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being ruled by Venus I'm feeling the love rn and it's going so great. I'm like a fluffy little dog rn w it's tail wagging. just a big ball of fluff and happiness.

any other Scorps out there feeling the love?

this really isn't the norm for me. usually I'm idle and living the lonely life. or living the fuck boi life and dealing with it, because I have false high hopes. feels nice to actually be treasured and we just met like 5 days ago but the connection was insane. no regrets.

granted I always dive into every relationship so eh. Aries descendant gone wild. can't help it. I crush so easily, and every guy is "the one". it's ok. I have really high hopes for this one (lol where have we heard that before)

I hope everyone else's love lives are going well πŸ™‚

mine is
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Posted by FrostedElly
Good luck!!
I had someone that had my eye. But as life goes I think that connection is fading out. Not meant to be.

My love life could be worse though. I have no drama so thank God for that lol n
my life revolves around faded connections. Or I am just chronically crushing on someone new, and I'm the reason it fades. Usually though, it is the guys that end up having the faded interest, and then the connection fades away shortly after.

YES. Dramatic love lives are the worst. My one friend had such an intense relationship in the past. I did too actually but it was some years ago. Hers just ended maybe a year and a half ago. Explosive relationships are just so....ridiculous. I feel like once it gets to that point people should move forward, but it's easier said than done. Since I've been there I know how it can become engulfing.

Thankful, as you are, to not be involved in anything like that anymore! What a nightmare.
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Posted by Infinite8
That's great to hear that you are feeling the love!!

I feel the same πŸ˜„

I just came back from a ski trip I took with my husband celebrating 13 yrs together. He's amazing at spoiling me and showing me the love... It's hard not to feel it.

I'm glad the love is spereading for us!!

Enjoy!!
aww that is too cute! That is the best πŸ™‚

I can't ski, and if I tried I'd probably break something...or hit a tree and die, but I think one day I'd like to attempt snowboarding. I have no balance though πŸ˜†

That would be so cute to have a guy who does cool activities with me like yours does! The last guy I was talking to just wanted to sit there and do...essentially nothing except watch tv and eat. Kind of bland. Not that I don't like nights in, but I can't live inside. It would drive me insane.

You enjoy yours too! I am glad you had fun πŸ™‚
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Posted by starlover
Yes I am too

Always did

I get called the "love woman". πŸ˜›

Venus dominated chart
yay that's good!

And I am also a mini love woman. Libra rising conjunct my Venus makes me like this huge love-wanting person. I'm always wanting love to be in and a part of my life. I crush pretty easily too.

Venus dominated people are the best πŸ˜„ πŸ˜›
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Posted by tiziani
It's about time.
hahahaha πŸ˜†

shut it tiz!!!!

can u guess their sign
Lol I'm going to have to go with, the TXP??
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Nope! TXP bored me. And he's kind of annoying. The more I talk to him, the more annoyed I get. He has a Virgo ascendant and he's always critiquing me. And he never wants to do cool things like wander the city and go out to clubs because he hates people. Sometimes I can convince him to go out with our group of friends but that's rare. Then he tries to suffocate me. "want 2 hang out today" "what about now" "ok want to hang out"

NO I WANT TO DO MY ACCOUNTING HOMEWORK OMG. "o well how about u come let me relax ur mind so ur not stressed"
D U D E. NO.

And then we went out once and he said he wanted to go to a restaurant that I wanted to go to, and he falls asleep sitting up.. smh. I couldn't. And then I had to drive him home and he's passing out and my gas light is on and I don't know the area so I ask where open gas stations are (most were closed). He looks at me and was like "hmm?" I'm like "gas station that's open. where. my gas light is on" and he's like "oh yeah" looks at his phone and falls asleep again. And then I'm like "I might have to drop you off and go home if I can't find parking or a gas station" (there was no parking), and he goes "do I have to draw a map out for you" and I'm like....."yeah if it leads to an open gas station seeing as I don't know the area".

WOO. The sass was so real. Now he keeps begging to hang out everyday to "destress" my mind when I have summer classes and work, and he suction cups my mouth when he kisses me. Basically it was just a nightmare. My Virgo moon is too anal for having slobber all over my face. I got annoyed with him wanting to hang out every single day. We are better off as friends. He's going to cut me from his life, I already know it. But I also don't care, because his critiquing of everything along with the clinginess was very irritating.

With that rant being complete, it is an Aquarius. Super earthy though. He has a Leo ascendant and Cancer moon. I actually thought he was a Leo when he introduced himself. He said something along the lines of "Yeah I'm a little cocky but I have a right to be. Look at me." LOL ded. I died laughing. In my head I was like "Leo no doubt". He has a Cap Venus and Mars. So far so good. He's not overbearing. Sometimes his comments are annoying too but not nearly as detrimental as the TXP. Usually it is easy to differentiate that he is just expressing himself without a filter versus him trying to critique me. There is a huge difference
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Posted by tiziani
LOL that story. Maybe the TXP is a virgin. It honestly sounds like it.

I'm glad you got back to your favourite sign. Enjoy it.

The Taurus said when we first spoke she thought I was arrogant, apparently in a good way. She said she knew she could trust my opinion because I was dismissive and didn't care about impressing anyone. I don't know how that works but I didn't argue.

But the second time we talked, when she actually came to me for an opinion, according to her I was surprisingly nice, detailed and a gentleman (but we both know the truth now, the jig is up!) and that's when she knew she was interested in me.

Gentlemanly asshole first impressions.
Haha her description of you reminds me of my description of him πŸ˜†

Too funny. That's right now! The cat is out of the bag. I'm praying for you tiz. Haha. Ironically enough my Libra male friend is dating a Taurus sun πŸ™‚ they are great together. I love them together! The Libra has a lot of air and earth. The Taurus is a mixture, with mostly earth but overall pretty even. I'm happy for you tiz πŸ˜„

As for TXP I'm not sure. We had been talking for quite some time, and I really don't know much about him. The conversations we had didn't really get far either. He was a very nice guy, but there was absolutely no progression. All I know is he doesnt like Leo's because he had a crazy Leo ex. That could've been his first girlfriend, maybe his 50th. I don't know his favorite color. Really it was very surface-based, and we never had super interesting or stimulating convos. Despite that, he has a good heart. I just don't think I could handle another night in eating Chipotle and watching Rick and Morty...LOL. And I don't think I'd go out to a bar with him any time soon after that last time...friendzone seems like a nice safe home for that one.

To be honest, w Aqua I am just seeing where this leads, but he is great so far. Interesting guy. Was in the Navy and is now working on his degree at the Art Institute. He does 3D art. It's super interesting. He sings. Basically...I am obsessed with him for being so artsy. For what it's worth (don't know if you know this), but I've played the violin for 18 years and also sing....I do not do 3D art though LOL, and if I did....God help me. I'd like to paint though. Writing is also great. The guy is smart. He will rattle off things about when he worked in the engineering unit in the Navy and I will be like "wat" or just nod. There is never a dull convo there. That's for sure, but that's what I like.

He told me I had a runner's body (I mentally died laughing) and asked if I exercised. I immediately thought of my Venus (0 deg) conjunct Jupiter (29 deg Libra) and thought of you tiz. I slightly smiled and was like.... "honestly...I just have a fast metabolism." The long version of "hell no I do not".