can be quite detached myself, and hate it when a guy is too clingy.click to expand
I have lots of water in my chart so I will admit, I can get very emotional, more inside my feels and dont show it, unless its anger...but l its so easy to cut someone out of my life. I'm not a fan of Libra men myself because I think they are a tad too feminine for me, but they make such great friends, so much fun. I can't think of any of my Libra friends that I have who are clingy but like you mentioned its your whole chart, its strange other than my like for the use of the word.... fair.....I seldom relate to Libra at all when I read descriptions of them
Posted by Mamita91
We met a month ago and he said I am better than the photos because of my soul, that he is no longer in a zen mode because he's fallen for me.
Baaaahaha people actually say shit like that?!
"Your photos were alright but not enough to lose my zen... then I saw you IRL gurrl you look way better, lost my zen"
Such a romantic.
Such a romantic.
Posted by Pulsy
Scorpio men can be more sensitive or more player
Time will tell but if you put me on reserve/ reverse from bf to friends I will not be happy with it n I’ll start detaching. Unless you make it clear we are friends to eventually get back to bf gf status. Otherwise in my mind it’s over . I would behave as he is
Moving on
U mean he asked me to be friends? I'm confused. I asked for a break while he's away cuz of the way he messed me around with asking me to join him and then backtracking. We spoke about it though and no longer on a break. Nobody ever mentioned friends though
Scorpios are all about trust and you flat out called him a liar! You need to apologize if you really care for him and want something real. Scorpio is going to get quiet when they feel that bond breaking. You’re just really not trying for a relationship if you so easily try and jump ship. He needs a ride or die. Are you ready for that?? If you aren’t ready for something serious, don’t play with his heart. He picked you, now you need to trust that. Scorpios make good on their word but they also need you to be patient for the right time. You rushing things isn’t going to help at all. You need to be more considerate and let go of the idea of control. Go with the flow and stay positive.
Posted by AbbyNormal
Scorpios are all about trust and you flat out called him a liar! You need to apologize if you really care for him and want something real. Scorpio is going to get quiet when they feel that bond breaking. You’re just really not trying for a relationship if you so easily try and jump ship. He needs a ride or die. Are you ready for that?? If you aren’t ready for something serious, don’t play with his heart. He picked you, now you need to trust that. Scorpios make good on their word but they also need you to be patient for the right time. You rushing things isn’t going to help at all. You need to be more considerate and let go of the idea of control. Go with the flow and stay positive.
I know :/ I don't know hwo to say it without it seeming like I'm overthinking it all. He invited me several time and then backtracked when I tried to suggest times to see him, which hurt me. It wasnt an invitation like he led out to be, and it hurt me but I want to move on from it and not let it get between us. What should I say?
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II
"Your photos were alright but not enough to lose my zen... then I saw you IRL gurrl you look way better, lost my zen"
Such a romantic.
i'm stealing this for my new boy band.
Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II
"Your photos were alright but not enough to lose my zen... then I saw you IRL gurrl you look way better, lost my zen"
Such a romantic.
i'm stealing this for my new boy band.click to expand
Posted by Mamita91Posted by AbbyNormal
Scorpios are all about trust and you flat out called him a liar! You need to apologize if you really care for him and want something real. Scorpio is going to get quiet when they feel that bond breaking. You’re just really not trying for a relationship if you so easily try and jump ship. He needs a ride or die. Are you ready for that?? If you aren’t ready for something serious, don’t play with his heart. He picked you, now you need to trust that. Scorpios make good on their word but they also need you to be patient for the right time. You rushing things isn’t going to help at all. You need to be more considerate and let go of the idea of control. Go with the flow and stay positive.
I know :/ I don't know hwo to say it without it seeming like I'm overthinking it all. He invited me several time and then backtracked when I tried to suggest times to see him, which hurt me. It wasnt an invitation like he led out to be, and it hurt me but I want to move on from it and not let it get between us. What should I say?click to expand
If you can’t trust that he actually does want what he says he wants, ie. to spend time with you, I’d say cut ties. You can’t always have things on your time, compromises must be made to accommodate both parties. Relationships are a two way street. Just because he said he can’t do it on the times you suggested doesn’t mean he can’t at all. It just means he has other things to take care of and think about. Relationships can be very distracting, particularly early on, and it’s probably something that requires his full attention. Realize you can’t rush things because he may not function at the same rate or even the same way as you do.
If you do want to try and reset, I’d apologize to him about getting emotional but tell him seeing him again would make you very happy and that you are willing to work with him on a time that works for the both of you. Just try to be more considerate of his time and feelings. Then keep yourself busy. There are always things we can work on to improve upon ourselves. The more you can bring to the table, the better. The more high maintenance you are, like breaking up with him because your feelings got hurt, the more it will cause space between you two. Take responsibility for your emotions and actions and don’t do things to just try and get your way. Treat him as you would want to be treated. Then if he doesn’t come through it’s on him, it’s not like you weren’t at your best!
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Mamita91Posted by AbbyNormal
Scorpios are all about trust and you flat out called him a liar! You need to apologize if you really care for him and want something real. Scorpio is going to get quiet when they feel that bond breaking. You’re just really not trying for a relationship if you so easily try and jump ship. He needs a ride or die. Are you ready for that?? If you aren’t ready for something serious, don’t play with his heart. He picked you, now you need to trust that. Scorpios make good on their word but they also need you to be patient for the right time. You rushing things isn’t going to help at all. You need to be more considerate and let go of the idea of control. Go with the flow and stay positive.
I know :/ I don't know hwo to say it without it seeming like I'm overthinking it all. He invited me several time and then backtracked when I tried to suggest times to see him, which hurt me. It wasnt an invitation like he led out to be, and it hurt me but I want to move on from it and not let it get between us. What should I say?
If you can’t trust that he actually does want what he says he wants, ie. to spend time with you, I’d say cut ties. You can’t always have things on your time, compromises must be made to accommodate both parties. Relationships are a two way street. Just because he said he can’t do it on the times you suggested doesn’t mean he can’t at all. It just means he has other things to take care of and think about. Relationships can be very distracting, particularly early on, and it’s probably something that requires his full attention. Realize you can’t rush things because he may not function at the same rate or even the same way as you do.
If you do want to try and reset, I’d apologize to him about getting emotional but tell him seeing him again would make you very happy and that you are willing to work with him on a time that works for the both of you. Just try to be more considerate of his time and feelings. Then keep yourself busy. There are always things we can work on to improve upon ourselves. The more you can bring to the table, the better. The more high maintenance you are, like breaking up with him because your feelings got hurt, the more it will cause space between you two. Take responsibility for your emotions and actions and don’t do things to just try and get your way. Treat him as you would want to be treated. Then if he doesn’t come through it’s on him, it’s not like you weren’t at your best!click to expand
We spoke today for an hour and just hung up now. Thank u for ur advice, I told him I overreacted and that I understand why he is there, that if I had the chance to go and be with my friends and family I'd do the same.
He told me he is going to be there until mid September rather than August now 😢😢😢. This is so long, it'd going to be 2 months until I see him cuz then he will need to do quarantine.
Would it be needy if I suggested we see each other even for just a weekend? I'm going to the same country next week and will be there for 2 weeks. It's 3 hours away from him, he knows this but hasn't suggested to see me Even though it means 2 months until I see him.
I was thinking of suggesting we meet in a place thats between us, for a day. He was planning on visiting his housemate who is also back home, for a week, but isn't doing that anymore. I don't want to chase him though, but a day isn't too much to ask no?
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Mamita91Posted by AbbyNormal
Scorpios are all about trust and you flat out called him a liar! You need to apologize if you really care for him and want something real. Scorpio is going to get quiet when they feel that bond breaking. You’re just really not trying for a relationship if you so easily try and jump ship. He needs a ride or die. Are you ready for that?? If you aren’t ready for something serious, don’t play with his heart. He picked you, now you need to trust that. Scorpios make good on their word but they also need you to be patient for the right time. You rushing things isn’t going to help at all. You need to be more considerate and let go of the idea of control. Go with the flow and stay positive.
I know :/ I don't know hwo to say it without it seeming like I'm overthinking it all. He invited me several time and then backtracked when I tried to suggest times to see him, which hurt me. It wasnt an invitation like he led out to be, and it hurt me but I want to move on from it and not let it get between us. What should I say?
If you can’t trust that he actually does want what he says he wants, ie. to spend time with you, I’d say cut ties. You can’t always have things on your time, compromises must be made to accommodate both parties. Relationships are a two way street. Just because he said he can’t do it on the times you suggested doesn’t mean he can’t at all. It just means he has other things to take care of and think about. Relationships can be very distracting, particularly early on, and it’s probably something that requires his full attention. Realize you can’t rush things because he may not function at the same rate or even the same way as you do.
If you do want to try and reset, I’d apologize to him about getting emotional but tell him seeing him again would make you very happy and that you are willing to work with him on a time that works for the both of you. Just try to be more considerate of his time and feelings. Then keep yourself busy. There are always things we can work on to improve upon ourselves. The more you can bring to the table, the better. The more high maintenance you are, like breaking up with him because your feelings got hurt, the more it will cause space between you two. Take responsibility for your emotions and actions and don’t do things to just try and get your way. Treat him as you would want to be treated. Then if he doesn’t come through it’s on him, it’s not like you weren’t at your best!click to expand
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I was thinking of suggesting we meet in a place thats between us, for a day. He was planning on visiting his housemate who is also back home, for a week, but isn't doing that anymore. I don't want to chase him though, but a day isn't too much to ask no?
Best thing you can do is trust his judgement and keep up phone contact. If he said he needs to stay quarantined, respect that. Since he’s broken plans with friends, it seems he is serious about it. I understand missing someone but that’s part of it! Hold onto that feeling and how nice is it to miss someone that much! When’s the last time you could say that?! Pushing for too much early on isn’t a good idea in my opinion. Keep positive and make sure he misses you just as much! So when this all is lifted, he can’t wait to see you again too!! Let him come to you (or meet you half way) and when he’s ready, he will.
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Mamita91
So what happened with you asking him to meet you?
I took ur advice and suggested to meet, and he agreed 🙂 we will meet halfway 🙂
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Mamita91
I was thinking of suggesting we meet in a place thats between us, for a day. He was planning on visiting his housemate who is also back home, for a week, but isn't doing that anymore. I don't want to chase him though, but a day isn't too much to ask no?
Best thing you can do is trust his judgement and keep up phone contact. If he said he needs to stay quarantined, respect that. Since he’s broken plans with friends, it seems he is serious about it. I understand missing someone but that’s part of it! Hold onto that feeling and how nice is it to miss someone that much! When’s the last time you could say that?! Pushing for too much early on isn’t a good idea in my opinion. Keep positive and make sure he misses you just as much! So when this all is lifted, he can’t wait to see you again too!! Let him come to you (or meet you half way) and when he’s ready, he will.click to expand
Thank you 🙂 I like your advice. This lockdown could last months though, it could be ages and if he doesn't invite me to spend time with him then no point going on until he comes back eventually..
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by Mamita91Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Mamita91
So what happened with you asking him to meet you?
I took ur advice and suggested to meet, and he agreed 🙂 we will meet halfway 🙂
Awesome! Keep that fire alive!
As someone said to you - missing each other is good unless it ends as a meeting.
When are you combining forces?click to expand
Thank you! I fly out on Saturday and we will meet next week 🙂 I will keep u updated hehe
Posted by Mamita91Posted by peachy06
You challenged him and told him you couldn't trust him so don't be surprised that he left.
Idk if u read the comments but he kept asking me and when I suggested several dates he turned me down, then said he wanted me to go but it was more of an expression and he wouldn't be able to see me this time.click to expand
Omg. That’s not good. A man who offers multiple times and then when you bite, he pulls back. Seems like something a narcissist could do.
Also, I wouldn’t be surprised if he had another girl in Spain. Maybe when he offered to see you there, it was meant to put you at ease about him going and not arouse suspicions. And since you dated so little, he assumed you wouldn’t take him up on it. I used to have a Scorpio venus boyfriend who would bullshit like this to cover the truth and put me at ease.
Another option is that he found a girl there after he offered it to you.
But.. there’s a slight chance he just offered to be sweet but when you decided to take him up on it, after having dated so little, it shocked him because he was like “omg she’ll even travel for me already, even when I’m working”. And it kind of dulled your mystery... the chase got easy too fast.
So, if you really like him, increase the mystery factor again. Go quiet. Hold your head high. He’ll come back probably. But don’t lose that mystery again
Hello everyone,
I just got back from spending a few days with him. It was soooo nice, he had planned lots of trips for us to do and we went snorkeling, out on the boat, up a mountain, and he cooked for me everyday.
The first day was quite awkward, he would barely look at me and was so serious a lot of the time, Any clue why?
The last time we met we had an argument about what I wrote originally so that could be why. He opened up on the second day, and on the third it was back to our normal selves where we were laughing and super affectionate and romantic with each other.
I just got back from spending a few days with him. It was soooo nice, he had planned lots of trips for us to do and we went snorkeling, out on the boat, up a mountain, and he cooked for me everyday.
The first day was quite awkward, he would barely look at me and was so serious a lot of the time, Any clue why?
The last time we met we had an argument about what I wrote originally so that could be why. He opened up on the second day, and on the third it was back to our normal selves where we were laughing and super affectionate and romantic with each other.
enjoy it 🙂
I have another question,
Is it too heavy to say nice things to him such as that I miss him or that he's handsome? He says things to me but not very frequent, but I say things all the time. Not sure if I should be more aloof.
Is it too heavy to say nice things to him such as that I miss him or that he's handsome? He says things to me but not very frequent, but I say things all the time. Not sure if I should be more aloof.
don't be annoying about it and stop overthinking, just spend more time with him.
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