PhoenixRising
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Posted by EllygantPosted by PhoenixRisingThis is extra funny because I feel similarly about a libra at the job I’m leaving. What she’s doing is wrong to me, claiming loyalty to work then over time it’s revealed her strongnest loyalties are to herself. She’s operating out of fear too. So part of me empathizes with that. But another part of me sees it as even more confirmation that my old job was a temporary holding place and the financial bump I needed to get where I am now.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by PhoenixRisingOh dear, PR I have been out of the loop.
*watching Maury Povich.....is he the father?* Why do they drag this out?
Some mindless brain candy is needed after the last 3 months I've had.
What has happened during the last three months ?
Work related stuff that I would rather not discuss. Technically it's still ongoing, and may get worst. We'll see. But in true Scorp form, I'll be ready.
I will say it has only confirmed my distrust for one particular Leeb and now dislike for her. I understand she is operating out of fear, but I loathe disloyalty. Regardless of the reason. I would say it is probably one of the top 3 deadliest sins for a Scorp.
I could easily dismantle her, but I refuse to reveal what I know because she told me this information in confidence. Unlike her I know what holding one's confidence means regardless of the consequence. Being trustworthy is very important to me. I suppose I expect her to show the same to the collective she was chosen to represent.
One thing I’ll give Libras, their charm can cover a lot of heir shadow side, if not be completely interwoven. When a Scorpio is manipulative and it’s revealed it’s normally a huge production of drama. With Libras though, they can create small dramas with others around them to detract from their own manipulative behaviors. Delay consequences longer. One coworker commented on how the bosses at work won’t see how the libra was the main cause of a bulk or personnel problems and drama, not till after she’s finally fired or leaves after not being able to get what she wants. I think they’re totally right lolclick to expand
Couldn't have stated it better myself. This is exactly what I am seeing.
Where she crossed a line is attempting to publicly diminish my efforts in the hopes she'll get other to sway her way. Knowing all the while she is not representing our members or their wishes. I was livid! LIV-ID. I had to walk out of the a meeting mid conversation on Tuesday and take a very long walk. I came back clear headed (still pissed---more so at myself for walking out) and ready to work and have ignored her attempts to give me props when I came up with a solution to a problem that was favourable to our team and hopefully will be acceptable to the collective.
*lovingly curses Elly and Lady for getting me to open up*
I hate this place 🙂
Okay, pancake are waiting to be made....
I hate this place 🙂
Okay, pancake are waiting to be made....
I feel the jealousy right now its like when im not the one getting the praise but im happy for them and rooting for them at the same time im so contradicting right now,im drunk so i dunno,i know i can be better but something is blocking it fuck my life right now! I dont need this coz many people needs me as of this moment and i hate myself,how do i change it and focus on the important task?
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Posted by Aquarius3189Are you asking this question as a Water Bearer, or you want a Stinger's perspective on all this ?
I feel the jealousy right now its like when im not the one getting the praise but im happy for them and rooting for them at the same time im so contradicting right now,im drunk so i dunno,i know i can be better but something is blocking it fuck my life right now! I dont need this coz many people needs me as of this moment and i hate myself,how do i change it and focus on the important task?
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Aquarius3189Are you asking this question as a Water Bearer, or you want a Stinger's perspective on all this ?
I feel the jealousy right now its like when im not the one getting the praise but im happy for them and rooting for them at the same time im so contradicting right now,im drunk so i dunno,i know i can be better but something is blocking it fuck my life right now! I dont need this coz many people needs me as of this moment and i hate myself,how do i change it and focus on the important task?
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im asking as a stinger because honestly it manifest greater in my life i feel like a scorpio and sometimes a cap,not really an aqua for most of my life,i can be an aqua when i want but the scorpio or pluto in me has a lot of say what i've been going through i cant deactivate it even if i want too its too strong its hard to control😣
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Have you experienced this as well, having hurt people from your ability to go with the flow, and move on ?
I'm not sure how to answer this. What do you mean exactly? I may be working with a different working definition.
Posted by Ellygant
Scary Things I Accomplished this Year:
-evaluated and with kindness removed toxic friends and connections from my life.
So watery... 😛
Posted by Ellygant
Scary Things I Accomplished this Year:
-Faced my feelings and insecurities about dating and relationships.
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Do you mind if I ask how you went about this?
Posted by ellesbelles
I did nothing today but laundry, napping and binge watched TLC.......lol
I love this airbnb apartment.
Sounds like a good day to me.
So I've been reading up on serial killers that date back to 144BC.....I was bored (😄) and someone mentioned a name, so of course I was curious and had to look into it. I'm intrigued by the execution measures they used as well....
The twisted mind of individuals that would lead them to some of the things they do has always fascinated me.
The twisted mind of individuals that would lead them to some of the things they do has always fascinated me.
Posted by Ellygant
In terms of my feelings and insecurities, talking more. Apologizing more. Instead of just shutting down and running away I made myself say what I thought and how I felt. Albeit sometimes that was drunkenly and over the top lmao. To which I’d then have to turn around a day or two later and apologize, without expectation of the apology being accepted.
Thank you. I'm a little lost on the apologizing though and how that assisted you in your desire to face your insecurities and feelings about dating/relationships.
Why was that even necessary for the process, if this was about you?
Posted by ellesbelleslmao you made me remember the dead rat in the bathroom. dying right now.Posted by Ellygant❤
Scary Things I Accomplished this Year:
-Moved out on my own finally after not having a place for almost two years.
-Got not one, but two new jobs in the city.
-Bought the dog I’ve always wanted.
-Dealt with my PTSD head on instead of avoiding it.
-Repaired relationships with every single one of my family members.
-evaluated and with kindness removed toxic friends and connections from my life.
-Faced my feelings and insecurities about dating and relationships.
-Killed a rat.
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Posted by ellesbelles"Maybe the cleaning lady also has a libra venus like me and didn't want to see it or deal with it"
Ummmmmmm.....we have a small issue....its not a big deal.....ummmmmm.....@damnata....I think there might be a dead mouse in the bathroom.....
Okay, elle...lets go check it out...where is it?
It's under that blue thing that looks like a little tiny blanket for a dead mouse....
Did you put that there?
No, it was there when I found it...I don't want to look underneath it.
Elle, do you think someone would just cover up a dead mouse with a tiny blue blanket?
Well, I would.
Lmao
*big reveal*
*Elle squirms and closes her eyes*
See, Elle...its not a dead mouse...there is nothing underneath the tiny blue blanket.
I died a little that day.
I died.
"I know it is there Damnata. I dreamt of its corpse last night too"
When I was 24. My gf cheated on me. I quit my job and started my own company. Worked day and night. 3 years later and Im making 5 figure income on my own, without education or any degree. Soon it will be a 6 figure income. When I have enough resources, Im gonna weigh in on changing the world in a positive direction by running campaigns for self awareness. How's that for passion, commitment and intensity?
Posted by LaBellaDonna
Might as well share my chart too, since I finally figured it out.
Sun Scorpio
Moon Libra
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Scorpio
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Aquarius
Chiron Cancer
Ascendant Aries
how does that libra moon work out for you? I'd think it be a blessing amongst all the scorpio.
Posted by LaBellaDonnaPosted by PlutonianYou tell me, I've been reading up on my chart but mostly seeing if anyone could tell me more about myself.Posted by LaBellaDonna
Might as well share my chart too, since I finally figured it out.
Sun Scorpio
Moon Libra
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Scorpio
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Aquarius
Chiron Cancer
Ascendant Aries
how does that libra moon work out for you? I'd think it be a blessing amongst all the scorpio.
From what I've read, its meant to make me more cerebral and in my own head.
I guess that's true.
My mental energy seems to take up more space than my emotional side.
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Where do your planets sit in your chart?
Posted by LaBellaDonna
This seems like the lounge for Scorpios, so decided to come by and say hello. 🙂
👋
I was meaning to come back to this:....
Posted by Ellygant
In some cases, someone’s treatment of me is less about me or us and more about their own personal journey.
Hmph. I'm not so sure this is a universal truth and rather unique to the people you may be referring to.
Sometimes, people's treatment are exactly about (general) you and "us" as nothing happens in isolation. I may be over thinking this though...
Posted by Ellygant
...I don’t think anyone would have admitted to me how damaging my insecurities were to them if I hadn’t apologized. Things probably would be contentious till they grew cold and we never talked again lol.click to expand
Hmph. So without their feedback you had no awareness of how damaging this was to your growth or your relationships? You seem quite reflective, so I find this (attempting to find a better word than "hard"---but can't) to believe.
Posted by Ellygant
On the first point, I think I may be missing your point? Things don’t happen in isolation, of course. But I guess what I meant to say is that their treatment of me is something I have a tendency to overpersonalize. The closer they are (or I want them to be) the more I think their actions/reactions, for lack of a better phrase, are all about me lol. I was just saying I have to remind myself that the person in front of me has their own history and experiences I fail to take in account if I’m emotionally at odds with them.
I understand a bit better. I believe I was just over thinking what you wrote. I tend to....apply things people say/write to life in a very general, global lesson type of way, so my question reflects that point of view. I'm always in my head. Some time the simplest word can lead me to reflect on something I did when I was 9 or 10 or my first kiss...whatever. In other words...I was in my own world of self reflection and forgot you were referring to your situation lol. Forgive me.
Posted by Ellygant
Tying that into the second one, it’s not that I have no awareness of the damage, but again, when my feelings are hurt, or just when I perceive they’re about to be hurt(particularly if I’m not over past grievances from others) I am blind to the fact that my raw emotions might have a strong affect.
Oh.
Posted by Ellygant
This has come up the most with water sign men in particular. I get so caught up in their cold exterior or failure to achieve the sensitivity and compassion I know they’re capable of, based on previous history, that I can rage out and be pretty ruthless.click to expand
Ooooooooooh. Is it bad that the thought of you going off on the men folks made me smirk a little? Lol.
So I spent the evening (well only part of the evening, but it felt much longer) staring into this Scorp's eyes. It wasn't intentional. It started out just listening and talking, mostly listening given that was the reason I was invited into her life....and I got lost in her eyes. Not the drowning, can't look away cliché "lost" that we read about on the boards, but aware "lost".
I could see her pain, her passion, desire, longing and need to just be loved by her partner...feeling so small and invisible. I'm not sure she knows she was seen. I saw her.
I don't like that this is still sitting with me....I hate feeling this connected to a stranger. To anyone.
But I already know I am addicted to it.
I could see her pain, her passion, desire, longing and need to just be loved by her partner...feeling so small and invisible. I'm not sure she knows she was seen. I saw her.
I don't like that this is still sitting with me....I hate feeling this connected to a stranger. To anyone.
But I already know I am addicted to it.
Lol, what is up with all of these "ScorpiosAreHellaInsecure-ScorpiosTheMostFakest-WhichoftheSignsAreReallyGoodAtDefeatingScorpiosandAlwaysGettheBetterofThem?" threads?
The Mediterranean Sea would be jealous of all the saltiness.
The Mediterranean Sea would be jealous of all the saltiness.
I hate it because I don't like the idea of desiring something so much that I would mould my actions to experience it again and again. I also hate it because that feeling, that ability to see someone in that way is etched into my brain and I will now compare my interactions to that experience. I'd rather not know it, then to say "gee I felt that way once" and long for it again. She was merely the vessel. It's the experience that bothers me so much.
Perhaps I could handle it if it were only one interaction. Problem is it will not be our last meeting.
And it wasn't our first. That experience was though and I'm not sure what brought it on other than she was trying so hard not to be seen. She was clearly trying to hide from me, but couldn't.
I will need to reflect on your question a bit more though.
Perhaps I could handle it if it were only one interaction. Problem is it will not be our last meeting.
And it wasn't our first. That experience was though and I'm not sure what brought it on other than she was trying so hard not to be seen. She was clearly trying to hide from me, but couldn't.
I will need to reflect on your question a bit more though.
Posted by Ellygant
I haven’t seen you talk about tea in a post for like a month or two. Red flags everywhere. 😛
Lol. I was actually going to post a gif of sipping tea when someone's naughty bits were revealed on a thread, but thought better of it. The OP seems too sensitive. Yes, when the moon and stars are aligned just right an air moon can be sensitive.
Posted by Ellygant🙂 I wasn't even thinking about that. I don't like the idea of not having control or being a slave to my desire. Whatever that desire may be. All those crazy things you read about psychotic Scorp Mars could easily be said about me because the urges are there. The only reason someone somewhere isn't posting about me stalking the hell out of them or boiling a rabbit is because I control my impulses. Constantly.
Sooo, the experience of being a passionate Scorpio stereotype bothers you? Lol.click to expand
Posted by ItsMeRomanHah. 😆Posted by EllygantI had no idea that you like to watch me 😎
I have an unplanned week of no work since I respectfully parted ways with the job that botched my training and lied about it.
I have swept, vacuumed and mopped he whole house. Cleaned the bathroom. Reorganized the cabinets and fridge. Rearranged my room twice. I’m going mad. My roommate thinks I’m silly lol.
I need work. Im running out of early 2000’s rom coms to watch. And all caught up on violent superhero tv shows.
Sup ☺️
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Posted by ellesbelles
lol.....when you are flipping thru the gallery on your phone to see pics of grandbabies for the 100th time and you come across a recording you accidentally made while your phone was in your purse and you were driving....
.....and you realise how much you actually talk to yourself....out loud 😱 😄
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I'm curious, does your voice change as though there are two people having a conversation?
Elle *lower voice*: The Cappy is so sweet.
Elle *excited voice*: I know right! Surprising me with the red velvet cupcake after I had such a horrible day with that bloody Aqua...
Elle *lower voice*: You're going to have to do something special for him.
Elle *excited voice*: Oh, I'll do something special alright 🙂
Elle *lower voice*: Just leave the cupcake out of it...*Leeb bits nod in agreement*
Elle *excited voice*: I make no promises 😈
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Elle *lower voice*: The Cappy is so sweet.
Elle *excited voice*: I know right! Surprising me with the red velvet cupcake after I had such a horrible day with that bloody Aqua...
Elle *lower voice*: You're going to have to do something special for him.
Elle *excited voice*: Oh, I'll do something special alright 🙂
Elle *lower voice*: Just leave the cupcake out of it...*Leeb bits nod in agreement*
Elle *excited voice*: I make no promises 😈
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People I don't argue/debate with:
1) Cardinal Suns, Moon, Mercs, Pluto, Saturn, Grandmas, Uncles, second cousins once removed.....if you have cardinal energy:
2) Fixed Moons
3) Fish Folk...I swear trying to address an issue or make a point is like:
Life is just too short.
1) Cardinal Suns, Moon, Mercs, Pluto, Saturn, Grandmas, Uncles, second cousins once removed.....if you have cardinal energy:
2) Fixed Moons
3) Fish Folk...I swear trying to address an issue or make a point is like:
Life is just too short.
Posted by Ellygant
Lol!!
All the placements I love to argue most with... a little bit of my sag Rising and the difference between Gemini Moon and Gemini Mars I suppose.
Sometimes when I realize I’m in an argument for the sport of it, I think ‘Oh shit. I’ve become my sag sun/moon Dad...’
Probably. I like a good banter and can go back and forth to a point and then I just want to move on. Largely because I'm not in a habit of trying to change anyone's mind or bending them to my way of seeing things. I simply don't care enough or maybe just respect different perspective to appreciate other pov, or it's a weird twin moon blend of the two. I state my piece, you hear it or don't and I'm okay with just moving on to another subject. Trouble is, that isn't what you get with one of those three groups---or that has not been my personal experience. Not so much dxp given I just stop engaging the person when that happens lol. Oddly dxp folks (with the exception of Crabs) tend to be more chill than the folks I have to deal with irl.
In the case of Fish/Crabs it's like I'm talking a whole other language. Like did my water language centre break or something?
#IDontKnoworReallyCareShrug
Posted by Ellygant
That makes sense. I think this is good to highlight how the moon processes the same energy compared to mars. You, the moon still has an empathetic connection, the mars, me, sees it as entertainment and bloodsport lol.
Hmph. Nicely put. Just affirms that *sign* Sun isn't same as *sign* Moon, Mars, Saturn, Pluto etc...
For fun one week I may troll the Gem board and answer all the threads as though I am a Gem. I may even make a thread...."Fellow Geminis, Why Do People Think We Are So Shallow?"......"Gems, I think We Are the Deepest Sign in the Zodiac. Do you Agree?" 😄
My first mistake was responding to the first text message. It opened a doorway to expecting a response "just because" you think you should get one.
I miss the days when you called someone and had to wait until they got home to get a reply.
The days when not talking everyday wasn't a bad thing. It meant nothing more than the person was busy, or out.
The days when if you didn't get a reply the same day you left a message, you had some chill and found something else to do to entertain yourself. Not blow up someone's phones asking about their day....Jesus, my day isn't over yet.
How 'bout dat?
I hate technology. It makes me feel like I'm strange for not adapting.
I miss the days when you called someone and had to wait until they got home to get a reply.
The days when not talking everyday wasn't a bad thing. It meant nothing more than the person was busy, or out.
The days when if you didn't get a reply the same day you left a message, you had some chill and found something else to do to entertain yourself. Not blow up someone's phones asking about their day....Jesus, my day isn't over yet.
How 'bout dat?
I hate technology. It makes me feel like I'm strange for not adapting.
I noticed one week before my menstrual cycle (PMS?) I get extra chatty with strangers and tend to ignore/avoid my loved ones. They actually irritate me a little bit....
Then I need a hug when it's all done.
Then I need a hug when it's all done.
Posted by PhoenixRisingI was just going to say that I remember us going back and forth on topics and managing a nice debate and I have a shiton cardinal energy in my chart lol.
Oddly dxp folks (with the exception of Crabs) tend to be more chill than the folks I have to deal with irl.
Posted by DamnataPosted by PhoenixRisingI was just going to say that I remember us going back and forth on topics and managing a nice debate and I have a shiton cardinal energy in my chart lol.
Oddly dxp folks (with the exception of Crabs) tend to be more chill than the folks I have to deal with irl.
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Well since you're lurking, I'm not sure how you missed "irl" and the little lesson about Sun =/= Moon, Venus, Mercury, Saturn, second puppy, step mother's uncle etc....therefore, it gives off different energy.
Your Virgo Sun will always trump your Ram moon and Crab venus (apparently since you don't irk me). Just like I adore Elle, Elly and Seraph despite their annoying cardinal bits.
I can easily switch to disliking you. We Geminis are known for being flaky 😄.
Posted by PhoenixRisingI get so caught up in that moon and venus though lol...it's easy to see the reactions I have with those placements. It's hard to relate to my Sun at times so I am happy if my Virgoness is still upfront and center.Posted by DamnataPosted by PhoenixRisingI was just going to say that I remember us going back and forth on topics and managing a nice debate and I have a shiton cardinal energy in my chart lol.
Oddly dxp folks (with the exception of Crabs) tend to be more chill than the folks I have to deal with irl.
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Well since you're lurking, I'm not sure how you missed "irl" and the little lesson about Sun =/= Moon, Venus, Mercury, Saturn, second puppy, step mother's uncle etc....therefore, it gives off different energy.
Your Virgo Sun will always trump your Ram moon and Crab venus (apparently since you don't irk me). Just like I adore Elle and Seraph despite their annoying cardinal bits.
I can easily switch to disliking you. We Geminis are known for being flaky 😄.
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Posted by Ellygant
Bah!
I was hoping for best case scenario today. But Dad has what they strongly project to be one last go around of treatments. re-evaluate again on whether to stop in six months.
So second best answer it is. Sill grateful.
This isn't necessarily a bad thing. Just a longer than expected thing.
Posted by DamnataPosted by PhoenixRisingI get so caught up in that moon and venus though lol...it's easy to see the reactions I have with those placements. It's hard to relate to my Sun at times so I am happy if my Virgoness is still upfront and center.Posted by DamnataPosted by PhoenixRisingI was just going to say that I remember us going back and forth on topics and managing a nice debate and I have a shiton cardinal energy in my chart lol.
Oddly dxp folks (with the exception of Crabs) tend to be more chill than the folks I have to deal with irl.
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Well since you're lurking, I'm not sure how you missed "irl" and the little lesson about Sun =/= Moon, Venus, Mercury, Saturn, second puppy, step mother's uncle etc....therefore, it gives off different energy.
Your Virgo Sun will always trump your Ram moon and Crab venus (apparently since you don't irk me). Just like I adore Elle and Seraph despite their annoying cardinal bits.
I can easily switch to disliking you. We Geminis are known for being flaky 😄.
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Well they definitely make you more entertaining than an earthy Virgo.
Posted by ellesbelles
The Cap is obsessed with his Leo cousins wedding.
Lots of complaining because the leo, in leo fashion, is going over the top and the Cap is annoyed.
I freeze when he asks my opinion.
"Wouldn't you prefer an intimate wedding between two people....and not a huge deal with a million people?"
"Why do they need a videography....its his second wedding!?"
Anything directed towards me that has the word wedding or marriage.....I freeze.
lmao
*awkward*
*like* 😆
Posted by DamnataPosted by PhoenixRisingI get so caught up in that moon and venus though lol...it's easy to see the reactions I have with those placements. It's hard to relate to my Sun at times so I am happy if my Virgoness is still upfront and center.Posted by DamnataPosted by PhoenixRisingI was just going to say that I remember us going back and forth on topics and managing a nice debate and I have a shiton cardinal energy in my chart lol.
Oddly dxp folks (with the exception of Crabs) tend to be more chill than the folks I have to deal with irl.
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Well since you're lurking, I'm not sure how you missed "irl" and the little lesson about Sun =/= Moon, Venus, Mercury, Saturn, second puppy, step mother's uncle etc....therefore, it gives off different energy.
Your Virgo Sun will always trump your Ram moon and Crab venus (apparently since you don't irk me). Just like I adore Elle and Seraph despite their annoying cardinal bits.
I can easily switch to disliking you. We Geminis are known for being flaky 😄.
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I was thinking about this and I don't know if I can ever say I've found it hard to relate to my Sun sign. Yes, I've found other Scorps (the person) a bit difficult to relate to, but there was always this level of understanding of where they were coming from and why (the sign). My challenge is relating to how they choose to approached a situation. For example, I've seen some Scorps go rounds and rounds with people....like hon, life it too d*mn short for that sh*t. I have other things to poke my nose into and discover. I respect and appreciate the stamina behind that, but it's just not how I choose to use my mental energy. I'm an intellectual snob.
Speaking of being an intellectual snob, I was on the Mafia thread reading some of the comments hoping to start the game early, from Nights in particular (so impatient that one) and it made me think about some of the other air moons. We are known for being quite impatient in general, but I find it looks different depending on the moon. From my observations:
Gem Moons: it's impatience is seen when it comes to conversation and communication. Has a tendency to mentally check out and easily bothered by slowness, stubbornness and rigidity when sharing ideas.
Leeb Moons: it's impatience is seen when it comes to social interactions. If they are involved in something that involves engaging other, they tend to want to move through something quickly and appear to be easily bothered by silence or lack of movement in others.
Aqua Moons: it's impatience is seen when it comes to ethical discussions/issues. Appears to have very little tolerance for what they view as selfish or inconsiderate behaviour from others.
Funny, because my mind wanders to curious things so much that it never makes sense to other people how I've gone from A to B...
Him: What are you doing? You look deep in thought.
Scorp: Hmph. Just reading a thread. Thinking about why people are impatient.
Him: Oh, you're reading an article on impatience?
Scorp: No, a funny meme about Mafia.
Him: 😕....
Gem Moons: it's impatience is seen when it comes to conversation and communication. Has a tendency to mentally check out and easily bothered by slowness, stubbornness and rigidity when sharing ideas.
Leeb Moons: it's impatience is seen when it comes to social interactions. If they are involved in something that involves engaging other, they tend to want to move through something quickly and appear to be easily bothered by silence or lack of movement in others.
Aqua Moons: it's impatience is seen when it comes to ethical discussions/issues. Appears to have very little tolerance for what they view as selfish or inconsiderate behaviour from others.
Funny, because my mind wanders to curious things so much that it never makes sense to other people how I've gone from A to B...
Him: What are you doing? You look deep in thought.
Scorp: Hmph. Just reading a thread. Thinking about why people are impatient.
Him: Oh, you're reading an article on impatience?
Scorp: No, a funny meme about Mafia.
Him: 😕....
Posted by Ellygant
Huh. I never before would have described any air moons as inpatient as a whole. But now that you point it out, all the air moons I know are like what you describe. Honestly I’ve only ever seen fire sun/moon and water suns as impatient.
It may be because it looks different? And pure theory based on observation, but it was a common thing I saw amongst the 3 moons. Impatience may not even be the best word, but it felt like it fit.
I agree, it is very obvious with a fire moon. They react, and they are very quick to verbalize it, so in that respect their impatience is more present. An air moon tends to think about how much they are bothered, some verbalize it in a playful way or just passively fades away/mentally checks out, but I do believe their reaction is due to impatience.
For example, I am constantly (in my mind) telling people to "Jesus Christ, spit it out already", when they are trying to explain a point or share something, and they really don't have to be taking that long. It just feels long for a busy mind. At meetings, if other people are talking about the same topic for longer than 5 minutes I get very annoyed. I find stubbornness to be a huge turn off for me, which is ironic given all of my fixed placements. However, only if it's verbalized. Like if I am discussing something with someone and before we even get going they are just stuck, refusing to hear my point I just become disinterested in engaging them any further and move on. More than likely, I will make a point to not engage them on that topic again. But, if someone was say protesting, or refusing to budge on a social or political issue, or simply protesting something important to them, I'm not bothered in the least. I'm actually quite curious and impressed with their decision to (physically) stand their ground. Weird, I know.
Someone simply refusing to discuss a topic in a open minded way (and no, the person doesn't have to change their mind when all is said and done), irks me and people like that....often irritate me. Someone being so stuck on a position and not being open to another possibility....is hard for me to sit with and I tend to just dismiss them outright. None of this is verbalized though. I simply think it lol.
Posted by Ellygant
That’s one of my favorite things about gem moons tbh, how y’all hop around mentally. Though it’s a little harder to follow on a mutable sun lol. My Pisces sis makes me feel as if we are continuing a conversation we had like four years ago sometimes lol.
It can be tricky for me too with the others, but not so much Gem Suns. Just this morning:
Gem: *shares story about old friend of ours that is having problems with his girlfriend*.....
Scorp: *comments, asks a question about friend*
Gem: La Var Ball....what an idiot *proceeds to talk about latest La Var Ball interview*
Scorp: *laughs, shares thoughts...* Watching Youtube or CNN?
Gem: Youtube.
*30 minutes later*
Gem: *....finally answers question about our friend*
Scorp: *continues conversation about friend*
I just go with the flow.
A Stinger's ability to rise up like a phoenix.
To change, to transform, and to become an even better version of ourselves.
Time and time again.
Even after being thrown into situations, where others may have chosen to end it all.
Somehow through all the soul breaking situations that are thrown at us, we still push on forward.
Still, we survive it all, and thrive.
Clinging on to life, choosing to pursue what we want out of our dreams, ambitions, and goals.
That is one ability which I have always found beautiful about our kind.
We will not give up, never a quitter.
Plowing through everything, with a fierce determination, and a single mindedness.
Getting up after every fall, no matter the injuries, to nurse ourselves back into working order.
We will not let the world beat us down, even when all the cards are against us.
We chose to face it with a knowledge that we may break, but we are never broken.
To change, to transform, and to become an even better version of ourselves.
Time and time again.
Even after being thrown into situations, where others may have chosen to end it all.
Somehow through all the soul breaking situations that are thrown at us, we still push on forward.
Still, we survive it all, and thrive.
Clinging on to life, choosing to pursue what we want out of our dreams, ambitions, and goals.
That is one ability which I have always found beautiful about our kind.
We will not give up, never a quitter.
Plowing through everything, with a fierce determination, and a single mindedness.
Getting up after every fall, no matter the injuries, to nurse ourselves back into working order.
We will not let the world beat us down, even when all the cards are against us.
We chose to face it with a knowledge that we may break, but we are never broken.
Posted by UnwordingSince it is coming from a Stinger.Posted by TheLadyScorpioI'm never sure whether to label that as optimism or spite. 😆
A Stinger's ability to rise up like a phoenix.
To change, to transform, and to become an even better version of ourselves.
Time and time again.
Even after being thrown into situations, where others may have chosen to end it all.
Somehow through all the soul breaking situations that are thrown at us, we still push on forward.
Still, we survive it all, and thrive.
Clinging on to life, choosing to pursue what we want out of our dreams, ambitions, and goals.
That is one ability which I have always found beautiful about our kind.
We will not give up, never a quitter.
Plowing through everything, with a fierce determination, and a single mindedness.
Getting up after every fall, no matter the injuries, to nurse ourselves back into working order.
We will not let the world beat us down, even when all the cards are against us.
We chose to face it with a knowledge that we may break, but we are never broken.click to expand
The safer bet would be a bit of both. 😆
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