My appreciation for astrology and the Scorpio man.

I just want to talk about how astrology helped me. My extensive research into astrology over this past year (I dabbled before) really helped me to understand a man. Everything that has been said about Scorpio males in the books IS TRUE. If you don't have patience, if you don't have the passion.... just walk away. Don't ask "What can I do to make him love me?".... He will show you on his time. Period. He is terrified. You have to prove you love him. It cannot be faked. He will call your bluff. To him, you will put up with his bullshit if you care. He will send you off, tell you, you aren't the one. Imagine the scene in Fight Club, where recruits stand on the porch being told to "run along... you're not what we're looking for. There is no hope". Only really, they want to see what your made of, how dedicated you are. When they say Scorpios aren't for the faint of heart, what they should say is they aren't for the weak. You will cry. You will obsess. You will go fuckin' insane. You will want to run. You will want to kill him. You will passionately love and hate him. He won't mind.

Then.... when he feels you have reached your breaking point. When you've given all that you could and loyally. When you pick yourself up and SHOW, not speak that you've given your all but your standing back up on your feet with or without him. He will come to you. And when he does, it will be all encompassing. You will understand why this kind of love isn't given freely. It will be like no man you've ever been with. His under-belly will show. You will feel LOVED. He will always be dry, sarcastic, witty and private.... but he will be passionate about YOU. You won't even see it coming. But then again, of course you did.... why else would you have waited so long?

I had a TEXT BOOK experience. I was DONE. I was spent. I was tired. Then holy shit!!! It all plays out like the books say.

Posted by Aguardiente
There's too little of the good experiences being told around town.

+1...makes me not even wanna read the boards

awesome... where did u read this description?

Posted by Aguardiente

First, congratulations on everything working out for you. There's too little of the good experiences being told around town.

I don't remember all of the details, but I do remember the moving van scenario. Lol.

My situation was different, but long story short: it took me and my Scorp nearly 20 years, but we're finally on what he loves to call "The Together Forever track." 🙂 🙂

I wish you two all the best in the world. 🙂

Thank you! The together forever track! haha He just text me earlier "This is the real deal. I'm ready. I want to be with you forever if you'll have me."........ Say whatttttt?!?! I never thought if hear him say those words to ANYONE.

Another text book Scorpio text, Taken straight from my phone. "It took awhile for me to get over the past. I love you a lot and cant wait to be together full time. You never gave up on me and your diligence paid off. That means everything to me." DING DING DING!

He has visited me twice in 3 weeks... he lives 1000 miles away! He is moving here in 3 weeks. WOW. 🙂

Posted by Aine
awesome... where did u read this description?

I wrote it from personal experience.

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Posted by Aine
awesome... where did u read this description?

I wrote it from personal experience.

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Isn't your man really a Libra though?

lovely. I've never felt such a connection like the one with me and my scorpio... it's amazing. - it def wasn't easy getting to where we are today but it was well worth it.

i like your description.

Congrats helium,good 4 u🙂

How long have you guys been together?

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Posted by Aine
awesome... where did u read this description?

I wrote it from personal experience.

Isn't your man really a Libra though?

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Is he a libra with certain scorpio placements or a scorpio sun?

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Posted by Aine
awesome... where did u read this description?

I wrote it from personal experience.

Isn't your man really a Libra though?

Is he a libra with certain scorpio placements or a scorpio sun?

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He is on the Libra/Scorp cusp... with Scorpio Moon, Mercury, Venus and Uranus. Scorpio 12th house Stellium. He is a Scorpio through and through.

Posted by ellessque
you know, I really didn't want to like you, helium.

after your first couple threads I really concluded that you were just screwing with his head for your own entertainment.

I digress now, I think you've made great strides understanding yourself (which is so important)....and that has lead you to understand him better.

kudos to you, Miss Libra with a full 12th house 😛

I actually appreciated all your advice... I honestly just wanted to shake the shit out of him 😉

What is his birth date(just curious)?

Posted by heliumfiasco

I had a TEXT BOOK experience. I was DONE. I was spent. I was tired. Then holy shit!!!

Congratulations, you deserve it!! _??

And thanks for sharing!

Posted by heliumfiasco

Don't ask "What can I do to make him love me?".... He will show you on his time. Period. He is terrified. You have to prove you love him. It cannot be faked. He will call your bluff. To him, you will put up with his bullshit if you care. He will send you off, tell you, you aren't the one.

Now imagine you're talking about a Leo. Words like "insecure", "unevolved" and "cub" come to mind.
But I guess if it's a Scorpio it's not only acceptable, but even charming.. 😆

how dumb are you? don't go to astrology for an answer