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I think my Cancer coworker is hitting on me.

Internal me: I'm not okay with this.

Also me: Let's pull his chart:

Sun: Cancer

Moon: Cancer

Merc: Leo

Venus: Gemini

Mars: Cancer

Internal me: Yep. Definitely not okay with this.

Also me: Oooh, he just asked if I had a boyfriend :::blushes:::

Internal me: He also asked if I had a girlfriend "JIK"... :::side eye::: where is he going with this.

Also me: Nope. Not interested. Stop it, self.

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I think my Cancer coworker is hitting on me.

Internal me: I'm not okay with this.

Also me: Let's pull his chart:

Sun: Cancer

Moon: Cancer

Merc: Leo

Venus: Gemini

Mars: Cancer

Internal me: Yep. Definitely not okay with this.

Also me: Oooh, he just asked if I had a boyfriend :::blushes:::

Internal me: He also asked if I had a girlfriend "JIK"... :::side eye::: where is he going with this.

Also me: Nope. Not interested. Stop it, self.

Omg my life.

Well kind of. I've got two crabbies wanting to hang out. Neither of them are the crabby I want to hang with. 😐 Universe laughing at me. I'm in shell mode rn anyways, makes it easy to say no to attention lol.

Holy crab cakes though at that chart. If any of that sits on your moon your sun is gonna have a hard time Virgo talking yourself out of that. Especially if his venus sextiles your venus as well. I forget where your mars again?

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Venus 14 degrees Leo

Mars 29 degrees Leo

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I really thought he had a girlfriend though, which makes this that much confusing and questionable.

When he asked if I had a boyfriend, I answered with "no, you?" To which he replied "I have many boyfriends".

Fucking side stepping crab mixed with trickster gemini. I'm never gonna get a straight answer.

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I think my Cancer coworker is hitting on me.

Internal me: I'm not okay with this.

Also me: Let's pull his chart:

Sun: Cancer

Moon: Cancer

Merc: Leo

Venus: Gemini

Mars: Cancer

Internal me: Yep. Definitely not okay with this.

Also me: Oooh, he just asked if I had a boyfriend :::blushes:::

Internal me: He also asked if I had a girlfriend "JIK"... :::side eye::: where is he going with this.

Also me: Nope. Not interested. Stop it, self.

Omg my life.

Well kind of. I've got two crabbies wanting to hang out. Neither of them are the crabby I want to hang with. 😐 Universe laughing at me. I'm in shell mode rn anyways, makes it easy to say no to attention lol.

Holy crab cakes though at that chart. If any of that sits on your moon your sun is gonna have a hard time Virgo talking yourself out of that. Especially if his venus sextiles your venus as well. I forget where your mars again?

Venus 14 degrees Leo

Mars 29 degrees Leo

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Is his merc near either? Or worse in between them? Lol.

I attracted a triple crab once. Sun/moon/mars all sat on my moon. He liked me a lot. A whoolllleeee lot. But I was a distant Scorp and honestly didn't become that attatched to him. all that energy of his sitting on your moon, any emotional energy you offer will feel effortless and like home to him.

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Oh God. I don't even know. Now I'm afraid to look.

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I think my Cancer coworker is hitting on me.

Internal me: I'm not okay with this.

Also me: Let's pull his chart:

Sun: Cancer

Moon: Cancer

Merc: Leo

Venus: Gemini

Mars: Cancer

Internal me: Yep. Definitely not okay with this.

Also me: Oooh, he just asked if I had a boyfriend :::blushes:::

Internal me: He also asked if I had a girlfriend "JIK"... :::side eye::: where is he going with this.

Also me: Nope. Not interested. Stop it, self.

Omg my life.

Well kind of. I've got two crabbies wanting to hang out. Neither of them are the crabby I want to hang with. 😐 Universe laughing at me. I'm in shell mode rn anyways, makes it easy to say no to attention lol.

Holy crab cakes though at that chart. If any of that sits on your moon your sun is gonna have a hard time Virgo talking yourself out of that. Especially if his venus sextiles your venus as well. I forget where your mars again?

Venus 14 degrees Leo

Mars 29 degrees Leo

😭

Is his merc near either? Or worse in between them? Lol.

I attracted a triple crab once. Sun/moon/mars all sat on my moon. He liked me a lot. A whoolllleeee lot. But I was a distant Scorp and honestly didn't become that attatched to him. all that energy of his sitting on your moon, any emotional energy you offer will feel effortless and like home to him.

Oh God. I don't even know. Now I'm afraid to look.

LMAO.

Virgos be like Scorpios.

*finds thing that makes you feel the tiniest bit happy*

*immediately is frightened of thing*

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It's not so much happiness as feelings in general that have that effect on me 😆

I miss Rabbit doe...



#RandomThought

So I point blank asked the Cancer that's been flirting with me if he was single.

His response? "I am not.. I mean, we're up and down a lot.. but currently, I'm taken."

LOL. Fucking crabs, man.

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A few days ago a close friend of mine said that anyone who consciously made the decision to have children was intellectually irresponsible and emotionally selfish.

And people that have unplanned "oops it just happened..." are what?

Am I missing something? What was the context?

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So I point blank asked the Cancer that's been flirting with me if he was single.

His response? "I am not.. I mean, we're up and down a lot.. but currently, I'm taken."

LOL. Fucking crabs, man.

Fucking crabs man.

May the constant reminders and references to his girlfriend commence should he increase or continue his taken flirtations. 😄

No pressure... that's just the Elly way anyhow.

I hate taken people that flirt seriously like that. I've no qualms with the occasional joke or flattery. Or for tips lol. But hiding a girlfriend, being evasive about his status and being extra attentive flirty is meh. The whole we're up/down comment is so unnecessary. Like it was a yes or no question lol.

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THANK YOU! YES!

Immediately after that, he asked when my last relationship was. To which I replied "I would rather not discuss that, or continue this line of questioning with you. No offense 🙂"

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So I point blank asked the Cancer that's been flirting with me if he was single.

His response? "I am not.. I mean, we're up and down a lot.. but currently, I'm taken."

LOL. Fucking crabs, man.

Fucking crabs man.

May the constant reminders and references to his girlfriend commence should he increase or continue his taken flirtations. 😄

No pressure... that's just the Elly way anyhow.

I hate taken people that flirt seriously like that. I've no qualms with the occasional joke or flattery. Or for tips lol. But hiding a girlfriend, being evasive about his status and being extra attentive flirty is meh. The whole we're up/down comment is so unnecessary. Like it was a yes or no question lol.

THANK YOU! YES!

Immediately after that, he asked when my last relationship was. To which I replied "I would rather not discuss that, or continue this line of questioning with you. No offense 🙂"

When I imagine this in my head right before you said that the mortal combat 'FINISH HIM!' screen appeared.

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😈

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A few days ago a close friend of mine said that anyone who consciously made the decision to have children was intellectually irresponsible and emotionally selfish.

And people that have unplanned "oops it just happened..." are what?

Am I missing something? What was the context?

...She talked some more about how awful the world is and that no child deserved to be forced to live in it.

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Get her a nice diary/journal in her favourite colour and suggest she talk to a therapist. That wasn't about you hon.

Air Mars Scorps (@GetMisted @Ellygant and anyone else), can you explain why a mental connection is important or necessary for a sexual bond (if this applies) and what that even means.

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... Wit and sarcastic back and forth exchanges are my favorite way to flirt. But that's the superficial aspect of it.

At a deeper level, I need to feel like I have open access to your mind. like you feel free to voice things with me that you wouldn't with others...If I have no intellectual basis in which I feel bonded to a person I can't get it up, for lack of a better phrase lol....the sexual attraction dies almost instantaneously if I feel there's no intellectual rapport.

I can relate to this very well, minus the "I still feel warmly for them"----no intellectual connection, I go completely cold.

I'm guessing it's my moon playing around with my mars.

Thank you 🙂

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Air Mars Scorps (@GetMisted @Ellygant and anyone else), can you explain why a mental connection is important or necessary for a sexual bond (if this applies) and what that even means.

it's all about wordplay.

i literally obsess over word usage, sentence structure, vocab, tone, vocal cues, accent, grammar, punctuation, handwriting, etc. *orgasm* like please, show me the map to your mind and let me wander around in there. that kinda thing.

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Hmmm. There is a hint of possession wrapped up in this as well. I may be projecting.

Thank you 🙂

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Air Mars Scorps (@GetMisted @Ellygant and anyone else), can you explain why a mental connection is important or necessary for a sexual bond (if this applies) and what that even means.

It's not that a mental connection is needed..

It's more so that I enjoy thinking/speaking of sex more than the physical action itself.

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Thank you 🙂

Do you find this challenging with non-air Mars partners?

It just occurred to me you all have Merc in Scorp too....hmmmm.

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anyone like sex lit more than porn?

Yes. I would stay up for hours reading a whole book within 48 hours when I was younger. I thank my sister for introducing me to all sort of erotic tales. I would sneak into her room and read them when she was working or at school.

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anyone like sex lit more than porn?

literature?

yea!

Do articles on Vice about sex count?

lol i'll check those out!

i mean actual literature. a descriptive shebang/scenario.

naw

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So you're more into live accounts that will involve you and the other person?

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anyone like sex lit more than porn?

Yes. I would stay up for hours reading a whole book within 48 hours when I was younger. I thank my sister for introducing me to all sort of erotic tales. I would sneak into her room and read them when she was working or at school.

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Any recommendations?

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anyone like sex lit more than porn?

Yes. I would stay up for hours reading a whole book within 48 hours when I was younger. I thank my sister for introducing me to all sort of erotic tales. I would sneak into her room and read them when she was working or at school.

Any recommendations?

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🙂 Mel I was 10/11 years old, I can't remember the various titles my sister had stashed. I was far too curious for my own good. There is a 10 year gap between my sister and I, and I stopped reading that stuff when I left home 1) any spare money I had after bills and rent (which wasn't much) didn't go to erotic novels 2) I was beginning to play out some of the stuff I read about, so I no longer had any need for them. For me, non verbal > verbal.

I doubt if I asked my sister what she was reading back then she would even remember herself. I do remember one novel was about a patient infatuated with her psychiatrist. A lot of it was more about anticipation, mental foreplay, her fantasy and the men she had sex with in place of her therapist. It was hard to tell what was reality and fantasy at times.

The odd novels I've come across in my adult life aren't worth recommending. Pure entertainment and not on the same level as the novel I mentioned. They're like the soap operas of erotic novels lol.

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anyone like sex lit more than porn?

literature?

yea!

Do articles on Vice about sex count?

lol i'll check those out!

i mean actual literature. a descriptive shebang/scenario.

naw

So you're more into live accounts that will involve you and the other person?

Clarify please

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If it's overly involved, preferring to engage in discussions with someone that you may be interested in and having them share what they enjoy, would like to engage in or perhaps experience with you vs reading some random's drawn out sexual tale.

Scorps, what are you recharging and why is it always in short supply?

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I got drinks with a few coworkers for the first time the other night.

There's this one girl who I'm trying to figure out but she's hard for me to get a read on. I really like her energy, she's very smart and skilled. I look up to her personality in a way. And I tend to latch onto people I feel can teach me something. However she's a little distant and I get weird moods off of her so I've steered clear thinking maybe she didn't like me, thought I was annoying or overstepping, so I backed off.

Well the folks I went out with told me she thinks I hate her. LOL. I was so reactive when they said that. Like I was genuinely shocked she thought that. Then they explained further how she seemed upset at the fact I didn't like her. Brought me a little peace of mind.

The situation is so hilarious though. Me afraid of being disliked when in actuality the other party is afraid of the same thing.

Is she a Virgo?

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@Andalusia @GetMisted

We were all wrong, she's a libra lol.

I've also uncovered a Virgo dude and an Aries dude that have attached themselves to me. And another Scorp dude. Guessed right on the Virgo and Scorp server signs.

Still haven't figured out what angry kitchen guy or enthusiastic boss's daughter are yet tho.

A Libra— 😱

Pull that chart.

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@phoenixrising

It drives my moon crazy when you hide. 😭

😄. You can borrow my moon if you'd like. Might make it easier.

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Also has anyone else been having the craziest past few days?

I just felt like I want to lay my head in someone's lap, sip hot tea and be wrapped in a blanket three times my size. But I haven't been able to articulate my feelings at all like I normally do, so I've been avoiding people. I have been in a blackout with friends. Work has been the only thing to improve my mood most days.

Whatever you're feeling is temporary. You'll be okay.

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How to tell someone is a Scorpio: Make an unexpectated observation on a completely minor character trait they have, in a very vague fashion. Then stand back and watch them stop to overanalyze what you said like lightning before they mumble asking you to explain what you meant lol.

One of my Scorp buds came to my new job and I made a comment about how his haircut changed his personality and he asked me for like ten minutes what that meant lol.

Then I realized that's my exact reaction when people catch me off guard with an observation when I thought no one was paying attention. Triple lol.

I'm curious, do you know their moons? I'm not sure that would work on me. I've had people do this before and usually I just stare back or smirk with a "hmph" and keep it moving.

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How to tell someone is a Scorpio: Make an unexpectated observation on a completely minor character trait they have, in a very vague fashion. Then stand back and watch them stop to overanalyze what you said like lightning before they mumble asking you to explain what you meant lol.

Naw.. Folks like myself and PR are likely just to shrug and forget what you said.

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LOL. Dazed beat me to it. He's right.

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How to tell someone is a Scorpio: Make an unexpectated observation on a completely minor character trait they have, in a very vague fashion. Then stand back and watch them stop to overanalyze what you said like lightning before they mumble asking you to explain what you meant lol.

One of my Scorp buds came to my new job and I made a comment about how his haircut changed his personality and he asked me for like ten minutes what that meant lol.

Then I realized that's my exact reaction when people catch me off guard with an observation when I thought no one was paying attention. Triple lol.

I'm curious, do you know their moons? I'm not sure that would work on me. I've had people do this before and usually I just stare back or smirk with a "hmph" and keep it moving.

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I believe scorp suns vary. But it would work on scorp moons.

Fucking Cancers.

The one at work keeps flirting with me... and then insisting that he's not when I call him out on it.

Holy fuck. If I'm thinking about it this much, he's in my head..

I have to cut this shit off immediately.

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How to tell someone is a Scorpio: Make an unexpectated observation on a completely minor character trait they have, in a very vague fashion. Then stand back and watch them stop to overanalyze what you said like lightning before they mumble asking you to explain what you meant lol.

One of my Scorp buds came to my new job and I made a comment about how his haircut changed his personality and he asked me for like ten minutes what that meant lol.

Then I realized that's my exact reaction when people catch me off guard with an observation when I thought no one was paying attention. Triple lol.

I'm curious, do you know their moons? I'm not sure that would work on me. I've had people do this before and usually I just stare back or smirk with a "hmph" and keep it moving.

I believe scorp suns vary. But it would work on scorp moons.

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Have you tried this on one 😈?

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Holy fuck. If I'm thinking about it this much, he's in my head..

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Holy fuck. If I'm thinking about it this much, he's in my head..

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No! Do not want! 😭

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I have been so fucking horny last 2 weeks, Im about to go full retard - mad.

I know scorpios are very sexual. ( I have scorpio moon, venus and pluto )

What is going on?! Is this normal?

To masturbate 5 times in a day like I am 14yo

Everything is sexual suddenly, I can't stop thinking about intimacy and making love to someone

I'd hate to jump in looking like an outsider, but astrologically, it's probably pluto retrograde.

I'm learning more and more that I truly don't have the patience or tolerance to deal with Cardinal energy. It doesn't matter the sign, the placement, OMG it rubs me the wrong way. I have notice if it's a Cap, Crab or Ram moon filtered through a Water or Virgo sun, I'm okay. In fact when its a Crab/Scorp/Fish/Virgo Sun with a Crab, Ram or Cap moon they have the opposite effect. It's like these Suns cancels out the bullsh*t.

I need to figure out how to deal with it because it's not like I can devise a way to put them all on an island to annoy the hell out of each other...if only *ponders*

Just Another Bonding Moment...

*Scorp and Gem hanging on the couch watching Logan. Gem gets up to get drinks*

Scorp: You would think after all this time that Woverine would stop faking the funk and just show he gives a f*ck about people.

Gem: I don't know. It doesn't come that easy for people.

Scorp: *🙂* sounds like my statement hit a nerve there buddy.

Gem: A nerve? I wouldn't go that far.

Scorp: *reflecting*...Would you say you're a sensitive person? Not sensitive as in "boo hoo. I got feels!", More like...you notice someone has an impact on you.

Gem: Hmmmm, only if I am close to the person.

Scorp: Hmph.

Gem: Yeah. The closer the person or relationship, the more of an impact they will have. Definitely.

Scorp: So if I farted, it would hit you like 10x worse than someone else?

Gem: Yeah 😆, something like that. Nerd.

Scorp: 😄

What do you do when you find yourself liking someone you're not supposed to :/

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I'm learning more and more that I truly don't have the patience or tolerance to deal with Cardinal energy. It doesn't matter the sign, the placement, OMG it rubs me the wrong way. I have notice if it's a Cap, Crab or Ram moon filtered through a Water or Virgo sun, I'm okay. In fact when its a Crab/Scorp/Fish/Virgo Sun with a Crab, Ram or Cap moon they have the opposite effect. It's like these Suns cancels out the bullsh*t.

I need to figure out how to deal with it because it's not like I can devise a way to put them all on an island to annoy the hell out of each other...if only *ponders*

Why do you think water suns and Virgos are easier for you? More sensitivity? Better at communicating a situation emotionally?

Libra moons are safe too eh? 😛

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Hmmm, well yes to the last question. When ego isn't at play, definitely.

Here's a perfect example of what I mean:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/what-do-you-do-when-a-scorpio-goes-silent--8373065/

(her rundown of what happened)

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/what-do-you-do-when-a-scorpio-goes-silent--8373065/?p=5

So, I'm reading the post (first link) and I immediately have a reaction. An off putting reaction (is that even the proper phrase? *shrug* I don't care right now 😄). However, given she's a Fish I can also pick up where her words are coming from. It's like I can read it vibrating off of her even through the computer screen. I understand the words she said to the Scorp are masking other feelings and it allows me to react and respond based on the underlying things I see. There is usually dialogue with a Water Sun/Cardinal Moon.

You put her words in another non-water, non Virgo Sun and it has an edge to it that takes it to whole other level. I just can't read or understand it. Nor do I want to. Maybe its because the other three elements mask their feelings in such a way its harder to read and understand and all I see is the mask in that initial encounter. Maybe I lack the patience to want to understand it, but it turns me off and I stay turned off. I am not interested in reading more, trying to figure out what else is going on. Like I told the OP, had she said that mess to me, I'd tell her to f*ck off and the door would most certainly hit her a** on the way out because that is the initial response I would have. However, I would guess (based on experience) that we could work through that misunderstanding at some point. With the other Sun signs, I think too much ego would get in the way and turn me off further.

I should also put out there Crab Sun/Cardinal Moon, is a tricky one. Really depends on the combo and the other specs in their chart.

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My old friend work taur....

His oldest son was murdered lastnight. He was 21.

I don't know how to process this. I don't know what to do for him. I reached out but do not expect him to respond and that's okay.

I was there when he graduated from high school....snuck girls in the house. Me and work taur used to sit and share teenage horror stories.

Work taur just got married in January to a Cancer. First time.

He had horrible luck in relationships and raised all three of his sons alone.

I am sad and my heart hurts for him.

Oh man...I'm sure the things you need to say or do will come to you in the moment. It will be genuine and usually exactly what is needed.

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So. Many. Leo. Moons.

Which do you find more challenging? Leo or Leeb Moons?

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Taurus Sun/Leo moon friend has been wanting to hang out and messaging me more lately. (She sent me an instagram post about the Taurus new moon too. ?? so good to me.)

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Moon wishing...ever do this?

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So. Many. Leo. Moons.

Which do you find more challenging? Leo or Leeb Moons?

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Taurus Sun/Leo moon friend has been wanting to hang out and messaging me more lately. (She sent me an instagram post about the Taurus new moon too. ?? so good to me.)

Moon wishing...ever do this?

Moon wishing? Like a ritual of sorts or just making monthly resolutions?

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Yeah.

If This Tea Cup Could Talk

*Scorp, Leeb, Sag and Ram sit down in Scorp's office to catch up, have their morning coffee/tea before the day gets too hectic*

Scorp:

Ram: *to Scorp* What time did you leave yesterday?

Scorp: A few minutes before 7.

Ram: Tough case?

Scorp: No. I just had some paperwork to catch up on. Long night.

Leeb: I had a relaxing evening----

Sag: O.M.G. I had the best night EVER! ______ and I made dinner together and we...*insert a lot of chatter*

Scorp:

Ram: *hears phone* Is that me?! That might be my 10:00 cancelling! *rushes out*

Sag: *stops talking about her "best night EVER!"*

Scorp: *to Leeb* You were saying?

Leeb:....yeah, we had a quiet night at home....It was exactly what I needed. I tried this new recipe and I took your * to Scorp* advice and used coconut oil. It added a nice flavour to it...

Sag: Oh my God! Guys....I just discovered the best lube ever. *pause for dramatic effect* Coconut oil.

Scorp:

Leeb: ...Uh...

Sag: No seriously. You have to try it.

Ram: *comes back* Try what?

Leeb: Coconut oil as a lubricant.

Ram: 😐

Sag: I'm telling you. You have to try it.

Ram: Why are you using lube? If you're using lube that's an indication your body isn't ready.

Scorp:

*Sag and Ram go back and forth discussing the female anatomy*

Scorp:

Leeb: Well I have to make a few calls...*gets up*

Ram: Yeah, me too *gets up*

Sag: Coconut oil ladies. Use it! Report back.

Scorp:

Posted by -elle-
There is this Cancer/Scorpio moon that can't stand the fact that I have an executive title. When it comes to me and my projects, I have to provide a ton more detail and signatures than anyone else.

He is getting progressively worse since my boss has been travelling more.

Today, I turned my monthly expense report in and I get a $ 50 allowance for my cell phone because I've opted out of having a company cell phone. I have been getting this for six fucking years.

My total expense report is a total of $ 2400 and I provided detailed receipts and explanations as to why. There is a business trip that I'm sending a staff member to next month and I had to prepay their air ticket, hotel room and rental car...plus admission to the conference...all approved by my boss and the approval was attached.

.....plus my cell phone allowance.

I'm not the only one who gets this. Several have opted out. I do in particular because I like my overseas plan. I don't want to owe the company money when I do personal travel abroad. I don't want to have to worry about it.

The sonofabitch decides to tell me he can't pay this without a copy of my bill....which I've never had to provide.

Sure, I can give it to him but I refuse to be fucking bullied. I know WHY he is doing this and I KNOW he doesn't ask this of anyone else.

I flat out refused.

1. I can certainly not make myself available to answer the phone after 5pm or weekends if that is really what he would like.

2. I could opt into the plan and buy myself a fucking Iphone...which costs eight times more than my measly $ 50 fucking dollars a month.

He tells me he'll "let this go this one time" but we will visit again next month.

Fuck off.....who knows, maybe I won't even be here next month.

which, come to think about it....maybe I SHOULD by that fucking Iphone...it's not like they ask for ANYONE to return their phones when they leave.

Pig.

I refuse to be bullied.

!@# $ % ^&*()(*&^% $ #@# $ % ^&*()_

When does your boss return from traveling? I'd just ignore him and when my boss return collect my $ 50 and pass go. I don't have patience for games.

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There is this Cancer/Scorpio moon that can't stand the fact that I have an executive title. When it comes to me and my projects, I have to provide a ton more detail and signatures than anyone else.

He is getting progressively worse since my boss has been travelling more.

Today, I turned my monthly expense report in and I get a $ 50 allowance for my cell phone because I've opted out of having a company cell phone. I have been getting this for six fucking years.

My total expense report is a total of $ 2400 and I provided detailed receipts and explanations as to why. There is a business trip that I'm sending a staff member to next month and I had to prepay their air ticket, hotel room and rental car...plus admission to the conference...all approved by my boss and the approval was attached.

.....plus my cell phone allowance.

I'm not the only one who gets this. Several have opted out. I do in particular because I like my overseas plan. I don't want to owe the company money when I do personal travel abroad. I don't want to have to worry about it.

The sonofabitch decides to tell me he can't pay this without a copy of my bill....which I've never had to provide.

Sure, I can give it to him but I refuse to be fucking bullied. I know WHY he is doing this and I KNOW he doesn't ask this of anyone else.

I flat out refused.

1. I can certainly not make myself available to answer the phone after 5pm or weekends if that is really what he would like.

2. I could opt into the plan and buy myself a fucking Iphone...which costs eight times more than my measly $ 50 fucking dollars a month.

He tells me he'll "let this go this one time" but we will visit again next month.

Fuck off.....who knows, maybe I won't even be here next month.

which, come to think about it....maybe I SHOULD by that fucking Iphone...it's not like they ask for ANYONE to return their phones when they leave.

Pig.

I refuse to be bullied.

!@# $ % ^&*()(*&^% $ #@# $ % ^&*()_

When does your boss return from traveling? I'd just ignore him and when my boss return collect my $ 50 and pass go. I don't have patience for games.

I don't know the next time he'll be in the office. He just took on four new locations and is bouncing around to each one.

He's giving me the $ 50 but I don't even care about the money. it's the principle.

I am his equal. do not try to make me feel less than. I will walk the fuck out of the door on principle alone....he does not want to test me.

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Geeze, Elle sorry. Not that I think you were waiting for a reply, but I just dropped out of the convo because well...my moon sucks sometimes 😄.

I'm sure you figured this out already. Professionally hogtied the Crab or you have taken over the company or something by now.

#ScorpMarsGetsShitDone

Posted by -elle-
I am fighting back in a peaceful protest.

I am simply witholding my signature on everything.

....and it's end of month.(he is the CFO)

I can win in a pissing match too, fucker.

Lol. Professionally hogtie the Crab it is...

Posted by Ellygant
😐

So since I broke things off with the crab I've run into him twice, then his roommates three times over the last month. We do run in similar circles and neighborhoods so it's not unheard of. However in the two years I've known him prior to this, I ran into him like 2/3 times a year total. Never ran into his roommates before, And definitely never had them come up and talk to me about him.

He and I had a tense exchange of words after I ran into him the last time, not an argument per say. But I just found him to be contradictory and said as much, as blunt as possible. I thought it'd frighten away, his crab/Leo sensitivities and all, I went particuarly hard on my last message knowing he'd probably back down since it was a little vicious. After that I figured it best to change who and where I hang out a bit till I got over the hump of thinking about him.

Since doing that though he's found dumb reasons to text me every so often, very briefly.

The hard part of it all is I know I could make it totally stop. Icing the whole situation, ignoring any contact, not acknowledging him in public anymore. Just being rude and cold. But I'm so torn because being cold or rude is not how I want to treat him.

I never had this problem with other people I've dated. After it was over, I'd go where I want, do what I want, not reply to messages and frankly never had to act like they didn't exist because to me they didn't lol. Or I'd legit see them as friends and wouldn't feel any chemistry anymore. I've had others try and stay in field of vision before, not uncommon in dating watery folks like I do, lol. I just use my mental photoshop to scrub them out though. My brain is taking longer to want to scrub this one out.

So.

😐

Crab dudes are a touch masochistic. A little rough talk from a woman actually turns them on as opposed to off.

:/

Posted by Ellygant
Reading healing Pluto problems on my front porch in perfect spring weather while the sun sets. All while listening to deepak chopra meditations.

Nerves already feel 80% less frayed.

*google*

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Posted by justagirl
This forum has changed ?

Come hang with us instead..

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/mental-asylum-of-utter-madness-24-7-stinger-home-3917111/?p=259

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I was invited ⬆️

But wanted to ask the rest of y'all if it's okay if I come hang? I do have a stinger rising ?