My Scorp going thru family hell. Leave him alone?

Hi I posted a couple days ago but my account will not work, I'm not sure why. I have retyped and typed the passcode and still won't let me in and I need help. Plus this name is probably better than my last one because I am a worrywart Virgo! 🙂 Anyway I posted about having a bad day at work and him sending back a text wanting to make me scream and me snapping at him and him not coming to my place and not answering calls/texts. Well, on Wed, the day after all this, I was sad and hurt and angry and I got home and realized my cell was off. I turned on and had 8!! messages from him, some text, some VM. He sounded really scared and in the last one he said If you hate me I understand but you should let me explain.

I called him right away and explained my phone was off. He said he figured that since it was always going straight to VM but he thought I was upset and he had wanted to call to apologize and explain. Apparently, as soon as he was abt. to come to my place, his mom called and said his dad called her and said he wants a divorce! The last time I was at his house (he does still live at home while he goes to school) I thought his mom and dad seemed annoyed with each other, but they've been married almost 30 years and have 7 kids, so I thought it was just a phase. But his mom is in Arizona with her sister and apparently my Scorp's dad told her he wants to get a divorce. So his dad was home really upset and my Scorp was on the phone with his mom all night and that's why he didn't come over. He said he was torn in two because he kept seeing me trying to call him but his mom was hysterical and he couldn't just tell her he'd call back. He said he was drained, got off the phone with her at 8 in the morning and called me right away but the phone was off and he kept calling trying to reach me to explain.

I told him I understood and said I was angry at first because I wasn't sure what was going on but I was more scared because I knew he'd never just let me worry like that. And he said he was glad I understood that. I asked him if he wanted to come over and have a break and talk or just hang out, and he said no, he needed to just deal alone. I said that was OK, and that if he wanted to talk, we could, and he said, "I know baby, I trust you. I just can't right now, my family's going to hell and there's nothing I can do." My heart was breaking but he didn't want to talk about it and I didn't want to force.

Sorry, it got cut off. But then he asked me abt. my day and my doc's appt. and asked if I was pregnant because he'd been thinking of baby manes and potential godparents. He was joking and I said no, no pregnancy, everything normal, and in the middle of me answering a question of his about where my doc was located in the city, I realized I was talking to myself. My phone really is bad and it dropped the call! I called back and he did not answer. I was really scared he thought I hung up on him or something but tried to keep cool. Called back a little later, still no answer. I left a message saying my phone dropped the call and that I would be up a little longer if he wanted to talk and if not, to get at me when he got a chance, and I was glad he'd called. He did not call back and we did not talk yesterday. He has been on messenger all day since Wed. but I have not pinged him, giving him space.

But I am worrying again. I am second-guessing myself because I jumped to conclusions the first time. He was dealing with a real family crisis and I thought he hated me or something. I don't want to do the same again. Am I doing the right thing? Should I have been forceful in getting him to talk to me? If he trusts me why not talk? Also, he never said that before and I heard when a Scorpio trusts you it's like them saying the "L" word. I want to stop thinking and overanalyzing so much but it's impossible!! Should I send him a funny text or just wait for him to come to me? He was so hurt on the phone thinking about his parents, I really don't want him to feel alone - does he? Oh and thanks so much for everyones help the other day, though the cause was different I really got a lot of incite on the Scorpio mind! 🙂

Why can't Virgos be more brief and cut to the chase?

^ Thanks, cuz you know I didn't read any of that shit she wrote.

Bottom-Line: Leave him alone. And be more concise next time if you want a response.

Thanks everyone. I knew I did the right thing by coming here! Sometimes it's hard for me to step back and see the bigger picture. 🙂 I guess I need to just shut up sit down and let him do his thing. And not talk so much! (I'm shutting up now scorpion_rising! But Virgos can never be brief. Sorry!)

Oh god people are mean! She's just worried about him and you all are like shut up don't talk so much leave him alone. He probably wants her to care, wouldn't you?! If I were you I'd call him and invite him over for hot sex to help him forget all his troubles and if he says no, tell him you're going to go out and find a guy who will appreciate a girl who wants to be caring and understanding! 😉 If you want to talk to him talk to him, Scorpios don't like pushovers.

"If I were you I'd call him and invite him over for hot sex to help him forget all his troubles and if he says no, tell him you're going to go out and find a guy who will appreciate a girl who wants to be caring and understanding!"

You wouldn't happen to be a slutty Sag, would you?

* DISCLAIMER. Didn't ready any of your other posts.

Yes, I'm a Saggitarius, so? If I was her bf I'd be pissed off if she just left me a lone when I told her my family was breaking up. Even if he said that, he probably wants to see if she'll really do it or not. Scorpios like loyalty right? It's not being loyal to leave someone when they are feeling bad.

what can I say? I'm psychic. really.