Platonic ok with you scorps?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ariesfire on Sunday, August 10, 2008 and has 14 replies.

Can Scorpios Have Platonic Relationships with Attracted People

Scorpios can maintain platonic relationships with highly attractive individuals, but it depends on their emotional boundaries. Many may struggle with unreciprocated attraction and might need to walk away if the connection becomes too difficult to manage. Understanding personal limits is key to maintaining healthy friendships with attraction involved.

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@ariesfire
18 Years

Can you guys do a platonic relationship with someone you are highly attracted to?

Or, would you eventually walk away when you realize it is never going to happen?

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@Queenscorpio
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

Scorpio men: CANNOT! Be in a casual relationship with a woman they really like. Trust Me!!!

Me being a scorp woman: I have done and can if that is the space I am in but when I am looking for something serious, if a person isn't on the same page I don't even bother.

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@applemint_fv
18 YearsVirgo

when i was avoiding my scorp friend, who is now my guy . . bcos i was afraid of our intense feelings . . i kept on giving excuses whenever he asked me out. we both knew abt our feelings but i somehow got scared. the 2nd last time he asked me, i rejected again & assured him that i will see him just not anytime soon, he said
" ok..we'll see.. but if u say No again next time....i guess, its a no no forever...no hard feelings "

the final time he asked & i didn't give a direct answer . . he immediately went silent & disappeared . . no calls, no chats etc. i couldnt u'stand bcos i wouldnt leave my friends. after 2 months i contacted him . . we met & the rest is history

so i guess when they really like someone, its hard to remain platonic . . its Sll or Nothing

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@Elizadoll
18 YearsScorpio

Being a scorp myself, I find it hard to just be friends with someone I like, especially if I know they are as interested in me as I am in them!

However, if I feel that they don't feel the same way, then I just keep being friends and NEVER reveal my feelings! Why should I do so and risk a back-fire, and lose the friendship that we have?!!!

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@scorpion_rising
18 Years1,000+ Posts

"CANNOT! Be in a casual relationship with a woman they really like. Trust Me!!! "

That's totally bullshit. If that's true, then neither can Scorpio women. But I forgot, you're a female supremacist in this area. I always find it amusing QS that things you attribute to male Scorpios, you wouldn't attribute to yourself. Are you a bit delusional here?

While the attraction would annoy us, Scorps can exercise self-control. More likely, they'll find another plaything they want to fuck while putting you on platonic status en permanente.

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@ariesfire
18 Years

Thought I would try it out since well, to be honest, I have dated more Scorps then anything by far and they were always great in the sack. But this guy I didn't feel that initial spark, just a great friendship connection and mutual admiration/respect.

Next thing ya know he is making a very strong come on, which I do kinda like, but in the end, damn, I just did't feel turned on by him and had to stop after a quickie. He wanted to continue and I just said this was too much too soon. He was very nice and sweet about it.

Just really hope that he will understand that it just isnt there for me, but I adore him as a friend. I have no idea how to approach it in discussion with him.

Honestly, I don't "know" if it is the fact that I just got out of a horrid relationship and have too many walls up right now. That is why I told him too much too soon. I want him to just drop the whole sex issue for now and become better friends. But don't want to lead him on in anyway either.

Hell, we have only known eachother for 4 weeks. I don't think I am asking for too much??

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@Hypno
18 Years500+ Posts

"how many times hve you been married hyyppnnooo?"

why do you care as long as there is a room for you woman..but you gotta deal with your other stepwives.