Lol y'all Scorpio are probably annoyed of me already!

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He's being a childish Scorpio, a Scorpio can be like an Aries if they don't get their way they become childish, Aries will have a tantrum where as a Scorpio will pout.

What an Aries may think is funny it can be quite hurtful to us water sign guys I'm a Cancer my Aries friends have said things to me that they thought is funny I didn't think it was so funny it actually hurt my feelings.
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But question.. If a male Scorpio says mean things or tries to hurt your feelings/ call you names.. Does this mean he is complete done.. Or that he is pissed off and using his stinger? .. And needs a long moment to calm down?
What are you a masochist?
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Lol not at all.. I think he is getting joy from this? Like is this his way of trying to end it forever. Or he is hurt and wants to hurt me back?
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Posted by Stihl46
He's being a childish Scorpio, a Scorpio can be like an Aries if they don't get their way they become childish, Aries will have a tantrum where as a Scorpio will pout.

What an Aries may think is funny it can be quite hurtful to us water sign guys I'm a Cancer my Aries friends have said things to me that they thought is funny I didn't think it was so funny it actually hurt my feelings.
Makes a lot of sense.. I read this any Aries and Scorpio connection... I'm a super emotional and sensitive Aries.. I have mostly water and earth in my chart... It slows my rage down.. I'm not spontaneous ... Except intimacy wise... But I'm a really calm Aries.. I honestly don't like a lot of Aries.. They annoy the crap out of me.. Too much.. Something abt water signs.. I love them... So much my speed.. We connect emotional very well.

So that being said.. You think he is doing this because he is completely done? Or he is just stinging me... And protecting his self?
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
But you don't want that right?
I don't honestly... But I can't stop my feelings... That's why I was asking ... Just trying to understand.. If this is a Scorpio thing.. Or he is just an evil soul?

I dated another Scorpio before who was a big cheater.. Fly Out of the country type of cheater... When I broke things off with him.. I had to literally block him.. Because He kept texting me on fake numbers harassing me and calling me names.. And in the same breath.. Begging to see me!

So I'm just like damn.. Is this happening again?
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Posted by kitkatms
But question.. If a male Scorpio says mean things or tries to hurt your feelings/ call you names.. Does this mean he is complete done.. Or that he is pissed off and using his stinger? .. And needs a long moment to calm down?
If a male Scorpio got into my face to say mean things or deliberately tried to hurt my feelings I wouldn't be asking this question, I'd be dishing it back every time he came to my territory. This kind of behavior is unacceptable, there is no "he needs a minute". No we all learn to be adults at some point, and he doesn't need a minute, he needs a kick in the ass to remind him to stop acting like he was raised by wolves.
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But question.. If a male Scorpio says mean things or tries to hurt your feelings/ call you names.. Does this mean he is complete done.. Or that he is pissed off and using his stinger? .. And needs a long moment to calm down?
What are you a masochist?
Lol not at all.. I think he is getting joy from this? Like is this his way of trying to end it forever. Or he is hurt and wants to hurt me back?
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If he's being that mean and nasty, why would you put up with it? Unless you're prepared to go back, regardless of his words/actions?



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Posted by Stihl46
He's being a childish Scorpio, a Scorpio can be like an Aries if they don't get their way they become childish, Aries will have a tantrum where as a Scorpio will pout.

What an Aries may think is funny it can be quite hurtful to us water sign guys I'm a Cancer my Aries friends have said things to me that they thought is funny I didn't think it was so funny it actually hurt my feelings.
So much butthurt. Be honest with an Aries if they hurt your feelings, don't be a whiner. Claiming we throw 'tantrums'; someone bitter?
And you shouldn't speak for all water sun men -- Scorp males can handle a lot more than some crabs can, which you made evident with this post lol
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Posted by kitkatms
But question.. If a male Scorpio says mean things or tries to hurt your feelings/ call you names.. Does this mean he is complete done.. Or that he is pissed off and using his stinger? .. And needs a long moment to calm down?
People from every sign are capable of this jackassery. Don't bother with this person, you shouldn't be subjecting yourself to this.
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Posted by kitkatms
But question.. If a male Scorpio says mean things or tries to hurt your feelings/ call you names.. Does this mean he is complete done.. Or that he is pissed off and using his stinger? .. And needs a long moment to calm down?
People from every sign are capable of this jackassery. Don't bother with this person, you shouldn't be subjecting yourself to this.
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I 100% agree... Just need my heart to get on the same page. 😢
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That came off a little Scorpio harsh I guess. so let me add a softer layer to it.

The more time you waste chasing down these spiteful, childish and unavailable men, you loose time that could otherwise be spent with people who matter. Who will care for you and not only themselves. You're running after moldy crumbs when you could be sitting eating a feast with an equal partner. Or at least finding joy for yourself.

Don't be starved for attention from this one person because trust me from someone who has done similar, there's plenty of attention and fun to be had from much better folks out there. You just won't see them until you stop looking at one inconsequential douchebag.
Yes.. The story of my life... So hard for me to let go.. Waste too much time on losers. I'm working on this. I can't lie .. That I'm not sad.. Or heartbroken 😢
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Posted by Impulsv
What did u do?
An unevolved will hurt u because the are hurt
Misery loves company
I honestly didn't do anything.. I think another woman is in the pic... He blocked me because I called him out on it.. Then he started with the fake number and and saying mean things to me thru it abt a week after he blocked me.

Now I know I don't need this man.. And I am moving forward. I'm just confused on what just happened. Is that how he dispose of people? Is that his way??
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He's hurt/pissed, not done tho. When Scorpio is reactive they are capable of pushing the buttons of others, thus the Scorpion's sting.
If a scorpio is really done you will never hear anything from them. To quote someone in this forum, scorpio's weapon is indifference.
Thank you... Well he stopped. I haven't heard from him since. I wonder if he is done now. Only time will tell. I wish he just act right and quit with the bull!
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He's hurt/pissed, not done tho. When Scorpio is reactive they are capable of pushing the buttons of others, thus the Scorpion's sting.
If a scorpio is really done you will never hear anything from them. To quote someone in this forum, scorpio's weapon is indifference.
Thank you... Well he stopped. I haven't heard from him since. I wonder if he is done now. Only time will tell. I wish he just act right and quit with the bull!
Seeing how he treated you it shouldn't matter whether he's done with you or not. The question is, are you done with him?
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So right... I'm working on this thing called "moving on" ... So hard for me to let go.. Esplly when the heart was involved. But I'm getting there.. One step at a time.. Nice to hear you all encouragement and opinions.. Makes me feel more like a human being and that I'm not alone with these someone silly matters of the heart.