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It was an agonizing difficult decision but I decided to send him a text message

And No Reply

Why ??

Hate me that much ?

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Probably. Maybe he was sleeping. I'm not going to wake my ass up for a text message unless that person is dead or dying.

Posted by Epi
Probably. Maybe he was sleeping. I'm not going to wake my ass up for a text message unless that person is dead or dying.

I don't think he was sleeping. It was 10 am in the morning, most likely at work.

He knew that I was very ill last we were in contact.

I wouldn't use the word dying though because I wasn't sure if I was heading that way.

Posted by Epi
Probably. Maybe he was sleeping. I'm not going to wake my ass up for a text message unless that person is dead or dying.

— How would you know if you wouldn wake up your ass?

Text: I am dying

You don't wake up

When you awake - text from someone else 'He died'...

Wouldn't you think shit i should had wake my ass up?

Posted by Chickpeas

Posted by Epi
Probably. Maybe he was sleeping. I'm not going to wake my ass up for a text message unless that person is dead or dying.

I don't think he was sleeping. It was 10 am in the morning, most likely at work.

He knew that I was very ill last we were in contact.

I wouldn't use the word dying though because I wasn't sure if I was heading that way.

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How about calling? Emailing?

I had been told once that he couldn't send me text because phone was acting up.

Happened once in years so I have no reason not to believe. But it happens!

What's the big issue?

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by Chickpeas
It was an agonizing difficult decision but I decided to send him a text message

And No Reply

Why ??

Now when are you going to share as to what you meant by "agonizing difficult decision"?

If not, how can we try analyzing his reason?

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Agonizing and difficult because it will trigger an avalanche of emotions that would send me back to the red zone again but i feel it's important to explain myself to him.

Emotions are my nemesis.

I could not cope last time he went all guns blazing when I least expect it.

Posted by MaxPower
Not enough context to know. Are you blocked?

It actually never crossed my mind that he would block me.

Come to think about it now; maybe ? I don't know

I don't think he blocked me; ignore most likely.

As long as we've known each other; it was always him that initiate conversation.

This would be my first time to reach out.

Posted by -elle-
I love chickpeas.

Falafel ..mmmmmmmm

Posted by Chickpeas

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by Chickpeas
It was an agonizing difficult decision but I decided to send him a text message

And No Reply

Why ??

Now when are you going to share as to what you meant by "agonizing difficult decision"?

If not, how can we try analyzing his reason?

Agonizing and difficult because it will trigger an avalanche of emotions that would send me back to the red zone again but i feel it's important to explain myself to him.

Emotions are my nemesis.

I could not cope last time he went all guns blazing when I least expect it.

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In the same boat right now.

I decided not to reach out.

For my own mental health.

If I did I would be like you right now creating another thread about how i was ghosted.

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Good Lord, it hasn't even been a day yet.

I'm horrible with text messages. I would probably respond to someone quicker on DXP than my own fucking boss.

Dxp comes first! It's understandable. But I am suspecting 'he' is not a member.

So what's HIS excuse? 🙂

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by -elle-
I love chickpeas.

Falafel ..mmmmmmmm

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Hummus...yummy!

Posted by -elle-
I love chickpeas.

LOL

I just wasted a bag at home. Expired

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Epi
Probably. Maybe he was sleeping. I'm not going to wake my ass up for a text message unless that person is dead or dying.

— How would you know if you wouldn wake up your ass?

Text: I am dying

You don't wake up

When you awake - text from someone else 'He died'...

Wouldn't you think shit i should had wake my ass up?

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I'll glance at something and probably go right back to sleep if it's not important. People I know would blow up my phone if it's necessary, a simple text message about something that can wait until the morning will wait because I am whole heartedly putting myself above the minimal effort it takes to send a text message. If you needed something you'd call, but texting? Yeah, you're too chicken to deal with me.

Posted by Epi

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Epi
Probably. Maybe he was sleeping. I'm not going to wake my ass up for a text message unless that person is dead or dying.

— How would you know if you wouldn wake up your ass?

Text: I am dying

You don't wake up

When you awake - text from someone else 'He died'...

Wouldn't you think shit i should had wake my ass up?

I'll glance at something and probably go right back to sleep if it's not important. People I know would blow up my phone if it's necessary, a simple text message about something that can wait until the morning will wait because I am whole heartedly putting myself above the minimal effort it takes to send a text message. If you needed something you'd call, but texting? Yeah, you're too chicken to deal with me.

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Got your point! I will call you from now on. Every night! ?

Never called him either.

We rarely spoke on the phone because i hate it, only few times.

His text response usually within minutes

I sent the message to his work phone.

Giving him choice

I understand context will be helpful.

It's long and I will try to write as much soon.

I am too lazy to type and explain ?

Lets just forget it.

95% my fault, 3% circumstances, 2% his fault.

Some other time

I still have not pack for tomorrow trip.

Procrastination at its best.

Have not buy luggage either.

Someone please tell me off ?