May-December Relationships - Women that date younger men

Hi All,

How many women here have dated men that are 5+ years younger than them? There has been a guy that I am giving a chance who is 9 years younger than me. Since day one, he has been trying to take me out on a date and is persistent at messaging me. I once blocked him because of this... but now, I am finding his persistence pretty attractive and actually sweet. He is very attractive, I am just concerned about his maturity.

Men or cubs 😉 What is it that you like about an older woman?

Thank you,

Milani

Depends on your age and his age. I'm not a woman lol but I know what it's like to be hit on by younger peeps (male and female). It's quite aggravating because they just don't understand what NO means They DO. NOT. QUIT.

Posted by Rindaroo
Depends on age. My bf is 6 years younger but we are 40's/50's. There really is no difference at this age. But in your 20's there can be a huge difference. More important is life stage. Having kids or not, desire to have kids & timing, career vs just figuring things out ( in school or still live at home).

I am 32 and he is 23... I guess I will give him a try and not take anything seriously until it gets serious.

I have messed around with guys who are 19 and 21 before... But they were just for fun and not guys I was interested in dating.

Posted by MilaniKisses

Posted by Rindaroo
Depends on age. My bf is 6 years younger but we are 40's/50's. There really is no difference at this age. But in your 20's there can be a huge difference. More important is life stage. Having kids or not, desire to have kids & timing, career vs just figuring things out ( in school or still live at home).

I am 32 and he is 23... I guess I will give him a try and not take anything seriously until it gets serious.

I have messed around with guys who are 19 and 21 before... But they were just for fun and not guys I was interested in dating.

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What do you have to lose?

Lately a lot of younger guys have been trying to talk to me. Back in the days, I would only go for guys older than me 1-4 years older. Now I'm sort of getting to know someone who is 5 years younger than me. It's pretty fun lol. We all live once, enjoy it.

Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi All,

How many women here have dated men that are 5+ years younger than them? There has been a guy that I am giving a chance who is 9 years younger than me. Since day one, he has been trying to take me out on a date and is persistent at messaging me. I once blocked him because of this... but now, I am finding his persistence pretty attractive and actually sweet. He is very attractive, I am just concerned about his maturity.

Men or cubs 😉 What is it that you like about an older woman?

Thank you,

Milani

Currently dating a 21year old Virgo Sun w/Scorp moon... so that's about 12ish years gap...

Probs part of the reason why he does seem more mature than average on some levels...

It's incredibly fun and he's very sweet.

He's just struggling to match with girls his own age and that's why he's been pursuing meh.

I went with it because if it's legal- why not and I haven't regretted yet that's fo sho 🙂

Posted by MilaniKisses

Posted by Rindaroo
Depends on age. My bf is 6 years younger but we are 40's/50's. There really is no difference at this age. But in your 20's there can be a huge difference. More important is life stage. Having kids or not, desire to have kids & timing, career vs just figuring things out ( in school or still live at home).

I am 32 and he is 23... I guess I will give him a try and not take anything seriously until it gets serious.

I have messed around with guys who are 19 and 21 before... But they were just for fun and not guys I was interested in dating.

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Same ^

Yeah, I think I am definitely going to give it a try, however! I do not want to be anyone's sugar mama!

Also as for having kids, I already have one which is plenty for me. Also, I cant have any because im a transgender female and the hormone therapy had made me sterile.

Thanks,

Milani